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Thomas Gaudet Obituary

GAUDET Thomas James Gaudet, age 38, previously of Milford, died suddenly on September 7, 2006. Born and raised in Bridgeport, Mr. Gaudet was a Milford resident for most of his life. He worked as a self employed tree surgeon. Survivors include his former wife and mother of his children, Maria Gaudet; their children, Natasha Maria Gaudet and Thomas James Gaudet Jr. , both of Fairfield; his parents, Eileen Jordan Gaudet of Clermont, Fla. and Alvin Gaudet of Zephyrhills, Fla.; a sister, Eileen Mary Potkay of Milford; a brother, William Gaudet of Bridgeport; his paternal grandmother, Elsie Gaudet of New Brunswick, Canada; his only niece and nephew, Amanda Potkay and Ray Potkay; as well as several aunts, uncles and cousins. Funeral services will be held privately in the care of the Lesko & Polke Funeral Home. To sign an online register, please visit us at www.leskopolkefuneralhome. com.

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Published by Connecticut Post from Sep. 11 to Sep. 12, 2006.

Memories and Condolences
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Kimberly Parkes-Georgakopoulos

September 11, 2007

Hey Tom, it seems like only yesterday you were still here burning rubber in your car or racing motorcycles, you were so alive and full of life, a big dare devil never afraid to try anything at least twice....all of your family and friends miss you so much cant believe its been a year already things change so fast in life i know your in heaven with god and he is takin good care of you....until we all meet again with love your sis- in -law Kimberly

Matthew Azzarito

September 9, 2007

Tommy, My Friend My father like friend, you were like Family to me and I can't beleive it's been a year since you left us,, I really been thinking about you alot and I will never forget you, and how much you have taught me about the tree Business and just being there for me when times got tough for me, you will always be remembered,, Miss ya dude,,

a friend

September 7, 2007

one year and still thinking of the day

kimberly parkes

May 29, 2007

Tommy its been a while, i just wanted to let you know that my dad died, i am sure you know that already, cuz he is probably hangin out with you in heaven, smilin down on us....well we all miss you bro, and its times like these that open all the wounds....love you tom...we all do....love your sister in law kim

Ivan Clayton (Bubba)

November 6, 2006

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Karen Kasparek

October 18, 2006

To the Gaudet family, please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you. May your memories bring you comfort. From Robbie and Karen Kasparek

clayton family- - from wood ave bpt

October 4, 2006

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Rachel Havens

September 26, 2006

To The Gaudet Family,
I am so sorry for your loss...May God give you all peace and strength. I am Kim and Salts niece Rachel and I live in Florida. I will be praying for your family and for all those who knew and loved Uncle Tommy.

BRENDA AFFONSO

September 22, 2006

ID LIKE TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY FOR THE ENTIRE FAMILY....NO WORDS CAN EXPRESS THE REALIZATION OF SUCH A LOSS. MAY GOD USE THIS TIME TO BRING YOUR FAMILY CLOSER AND STRONGER.MY GRANDMOTHER ALWAYS SAID " ONLY THE GOOD DIE YOUNG"....SHE DIED AT 51...MY DAD AT 55 MY MOM AT 61...I TEND TO AGREE WITH HER .TOMMY WAS LOVED BY MANY AND WAS A GOOD MAN, WITH A GOOD HEART. YOU WILL ALL BE IN MY PRAYERS..........BRENDA AFFONSO (KOLAKOWSKI) FRIEND OF MISSY AND FAMILY

DONNAJEAN CONTRERAS

September 19, 2006

TO THE WHOLE GAUDET FAMILY

MY HEART GOES OUT TO YOU ALL ONCE AGAIN JUST KNOW AND BELIEVE THAT ONE DAY YOU WILL BE TOGETHER AGAIN AND THINGS WILL GET EASIER IVE LIVED AND LEARNED AND LOST MY TWIN BROTHER TOO NOW THEY ARE ALL TOGETHER WAITING FOR US TAKE CARE AND BE STRONG ITS HARD BUT TOMMY WOULD ONLY WANT THE BEST FOR YOU ALL LOVE AND PEACE TO YOU ALL.

Carol Walsh

September 18, 2006

I want to send good wishes and thoughts to the Gaudet Family, No words can express The feelings, That you must be going through at such a tragic time in your life. I only know too well these feelings, since I suffered the same tragedy many years ago with my sister. Please pull together as a family, be there for each other, be strong. Only Time, and strength Will lesson the sadness and the pain, but the memories of good times will pull you through. Carol Walsh. (wood Ave.)

"T" & Thomasi Georgakopoulos

September 16, 2006

Happy 1st Birthday in Heaven Uncle Tommy,

we wish you could be here to blow your 39 candles out.....If you were here we would all have some carvel ice cream cake, one of your favorites, I remember you hated the chocolate part and would give that part to us and just eat the vanilla and the crunchies. maybe we will have one today in memory of you.. Although we are sad because you are not here to share your birthday with, we know you are having a big party with Uncle Billy and your brother Allan and all the rest of your friends and family in heaven.

