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WaTesa Custis Obituary

CUSTIS WaTesa Jenera Custis, age 25, of Bridgeport, died suddenly in her home on Wednesday, December 24, 2003. Born in Bridgeport WaTesa was a lifelong resident, a graduate of Central High School in 1996 with two and a half additional years of college. She was a member of Gospel Temple Community Holiness Church. Survivors include a daughter, CharNae D. Epps of Bridgeport; her father, Wesley Matthews of Georgia; her mother, Sandra Custis Blagmon, stepfather, James Blagman, both of Bridgeport; two brothers, James Blagmon of Bridgeport, and Wesley D. Matthews of Wisconsin; two sisters, Sherrel Potter of North Carolina. and Dara Jackson of Wisconsin; paternal grandparents, Wesley Matthews Sr. of Florida, and Ethel Matthews of Bridgeport; maternal grandparents, Robert L. and Viola Custis of West Haven; a special friend, Charles Epps of Bridgeport; a host of cousins, uncles, aunts, other relatives and friends. Funeral services will be held on Tuesday at 7 p.m. at Messiah Baptist Church, 210 Congress Street, where the Rev. Tyrone P. Jones is the pastor and Bishop Curtis Mouning will officiate. Interment will be Wednesday at 10 a.m. in Lakeview Cemetery. Viewing will take place Tuesday from 5 to 7 p.m. at the Church. Morton s Mortuary, 25 Margaret E. Morton Lane, Bridgeport, is in charge of arrangements.

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Published by Connecticut Post on Dec. 28, 2003.

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Anna

June 2, 2022

as heartbroken as I am.... I´m happy that you two are together again hug her tight tee..we love u both an miss you so much !please continue to look over us love Anna xo

SHEKITA TATE

February 5, 2004

DEAR TESA TAKE YOUR THUMB OUT OF YOUR MOUTH FOR JUST A MINUTE WHILE YOU READ THIS (SMILING) IT IS SO PAINFUL TO HAVE YOU GONE, TO NOT SEE YOUR NUMBER ON THE CALLER ID FROM THE TIME I WAKE UP UNTIL I GO TO SLEEP. I JUST WANTED TO LET YOU KNOW THAT BY READING YOUR GUEST BOOK ALONE YOU SEE HOW MUCH YOU ARE LOVED.NO ONE WILL EVER TAKE YOUR PLACE IN OUR HEARTS. I ALSO WANTED TO ADD THAT A WEEK AFTER YOU LEFT US TO BECOME OUR GUAR DIAN ANGEL MY CELLPHONE ALERTED ME THAT I HAD A NEW VOICEMAIL MESSAGE, AND TO MY SURPRISE WHEN I CHECKED THE MESSAGE IT WAS A MESSAGE THAT HAD BEEN DELETED FROM MY MAILBOX OVER 2 WEEKS PRIOR...AND WHO WAS IT FROM, YOU! I DROPPED THE PHONE IN DISBELIEVE BECAUSE I COULDN'T BELIEVE THAT I WAS HEARING YOUR VOICE AGAIN, WHEN I CHECKED WHEN THE MESSAGE WAS SENT IT WAS SENT 3 MINUTES BEFORE I CHECKED IT...... I DON'T KNOW HOW YOU DID IT BUT I KNEW THAT IT WAS YOU......I EVEN LET JAY HEAR THE MESSAGE JUST TO CONFIRM MY SANITY. THANK YOU FOR LETTING ME KNOW THAT YOUR OKAY..THAT MESSAGE IS PERMANENTLY SAVED IN MY PHONE SO THAT ANYTIME I WANT TO HEAR YOUR VOICE I JUST REPLAY IT...DON'T WORRY ABOUT US WE'LL BE ALRIGHT JUST CONTINUE TO WATCH OVER US, REST BABY REST, YOUR CUZ......KEE (I LOVE YOU )

La-Tosha Young

February 5, 2004

HI TESA,

THERE NOT A DAY THAT GOES BY THAT I DON'T THINK ABOUT YOU. YOU HAVE ALWAYS BEEN A PERSON WHO BROUGHT LAUGHTER EVERY TIME YOU WERE AROUND.

sandra blagmon

February 3, 2004

Hi Tesa,

I think about you everyday.Nothing has change but i miss the feel of your face and that smile and talking to you on the phone all day.What i feel for you baby will never change because you was an always will be my daughter and even though i can not see you i feel your spirit and i knew when GOD brought you in this world he only lent you to us. LORD JESUS HIMSELF came an pick YOU up to give you joy and pain free.I may cry most days but i also laugh at all of the joy you brought to us. So my tears are not sad because i know you are glad and if you were ask if you would want to spend another day here i know you would say NO.You are finally in a place of comfort and what was pain here is no longer.Your memory is joy of laughter and we are handling it one day at a time.There is not a day that goes by that we dont mention your name or look at picture of you and WE smile.Because you are now forever safe in his hands.Everytime i think about all the things you did here i know they are not as a GEM as they are there.

love you for life.

mommy

Amanda Belcher and Anthony Hunt

January 31, 2004

Im so sorry for the lost of Watesa I diddent know watesa that long. She seem like a vary nice person god bless Watesa and her love ones she will be miss by many.

