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Lyndsey Whittingham Obituary

Lyndsey Elizabeth Whittingham, age 23, lifetime resident of Frankfort passed away suddenly October 29, 2006. She was a sales rep. for Fisher Scientific in Hanover Park. Lyndsey attended School District 157c, Marian Catholic High School in Chicago Heights and John Carroll University in Cleveland, Ohio where she was a member of Kappa Alpha Theta and the biology club. Lyndsey is survived by her loving family; her parents Dr. Raymond and Betsy (nee Derk) Whittingham; two brothers, Joe (Ana) Whittingham and Kevin (Colleen) Whittingham; grandparents; Louise (late Richard) Whittingham and Frank "Turk" (late Frances) Derk; Goddaughter of Robert (Maura) Whittingham and Lisa Whittingham - Brennan; niece of Nancy (Ken) Martynus, Dr. James (Dr. Lori Knutstrom) Derk, Ronald (Helen) Whittingham and Richard (Patricia) Whittingham; Godmother of Jennifer Derk. She is also survived by many loving cousins. Lyndsey was a friend to everyone and will be greatly missed by all. Family will receive friends at the Kurtz Memorial Chapel, 65 Old Frankfort Way (Corner of La Grange Rd., South of Lincoln Hwy.) Frankfort, IL 60423 from 2 until 9pm Friday, November 3, 2006. Funeral Service at 9:15 am Saturday, November 4, 2006, then on to St. Anthony's Church for 10:00 am Mass of Christian Burial. Interment will follow at Pleasant Hill Cemetery in Frankfort, IL. In lieu of flowers, memorials can be made to the Lyndsey Whittingham Foundation / First United Bank 7626 W. Lincoln Hwy. Frankfort, IL., 60423. INFO: 815-806-2225

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Published by SouthtownStar on Nov. 2, 2006.

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Donna Andrasco

December 26, 2006

Dear Betsy & Family,
I heard the sad news about your daughter Lyndsey a couple of weeks ago and you have been in my thoughts and prayer daily since that time. I did not know Lyndsey but I know she was a beautiful loving daughter from a wonderful family. Only a parent who loses a child can know your grief, but know that your friends(even those from your past at Queen of Peace) are here for you. Please call me if there is anything I can do for you, Nancy or your family. Hold onto your faith and know that Lyndsey is in a better place and you will see her again.

Richard,Dale Robertson and Amanda

November 30, 2006

Ray, Betsy and family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. I can only imagine the pain you are feeling. Have comfort in knowing you will see her again in a better place.

Hyundai Buyers

November 16, 2006

We are sorry for your loss. We were customers of Lyndsey, she was very gracious and courteous to us. She was thought very highly around here.

Jessica Pesha

November 14, 2006

I have many memories of PCC swim meets and practices with Lyndsey. She was a great swimmer and a natural leader. Even years later, she always said hello and made me smile. In her short time she touched so many lives, including mine. I will forever remember her with a smile.

Peggy Kelly Wytrwal

November 14, 2006

Dear Dr. Ray and Betsy,
I was a fellow classmate at Peace with Betsy and lived in Frankfort before moving away. I received the terrible news just yesterday of your precious daughter's passing. I cannot imagine the heart ache you must feel, as I would be inconsolable if my daughters were called to Heaven. I lost my only sister when I was 7, but my strong faith in God still consoles me knowing I will see her again. May God Bless you at this time and may He hold you in the palm of His hand.

Julieann Murray

November 12, 2006

Our deepest sympathies as we just heard the news. You are in our prayers and thoughts as always.

The Murray Family

Sandy Darr

November 8, 2006

To: The Whittingham Family, We don't know each other. I'm very sorry for the loss of your daughter Lindsey. She sounds like she was a wonderful young lady. I know what you are going through. I lost my son Brad Darr on September 2, 2006. He got killed on his Dad's Birtday, He's also buried at Pleasant Hills Cemetery. My son was 25 years old. My prayers and thoughts go out to your family. My Phone # (708) 720-2584 if you need someone to talk to.May God give you comfort.