We love you Uncle Tommy, love your nephews,

"T" and Thomasi Georgakopoulos xoxoxo

Christina LeBlanc

September 15, 2006

Missy & family

I want you to know that I have been thinking of you and all your family . I want you to know that you have been and WILL BE in my prayers. I can't imagine how you feel right now but I do wish that I could give you a huge hug and a warm shoulder to lean on.

Love you

Patrick Kundert

September 15, 2006

To my cousins Missy & Billy



I can’t even imagine what you both are going through. It was really nice to see the both of you again. Billy stay strong kid and let’s keep in touch. vonkas forever!

Missy you are a strong I seen this during this difficult time. You are truly a wonderful Person. Someday I hope you could teach me how you do it.



I love you both very much,

Patrick Kundert

September 15, 2006

To my loving aunt Eileen

I feel for and with you.





I love you

Patrick Kundert

September 15, 2006

To my cousin (s)



All the memories yet to make were taken in one second of one morning I like to forget. I will miss you no doubt. So many say including myself, “we have all the time in the world” not true for I lost a lot of the time with you. For so many years raising our own families we fell short on staying in touch with one and other. Why, don’t know, I myself guess life just got in the way. I’m very sorry for that. It took me a very long time to accept the loss of Allan it will take me a whole lot longer to accept this. I promise you I will make every attempt to stay a lot closer to all our love ones and especially are family. Keep a seat warm for me will ya for we will all be together again. And make sure your brother keeps you in check.



I deeply miss the both of you.



cousin forever

Eric Jackson

September 14, 2006

Tom,



My heart goes out to your whole family. It's been a long time, but I always expected to come home to CT. one day and find you and George doing some crazy things we would get wrapped up in back in the day. We had many good times together growing up that I will never forget. You were a great friend, and a great brother. You were always there, you would of taken on the whole world to protect your family and friends. I can't express how glad I am the our paths crossed so many years ago.



Till are paths cross again Tommy, heres little something from back in the day, you know what it means - SKIP SCAP BUTTER NICK ON THE BONE!!



I'll miss you brother,

ALVIN GAUDET

September 14, 2006

TOMMY, TILL THE DAY WE ALL MEET IN HEAVEN YOU WILL ALWAYS BE IN MY HEART AND AS LONG AS I LIVE YOU WILL BE IN MY PRAYERS YOU WILL BE WITH AL YOU AND HE CAN LOOK AFTER EACH OTHER LOVE DAD,

Paula Neal

September 14, 2006

I am so sorry for the tragic loss your family had to endure again. I thought the services you held for Tommy were beautiful and moving. I felt Tommy's presence in church and in my heart. Seeing all the young people from Wood Ave, all grown up into such wonderful adults with families of their own made me so proud. Tommy, watching Maria, Kim and Salt with your children left me with a sense of peace. I know you will watch over them from heaven, but know there are angels on earth watching them also. Maria you are so strong and capable, and I know you have your struggles ahead of you but I know you can face them and continue to raise your beautiful children to be successful adults. Please remember you are not alone. If you ever need me, please let me know. Missy, I was so proud of you at the service (as usual), your strength is a gift and I am lucky to be a part of it. Auntie I, I love you very much and I feel your pain. Thank you for letting me be a part of your children's lives as they grew up, it was a gift I never realized meant so much to me until now. I am here for you if you ever need anything.

Billy, keep up the good work! Please let me know what I can do to help you get thru this. You did a great job at the services and I know how much it meant to your mom to have you by her side. I love you.

EILEEN GAUDET

September 14, 2006

RAY-RAY, WHEN I FEEL A COOL BREEZE, ON THE BACK OF MY NECK, I'LL KNOW ITS FROM YOU!!I'M SO PROUD OF YOU, KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK AT SCHOOL. I LOVE YOU SO MUCH!! SEE YOU SOON, LOVE, MIMI

EILEEN GAUDET

September 14, 2006

TO MANDY PANDY, I LOVE YOU SO VERY MUCH. HOLD ON TO ALL THE GOOD TIMES WE HAD TOGETHER,GRAND CHILDREN ARE TRULY A GIFT FROM GOD, AND YOU ARE VERY SPECIAL TO ME. BE GOOD, DO GOOD IN SCHOOL, TAKE CARE OF THE NEW PUPPY, GIVE YOUR MOM YOUR LOVE AND SUPPORT. I LOVE YOU, MIMI

Rich Besse

September 13, 2006

Tommy,

The friend I shared my childhood with, so many fun times on Wood Ave I can't begin to name them all. We worked together every day for 20 years. You were the best man in my wedding and you stood by my side when my Dad died. Our families shared so many good times together, so many holidays and parties. My kids loved you so much. I never had a brother but today I feel like I lost one. I'll try to remember all the good times and not the bad.



My Godson Thomas,

Your dad was so proud of you and he loved you so much, you were his playmate and a great excuse to be in ToysRus. When he looked at you it reminded him of Al and all the good times he had as a child. I'll always be here for ya!



Natasha(Nana), When I lost my father no words could comfort me. You were daddy's little girl. He always bragged about how beautiful you were and "he was right". He was a strong person and he'd want you to be strong too. If you ever need to talk about your dad, I have a million stories to tell you.



