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STANTON Thomas Joseph Stanton, age 76 of Bluffton, S.C., previously of Stratford and husband of Gerry Stanton, passed away Tuesday, July 15, 2008 at home in the company of his family. Tom was born December 31, 1932 in Cambridge, Mass., son of the late Thomas J. and Josephine Hurley Stanton and had resided in Stratford for 30 years prior to moving to Bluffton in 2003. Prior to retiring in 1991, Tom was a math teacher for 35 years at Bunnell High School in Stratford and former instructor at Housatonic Community College in Bridgeport. He received his undergraduate degree from the University of Massachusetts at Lowell and a Master's in teaching Science and Math from the University of New Hampshire. He was formerly very active in the Gaelic American Club and a past president of Feile, a former member and past president of the Stratford Civitan Club. Tom was an avid golfer and former member of Oronoque Country Club. He and his wife Gerry loved adventure travel and had traveled to many exotic places. He served in the U.S. Army and is a veteran of the Korean War. Survivors in addition to his wife of 50 years includes his son, Thomas of Southern, Calif.; his daughter, Beth Stanton and David Service of Middletown; his sister, Joyce Lyons of Lexington, Mass.; and many nieces and nephews. Friends are invited to attend a Celebration of Life, Saturday, July 19, 2008 at 1 p.m. in the Gaelic American Club, 74 Beach Rd., Fairfield. The family requests that you join them for lunch following the celebration. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Hospice Care of the Lowcountry and the Foundation for Hospice Care, 119 Palmetto Way, P.O. Box 3827, Bluffton, SC 29910. The Neil Harding Funeral Home, 210 Post Road, Westport is in charge of arrangements.

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Published by Connecticut Post on Jul. 17, 2008.

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Brad & Jude Baldwin

August 2, 2008

Gerry,
We are so sorry to hear about Tom. He was a great guy, always, smiling,upbeat and fun to be around. We had such fun Irish dancing and hanging out at the club.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Karen Lessard

July 20, 2008

I was lucky to grow up and call him my Uncle Tom!! Always laughing and light hearted. The best laugh ever! He could get anyone of us kids laughing and having a good time. What fond memories I keep in my heart of such a wonderful man! Aunt Gerry, I love you and keep you close in my thoughts and prayers! I am so sorry I wasn't able to make the trip to be with you, Beth and Tommy. Forever in my heart. Karen

Pat Hughes

July 19, 2008

Dear Gerry, so sad to learn of Tom's passing. I remember him well from the old days at LTC. We missed seeing you both at our 50th, but understood why. We send you our deepest condolences, and love at this very sad time.

Thomas J Stanton

July 19, 2008

Peg O'Leary

July 19, 2008

Dear Gerry,
The other day, while driving to FL, you and Tom were vividly on my mind. I was talking about both of you, especially your travels, to my son. Therefore I was even more shocked and saddened when I got the news that Tom had passed. Please let me add to Barb's memory of ceile dancing by reminding you of Tom's, certainly stand-out , acting ability with CnG... "I chanced upon a starling..."! His smiling eyes, quick sense of humor and warm ways will live on in the memories he made with his many friends. I'm glad to have known him. You and he both have added to my life. A remarkable couple. I'm so sorry to miss the gathering in celebration of Tom's life. Please know that I will be with you in my mind. Love, Peg

Anne Gardner-Kaihlanen

July 18, 2008

Gerry - so very sorry to hear about Tom. We missed you both at our wonderful 50th reunion. Anne , Pat, Lois and I stayed together and had fun remembering our years at Lowell. My best to you and your family.
Anne Gardner-Kaihlanen

BARBARA & BILL Hughes

July 18, 2008

Gerry, Bill and I want to express our sympathy to you and your family at this sad time. I always have to smile when I remember Tom, Dan, and I Ceili dancing and Patty K. calling us out to show the others what not to do!!! What wonderful memories we have of those years at the Club.

Kristi Lacasse

July 18, 2008

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived.

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