Amanda Belcher and Anthony Hunt

January 31, 2004

Im so sorry for the lost of Watesa I diddent know watesa, that long she seem like a vary nice person god blass Watesa and her love ones she will be miss by many.

Linda Esteves

January 29, 2004

I did not know Watesa, but I know her Mom, and I am sure her heart was as big as her Mom's. I know TC is in great hands, watching over her daughter. TC will be missed but will remain forever in the hearts of her loved ones. My love and prayers to the family.

Pop-Pop Custis

January 29, 2004

Hey Big Head

How is my granddaughter doing.I'm really missing you. I think of you all the time. I'm going to miss you saying Hey what up pop-pop and we embrace and say love you.

Sharon Young

January 29, 2004

The time has come the strenght for me to acknowledge yet I don't really want to that you are not here on earth with us anymore but I still here the phone ringing. I guess I always will. I miss you Tesa and always visualize your laughter and your smile. You will remain in my heart and mind forever.



YOUR OTHER MOM



P.S



Sandra, Let God's strenght keep you. He's the only one that will carry you when you need him. Don't hesitate to call on him he'll pick you up when you think your going to fall.



Love, Sharon

La ' Tonya Costen-Altman

January 28, 2004

To my cousin Tesa, its hard to believe you are no longer with us. You've become that beautiful angel in heaven watching over us all. I miss you so very much. To see Char, is like seeing you all over again when you were a baby. Friday is your birthday, & we will all be thinking of you. Please continue to watch over us all. I love you Tesa. Happy Birthday. I'll always love you cuz.

Sherita aka Rita Custis

January 28, 2004

Hey Tesa,

words can't express what i want to say.But i miss you and love you.I going to keep on smiling like you always made me feel when you called of course you never wanted nothing but to say hi!.As you always said: I think im grown and i say back: I know i'm grown remember that. Just for you im going to stay that way being grown, laughing,and smiling and I hope you do the same. Love you always

Bj Custis

January 28, 2004

To my Jana Jane I'll miss all of you.

Love Auntie B.J.

Tauika Nedab

January 27, 2004

Hey Cuz...

I miss you, and I'll see you again soon one day.

Love Tauika and Anajah (sorry you didn't get a chance to meet her)

Marcella (Marcy) Nedab

January 27, 2004

Hey Cuz...

Just wanted to send you a Happy Birthday wish while I'm thinking about you. I miss your calling and saying "hey cuz, where Kee at..." Keep me in your thoughts and I'll see you again one day. Always remember you left a precious daughter here and I know your looking over her and loved her (just from hearing you yell at her)

Love you

Marcy (your cuz)

Dara Jackson

January 27, 2004

Sis,

This is probably the hardest thing I have had to do in my life,and that is to have to say goodbye to you before really even saying hello.

There are so many things left unsaid and undone and that is why I am at such a loss for words.To talk to you(and my niece)was always so comforting.Just to know I had someone there to listen to me and understand me like only a sister would.And to know now that I can't just pick up the phone and hear your voice is killing me inside.

There is one thing that was always said and that is that I Love You.We may have never met face to face but I do know that in due time we will meet,it's in god's plan. I Love You T,and miss you the same. Love always,

your lil sis

Dara

Mikko Moore

January 27, 2004

WaTesa,

To a best friend who is was true to me. I miss you so much. It's lonely out here, knowing that I can't talk to you is hurting me inside. But I know that you there with me everyday. I can't thank you enough for all the things that you have done for me. I miss you calling me when you knew I was at school. I miss the calls at night when I am work telling me you wasn't feeling good or you just wanted to talk. I miss all the times we would drive around and just chill or if you needed anything I would be there. I will miss all the times that we would sit around and talk about old times and how life was. I love you so much. I will never forget all the times that we had. I love char and the family. I know that you are in place where you are very happy. And char char is understanding and willing to know that she has somebody to watch over her. Your love and respect that you have given is never forgotten and you will be remembered in my heart always. I LOVE YOU.

Wendy Rudolph

January 26, 2004

Wow!!Tesa I still can't believe you're gone...Sorry it took so long for me to sign your book..but you know/knew I love you...I miss seeing your number on my caller id 50 times a day and when i finally pick up i hear your voice on the other end sayin "Hey Big Sis"...I miss telling you to stop talking to me with your thumb in your mouth..and all you ever did was laugh...you always had a smile on your face...this was a life lesson to me...i never lost anyone close to me...i know now not to take life or people for granted...But God is too wise to make a mistake he knew your pain and suffering...he knew it was time to put your mind, body and soul at peace...Big Issac sends his love as well....so does your "god child" triesey and petey as well...we all love you and miss you dearly..



love the Rudolph family

Auntie Mit- Mit Custis

January 26, 2004

HEY TEE,

NOT A DAY GOES BY AND U NOT THOUGHT ABOUT.. I MISS U CALLING AND LETTING THE PHONE RING ON AND ON, UNTIL I PICK UP. WHEN I ANSWER IT'S ALWAYS I DON'T WANT NOTHING I JUST WANTED TO SEE WHAT U WAS DOING. MY FIRST RESPONSE TO U WAS ALWAYS: TEE U GOT THAT THUMB IN YOUR MOUTH, I KNOW IT STINK..... AND U WOULD LAUGH...I'M GONNA MISS U ALWAYS COMING OVER AND SHOWING ME WHAT U BROUGHT OR TELLING ME SOMETHING THAT CHA-CHA HAD SAID OR DONE. I LOVE U, I MISS U, AND I WILL NEVER FORGET ABOUT U... UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN...KEEP SMILING DOWN ON US MY ANGEL......WE NEED YOUR STRENGHT TO CARRY ON.. LOVE YA FOREVER...........