Maria,

My lifelong friend, I don't know what to say. It's such a tragedy and I think I'm still in shock. So many memories, so many pictures I know you'll stay strong for them. If you ever need to talk, I'm always here for you and the kids.



Eileen, Missy and Billy,

I share your pain, I know how badly this hurts, especially after losing Al. Tommy's been my friend since we were 4 years old and there's no replacing him. He'll be missed dearly. I know Tommy's happy to finally be with Al.

Tina, Jim and the girls

September 13, 2006

Missy, Amanda, and Ray-Ray,

I am sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you

EILEEN GAUDET

September 13, 2006

TO MY SON WILLIAM, I KNOW TIMES HAVE BEEN DIFFICULT, BUT NOW YOU MUST STAY STRONG, FOR YOURSELF, YOUR SISTER AND ME. KEEP ALL OF THE GOOD MEMORIES OF YOUR BROTHERS IN YOUR HEART, AS I WILL DO IN MINE. I LOVE YOU SO VERY MUCH!! LOVE, MOM

EILEEN GAUDET

September 13, 2006

TO MISSY, MY WONDERFUL DAUGHTER, I COULD NEVER EXPRESS HOW VERY PROUD I AM OF YOU, FOR THE STRENGTH AND SUPPORT YOU HAVE GIVEN TO ALL OF US; GETTING US ALL THROUGH, THIS; A DIFFICULT TIME AGAIN IN OUR LIVES. I LOVE YOU SO VERY MUCH!! LOVE, MOM

William Gauet

September 13, 2006

Tommy,



words can't express my inside being right now.i love you bro & i always will.i'll never forget you.there were so many good times than bad,i wish i could tell you that but your gone.we all got through allan's death & now mom,Missy & I are burying you.you didn't deserve this & neither did Mom,Missy & I to bury another sibbling.i will always be there for Maria & your kids,who meant the world to you.Tell al that i miss him & you so so so much.Tom if you could please watch over Mommy & Missy now & forever.i will keep the faith & walk the walk.





Love you always,

your Baby Brother



William Gaudet

September 13, 2006

What a terrible shock. Just reading his name I was transported to a time when the sight of a ten-year old Tommy,with that easy smile, would be standing on the steps outside Crown market. Of all the people who've left us since those days on Wood Ave, I would have never thought Tommy would be among them. I won't leave my name, you wouldn't remember it, but I remember him and am so very very sorry for your loss.

Noel Gonzalez

September 13, 2006

May God give you all the strength love and comfort at this tragic time in lives . I new tommy from St Augustins Class of "81"

Nil

September 13, 2006

To all the Gaudet Family,

I am sorry 4 your loss....stay strong 4 each other. God will handle the rest... May his soul rest in peace!!!!

Natasha Gaudet

September 13, 2006

grama,



everythings gonna be ok, i promise. i know things are tough right now but we will get through this.just like we always get through everything else.i love you so much & i feel awful that theres nothing i can do for you.time heals all they tell me,except were never going to heal from something as horrible as this.but things will get better. daddy knows how much we miss him & how much we all loved him.daddy loved you very much & was so proud to call you his mommy.atleast he's with uncle al.thats what pretty much keeps me sane.i just wanted to let you know that i am here for you,just like you were there for me.i love you gram & dont ever forget that.



love, Nana

KATHLEEN TOZZI

September 13, 2006

TO MY DEAR SISTER EILEEN, TO MY LOVING NEICE MISSY, TO MY DEAREST NEPHEW BILLY (I GOT IT RIGHT THIS TIME..BILLY!!)TO MARIA..TOMMY'S WIFE FOREVER AND BEAUTIFUL MOTHER TO TOMMY'S CHILDREN, TO NATASIA AND TO LITTLE THOMAS, TO MY GREAT NEICE AMANDA & MY GREAT NEPHEW RAY, TO ALL OF MY IMMEDIATE FAMILY HERE IN CONNECTIUCT.....OUR HEARTS ARE ALL HEAVY AT THIS DIFFICULT TIME. SOMETIMES, THE BEST WORDS SPOKEN, ARE THE UNSPOKEN ONES. PLEASE, REMEMBER AND KNOW, WE ALL ARE ONE FAMILY IN GOD,AND LET US ALL STAY TOGETHER, IN LOVE AND PEACE WITH EACH OTHER...I LOVE YOU YOU ALL AUNT KITTY

Joan Greenwood

September 13, 2006

To the Gaudet Family,

My condolences to each of you on your loss. I taught 5th grade at St. Augustine's School for 3 years and remember your family. Tommy had a beautiful smile and I hope you can keep it in your hearts.

In Sympathy,

alyxandra irizarry

September 13, 2006

Mr. Gaudet aka Papa D aka my adopted dad,



Papa D... i loved you and still love you soooo much!! You are forever missed and always in our hearts. God has a plan mapped out for all of us the minute we are born, why God decided to take you from us, we will never know. All i know is that you were such an amazing person and one of the funniest. So much time was spent between Natasha you and I. Going fishing, cooking (french toast and strawberry milk), six flags and soo much more. My deepest sympathys.. Rest In Peace.



