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Lally, Thomas P.
Thomas Patrick Lally, loving husband to Wanda Lally, devoted father, brother and grandfather passed away on February 2, 2013 following a short illness. He was 73 years old. Tom was born on August 30, 1939 in Bridgeport, CT to Alice and Thomas Lally. He attended Sacred Heart Grammar School and Bassick High School in Bridgeport, CT. Tom proudly served in the United States Marine Corps between 1957 and 1961. Tom met his first wife, Maureen O'Hara Lally, in Bridgeport, and they were married in 1964. Tom and Maureen raised four children together. Tom studied mechanical engineering at the Bridgeport Engineering Institute while working at Sikorsky Aircraft. For over 25 years Tom worked in the Stratford, CT area for Sikorsky, and later, founded a machine and manufacturing business which serviced the aerospace industry. He moved to Mesa, AZ, in 1990, accepting a new role at McDonnell-Douglas Helicopter, now Boeing. Tom was an internationally respected expert in the aerospace industry. Over his 50 year career, he made several contributions in the advancement of military and commercial helicopter transmission design and maintenance. Tom met his wife, Wanda Wills Pierce, in Phoenix and they were married in 1994. Tom and Wanda spent two years living in England where Tom worked on the UK Apache helicopter program.
Free time for Tom was spent reading, wood-working, rooting for the New York Yankees and Arizona Diamondbacks, enjoying the outdoors and loving his family. Tom is survived by his wife Wanda Lally; first wife Maureen Wetzel of Bonita Springs, FL, their four children John Lally (Rebecca Lally) of Seattle, WA, Robert Lally (Sarah Lally) of Trumbull, CT, Mary Beth Ryan (Phil Ryan) of Trumbull, CT and Ann Brown (Jeff Brown) of Center Harbor, NH; four stepchildren, Kelly Maguire (Joe Maguire) of Gilbert, AZ, Kristine DeBrock (Rick DeBrock) of Phoenix, AZ, John Pierce (Natalie Pierce) of San Antonio, TX, and Anne Sanford (Tom Sanford) of Phoenix, AZ. He is also survived by his adored grandchildren who called him "Papa Tom": Lauren Lally, Matt Lally, Claire Lally, Patrick Ryan, Peter Ryan, Liam Brown, Ryan Brown, Hannah Maguire, Haley Maguire, Heather Maguire, Brianna DeBrock, Pierce DeBrock, Samantha Pierce, Zach Sanford, Aidan Sanford, Ben Sanford, and Will Sanford. Additionally, Tom is survived by his sisters Alicia O'Donnell (Robert O'Donnell), Marcia Maxwell (Harvey Maxwell) of Stratford, CT and several nieces, nephews and cousins. Tom was a wonderful father, husband, Papa, brother and a friend to many! He will be missed, loved and celebrated for lifetimes to come! A Visitation will be held on Friday, February 8th from 6:00pm - 9:00pm with a Rosary at 7:30pm at Whitney & Murphy Funeral Home, 4800 East Indian School Rd., Phoenix. A Funeral Mass will be held on Saturday, February 9th at 10:30am at Brophy Chapel, 4701 North Central Avenue, Phoenix. A memorial service in Connecticut will be planned at a later date. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that memorial contributions may be made in his memory to the Sandy Hook School Support Fund, https://newtown.uwwesternct.org/.

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Published by Connecticut Post on Feb. 7, 2013.

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Lois Pearson

February 13, 2013

Wanda and family: Our condolances to you all on Tom's untimely passing. We are so very sorry. May God comfort you during these sad times ahead. Sincerely, Lois and Don Pearson, Orono, Minnesota

February 12, 2013

What a beautifu memorial service. It was so touching to see all of the grandchildren involved. Rest in peace, Tom. Tim and Ginger Sanford

Katie Pierce

February 11, 2013

Dear Wanda and Anne and family,
I am so sorry. Tom was such a kind and gentle man. I know you all miss him terribly. I am praying that God comforts you like only He can.
Love, Mark and Katie Pierce

Donna Davis

February 8, 2013

Kristine, Rick, Brianna and Pierce, I am sending you all special hugs & prayers during the loss of your Dad & PaPa Tom.