La-Tosha Young

January 26, 2004

Hi Tesa, It is not a day that goes by that I don't wish my phone would ring with you calling me a million times. I always thinking about how we be on the phone while watching COMING TO AMERICA and you would be laugh though the whole movie.You have been a true friend to me from the first day we met.Over the years we've known each other we've became Best Friends.I just want you to know that I miss you. Love, Tuit

SERKENA CUSTIS

January 25, 2004

WHOA, TEE I STILL BE THINKIN ABOUT U.LISTENIN ITS JUS NOT ONE DAY THAT GOES BY THAT I DON'T THINK OF YOU I JUS WANNA SEE U AGAIN TESA I JUS WANNA HEAR YA VOICE AGAIN CALLIN ME SAYIN "WHADDUP CUZ" AN JUS TALKIN TO ME ABOUT NUTHIN BUT YET WE WILL STAY LAUGHIN BOUT SOMETHIN. I STILL CAN REMEMBER THE DAY U WAS AT MY HOUSE AND ME AN U WAS TALKIN I CAN TELL U ANYTHING AN U WILL GIVE ME YA ADVICE ON HOW TO TAKE PLACE WIT IT YA KNO, ON THE DAY U PASSED IT WAS CHRISTMAS EVE AN ON CHRISTMAS DAY I STILL COULDN'T BELIEVE U LEFT US OUR FAMILY BEHIND BUT YOU KNO WE AS A FAMILY STILL REMEMBER YOU I MISS SEEIN U WALKIN WIT YA THUMB IN YA MOUTH AND I BE LIKE "TESA WIT HER POP BOTTLE CLASSES"!!!! U KNO I CAN STILL PICTURE YOU WIT YA CLASSES AN YA THUMB IN YA MOUTH. WELL TESA WE GOING TO PULL THIS TOGETHER. U WILL BE MISSED, BUT NEVER FORGOTTEN. TESA YOUR OUR ANGEL NOW JUS WATCH OVER US AN MAKE SURE WE MAKE THE DECISIONS AN NOT THE WRONG DECISIONS.

LOVE, KENA

WE WILL MEET AGAIN IT MAY NOT BE TOMORROW BUT SURLY WE'LL MEET AGAIN

U ARE MY FIRST COUSIN AND U WILL REMAIN MY FIRST COUSIN

viola custis

January 24, 2004

dear genia you are constantly on my mind i still cant beleave you left me but i know u did. your my first grand and youll always be the first no one will take your place. i still wait for your phone calls to hear you say whats up gram. i miss that. i know your not here in body but i feel u in sprit and love u always. keep watching over me and make sure im going in the right direction so oneday ill meet up with u again.

love grandma custis

James blagmon

January 24, 2004

tee this your bro' or pooh as you called me,tee I miss you most with all my heart but I can't cry because I know you wouldn't want me to I can hear you saying "don't cry pooh" so I'm staying strong for mommy and dad,I miss you I know you miss me,I love you till I see you again ....

James blagmon

January 24, 2004

tee this your bro' or pooh as you called me,tee I miss you most with all my but I can't cry because I know you wouldn't want me to I can hear you saying "don't cry pooh" so I'm staying strong for mommy and dad,I miss you I know you miss me,I love you till I see you again ....

sandra blagmon

January 24, 2004

to our daughter,sister,

its has been a month since we have talked to you.our hearts have been sad since god have taken you home.we miss your smile and your laughter of joy and the love that you shared with each and every one of us.but you are our angel now and there is not a day that goes by that we dont think about you.we miss you tesa but god makes no mistakes and he knows best.

tesa i miss talking to you on the phone and telling you i have to work for a living and i don not get paid for being on the phone with you all day.i miss that tesa and how we laugh when you call me an try to block your number an i answered the phone with hi t and you laugh so hard. an you called me all day.so its hard for all of us but god is giving us the strength to move forward but our love for you will never change and there is never a day we dont talk about you.

we love you daughter and sister and mommy.

love mommy,pop pop and jb, char

Sherese Custis

January 24, 2004

What Up Cuz

I going to miss you so much. I want to let you know you will always be remembered and never be forgotten. "What Up Cuz" I going to miss you saying that, I going to miss the phone calls just of you calling to see how i was doing and to say hi, I'll never forget those moments. Tesa you was a cousin i can talk to. I never thought i would have a cousin that i would be so very close to and spent so much of my time with.

When they had told me that you past away. i couldn't believe it. But when the time came i had to realize that my cousin Tesa was no longer with me anymore. This was a hard thing for to try to get over but i going to get through it just like everyone else is. There is no more struggle for you to go through, the years you were here i think you lived a great life and brought a beauitful child into this world, you were close to all family members and even me.