All of my love,

ALyxandra



p.s - to the Gaudet family and all of his friends... he's smiling and looking down on all of you. Tash, Thomas, Maria.. Keep your heads up

Barbara Sullivan

September 13, 2006

Billy-

I wanted to send a note to let you know I am thinking of you and your family during this time of sorrow. Please accept my heartfelt sympathy and prayers.

Barbara Sullivan, St. Augustine, Class of '83

Eileen Gaudet

September 13, 2006

Thomas,



I will Miss You very much!! I know that You are with Allan. You are both in my prayers today and always. Your children will always be a gift from you to ME. May God Embrace both of you. Know that someday we will all be together again. I LOVE YOU THOMAS,

LOVE, MOM

Eileen Potkay

September 13, 2006

To my big brother Tommy,

I will miss you always and I find peace knowing that you are with Allan. The best gift a brother could give a sister is our conversation the night before you left this earth. I know that you were looking forward to that big tree job in Stamford. A piece of you lives on forever in Tasha and Thomas. You have 2 beautiful children who are going to miss you.

I know that you are watching over us and know that we all miss you

and love you. I'm sorry you didn't

get hot dogs on Wed. (At St. Augustine's) I rememeber not getting them because I hate hot dogs. I'm so glad You never gave me a hard time about smiling for a picture. I love to take pictures and I feel so blessed that I have many photo's with you and OUR children together with that great smile of yours. I LOVE YOU TOM !!

Thanks so much for that talk and I'm glad that You felt better when we ended our conversation.

May you be at peace NOW, and give

Allan a big hug from his only sister.



LOVE ALWAYS, Your Only Sis, Missy

(Eileen Potkay of Milford)

Charlene & Wayne Komaromi

September 12, 2006

Billy,



Our Condolenses to you and your Family. We are so sorry for your loss. " STAY STRONG "

(Patti's sister)

Charlene & Wayne

September 12, 2006

I don't know the family but I want to express my sorrow for the family. Please know that he is at rest now and will watch over his family. I will keep the family in my prayers.

Old Friend

September 12, 2006

I am sorry to hear of your loss. Tommy was a good person and it is always hard to loose a son, brother, sister, father etc. But know that he is at peace and is alseep awaiting Christ. This is the second death of a person from the old neighborhood. Kelly Walsh also passed away 3 weeks ago. I feel for all of you. God Bless You all.

Jackie Russell

September 12, 2006

Billy & Family,

I just wanted to extend my deepest sympathys to you and your family. I am so sorry for your loss and my prayers are with you all at this time. An old friend from Wood Ave.

Keri

September 12, 2006

To the Gaudet Family,

I am so very sorry for the untimely loss of your loved one. At a time like this, nothing makes sense, please know he is in heaven and will watch over everyone he has ever loved in his lifetime. My thoughts and prayers are with you now and always.

Keri

SOMEONE WHO CARES VERY DEEPLY

September 12, 2006

I SAW THIS AND THOUGHT THIS IS THE WAY TOMMY WOULD WANT HIS FAMILY TO TRY AND DEAL WITH HIS LOSS:



I'D LIKE THE MEMORY OF ME TO BE A HAPPY ONE,

I'D LIKE TO LEAVE AN AFTERGLOW OF SMILES WHEN LIFE IS DONE.

I'D LIKE TO LEAVE AN ECHO WHISPERING SOFTLY DOWN THE WAYS,

OF HAPPY TIMES AND LAUGHING TIMES

AND BRIGHT AND SUNNY DAYS.

I'D LIKE THE TEARS OF THOSE WHO CRY, TO DRY BEFORE THE SUN

OF HAPPY MEMORIES THAT I LEAVE

WHEN LIFE IS DONE.

DAWN MAYO

September 12, 2006

TO THE GAUDET FAMILY:



I AM SOO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS, WORDS CANNOT EXPRESS HOW BAD I FEEL FOR THE WAY TOMMY WAS TAKEN FROM ALL OF YOU. LIFE IS SOO UNFAIR!! I KNEW TOMMY YEARS AGO FROM THE SHORT TIME HE WENT TO SCHOOL IN MILFORD. I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER HIS BEAUTIFUL SMILE, THE WAY HE LIT UP A ROOM WHEN HE ENTERED IT. HE WAS ALWAYS WILLING TO LEND A HAND TO ANYONE THAT NEEDED HELP, HE WAS A TRUE FRIEND. PLEASE TRY AND STAY STRONG, LIVE LIFE THE BEST YOU CAN, TOMMY WOULD WANT IT THAT WAY. ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT HE WILL FOREVER BE WATCHING OVER YOU AND YOU ALL HAVE A "GUARDIAN ANGEL". MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU ALWAYS.

Beverly (Walsh) Petrilli

September 12, 2006

I would like to send my heartfelt condolences to the whole Gaudet family. So many from the neighborhood have passed away and the tragedy is that they are all so young. May GOD Bless Maria and Tommy's children that they may be able to endure this great lost. My prayers are with you all.

Vickie (Dyer) Collins

September 12, 2006

To my friend Maria,time always seems to get away from us , Im sorry for that. And I am expecially sorry to hear of your loss .We all shared some great childhood memories together (wood ave days)think of all the good times and I hope they help you and your family though this difficult time. my thoughts are with you and your children . With love

Colleen Rivera

September 12, 2006

Tommy was a kind,helpful,caring person.we will miss him but never forget him. my heart goes out to his kids and family.