Meredith Bulan

November 7, 2006

Dr. Ray, Betsy, Joe and Kevin:

I was heartbroken to hear about Lyndsey. I fondly remember babysitting her and helping with swim lessons at PCC. She was such a sweet girl. I imagine that she was an even more amazing young woman. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Meredith, Jason, Emma and Elijah Bulan (Merritt Powell and family)

Melanie (Bertrand) & Paul Koreman

November 6, 2006

Lyndsey will be remembered forever. Our prayers are with you during this very difficult time.
The last memory we have of Lyndsey was her sitting with her mom at PCC enjoying a quiet summer evening, letting my young daughters gravitate towards her. She brought a smile to both of their faces that will never be forgotten.

Carmella Kimble

November 6, 2006

Dr. Ray, Betsy, and sons,
Lyndsey was one of the special few. Her radiant kindness drew people to her. To lose her so young is very hard. May your faith, friends and family support you during this difficult time. Please accept our sincere condolences.
Jim, Carmella, Chris & Katie Kimble
and Alice Mendez

Nicole Gaudiuso (Geisler)

November 6, 2006

Dear Dr. Ray, Betsy, Kevin, and Joe,
My family and I were absolutely heartbroken by the news of your loss. Mrs. Whittingham, you used to drive Joe, Tammy and I home freshmen year from Marian Catholic. I know that no words can express your loss. I remember how you would always talk about your daughter. She will be greatly missed.
Sincerely,
Nicole, Marino, and Arabella Hope Gaudiuso

Michelle and Jim Teutemacher and Jonathon Paprocki

November 5, 2006

Dear Whittingham Family,

We are so sorry for your loss. You will be in our prayers.

Lee Gallaher

November 5, 2006

Please accept our sincere sympathy.

Lee Gallaher Family
Burr Ridge/Sister Lakes

Abby McJury

November 5, 2006

Dear Whittingham Family,

My thoughts and prayers are with your family in this difficult time. I lived down the hall from Lyndsey sophomore year. I would always look forward to seeing her smiling face in the hall. She always had a kind word to say and she truly was one of the most genuinely kind people I have ever met. As you already know she will be greatly missed by all who have crossed her path.

Bianchi "Chi Chi" Petrasek

November 5, 2006

Dr. and Mrs. Whittingham and family,
Lyndsey was an exceptional young woman. As I mourn this tragic loss I can only sit back and think of the fun times I’ve shared with her and a smile comes to my face as she was the only person I have ever known to constantly be smiling and laughing. It was a guaranteed good time when anyone was with her. She touched my life as a friend, and will stay in my heart as my sorority sister. Even in death she was truly a woman for others by giving the gift of life. During this difficult time may you find God’s peace and comfort through memories of Lyndsey’s laughter. I love you Lynds.

Rebecca Olchawa Barker

November 5, 2006

Dear Whittingham family:

I grew up in Prestwick and knew Lyndsey, Joe and Kevin as we all swam on the Prestwick swim team. She was such a sweet, smart and caring young girl. Allow your memories comfort you during this very difficult time. My thoughts are with you all.

November 4, 2006

To the Whittingham Family
Our family would like to extend to you our deepest sympathy. We pray all the great memories and good times with Lyndsey bring you comfort and peace.
Tim, Vanessa, James & Jill Mummaw

Denise & John Nyholt

November 4, 2006

Dear Dr & Mrs Whittingham,
Deepest, deepest sadness regarding the loss of your daughter Lyndsey. Our hearts just ache for you. May the many, many prayers in her honor help you uphold your strength to face each day with faith and trust.
(Love and prayers from an old family of patients and best friends of the Lewkowski's.)

Eric and Tara Kristoff

November 4, 2006

Dear Dr. Whittingham and Mrs. Whittingham,

We are so sorry to hear about Lyndsey. She was a kind and beautiful woman, inside and out.