You were a great:

Mother

Daughter

Sister

Cousin

Niece

Friend

Those were some great qualities of you.

Your were fun, exciting to be with, and you were always laughing that's what i loved about you.



And to Aunt Niecey and James I love you so much you mean everything to me. I love that i can spend time with you. You are not in this alone you have your Family and Friends here with you together.



Love Resse

rhonda custis

January 22, 2004

to my sister whom i love dearly just wanted to say we missed a lot of parties behind tesa and kevin we all have a long road ahead of us because we are in this together an we got mommy an pop to thank for raising all of us to love one another so am really just saying you are not in this alone love you with all my heart .

Candice Lynch

January 21, 2004

Tesa,

Last time I saw you were still sucking that thumb. Keisha, Michael and I cried and told Read Street stories about you Christmas Eve. We are all family and losing you hurt deeply. Forever, you will live in the memories you made with all your family members and friends.

Aunt Niece, my prayers go out to you. You are in my heart. Let her child be a comfort to you. I love you.

Charles, your little girl will be your living connection to her mother. In her spirit, you will see Tesa and feel her presence. This I know as I am where you are now.

May God Bless You All!

M Quarles

January 19, 2004

Tesa, It's you're girl. I just wanted to let you know that I miss you alot. I miss not getting your calls late night anymore. I miss us not sitting on the phone talking about the "old" days. I know that you are in a better place were there is no pain. I know that your smiling and making everyone else smile.....just thinking about you makes me smile. But we will see each other again. I love you Tesa

aaron custis chapman

January 18, 2004

to my sister, i know this is the hardest thing we ever had to bare for one of our own to leave us,but i know that god know best we have to be strong for tesa we will get through this i know it is hard very hard but for the love for tesa and the family she will always live in our hearts and memories. love your sister gert(aaron) custis chapman

aaron custis chapman

January 18, 2004

to my loving niece tesa, i miss you,will always be in my thoughts,my heart is broken since god took you away to be a angel.i will miss you saying aunt gert is crazy but i would say i made you laugh, you will be miss dearly, this is the second time i wrote to you the first time it just didn't go through. just remember we all loved you. i miss you dearly. love aunt gert i will be strong cause you will be strong for me love ya!!!

SANDRA CUSTIS BLAGMON (MOMMY)

January 18, 2004

TO MY DAUGHTER,

MOMMY JUST WANTED TO SAY I MISS YOU SO MUST.

I THINK ABOUT YOU AT ALL TIMES BABY.MY HEART IS SAD BUT HE LOVED YOU BEST.

LOVE MOMMY

Serkena Custis

January 17, 2004

TO TELL U THE TRUTH TEE, I REALLY CAN'T BELIEVE U GONE. GOD MUST HAVE TAKEN YOU FROM US TO TELL US THAT YOUR JOURNEY HAS BEEN COMPLETE ON THIS EARTH HE GAVE US 25 GREAT YEARS OF YOUR LIFE BUT IT ENDED TO SHORT, GOD MUST OF SAID I CAN'T SEE MY ANGEL SUFFERING LIKE THIS AT AN YOUNG AGE SO HE HAD TO TAKE YOU SO THAT YOU WOULDN'T HAVE TO SUFFER ANY MORE PAIN. TEE ITS JUST NOT ONE DAY I DON'T THINK OF YOU. BABYGIRL, YOU LEFT THE MOST BEAUTIFUL GIRL ON THIS EARTH AND THATS CHAR, I SEE HER I SEE YOU AND THAT GIVES ME A REASON TO SMILE. I MISS HEARIN' YOU SAYIN "WHAT UP CUZ," TRUST TEE I MISS IT A LOT. TEE ONE DAY I WILL SEE YOU AGAIN IT MAY NOT BE TOMORROW BUT WE'LL MEET UP AGAIN.



LOVE, KENA

Cheryl M.

January 12, 2004

Been a long time, Tesa. I remember us bugging out in the lunch room at Thomas Hooker school in eighth grade. Since that time we shared a mutual friend. I was shocked to hear of your death.

God Bless your family and esp. your daughter. Look down on them and help them get through this tough time.

Just by reading what others have written you seemed to have been a wonderful lady in your life, now your an angel.



God Bless:)

Keisha Lynch

January 12, 2004

Tesa and my sister were almost inseperable when we were growing up so in that respect she was an older sister to me also. She was only a year older than I was but her and Candice also talked at me like they knew it all. I wasn't mad at'em for it because somehow I knew that they were just doing their jobs as sisters and that's keeping my best interest in mind. For that, I am forever grateful. It's still hard to believe that I won't run into her again around the way but I rest peacefully knowing that her memory lives in her daughter. Tesa you will be forever loved and missed. To the entire Custis family, May God Bless you and grant you serenity in your time of need.

