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Thomas McCabe Obituary

MCCABE, Thomas "Yaz" McCabe age 54 of Stratford, the beloved husband of Robin Marks McCabe passed away suddenly on January 24, 2012 in Bridgeport Hospital. Tom was born on September 30, 1957 in Milford and was the son of the late Daniel and Lillian Moroney McCabe. He was a 1975 graduate of Stamford Catholic High, received his accounting degree in 1979 from Iona College and in 1989 received his Master's Degree in Communications from Fairfield University. In 1987, he joined the Stratford Fire Department and was promoted to the rank of Lieutenant on June 20, 2000. Tom was currently treasurer of the Fireman's Benevolent Society, Historian for the Stratford Fire Department, member of the Emerald Society, the Gaelic Club of Milford, Knights of Columbus, committee member of the Boy Scouts, Bunnell High School Marching Band pit crew and an avid Boston Red Sox fan. He was also a member of the Connecticut Society of Genealogists, Inc. and founding member of CORE and AAC East. He enjoyed riding his motorcycle and spending precious time with his family. He was honored to participate in all memorial ceremonies for local deceased firefighters including traveling to other cities and states. In his twenty-four years with the Stratford Fire Department he served eleven as a Lieutenant and twenty-one years as a certified EMT. Tom received numerous Citations, including the Town Proclamation of appreciation for work at infant call, boat rescue call, actions at motel fire and also the Unit Citation MVA into water. He also participated in various fundraisers for the Burn Camp, MDA and other charitable organizations, such as collecting and delivering food to the needy in conjunction with the Red Cross, National Guard, Fire Department and Community Center. In addition to his devoted wife Robin, he is also survived by one son, Sean T. McCabe, two daughters, Kimberly J. McCabe and Jessica D. McCabe all of Stratford, two brothers, Daniel M. McCabe and wife Joan of Stamford, James J. McCabe and wife Donna of Westfield, New Jersey, two sisters, Patricia A. Dorsey and husband Dwight of Morgan Hill, California, Kathleen M. Butler and husband John of Putnam, Connecticut, two aunts, Sr. Daniel Marie McCabe of West Hartford, Ruth Olenchuk and husband Sam of Seymour and several nieces and nephews. Funeral services will be held on Saturday January 28, 2012 at 9:00 AM in the Galello-Luchansky Funeral Home 2220 Main Street Stratford and at 10:00 AM in St. Mark Church 500 Wigwam Lane Stratford where a Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated by Rev. Donald Guglielmi. Interment will follow in Union Cemetery Stratford. Friends may call at the Galello-Luchansky Funeral Home on Friday from 3-8 PM. In lieu of flowers, those who so desire may contribute to the Stratford Fireman's Benevolent Association, 2750 Main St. Stratford, in Tom's memory. To celebrate a life, please visit us at www.galellofuneralhome.com - A Legacy of Compassion -

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Published by Connecticut Post from Jan. 26 to Jan. 27, 2012.

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Lynn Sanderson

January 24, 2021

I know that the anniversary of Tom’ s passing is a difficult time. He was a good friend. Sending hugs and prayers.

Ruth Ann Spano

February 23, 2012

Robin
I am so sorry to hear about Tom, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Always will remember the good old days when we all met at Milupa, that was such a good begining for you both.We had laughter and a great friendship , you both are great friends to all of us.
If you need anything please let me know Again my sincere condolences.
Ruth Ann Spano

Janet Sandor

February 22, 2012

Robin,
I was saddened to hear about Tom's passing. Although I only met him a few times, we had some good laughs about the good old Milupa days. My prayers are with you and your family.

February 2, 2012

Dear Dan & Family: I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your brother. Our condolences to you and your family.

Jane B. Strumpf & Family

Lynn Sanderson

January 29, 2012

Dear Robin and Family,
We met many years ago when I lived in Connecticut. Tom was my daughter, Jennifer's godfather. I will never forget his smile and how he made us all laugh, his willingness to help and his friendship. I believe we were all blessed to have had Tom in our lives. He will be in your hearts forever. He was blessed with a wonderful family and he was loved by so many people whose lives he touched.
Hold tight to the wonderful memories of your lives together. Please accept my condolences and prayers.

Sincerely,

Lynn Sanderson

Patti Krom

January 28, 2012

My condolences to you Robin and your family. In my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. From Patti Eilertsen Krom ~ the old Stamford Hospital Daycare Center

Mike Toronto

January 28, 2012

I only met Tom once, at my father's memorial service but his kind word and compassion made a real impact on me. SFD has lost a fine brother, the family has lost a fine man we are all better people for having known him. He will always be remembered in the hearts of all whose lives he touched. God rest and keep you, Tom.

Joan Harrington Stevenson

January 28, 2012

I am very sorry for your loss. I went to high school with Tom and remember him fondly. May the love of your family and friends and your memories of Tom help you during this difficult time.