Colleen,Amanda,Jacinda.Carlos

M. NIEVES

September 12, 2006

Although I do not know your family, I want to extend my deepest condolences. I hope you find comfort in knowing he is in God's hands and, therefore, in a better place looking down on his loving family.

Patti Klimkowski

September 12, 2006

Billy,

"I was sitting here thinking about you and your family "MY HEART and PRAYERS" have always been with you BILLY ,from the first time we meant at KOLBE to the present day .Your brother Al, Your accident, Your Life, and now your brother Tommy. I pray god watches over you and your family. And your "TWO" guardian angels guide you in the right direction.



Always in my prayers and never far from my thoughts.



Patti

Veronica Vallejo

September 12, 2006

My condolences to Thomas's family. I didn't know him but its tragic how he passed but he's in a better place now, he's in gods hands.

Catherine Clarkson

September 12, 2006

To The Gaudet Family,

We went to school with your family at St.Augustine's and we wanted to send our sympathy for the lose of your brother. May God Bless your family..

Anna and Catherine Clarkson

Jennifer (Cairns) Moreira

September 12, 2006

Dear Eileen and the Gaudet Family:



I am terribly sorry for your loss. I attended St. Augustine's with you and your brothers Billy and Tom. May God bless you and help you through this sorrowful time.

Donna (Benson) Lee

September 12, 2006

To Tommy's Family,

I am so sorry for the loss of Tommy.

I couldn't believe it when I heard about it. What an awful thing that happened. I hope you find peace and comfort but I'm sure it will be a while.

Rest in Peace Tommy.

Laura Young

September 12, 2006

To the Gaudet family:

I did not know Thomas personally but would like to express our deepest sympathy for your loss. Our prayers go out to his children/parents of this terrible tragedy, a tragedy that God only knows why. What I can say is time heals. Place your trust and faith in Jesus and he will never leave your side. I went personally to the site to pray for all the victims know this he is with God.

May the Lord bless you and keep you in his safe loving arms,

The Young Family...

karen enders

September 12, 2006

Dear Eileen: I went to nursing school with you almost 10 years ago. I read about this horrible tragedy and I, unfortunately, understand what it is like to have your loved one taken from you without any warning. I feel so badly for you and your family. This was a horrible and senseless act and your lives have forever been changed. The grief that you are experiencing is beyond what a family should have to deal with. Know that your brother would want you all to be ok. Please give yourself time to grieve. Grief is a very long process and it is different for everyone. Allow yourself to go through this process. Stay close to your children and hold them dear in your heart. They will help you get through this extremely difficult time. God bless you and your entire family. You are in my thoughts. Karen Enders

Cindy Savoy

September 12, 2006

To the family and friends:

The grief comes to a surprise and shock to realize the news. May we have strength to carry on, the courage to go with a loving heart and may we embrase his presence and love at all times. May you fly above with your new found wings Tommy. You will be deeply missed and loved the Savoy family

russell family

September 12, 2006

To the Gaudet Family:

I do not know you butI just wanted to say sorry for your loss it was a tragedy I will never forget.May god bless you and your family and may Thomas rest in peace

Bridgeport resident

September 12, 2006

May you rest in peace

Shannon Adzima

September 11, 2006

Dear Eileen and Gaudet family,

I went to St. Augustine school with you and your brothers. I am sorry for your loss. May God bless you in this sorrowful time.

Sincerely,

Shannon Adzima (Welch)

Geroge and Kim Poulos

September 11, 2006

Maria my dear friend even though we are 1800 miles away you are in my heart,myprayers& thoughts everyday.I will always be a phone call away for hours of endless chatting. I know he is a peace and his soul is FREE. LOVE Kim Poulos ...... Nana and Thomas you were always his pride and joy he loved you both so very much, cherish every memory of your Dad and know that he is alive in your heart and he will always watch over you both. Love Kim & George & Family

todd husted

September 11, 2006

tommy im going to really miss our conversations. you were my friend and i know you are in a better place. i will be thinking of you and preying for you and your family often. i cant tell you how sorry i am, i wish i could have some how made a difference. maria natashia and thomas im so so sorry my heart goes out to you. tommy loved you all with every ounce of his being. tommy talked so highly of you. when he spoke of you he was at his best and his proudest. i hope the tragedy of his passing will not keep you from living life to its fullest. however thats safely possable. please do him proud! let him keep that glint in his eye that he allways had when he spoke of you he will share it with others as he looks on from above. tommy i will allways remember our times your friend todd.

George & Kim Poulos

September 11, 2006

TOM You will live in our hearts and our memories FOREVER !!!