Dorothy Stewart (Russell)

January 9, 2004

Niece,



I talked to my Aunt Nevada recently and she told me about Tesa. I offer my heartfelt sympathy to you and your family. I remember the night you went to the hospital to have Tesa. It seems so long ago and yet her life was so short. Tesa's physical presence is gone, but her spirit will live forever. Trust God for His peace and comfort. Let the loving and joyful memories that you have of your Baby overtake you and carry through the sad times. Know that I'm praying for you and your family. 1 Corinthians 10:13 (Amplified)

Jannie Dorsey

January 6, 2004

My deepest sympathies and thoughts with your family at this time. My fondest memory of Tesa is of Neicy doing her hair...and her big beautiful eyes! and she always wanted to go with her Aunt Boo and Me! I knew you as a child...

I love ya Tesa...blessings to your family.

You were here on earth for too short a time but reside with the Father forever. Although no words can express my sorrow and grief...this is my attempt to let you know someone is thinking of you....



Respectfully and With Love,



Jannie Dorsey

The Dorsey Family

Marcella Crawford

January 6, 2004

To Wes, the Matthews & Cutis Families



I haven't seen Tesa since she was a little girl and I know she was your heart. But remember the will of God will never take you where the love of God cannot enfold you, where His mercy of cannot sustain you, where peace of God cannot calm your fears, and where the comfort of God cannot dry your tears. You will always be in my prayers.

Love Cella

Michael Jordan

January 6, 2004

To Wes and Sandra,

I cannot possibly imagine what you are going through, but through the pain and suffering Tesa is in a better place. Hopefully we can all get through this. Tesa brought joy and happiness to your lives and in time things will get better. May God bless you, and I love you.

Big Mike, Class of 1978

Rhonda Custis

January 5, 2004

tesa i will truely miss singing my song to you and we all know what that is and you standing there with that thumb in your mouth saying go head auntie we need to get you record contract and we will all laugh about it tesa there will never come a day any body would say tesa who love you with all my heart your aunt row-row .

Deborah Sewell-London

January 5, 2004

To the family,Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of sorrow.May god be your strength during this time.Always look to him when you are feeling sad.Remember he will always be there when no one else will.Love always,

Chrystal Graham

January 4, 2004

Tesa,

I only had the pleasure of knowing you two short years, but that was enough to find out just how special a person you were. I'll miss that beautiful smile and cheerfulness that you always brought with you to the center. We all rest in the knowledge that God has all things under control and never, ever makes mistakes. Wish I'd gotten to know you even sooner. I'll miss you.

Iris Medina Calovine

January 3, 2004

Wes: Please accept our deepest sympathies in the loss of your daughter. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

The Calovine Family

Robbyn Dennis-Robinson

January 2, 2004

Wes

I wanted you to know your in my thoughts and Prayers.

Vikki Carl

January 2, 2004

Wes I feel your pain but remember God only lent you, your child. Now God is going to take care of her. I am so sorry for you and Niecy's lost but remember she is home now and will be well taken care of. Your are in my heart and in my prayers. Just remember to keep your head up and stay strong until you see your baby again. I will be praying for you and will always love you. You just remember to stay strong and be there for your grandbaby she will need you now. If ever you need me I will be there. Love you always, Vikki.

Vikki Dennis Carl

January 2, 2004

Wes I feel your pain but remember God only lent you, your child. Now God is going to take care of her. I am so sorry for you and Niecy's lost but remember she is home now and will be well taken care of. Your in my heart and in my prayers. Just remember to keep your head up and stay strong until you see your baby again. I will be praying for you and will always love you. You just remember to stay strong and be there for your grandbaby she will need you now. If ever you need me I will be there. Love you always, Vikki.

KiSheena Martinez

January 2, 2004

It seems like only yesterday when I seen you and your family in the store. You will be sadly missed. Rest in peace.

LaSalle Reynolds

January 2, 2004

I wish to extend my deepest condolences during your time of bereavement. Necie & Wes my heart goes out to you and your family. May God strengthen and Bless you all, during this sad occasion.



LaSalle

Yvette Richards-Hall

January 2, 2004

So sorry for the loss of your loved one. God Bless You!

La' Tonya Costen-Altman

January 2, 2004

To my family Custis/Blagmon, my thoughts and prayers are with you. To Wes & family may GOD continue to strenghten & comfort us all. Tesa will never be forgotten. To be absent from the body is to be present with the LORD. My cousin Tesa endured to the end. We all miss you & love you baby girl.

Stephanie Simmons

January 1, 2004

To the Custis my condolence goes out to you and your family

Tesa was a strong hard working women and mother I know that it may hurt b/c she is gone,but my Girl will suffer no more pain. Charles make sure you stay strong for that little girl b/c Tesa may not be here but she it watching over you her daughter and her family. May God Bless you.

Vernon Simmons

December 31, 2003

Tesa....I haven't seen you as much as i wish i could have but whenever we did get to see each other it was always alot of fun..im gonna miss you alot..love you always

rianna (anna) custis

December 31, 2003

HAY CUZ,

DAMN TEE IMA MISS U SO MUSH U MENT A LOT..IMA MISS ARE LONG TALKS HEARING UR VOICE AND UR CALLS JUST TO SAY HI BUT MOST OF ALL IMMA MISS U ON JANUARY..JANUARY WAS ARE MONTH WE ALWAYS CALLED TO WISH EACH OTHER A HAPPY B-DAY.. ARE B-DAY IS ONE DAY APART ME ON THE 29TH U ON THE 30TH..IMA MISS THAT AND U BUT U WILL NEVER BE 4 GOTTEN TEE IMA ALWAYS BE WITH U AND U WILL ALWAYS BE WITH ME IN MY HART AND ALWAYS THINK AND SEE U IN MY MIND AND EYES.. U MENT A LOT TO ME AND OTHERS.AND GOD LET U LEAVE THIS WORLD WITH A WONDERFUL GIFT FOR OTHERS TO REMEMBER U BY AND THATS"CHAR" BUT EVEN THEN U WOULD NEVER BE 4 GOTTEN ULL ALWAYS BE MISSED..THIS IS MY LOVE TO U CUZ..



