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Paul Cheney Obituary
Paul Edward Cheney, age 69, of Sycamore (formerly of Sugar Grove and Sandwich) passed away on Thursday, February 26, 2015, at the DeKalb County Rehabilitation and Nursing Center after a long and brave fight to recover from a brain aneurysm.
Paul was born in 1945, in Chicago. He graduated from Fenger High School in 1963. From there he went to work at Halsey Stuart Investment Bank. During this time, he joined the United States Marine Corps Reserves. Paul trained as a helicopter crew chief and door gunner, and made the rank of Sergeant (E-5). He was very proud to have served his country.
Paul married Rhonda in 1974. They moved to Sugar Grove in 1976, where he became the Vice President for the Bank of Sugar Grove. Paul was a banker for more than 25 years and was a fixture in the Sugar Grove community for many years.
Paul and Rhonda retired to Sandwich, IL and spent winters in Fort Myers, Florida.
Paul loved airplanes, motorcycles, boats, and fancy cars. He enjoyed watching and attending NASCAR races. He was the life of the party and enjoyed telling stories and jokes. Paul was also very artistic; his many creations included pen and ink drawings, watercolors, pastel chalk drawings, and wood working and carving.
Paul is survived by Rhonda, his wife of 41 years; his daughter, Anne (Jered) Hardy of Genoa; his son, Mike (Cindy) Cheney of Oswego; his grandchildren, John Hardy, Ava Hardy, Audrey Cheney and Elliot Cheney; two sisters, Carol (Don) Boomstra of Dyer, IN. and Nancy (John) Schaddelee of Tinley Park.
He was preceded in death by his parents, Edward and Mabel Cheney.
A Celebration of Life will be held on Sunday, March 1, 2015, from 2:00 to 4:00 p.m., at the Butala Funeral Home and Crematory in Sycamore.
In lieu of flowers, memorials can be made to the charity of the donor's choice in care of the Butala Funeral Home and Crematory, 1405 DeKalb Ave., Sycamore, IL. 60178.
For info or to sign the online guest book, go to www.ButalaFuneralHomes.com or call 815-895-2833
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Memories and Condolences
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Chuckeee Reese
March 3, 2015
To the best friend a guy could ever have....
Who would have thought (about) 35 years ago a couple young bankers having a drink together after some banking seminar, would become best of friends, for all these years. It was a friendship that meant the world to me, and i'm going to miss you.
If only in those years you could have taught me how to use 1 or 2 more tools in my garage, or maybe how to make a drink using a shot glass, ice tongs, and those little swords.
Rest in peace my friend
Love ya Chuckeee
March 2, 2015
Anne and families,
I am so very sorry for your loss. My heart aches for all of you. May your dad's love of life and all of your fond memories help ease your pain over time.
With deepest sympathy, Janet Love-Moore
even riding on water
Bob Conley
March 2, 2015
Paul would try anything once,
Bob Conley
March 2, 2015
Janet Hudson
March 1, 2015
We will all miss Paul. He was a good person. He was too young to leave, but God must have other plans for him.
Chris Tracy
March 1, 2015
So many good memories of the Conley's and Cheney's have been running through my head. You will be missed Mr. Cheney!
February 28, 2015
He is finally at peace which will also bring peace for you. While it is a difficult time; Think of all the wonderful memories during your long marriage. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Bonnie M
Not your typical banker!
Bob Conley
February 28, 2015
So long to my drinking and joke telling buddy, my motorcycle racing buddy, my flying buddy, and my next door neighbor for many years. Rhonda, Ann, Mike, my deepest sympathy. Truly a great loss.
Joe and Linda Zadrozny
February 28, 2015
Rhonda and family
Our sympathy to you in the loss of Paul. We will remember the fun and the laughter when we were together.
February 28, 2015
God's blessings to you, Rhonda, and your family at this most difficult time. Paul was a wonderful husband, father and grandfather. He will be sorely missed.
Kriss Allison (Peterson)
February 28, 2015
Oh, Cheney Family, I am so very sorry for your loss. Sending prayers and hugs your way.
February 28, 2015
We are so sad to hear of Paul's passing. We enjoyed his company, our fun neighbor! We're sorry we can't be there at this time as we are in Florida. Our thoughts are with you and your family. George and Lynn Davis
Rebecca Frazier
February 27, 2015
My condolences on the loss of your father. I'm praying for you during this difficult time.
February 27, 2015
Paul was such a wonderful person and so much fun. I will always remember his laughter and how he made so many others laugh! My deepest sympathies and condolences.
Meg Kelly
Robin Wallace
February 27, 2015
Dear Nancy & John,
I know how close you were to your brother, Paul. Please accept my deepest sympathy in your difficult loss .
Love & prayers to you and your family, Rob
Chuck & Pat Zimmerman
February 27, 2015
We are so sorry for your loss. Paul was a wonderful man, and a good friend. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time.
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Celebration of Life
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