She will be greatly missed by us and our children,Tori and John. They looked forward to her driving by our house to either wave or make a funny face at them. It made my kids laugh so hard and they were always on the look out for her silver SUV. When she did spend time with them this summer, all we heard for weeks afterwards was how much fun they had with her and how kind she was to them. Tori actually wanted Lyndsey to move in and share her bedroom (she said she had the extra space for Lyndsey's stuff but not anyone else).

We are praying for you all and we are always here if you need anything.

MARY GIERAT

November 4, 2006

DEAR WHITTINGHAMS

MY HEART IS BROKEN AT YOUR LOSS.I FELT YOUR LOVE FOR FAMILY EVERY TIME I WAS IN THE OFFICE.
FIND SOLACE IN THE LORD AND KNOW NOW THAT YOU WILL ALWAYS HAVE A SPECIAL ANGEL ON YOUR SHOULDER.

Nina Dambrosio

November 3, 2006

Dear Whittingham Family,

I was blessed to meet Lyndsey just this last semester before we graduated. We were in a Biology Lab together this past spring. Lyndsey and I worked across the lab bench from each other and I looked forward to seeing her smiling face every Friday afternoon. After that first day we met, she always stopped to talk with me whenever we saw each other, whether in class or around campus. She was a beautiful person and I am so blessed that I had the chance to know her, even for a short time. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with Lyndsey and your family. She was a true blessing on the John Carroll campus.

Tony & Joyce Planeta

November 3, 2006

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Elmer & Linda LaChapelle

November 3, 2006

Dr Ray and Family,
We were so sorry to hear about your great loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time

Larry and Margie Bramel

November 3, 2006

Ray and Betsy,
As I write this note, I know friends and family are surrounding you with love, deep sympathy, and support. You are constantly in our thoughts, and our hearts and prayers will be with you throughout this time of sadness and beyond. You have many warm memories of Lyndsey that will provide a source of comfort.
Love,

November 3, 2006

To the Whittingham Family,
Words can't express our sympathy for your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

Prestwick C.C. Staff

Brian & Wendy Wilson

November 3, 2006

Dear Dr Ray and Betsy,
Our deepest sympathy to your family.
You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Rita Huffman

November 3, 2006

I only talked to Lyndsey a few times and lived on the same floor as her during sophomore year; but every time I saw her she had a smile on her face and brightened my day. She was a sweet person and I'm so sorry for your loss. She and your family will be in my prayers and may God bring you comfort and healing in time.

Annette Bronson

November 3, 2006

Dr. Whittingham & Family,
I'm so sorry to hear about Lyndsey. Please know that you and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers as you go through this difficult time.

Annette Bronson/Michelle Rabka's Sister

Henrietta DeFago

November 3, 2006

Dear Mr.& Mrs. Whittingham,
I have been praying for you and your family over you loss of Lyndsey.
My daugher Erica was with Lyndsey and the other girls that dreaded evening.They all were Sorority Sisters and roomates thier Senior Year. You will be in my prayers and thoughts for a very long time.
God bless you and give you the strength to get by each day.
Always,
Henrietta DeFago

Marjorie Leahy-Boyd

November 3, 2006

Our deepest condolences

Tony Kraut

November 3, 2006

Dr. Ray & Betsy, We are overwhelmed
with grief. May God hold your family tight.

November 3, 2006

You have my deepest sympathy for the loss of your daughter. I am praying for you and your family now during this time. My daughter and yours were House mates in College and Sorority Sisters.
God Bless you

Nick Kleinhenz

November 2, 2006

To the Whittingham Family,

My thoughts and prayers go out to you at this tragic time. I was lucky enough to meet Lyndsey during my second year at John Carroll where we attended many classes together. Lyndsey’s energetic attitude and upbeat spirit will forever have a lasting impact on me. I feel as if we could all learn from Lyndsey’s positive outlook on life and carry her memory close to our hearts for years to come.