AND NANA BE STRONG CUZ IM JUST WAITING TO HEAR YOU YELL AT ME AGAIN TELLING ME HOW U USED TO RING TEE NECK..(LOL)nuh i learned my lessons.



love always your "anna pooh"

Robin Younger

December 31, 2003

To the Custis Family,



You have my deepest sympathy

charles epps

December 31, 2003

i will miss you terribly and so will stinky lady just give me the strength to go on and raise our beautiful little lady......... see you later

Amy Cooke

December 30, 2003

Words can't express how sorry I am for your loss.

nikki daniels

December 30, 2003

The times has come for you to go. Lord knows that we will miss you so.Your job is done on earth with us. Ash to Ash Dust to Dust In GODs hands we must trust.

nikki daniels

December 30, 2003

The has come for you to go. Lord knows that we will miss you so.Your job is done on earth with us. Ash to Ash Dust to Dust In GODs hands we must trust.

WANDA BELCHER

December 30, 2003

MAY GOD BE WITH YOU THE FAMILY AT THIS VERY SAD AND HARD TIME BUT SHE IN A BETTER PLACE AND IF YOU HAD A CHANCE TO ASK WATESA IF SHE WOULD COME BACK SJE WOULD SAY NO BECAUSE SHE WITH GOD NOW AND SHE WON'T LET GO SHE JUST WANT TO HOLD ON TO HIS POWERFUL HANDS NO MORE PAIN NO MORE SICKNESS YOU WILL SHE HER AGAIN WHEN THE MASTER CALL YOU HAVE TO GO I KNOW IT'S HARD BUT GOD WILL TAKE CARE OF YOU ALL MY HEART GO OUT TO EVERY FAMILY MEMBER SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOST BLESS EACH AND EVERYONE IN WATESA FAMILY.VERY OLD FRIEND WEST MATTHEWS WANDA JAMES (BELCHER)&FAMILY.

anna&lakisha harris

December 30, 2003

tesa you will be missed but never forgotton your memories will always be in the hearts of all the people you have touched over the years

my condolences to the custis family

you are all in are prayers

Boris Boyd

December 30, 2003

To the Custis & Mathews family

Tesa you will always be in our hearts and prayers. we will never

forget you.

From the Boyd Family

Lisa Boyd

December 30, 2003

Tesa you will never be forgotten as the days go by we will always remember the good times we spent together We all love you and miss you dearly

From Lisa and Daisha

Regina (Gege) Spears-Cuffee

December 30, 2003

To The Entire Custis Family/Wes and Family



There are really no words that can be said to ease your pain.



I can truly say that I understand what you all are going through right now. I lost my father in October. I'm still trying to understand why God takes the good ones. If it is in any way comfort to you all, WaTesa is always going to be here. No physically but spirtually. You are going to fill her presence in everything you do. Just reflect on all the good times.



You all know she is in a better place. She has served her purpose in life by bringing so much joy to you all. As you know, everything must come to an end.



If you need me for anything, I mean anything at all, please contact me. I am here for you all.



Love Gege and The Spears Family

WANDA BELCHER

December 30, 2003

MAY GOD BE WITH THIS FAMILY AT THIS VERY SAD AND HARD TIME BUT SHE IN A BETTER PLACE AND IF YOU HAD A CHANCE TO ASK WATESA IF SHE WOULD COME BACK SHE WOULD SAY NO BECAUSE SHE WITH GOD NOW AND SHE WON'T LET GO OF HIS POWERFUL HANDS FROM A VERY OLD FRIEND OF WEST MATTHEW WANDA JAMES (BELCHER)

Amanda Belcher

December 30, 2003

REST IN PEACE

Maria Moorehead

December 30, 2003

Niece: My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in your time of sorrow. God Bless.

Bennyta Claytor

December 30, 2003

To the entire Custis Family and Charles Epps our prayers are with you during your time of sorrow.



Love

The Claytor Family

Sakini

December 30, 2003

My thoughts and prayers to Ms. Matthews (Wes Matthews) & family and to the entire Custis(Blagmon & Epps)family.

May God Bless you all!!!

Brian & Pamela Smith

December 30, 2003

To,



Wes Mathews and Family

Our sincerest prayers are with you at this time. Hold on to God's unchanging hands and know that he will bring you through. Remember the good days and cherish those memories forever.



Love always Guilford and LaSandria Boyd & Brian & Pamela Smith

Ebony Epps

December 30, 2003

To the family of WaTesa Custis: You're in our Prayers & Thoughts We too feel your loss Tesa was also apart of our family. May God continue to bless you. Nae Nae has an angel always watching over her.