Miss Wanda, thanking you for your lovely family and know that you are in my prayers, as God now has another "special" Angel to watch over your family with His direction.

God Bless your family & give you all memories of all the quality times you had with Tom.
Donna

Margaret Sandberg

February 8, 2013

Dear Wanda and family. Ryne and I send our deepest condolences. Tom was always so nice and consistent to everyone. Always was very pleasant and interested. Our love to all. Margaret and Ryne

Jennifer Hayes

February 7, 2013

Wanda and family, our deepest sympathy and prayers are with all of you.

Love,
Jennifer and Greg

February 7, 2013

Wanda, I am truly sorry or your loss.
You will be in prayers.
Pat Yocum

John and Debbie Evers

February 7, 2013

Dear Wanda and Family,

We just didn't have enough time with Tom, but the times we had were always treasured times. Tom was a very important part of our lives and he meant an awful lot to us and each and every one of our children. Peace be with you all and know that our prayers are with you at this very sad time.

Love and Semper Fi,
Johnny, Debbie, Jackie, Jill, Jamie, Billy and Bryan

Steve and Lois DeBrock

February 7, 2013

We treasure our memories of Tom and Wanda in Honolulu and Kona. What a joy! With sympathy and prayers, Steve and Lois

Bonnie Dalton

February 7, 2013

Dear Marcia and Harvey,
We were so sad to read of Tom's death. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you all. I was so happy to see him at your anniversary party and renew acquaintances. Know that we are thinking about you all and sending our deepest sympathy.
Love,
Mike and Bonnie

February 7, 2013

A Father and grandfather's passing always leaves something missing, however the memories live on forever.......
Sorry for your loss to the entire family.....Judy and John Nelson

Kristine DeBrock

February 6, 2013

We love and miss you PaPa Tom.

Elise Wachspress

February 6, 2013

To me, his "long lost" little cousin, Tom's kindness and warmth when I visited Connecticut after high school was one of the most moving experiences in that period pf my life. He made so many people feel like they were the most important person in the world. I will never forget his many kindnesses to our family, all so heartfelt and out if a core of genuine feeling. What a mensch. He will be missed by many.

Kathleen Donlan

February 6, 2013

My thought and prayers are with the Lally family. You have a new angel in heaven to watch over you.

February 6, 2013

We are so sorry for your loss, you are all in our thought and prayers. Love Paul, Shannon, Nick and Max Tiffany

Justin Caine

February 6, 2013

To the Lally Family - What a nice remembrance of Tom. Our love and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Love,
The Caine Family

Keith and Debra Wills

February 6, 2013

Our thoughts and love to you all.
Love, Keith and Debra

Tommie-Sue and Greg Douglas

February 6, 2013

To Wanda and family, know that our thoughts and prayers are with you. Tom was such a nice man to us ... I know he will be missed.

February 6, 2013

Thoughts and prayers with the entire Lally Family

Jerry, Tricia, Charlie, Ben, and Bizzy Hemenway

Suda Prohaska

February 6, 2013

Wanda, thinking of you but especially of Tom. I didn't get a chance to really know him, but during that brief time, I thoroughly enjoyed his warmth, humor, and graciousness. He was a great soul mate for you and a great anchor for your family. And I know he will be terribly missed. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

much love. Suda

Patrick Rice

February 6, 2013

Dear Lally Family,

Our deepest sympathy in this time of loss.

Every Marine, past and present is an honored part of our family.

Semper Fi,

Patrick Rice
Marine Corps League
Detachment 1296
East Valley Marines

February 6, 2013

To the entire Lally family, our thoughts and prayers are with you. May the wonderful memories carry you through this difficult time.

Sincerely,

Frank/Lexi/Gigi Caruso

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