Erin Fahey

November 2, 2006

Dear Dr. Ray, Betsy, Joe, and Kevin

I want you all to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I could not believe what I heard. I really wish that i could be there this weekend to be there for you. Just know that I am constantly thinking about you. God Bless
love, Erin

liz gerske

November 2, 2006

Dearest Betsy and Ray,
Since the news of Lyndsey's acccident, our family has been aching for all of you. I now close my eyes and see beautiful Lyndsey skiing around and around and around the lake. What a talent she was, in so many ways. So vibrant and happy and always with a smile on her face.
There is no deeper pain than the one you are feeling now. Please try to find some comfort in knowing that there are so many others that are sharing that pain along with you. If only we could each take a small amount of your pain away.
Until tomorrow, when we will see you all - our love and prayers - Liz and Scott Gerske

Josh Luster

November 2, 2006

A perfect person was the least one could say about Lynds. Loving, funny, and beautiful. She will be truely missed. I love you Lynds.

nicole K

November 2, 2006

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Whittingham,

I went to JCU with Lyndsey. My heart goes out to you and your family during this time. I will keep her and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

Thanks,

nicole karlak

Justin Heinrich

November 2, 2006

Lyndsey will not only be missed by her family, but also by everyone she touched in the John Carroll Community. There was never a time when I was greeted by Lyndsey where she did not have a smile. She was loved by all. My deepest sympathies.

Alan Barth

November 2, 2006

Dear Ray & Betsy,
As many have said to me this past year, there are no words to abate the pain and grief you are experiencing. I am so very sorry for your tragic loss. I can only offer prayers for you as you go forward with your life without your daughter. For what it's worth, "the deeper that sorrow carves into your being, the more joy you can contain" (Kahlil Gibran/The Prophet). I pray you experience joy again at the earliest possible opportunity. Be strong for each other. Love to you both.

Mary Herout

November 2, 2006

My thoughts and prayers are with the whole Whittingham family and all of her friends. Lyndsey was genuinely nice to everyone... I met Lyndsey through a friend and immediately felt close to her because of her warmth and openness. I give you my sincere sympathy at this difficult time and will constantly pray for Lyndsey, her family, and friends.

God Bless,
Mary Herout

Sallye Bommarito

November 2, 2006

Dr. Mr. and Mrs. Whittingham, Joe and Kevin- I was so deeply saddened to hear about Lindsey. No words can take away your pain but I want you to know that I feel so blessed to have been able to share a few moments in her presence during her life here on earth because she truly is an angel. I remember Lindsey as being so kind and she had a warmth about her. When I picture Lindsey in my mind all I see is her beautiful smiling face. My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. Lindsey and your entire family will always have a special place in my heart. All my heartfelt love and sympathy.

Jason Boskey

November 2, 2006

Dr. Ray, Betsy, Joe, and Kevin,

I am terribly saddened and sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and hearts are with you.

Maridel Stice

November 2, 2006

Dear Nancy and Family,
I am so sorry to hear of your niece's passing. Please accept my sympathies and prayers for you and your family. Maridel

Cathy & Mike Russo

November 2, 2006

Dear Betsy, Ray, Kevin and Joe,
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this time of sorrow. Please know that you will always be in our prayers.

Marcy Farrell

November 2, 2006

Dr. and Mrs. Whittingham, Joe, and Kevin- I just wanted to express my sympathy to you. I will always remember how kind Lyndsey was to Maura and I at your cottage, every single time that we came over. She taught us how to make "smores" and just always had a way to make us feel comfortable. I'm so sorry for your loss.

Elaine Bryan

November 2, 2006

Dear Ray, Betsy, and Family,
My prayers are sent out to you and your family. I send my deepest sympathy to you all, and you are in my thoughts.

John van der Oord

November 2, 2006

My deepest sympathies go out to the Whittingham family. Lyndsey was loved and is missed by so many people, it is impossible to express the level of sincere sympathy that is felt at this time of loss.