I will always remmber you brining homless baby animals to my children , being the hit of Melaney's birthday party with your homemade calzone's,the endless hours of wrestling, playing video games,and riding any bicycle,motorcycle , quad, or trike with Georgie, Todd and Greg. Lyssa and Thomas would have so much fun when you'd let him hang out at our house while you and George would go off and do a tree job......It's such a TRAGIC SHOCK to us that you are gone and our hearts are broken We will miss you DEEPLY. You were a life long friend and "Brother". Our only comfort is knowing that you are at home with the LORD and your soul is FREE !!! Love Kim & George

Michelle Buccitti

September 11, 2006

Auntie Eileen, Missy, Maria, Natasha, Thomas Jr, Billy-

It seems just like yesterday when were all living in Wood Ave. Now we are all grown up and dealing with a tragedy that has broken our hearts. One day the sun will shine again for your family especially when you think of all the good the things that made Tommy so special. You are all in our thoughts & prayers. Alan will now have a partner in the guardian angel business so we may not be able to see him but he'll be there to watch over us.

Love- Michelle(Bento), Nick, Nicky & Brianna Buccitti

Dawn Demers

September 11, 2006

To the Family,

I did not know Thomas, I am sorry for your lost.

Rest in Peace

Pati Beem

September 11, 2006

Dear Eileen,

I am so sorry for the loss of your brother. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. May you find peace and comfort in your memories of him. God Bless and Comfort You. Pati Beem (McDonald)

Pati Beem

September 11, 2006

Dear Eileen,

I am so sorry for the loss of your brother. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. May you find peace and comfort in your memories of him. God Bless and Comfort You. Pati Beem (McDonald)

Jose

September 11, 2006

Dear Tommy and Family..Its been a long time since we've seen each other. I'm sorry that you're gone,it's a damm waste. My HEART cries out to the family. May heaven enjoy your company the short time that I did. I miss you and love you. My Deepest sympathy, Jose Fernades Jr. and Family



May God Bless You

Salt Georgakopoulos

September 11, 2006

Hey Tom, Its me Salt we been friends forever (wood ave boys) and then brother-in-laws. I wish it did not end like this,i thought we had a lot of years left. Thanksgiving, will never be the same with out you. We are so angry that you were taken away from us and your family its just not right and Its not fair, but I know you are at peace. To Ms.Gaudet and family I am very sorry, God Bless all of you Stay Strong. To my sister Maria I love you, now you need to be strong for the kids they really need you now more than ever. Salt

Aisa

September 11, 2006

tommy i only new you for a short time. im the one that cashed your checks and nag you may you have a good life in heaven. and watch over all those who you love.may the lord be with all your love ones.

Valerie Mayes

September 11, 2006

To Eileen And Family,



My condolences go to you and your family on the loss of you Brother Tommy. Please know you are in my prayers. Please have stength to know that Tommy is in a better place.



I attended St Augustine School K-8 with you.



Sincerly,



Valerie Mayes(Simmons)

Gabrielle D.

September 11, 2006

Thomas,

i will always remember when you would stop by on your motorcycle, you were always so friendly. I with this was a dream, but sadly its not.=( Thomas Jr. We all made cards for you at school, I hope you get them soon.this was a tragic loss for the Gaudet's and all friends and family.



- Gabby D.

Natasha Gaudet

September 11, 2006

i love you & i will miss you daddy. i'll always be your little girl



love Nana

Denise

September 11, 2006

May God bless you and keep you in his arms and keep you safe. I never knew you but this was never meant to happen. My heart and prayers goes out to you and your family

a startford resident who was at the scene

September 11, 2006

To The Family of Thomas.....Sorry about your loss..it was a terrible thing to happen....my heart goes out to the his wife,family and children and the rest of the family.........my god bless you all...

Gert Cimino

September 11, 2006

Dear Eileen and Family,



Words cannot express how deeply out hearts go out to you over the tragic loss of Tommy. May he rest in the arms of our Lord and be at peace.



Love,

Rich, Gert, Lori, & Richie

Thomasi Georgakopoulos

September 11, 2006

Dear Uncle Tommy,

Man I wish I could wake up from this nightmare and go back to all the good times I know you remember the old times. How do things get so messed up in this world ? Uncle Tom remember when you rode me and Thomas triple on your motorcycle? man that was so fun! Remember how mad my mom got! She yelled at you and then you guys made up and she made us good food. You always loved good food. Remember you and me would put tons of cheese on our pizza? you always made good pizza's. remember when we all went to six flags? I love you uncle Tom so much, its so hard to believe your not here. We saved your puppy for you just like you wanted we gave it to tasha and thomas. Tasha named it Faith and its really making them smile to have it even auntie maria thinks its cute. Things will never be the same without you but I promise to take care of Thomas and be a good cousin to him. I will always love you Uncle Tommy I just wish I could have told you one more time. so now I have to tell you here uncle tom.

Peace

love your nephew Thomasi

Laura (Benson) Casiano

September 11, 2006

My god I don't know where to begin. I have known all of you forever.I am still in shock over this and so upset at the loss of Tommy. You all will be in my prayers and thoughts. and god to give you the strength to get through this.

