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Lynn Sanderson
January 24, 2021
I know that the anniversary of Tom’ s passing is a difficult time. He was a good friend. Sending hugs and prayers.
Ruth Ann Spano
February 23, 2012
Robin
I am so sorry to hear about Tom, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Always will remember the good old days when we all met at Milupa, that was such a good begining for you both.We had laughter and a great friendship , you both are great friends to all of us.
If you need anything please let me know Again my sincere condolences.
Ruth Ann Spano
Janet Sandor
February 22, 2012
Robin,
I was saddened to hear about Tom's passing. Although I only met him a few times, we had some good laughs about the good old Milupa days. My prayers are with you and your family.
February 2, 2012
Dear Dan & Family: I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your brother. Our condolences to you and your family.
Jane B. Strumpf & Family
Lynn Sanderson
January 29, 2012
Dear Robin and Family,
We met many years ago when I lived in Connecticut. Tom was my daughter, Jennifer's godfather. I will never forget his smile and how he made us all laugh, his willingness to help and his friendship. I believe we were all blessed to have had Tom in our lives. He will be in your hearts forever. He was blessed with a wonderful family and he was loved by so many people whose lives he touched.
Hold tight to the wonderful memories of your lives together. Please accept my condolences and prayers.
Sincerely,
Lynn Sanderson
Patti Krom
January 28, 2012
My condolences to you Robin and your family. In my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. From Patti Eilertsen Krom ~ the old Stamford Hospital Daycare Center
Mike Toronto
January 28, 2012
I only met Tom once, at my father's memorial service but his kind word and compassion made a real impact on me. SFD has lost a fine brother, the family has lost a fine man we are all better people for having known him. He will always be remembered in the hearts of all whose lives he touched. God rest and keep you, Tom.
Joan Harrington Stevenson
January 28, 2012
I am very sorry for your loss. I went to high school with Tom and remember him fondly. May the love of your family and friends and your memories of Tom help you during this difficult time.
Edward Surwilo
January 27, 2012
My sympathy goes out to all the McCabe family members - all upstanding people in our communities - to our dear Sister Daniel Marie, to Dan, Jimmy, and Kathleen known to me from Stamford Catholic High School, and especially to Tom's wife and children for whom this is such a sudden, unexpected turn of events. May all the consolations of our Faith come to their aid. Msgr. Ed Surwilo
george kandrak
January 27, 2012
jess i know nothing that say will stop the hurt , i hope the hurt will get easier as time goes on,
Barbara Heimlich
January 27, 2012
Dear Robin,
It was with deep sadness that I read about Tom's passing yesterday. I often ran into Tom when I was "out and about town" and we always shared a laugh or two about our days at Milupa, the fun we had at work, and we always ended with a pledge to get together soon so that I could see you and your children.
Regretfully we never carried it out. That however, does not mean that I have ever forgotten you and Tom.
Tom served my hometown of Stratford with honor, and he was selfless in sharing his time in energy with you and the children.
Robin, my the peace which comes from the memories of love shared comfort you and your children now and in the days ahead.
With Great Sadness for a Life Lost Too Soon,
Barbara Heimlich
Jane Comerford
January 27, 2012
I haven't seen Tom since high school but I remember him as a kind and gentle person, always with a smile. I am so sorry for your loss.
California 11/11
Morris & Lynn Hoffman
January 27, 2012
Tommy...Both Lynn and I have known you for a gazillion years and we will never forget you! We loved you for who you are, genuine, thoughtful, kind and so funny! Rest in peace...
January 27, 2012
TOM WAS A GREAT GUY . I WENT TO HIGH SCHOOL AND COLLEGE WITH HIM . ALTHOUGH I HAVE NOT SEEN TOM IN MANY YEARS HE WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN FOR ALL THE GOOD HE DID . MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY TO ALL HIS FAMILY . GOD BLESS TOM, LOUIE LAPOLLA SCHS CLASS OF 1975 AND IONA CLASS OF 1979
Patricia Venneri Agudow
January 27, 2012
As a fellow classmate in the SCHS Class of '75, Tom rest in peace. We had lost touch over the years, but you lived a beautiful life & were a kind, good friend in the high school days.......Blessed be from Patricia Venneri Agudow (SCHS '75)
Jennifer Bosques
January 27, 2012
Stratford is blessed with the finest, most dedicated and selfless fire department and have lost a real hero. My condolences to the family and prayers for Tom and the SFD. Please find comfort in knowing that he is with the Lord.
January 27, 2012
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. Our deepest sympathy.
Thomas & Joanne Romas, John & Pauline Tabakis, & Helen Goshea
(New Canaan Pizza)
Ronald Koroscil
January 27, 2012
Never anyone better and probably my best friend of all time. Robin, Sean, Kim and Jess...can't express enough how sorry we are for your loss and how much he will be missed. Have such great memories of him and the good times...actually awesome times together.
Ron, Brenda, Melissa & Michael Koroscil
Sandi & Sean Mayne
January 27, 2012
Rest in Peace Tom and thank you for all the goodness you did while you were with us.
January 27, 2012
Our heartfelt condolences to the family and friends of Lieutenant Thomas McCabe on behalf of the men and women of the Stratford Fire Rescue Department and entire Stratford community. Thank you for sharing Tom with all of us. Bob McGrath.
Ed Iacovo
January 27, 2012
Tommy was a really good guy. He will be missed.
January 26, 2012
Dear Robin, Sean, Kim and Jess
When thinking of Tom we have to smile. Anytime we ran into him or,walk into a room where he was, without fail, he would always greet you with a smile, a hug,a handshake. He is a warm and kind man. And he sure could make you laugh!
So glad to have known him. A good man, who left such an impression on so many people… That's the way he will be remembered.
We are sending our deepest sympathy and are praying for your family.
Dean, Denise, Alex and Zachary Fagan
January 26, 2012
Robin, Sean, Kim & Jess
Words seem inadequate to express the sadness we feel.
May the peace which comes from memories comfort you now and in the days ahead.
Lance, Val, Brittany, Lance Jr & Brooke Edwards
Beautiful soul
Jennifer McCabe Costello
January 26, 2012
Beautiful spirit
Jennifer McCabe Costello
January 26, 2012
Beautiful laugh
Jennifer McCabe Costello
January 26, 2012
Kathi Petkevich
January 26, 2012
Dear Robin and Family - We are so incredibly sorry for your loss. Words escape all of us. Just know that Tom's presence at Cub Scouts, my own uncle's funeral where Tom stood Color Guard, events at the club - any where Tom was made that time so much better. We pray that God watches over and keeps you all and makes you strong to carry on. His legacy will live on forever. All our love and prayers...
Mark, Kathi, Jason and Carolyn Petkevich
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