Respectfully,

John van der Oord

Cindi Patula

November 2, 2006

Kevin and family: Please accept my sincere condolences on the passing of your sister. You and your family will be in my prayers.

Cindi Patula
former co-worker at Harris NA

Hamed Hamad

November 2, 2006

I didn't know Lyndsey, but may God rest her soul. I am also a JCU graduate, and never seen this gracious lady. Yet when I pulled up her photo, I felt as if I had known her for a lifetime. Again, God bless her and her family. Be strong...it's the only way to move on with Lyndsey in your minds and hearts.

Ken Pasiewicz

November 2, 2006

Dear Ray, Betsy, and Family,
Leslie and I are very saddened by the news of your immense loss. Our hearts feel for you and your entire family at this tragic time.
Our deepest sympathy

Kristin Platz

November 2, 2006

Whittingham Family,
As I am sure you already know Lynds had a spirit unlike anyone else. Such a wonderful heart and love for all people. She will never be forgotten and we will all miss her beyond belief.

Megan Warren

November 2, 2006

The Whittingham Family,

Lyndsey had an amazing spirit and energy that touched everyone around her. She will be missed always. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Theta Love and all of mine
Always,
Megan

Mary Lu & Ted Sweeney

November 2, 2006

Dear Nancy, Ken and Family, Ted and I send our deepest sympathy and prayers to you at this awful time.We ask God to help you through the difficult days ahead. May God hold Lyndsey in the palm of His hand until we meet her again. Mary Lu and Ted Sweeney

Mike and Lisa Wells

November 2, 2006

Ray and Betsy,
There are no words to express our sorrow for your loss or that will provide comfort today. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers as Lyndsey is in God's loving hands. Our sincerest sympathy.

Michelle Rabka

November 2, 2006

Ray, Betsy & Family

Please accept our sincere sympathy on your loss of Lyndsey. We just spoke of Lyndsey last week and I can honestly tell you the gleam in both of your eyes when you spoke of her was so apparent.

I know your hearts are broken. Please know that both you and the boys will be in our prayers always.

Love, Peace & Prayers,
The Rabka's
Michelle, Amanda, Andrew, & Alyssa

Jeff Buonomo

November 2, 2006

Lyndsey was a great friend at Marian and was always in good spirits! We shared many laughs and she will be greatly missed.

Lisa Figlewski

November 2, 2006

Dr.W, Betsy, Joe and Kevin,
We want you to know that you are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. There are no words we can say that will ease your pain, but please know your angel Lyndsey is in our thoughts always.
Patrick, Lisa, Andrew and Kate Figlewski

Heather & Jimmy D'Angelo

November 2, 2006

Dear Dr.Whittingham and Family,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. We hope you will soon find peace in your hearts.

Mark, Paula and Ross Richardson

November 2, 2006

To the Whittingham Family,

We are so very sorry for your loss. Please know our prayers and thoughts are with you at this difficult time.

Greg and Roberta Petrasek

November 2, 2006

Lyndsey's Family,
Our daughter Bianchi was a sorority sister of Lyndsey's at John Carroll. She has spoken so highly of Lyndsey, how much fun she was, her acts of craziness, the things she had to offer this world, and her extraordinary gift of friendship. As Bianchi mourns the loss of a very dear friend, we want you to know that last weekend Lyndsey became everyones's sister, and everyone's daughter. Even in death she gave the ultimate gift, the gift of life by becoming an organ donor. We now pray that God who gave you the gift of Lyndsey will heal your hearts as you return Lyndsey to Him. With our deepest sympathy.

cheryl lewkowski

November 2, 2006

Dear Dr.W, Betsy & Family,
I can't begin to tell you how sad this news has made us. Your Lyndsey was a beautiful, & sweet girl. WE know There are no words that we can say to help you feel better at this most difficult time in your lives, but please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers constantly, and always nearby if there is ever anything we can do to help. Remember that Lyndsey is with you all the time,and you will be together again.
With our deepest love & sympathies, Nick& Cheryl Lewkowski & family.