Love Laura (Benson) Casiano

September 11, 2006

Billy,

"MY HEART IS WITH YOU"

as its always been

PATTI

Angelina Parkes

September 11, 2006

Dear Uncle Tommy,



I cant believe your gone i will miss you very much. But I know your in gods care. and i also know your looking over us.I remember when me and Natasha were little you would take us to the park and ride the power wheels. We always had a good time when we were with you,thats what i will remember the most about you,you were always fun and full of life. Natasha was your life you loved her so much and she loved you. i remember how close you and Natasha and Thomas were you were a good father. We all miss you dearly i'll see you when i go to heaven. Much love to you Uncle Tommy.

love your niece,

Angelina

Kosta and Angeliki Georgakopoulos

September 11, 2006

Thea Maria, we were shocked to hear that Uncle Tommy was gone. We have fun memories of him playing video games with us and showing us how to play the games. Other than my father he was the only other man that changed my diaper(Eleni)that's how hands on he was with us. Loved to participate in our backyard games and took me for my first sleigh ride(Anastasi). Natasha and Thomas we are sorry that you only had this time with your Dad but hope that his memory will always bring a smile to your faces.



Maria, Natasha and Thomas we know the love that was shared was an unconditional love and it will never be replaced. Tommy had a good heart and we know that he passed that kindness to his children. Tommy's death effected all of us. Yiayia is devastated that she can't be here for all of you. She loved him and never denied what a good father he was. May his memory be everlasting and may you find solace in knowing that his soul is at peace.

All our love, Kosta, Ang, Anastasi, Eleni, Magdalini, Niko and Angeliki

Amanda

September 11, 2006

Uncle Tom,

I know we had our differences at times and didnt always agree on everything .. but i did love you very much and always will .. i know your in a better place now .. and you where the best uncle anyone could ask for .. you had a bigger heart then anyone i know of .. you would have given the shirt of your back for anyone who needed it .. you will always have a special place in my heart .. i love you and will never forget you ..



love,your mandy pandy

Ray "Hoss" Courtright Jr.

September 11, 2006

To Missy, Bill-Bill, Tommy's parents and family, my deepest sympathy during this most trying of times. Take some comfort in knowing that Tommy is reunited in the loving arms of brother Alan, and that he won't be forgotten. I'll always remember the good times on Wood Avenue. Bless you all ...

Kim

September 11, 2006

Dear Tommy's family and friends: May God be with you and provide you with Peace and Comfort through these times.

Eileen Beauregard & Family

September 11, 2006

Our deepest sympathy to the entire Gaudet family

KIMBERLY PARKES-GEORGAKOPOULOS

September 11, 2006

TO: THE GAUDET FAMILY, WORDS CANNOT EXPRESS THE SORROW AND BROKEN HEARTEDNESS THAT WE ARE FEELING RIGHT NOW.......

EILEEN, MY HEART IS BROKEN FOR YOU,NO MOTHER SHOULD EVER HAVE TO BURY TWO OF HER CHILDREN.. YOU WILL RECEIVE A CROWN IN HEAVEN..MISSY, ONE OF MY BEST FRIENDS, I WILL BE HERE FOR YOU JUST LIKE YOU WERE THERE FOR ME WHEN MY BROTHER BILLY WAS MURDERED, UNTIL THE VERY END...DEJAVU...I LOVE YOU MISSY. TO BILL-BILL,AMANDA, RAY,AND ALL OF TOMMY'S AUNTS UNCLES COUSINS AND EXTENDED FAMILY,BE STRONG AND KNOW THAT GOD IS WATCHING OVER ALL OF YOU,LIFTING YOU UP IN THIS TIME OF NEED,KEEP THE FAITH..I LOVE YOU GUYS. TOMMY WAS NOT ONLY MY BROTHER-IN-LAW, BUT HE WAS MY FRIEND, AND ONE OF MY CHILDREN'S FAVORITE UNCLES. "T" AND THOMASI AND ANGIE ARE BROKEN HEARTED, AND FIND IT HARD TO SLEEP AT NIGHT KNOWING HE IS NO LONGER HERE.

TOMMY WAS LOVED BY MANY PEOPLE IN MANY DIFFERENT WAYS, MY FAMILY WILL BE HERE TO HELP IN ANY WAY POSSIBLE, EVEN IF YOU JUST NEED A HAND TO HOLD ONTO AS YOU BRAVELY GO THROUGH ONE OF THE WORST TIMES IN YOUR LIVES. GOD IS WATCHING OVER YOUR FAMILY AND WILL GIVE YOU THE STRENGTH YOU NEED TO ENDURE.



LAST BUT DEFINATELY NOT LEAST....

**TO: MY SISTER-IN-LAW MARIA GAUDET,MY NIECE NATASHA AND MY NEPHEW THOMAS: MARIA.. WHAT CAN I SAY ? YOU WERE THE LOVE OF TOMMY'S LIFE,HIS BEST FRIEND,HIS BABE, HIS SOUL MATE, HIS WIFE, AND THE MOTHER OF HIS CHILDREN... AND NATASHA(DADDY'S LITTLE GIRL) AND THOMAS (HIS PRIDE AND JOY) YOU KIDS WERE HIS HEART, THE APPLE OF HIS EYE..NOTHING CAN EVER TAKE THAT AWAY FROM YOU...YOU WILL ALWAYS HAVE YOUR PRECIOUS MEMORIES, AND TOMMY'S BEAUTIFUL CHILDREN. MARIA,...TOMMY IS ETCHED INTO THE VERY TABLE OF YOUR HEART AND HE CANNOT BE ERASED.....BY ANYONE..HE LIVES ON IN YOUR HEART FOREVER...