Sincerely, The Epps Family

Wes Matthews

December 30, 2003

Jane, words can't explain the pain I feel, but I know you're in a better place. You've brought me so much love/joy in my life. Parting from you brings me such sweet sorrow. Until we see each other again there will never be a day that I won't have you on my mind and in my heart. I LOVE YOU! I LOVE YOU! I LOVE YOU!

Your Pops,

Wes Matthews

Tasha Pettway

December 30, 2003

To the Family- My prayers are with you all, and though It has been years since I seen Tesa, when I heard the news it touched me as if I had just seen her that day. Tesa you will be greatly missed.

Luvella Hall

December 30, 2003

I'm gonna miss all those long conversations we had on the phone, Tee. Not to mention the long summers we used to spend together when we were kids. I'll never forget your laugh nor your smile. I know you're in a better place and we'll see eachother again someday. I love you Cuz. (Funion)

Malette Blakeney

December 30, 2003

Sandra & Family,

My prayers are with you and your family. Words cannot express the lost of a love one. It is not the length of her life, it is the impact that she has made in everyone else life around her. God does not make any mistakes, HE has called her home to HIS heavenly skies. May God continually to comfort you and your family and I will keep you in my prayers.



Love Always Malette & Family

Donald & Vivian Langley

December 30, 2003

To the Custis and Matthews Family,

We want you to know that you are in our Thoughts and Prayers.

May God Bless and keep your family during these trying times.

You love Tesa, but God loves her more.

God bless and be encouraged.

PRISCILLA SCOTT VARHALAK

December 30, 2003

TESA, WE WILL ALL MISS YOU, NOT TO HERE YOU CALL ME AUNTIE ANY MORE WILL BE HARD FOR ME. GOD TAKE ONLY THE BEST. SAY HI TO "ANT" FOR ME AND WE WILL MEET SOON. MAY GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY AND HEAVEN SMILE ON THEM. LOVE AUNTIE, MOOK, LENA, TYLER,LIL MAN, SEE YOU SOON BABY

yolanda costen

December 30, 2003

To All my family(Custis), may god continue to comfort us ALL at this time, "Weeping may endure for a night but Tesa's Joy has come in the morning", Tesa we love you and needed you here on earth, but you were due for that GREAT promotion in heaven so do your thing girl, we will meet again.



Love your cuz (YOLANDA COSTEN & FAMILY)

Chris

December 29, 2003

In the short time I have known you were a very cool person. I hope to see you in heaven someday. I will miss you Tesa.

Loretta Fedrick(Jones)

December 29, 2003

Niece, my fullest condolences go out to you and your family. Tesa will be missed. If she could talk to all of us right now she would say these words..........

And if I go while you're still here.....

Know that I live on,

Vibrating a different measure-

Behind a thin veil

You cannot not see through.

You will not see me,

So you must have faith.

I wait for the time

When we can sour together again,

-Both aware of each other.

Until then,live your life to the fullest.

And when you need me,

Just whisper my name in your heart,

.......I will be there.

Melba Riley

December 29, 2003

Tesa it's a shock that you are not here with us anymore. In the time I have known you, you were a very strong and determine young lady. I admire how you didn't let your health or negative words affect what you accomplish with your life. I know you are with God now. I will miss you Tesa.

SHEKITA TATE

December 29, 2003

WHAT UP CUZ......I WILL MISS THAT PHRASE COMING FROM YOU EVERYDAY THAT YOU CALLED.I LOVE YOU SO MUCH AND WILL MISS OUR 2 HOUR LONG CONVERSATIONS YOU WERE ALWAYS THERE WHEN I NEEDED SOMEONE TO TALK TO, THOUGH OUR HEARTS ARE HEAVY AND WE DON'T QUITE UNDERSTAND I KNOW THAT GOD MAKES NO MISTAKES.NO MORE SICKNESS AND NO MORE SEIZURES, REST BABY REST...I'LL SEE YOU WHEN I GET THERE. LOVE ALWAYS AND FOREVER YOUR COUSIN SHEKITA AND JAELAN WE LOVE YOU!

MARCELLA NEDAB

December 29, 2003

TESA, IT'S NO MYSTERY THAT YOU ARE IN A BETTER PLACE NOW.WE MUST UNDERSTAND THAT GOD MAKES NO MISTAKES. ME AND KEE WAS JUST TALKING THE OTHER DAY ABOUT HOW OUR PHONE WOULD RING 20 TIMES A DAY AND 10 OF THOSE TIMES IT WOULD BE YOU,THE CALLER ID WOULD SAY "SANDRA CUSTIS" AND WE WOULD ANSWER THE PHONE TO FIND YOU ON THE OTHER END SAYING "HEY CUZ", EVEN IF YOU DIDN'T HAVE NOTHING TO TALK ABOUT!YOU'LL BE MISSED AND WE LOVE YOU "CUZ". MARCY, KEE AND JAELAN TOO!

Gwen Jackson-Varhalak

December 29, 2003

To the Custis Family:

May the Peace of God rest upon you in this trying time.