Glenda Fahey

November 2, 2006

Dear Betsy, Ray, Joe, and Kevin,
I know there are no words that could possibly convey the sorrow in your hearts over losing your beloved Lyndsey. And there isn't anything anyone could say to you to ease your grief, but please know you are constantly in my thoughts and in my prayers as you face these difficult days ahead. If there is anything I can do - ANYTHING - please, please let me know. May God Bless You and help you through this.
Love to you all,
Glenda

Sarah Johnson

November 2, 2006

Lyndsey was the kind of person who could always put a smile on your face, and she was definitely one of the most beautiful people that I have ever had the pleasure of meeting.

I'll miss you Lynds

Dr. Linda Eisenmann

November 2, 2006

To the Whittingham Family,

We are so sorry for this immeasurable loss.

Dr. Linda Eisenmann, Dean
College of Arts & Sciences
John Carroll University

Rob & Carol Dietel

November 2, 2006

Dearest Ray, Betsy & family,
Our family was extremely saddened to hear about Lyndsey. While we never formally met Lyndsey, we feel like we knew her at least a little through ongoing conversations with Ray. Please know that you will be in our thoughts and prayers during this most difficult time in your life.

Lyle, Colleen & Lauren Collins

November 2, 2006

Ray, Betsy, and family,
We are so sorry to hear about Lyndsey. You are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time and the days ahead. Please let us know if we can do anything for you.

Bill and Julie Hein

November 2, 2006

We know there is nothing we can say to make you feel better. Just know that our thoughts and prayers are with you.

William Bichl

November 2, 2006

Dear Betsy, Ray, Joe, Kevin, and Sean,
My heart goes out to all of you at this terribly tragic time for you.Be sure that Lyndsey is much in my thoughts and prayers now, and will be continually.I will be offering Mass for her (and for all of you) in the near future -- not just at the funeral on Saturday. Rejoice in having had Lyndsey in your life all these years, and together let us look forward to our reunion with her in God's Presence.
Fr. William Bichl, SJ (JCU)

JOYCE ISBELL

November 2, 2006

DEAR RAY, BETSY & FAMILY,
OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU ...OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHY
JIM,JOYCE & RAY ISBELL

Marie Hoppert

November 2, 2006

To the Whittingham family,

Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. When such a tragic death of a young person from JCU occurs it touches all of us at JCU. My daughter Melanie graduated in May from JCU with Lyndsey and sends her prayers to you from North Carolina. Pray for strength to help you through this and be at peace to know that Lyndsey is now in a peaceful place.

Sincerely,

Marie Hoppert
Secretary - Transfer Admission Office - JCU

Peter Bernardo

November 2, 2006

My prayers are with you at this time of loss. I cannot imagine the grief that must accompany the loss of a child and one so full of promise. We at John Carroll University will have a mass said in your daughters memory.

Rick and Therese Hrad

November 2, 2006

Dear Betsy and Ray,
Our heartfelt sympathy to you and your family. May all your memories of Lyndsey help comfort you at this difficult time. We will keep Lyndsey and your family in our thoughts and prayers.

Mary & Tim Freeman

November 2, 2006

Ray & Betsy,
Our hearts and prayers are with you.

CJ Burhenne

November 2, 2006

You have my deepest sympathy and you are in my prayers. God bless you.

Dawn Urewicz

November 2, 2006

My prayers are with you during this time of sorrow. I didn't know Lyndsey personally, but Betsie always glowed when she spoke of her

Michael McCarthy

November 2, 2006

My prayers are with you.

November 2, 2006

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2006

Chris & Mary Jensen

November 2, 2006

Dear Betsy, Ray & family,

Our hearts and prayers are with all of you during this very sad and difficult time.

With great love & concern,

Kathleen Berry

November 2, 2006

Ray, Betsy and family, I was so sad to hear about Lindsey and want to extend my deepest sympathies to all of you. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time. Please know that I am with you in spirit. May God bless you.

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