THINGS I REMEMBER ABOUT "TOMMY" TOMMY GAUDET WAS BRAVE, COURAGEOUS, A PROTECTOR, A GOOD FRIEND, A GOOD BROTHER-IN-LAW,A WONDERFUL DAD, AN AWESOME UNCLE A VERY VERY HARD WORKER, THE LIFE OF A PARTY, HE PLAYED A MEAN GAME OF MONOPOLY AND WOULD GIVE YOU THE SHIRT OFF HIS BACK IF YOU NEEDED IT. TO MY CHILDREN HE WAS "COOL UNCLE TOMMY",A GOOD WRESTLER,THE UNDEFEATED VIDEO GAME KING, THE BEST MOTORCYCLE RIDER, A DARE-DEVIL AT HEART,HUGGABLE, LOVABLE,MOST OF ALL **IRREPLACEABLE**

TOMMY WILL LIVE ON IN ALL OF OUR HEARTS, HE WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. NOT BY HIS FAMILY , NOT BY HIS FRIENDS,WE WILL NEVER FORGET.

AND ONE DAY, ONLY GOD KNOWS WHEN...WE WILL ALL MEET UP AGAIN IN HEAVEN..WITH ALL OF OUR LOVED ONES AND FRIENDS ("THE WOOD AVE CREW")ALL OF OUR FRIENDS WHO "TRAGICALLY" WENT TO BE WITH OUR DEAR LORD AND SAVIOUR JESUS CHRIST AT A VERY YOUNG AGE. FOR NOW WE WILL TRUST IN JESUS KNOWING THAT HE IS THE AUTHOR AND FINISHER OF OUR LIVES, KNOWING THAT THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN HIM, CONFESS HE IS LORD, AND ASK FORGIVENESS OF THEIR SIN, WILL LIVE IN ETERNITY WITH HIM......FOREVER

UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN TOMMY...WE LOVE YOU.....



WITH BROKEN HEARTS & ALL OF OUR LOVE AND TEARS, XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO

KIMBERLY,SALT,"T",THOMASI,ANGIE

Tina & Robby Atilho

September 11, 2006

Eileen



I attended St. Augustine School in Bridgeport with you and your brothers. My son Robby played baseball with your son Ray. We are so sorry for the loss of your brother. You are all in our prayers.

Darlene Voight

September 11, 2006

To the Entire Gaudet Family, I send my deepest Condolences. I knew Tommy through my Son Matthew Azzarito Who he treated like a son, Tommy taugh him many skills when he was a kid starting out in the tree business, he was always there for him, and i will never forget you Tommy for your kindness and caring heart for my Son, may you rest in peace,, God Bless you all,

Bill Thomas

September 11, 2006

Missy

Remembering all the thoughts and prayers from our Emmaus community times for others, my thoughts and prayers are especially for you and your family at this time of sorrow God Bless

michelle

September 11, 2006

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

maria gaudet

September 11, 2006

Tom ,

i will miss you more than words can express.you were a fantastic father & loved the kids more than anything.you didnt deserve for this to happen to you.but i do kow that you will be at peace.



love, maria

Niko Vlahos

September 11, 2006

uncle tommy ,

now your an angle in heaven,looking down on all of us.



love , Niko

kiki vlahos

September 11, 2006

uncle tommy ,

i remeber how you used to play with me,laughing & always having fun.ill never forget it.



your loving neice , kikila

Mary Ann Kalm

September 11, 2006

Dear Eileen and Amanda,

I am so so sorry for the tragic loss of your brother and uncle. You are in my prayers. With heartfelt sympathy, Mary Ann Kalm(substitute social worker alternative ed. 2006)

Kathy Vlahos

September 11, 2006

tommy ,

rest in peace.Always in our hearts.we will never forget your good heart.



Love,Noni & Nina

Natasha Gaudet

September 11, 2006

thomas gaudet was loved by all.he was a loving father & a beautiful person. i love my father very much & atleast he will rest in peace.



i love you daddy

Thomas Gaudet jr.

September 11, 2006

I'm gona miss my father so much, but now I know that he's in a better place with my uncle.i'll

Love you Always & forever

love, Thomas jr.

Vicki Besse

September 11, 2006

Dear Eileen, Natasha, Thomas, Missy, Billy and Maria. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. My husband, myself and my entire family sends their condolences to all of you. We are deeply saddened and shocked at this sudden tragedy. You know how close Tommy was to Richie. Tom was our best man at our wedding 10 yrs ago, where he gave a very touching toast to our Marriage. Rich recalls many happy times with Tommy from Childhood and worked with him side by side for years laughing together. He was a great Dad to Natasha and Thomas and he loved them with all his heart. May God comfort all of you in your greatest time of need. "We love you Tom" You are forever in our Hearts!

Joe Capela

September 11, 2006

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Bridgeport Resident

September 11, 2006

Gaudet Family

I am very sorry for your loss.

Kim Bathurst

September 11, 2006

Dear Missy and Billy,

Our sincerest condolences on your loss. He will be missed. Love Kim Bathurst and David larracuente

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