Edward Surwilo

January 27, 2012

My sympathy goes out to all the McCabe family members - all upstanding people in our communities - to our dear Sister Daniel Marie, to Dan, Jimmy, and Kathleen known to me from Stamford Catholic High School, and especially to Tom's wife and children for whom this is such a sudden, unexpected turn of events. May all the consolations of our Faith come to their aid. Msgr. Ed Surwilo

george kandrak

January 27, 2012

jess i know nothing that say will stop the hurt , i hope the hurt will get easier as time goes on,

Barbara Heimlich

January 27, 2012

Dear Robin,
It was with deep sadness that I read about Tom's passing yesterday. I often ran into Tom when I was "out and about town" and we always shared a laugh or two about our days at Milupa, the fun we had at work, and we always ended with a pledge to get together soon so that I could see you and your children.
Regretfully we never carried it out. That however, does not mean that I have ever forgotten you and Tom.
Tom served my hometown of Stratford with honor, and he was selfless in sharing his time in energy with you and the children.
Robin, my the peace which comes from the memories of love shared comfort you and your children now and in the days ahead.
With Great Sadness for a Life Lost Too Soon,
Barbara Heimlich

Jane Comerford

January 27, 2012

I haven't seen Tom since high school but I remember him as a kind and gentle person, always with a smile. I am so sorry for your loss.

California 11/11

Morris & Lynn Hoffman

January 27, 2012

Tommy...Both Lynn and I have known you for a gazillion years and we will never forget you! We loved you for who you are, genuine, thoughtful, kind and so funny! Rest in peace...

January 27, 2012

TOM WAS A GREAT GUY . I WENT TO HIGH SCHOOL AND COLLEGE WITH HIM . ALTHOUGH I HAVE NOT SEEN TOM IN MANY YEARS HE WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN FOR ALL THE GOOD HE DID . MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY TO ALL HIS FAMILY . GOD BLESS TOM, LOUIE LAPOLLA SCHS CLASS OF 1975 AND IONA CLASS OF 1979

Patricia Venneri Agudow

January 27, 2012

As a fellow classmate in the SCHS Class of '75, Tom rest in peace. We had lost touch over the years, but you lived a beautiful life & were a kind, good friend in the high school days.......Blessed be from Patricia Venneri Agudow (SCHS '75)

Jennifer Bosques

January 27, 2012

Stratford is blessed with the finest, most dedicated and selfless fire department and have lost a real hero. My condolences to the family and prayers for Tom and the SFD. Please find comfort in knowing that he is with the Lord.

January 27, 2012

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. Our deepest sympathy.

Thomas & Joanne Romas, John & Pauline Tabakis, & Helen Goshea
(New Canaan Pizza)

Ronald Koroscil

January 27, 2012

Never anyone better and probably my best friend of all time. Robin, Sean, Kim and Jess...can't express enough how sorry we are for your loss and how much he will be missed. Have such great memories of him and the good times...actually awesome times together.
Ron, Brenda, Melissa & Michael Koroscil

Sandi & Sean Mayne

January 27, 2012

Rest in Peace Tom and thank you for all the goodness you did while you were with us.

January 27, 2012

Our heartfelt condolences to the family and friends of Lieutenant Thomas McCabe on behalf of the men and women of the Stratford Fire Rescue Department and entire Stratford community. Thank you for sharing Tom with all of us. Bob McGrath.

Ed Iacovo

January 27, 2012

Tommy was a really good guy. He will be missed.

January 26, 2012

Dear Robin, Sean, Kim and Jess

When thinking of Tom we have to smile. Anytime we ran into him or,walk into a room where he was, without fail, he would always greet you with a smile, a hug,a handshake. He is a warm and kind man. And he sure could make you laugh!

So glad to have known him. A good man, who left such an impression on so many people… That's the way he will be remembered.

We are sending our deepest sympathy and are praying for your family.
Dean, Denise, Alex and Zachary Fagan

January 26, 2012

Robin, Sean, Kim & Jess
Words seem inadequate to express the sadness we feel.
May the peace which comes from memories comfort you now and in the days ahead.
Lance, Val, Brittany, Lance Jr & Brooke Edwards

Beautiful soul

Jennifer McCabe Costello

January 26, 2012

Beautiful spirit

Jennifer McCabe Costello

January 26, 2012

Beautiful laugh

Jennifer McCabe Costello

January 26, 2012

Kathi Petkevich

January 26, 2012

Dear Robin and Family - We are so incredibly sorry for your loss. Words escape all of us. Just know that Tom's presence at Cub Scouts, my own uncle's funeral where Tom stood Color Guard, events at the club - any where Tom was made that time so much better. We pray that God watches over and keeps you all and makes you strong to carry on. His legacy will live on forever. All our love and prayers...
Mark, Kathi, Jason and Carolyn Petkevich

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