Gwen & Family

SANDRA CUSTIS BLAGMON (MOMMY)

December 29, 2003

TO OUR LOVING AND BEAUTIFUL DAUGHTER,TESA

YOU WILL ALWAYS BE IN OUR HEARTS, OUR MIND AND THOUGHTS.YOU ARE AND WERE THE BEST DAUGHTER AND SISTER A MOTHER, STEPDAD AND BROTHER COULD ASK FOR.

WE WILL MISS YOUR BRIGHT SMILE AND YOUR JOYFUL LAUGHTER.YOU BRIGHTEN UP ANY ONES DAY. YOU WILL BE SADLY MISSED BUT GOD MAKES NO MISTAKES,

HE ALWAYS PICKS THE BEST FLOWER FROM HIS GARDEN. HE GAVE US 25 YEARS OF YOUR LIFE ON THIS EARTH AND WE ARE MOST THANKFUL,WE COULD NOT ASK FOR MORE, EVEN THOUGH WE WANTED A LIFE TIME. I KNOW WE FUSSED AT YOU BUT WE ONLY WANTED THE BEST FOR YOU.WE KNOW HOW YOU SUFFERED WITH YOUR HEALTH BUT WE ALWAYS TRIED TO MAKE IT BETTER.WE WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU TEE. GOD KNOWS WE DID OUR BEST.TESA WE WILL TAKE CARE OF DOO DOO AND MAKE SURE SHE KNOWS YOU DID YOUR BEST.

LOVE (CHARNAE) DAUGHTER, MOMMY (SANDRA),STEPDAD (JAMES)AND BROTHER (JB)

Knapp Darlene

December 29, 2003

Sandra,



I am very sorry to hear of the passing of your daughter, WaTesa. Your are in my thoughts & prayers.



Sincerely,

Darlene Knapp (Co-worker)

James (Dad) (Pop Pop) Blagmon

December 29, 2003

Tesa,



I decided to write this letter to a beautiful young lady and the best Mom. You will always be in our hearts each and every minute.

We will be alright daughter, We will take care of each other and Char Char will be loved and cared for by all of us, and mainly by her Dad, Who loves her too death! I am Pop Pop and she owns me, I will do any things she says, You know that. I Love you Tee, and I will cry for you always. To lose you so early is a loss to everyone, even thoughs who where going to meet you in the future. I will always remember how hard you tried in being the best Mom you could be And you where a great Mom. And how I would pick up James then you then Char and we would be in the Van listening to music and being a family or how you did everything just like your mom, you where just a like! A Dad only wants the best for his family and I couldnt ask for a better Family , I was blessed to know you baby.



We will see you in Heaven, we when we all will be together again.



James D Blagmon

(StepDad) Dad

Jennifer Frazier

December 29, 2003

When we were younger, we took turns spending weekends at each other's homes "EVERY WEEK" for at least two years straight. It seems like it was just yesterday that we ran through Read Street playing kickball and Hide and Go Seek. My prayers go out to aunt Nieci and family. I love you, and will miss you.



Jenn aka "BIG JENNIFER"

Veronica (Nise) How-Johnson

December 29, 2003

Mr.Charles Epps and the entire family, May the peace of God comfort you through your time of sorrow.

Isaiah 41:10, Psalm 91:1-16

The Howards, Johnsons, & Bowens Family

December 29, 2003

Sandra my prayers are with you and the family. Words cannot express the lost of a love one, but the memories of Watesa can last a life time. With love Peggy Prophet (Co-Worker).

Charisse Davidson

December 29, 2003

Tesa you will be deeply missed. May God be with your family during this difficult time. My prayers and condolences go out to them.



Charisse

April Graham

December 29, 2003

Tesa,

You will be missed. It as been a long time since we talked and seen each other, but I always thought of you.

My prayers go out to the Custis family in this difficult time.



God Bless

Heather Richards

December 29, 2003

Tesa it's been a blessing to have known you. I'll miss seeing you sitting on the porch sucking your thumb ;-). You'll be sadly missed but NEVER forgotten. May you be a peace. Love Heather & Family

TAMBRA BETHEA LANGLEY

December 29, 2003

TESA, YOU WILL SURELY BE MISSED ESPECIALLY YOUR SILLY LAUGH. MAY GOD BRING COMFORT TO YOUR FAMILY DURING THIS TIME OF LOSS. GOD BLESS.

La-Tosha (tuit) Young

December 29, 2003

Tesa,

You will always be in my heart; especially when our movie COMING TO AMERICA is on. Your friendship was one I value the most. I will never forget you... I Love You

NEOMI YOUNG

December 29, 2003

MY GIRLS AND I WILL DEFINATELY MISS YOU.NA-NA WILL ALWAYS HAVE THE GIRLS TO PLAY WITH AND SHE WILL BE AT EVER BIRTHDAY PARTY.WE LOVE YOU TESA....YO CUZ NEOMI YOU KNOW HOW WE DO IT.........

Da'Mesha Borges

December 28, 2003

Tesa you were like my sister, you were always there for me, you will be missed soo much you were a real special person to me. All I keep hearing is you saying "what up mesha"

I Love you Tesa....

cookie

December 28, 2003

To the Custis fam,



My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of sorrow.

Kim & Dwayne

December 28, 2003

Rest In Peace

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