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Donna Andrasco
December 26, 2006
Dear Betsy & Family,
I heard the sad news about your daughter Lyndsey a couple of weeks ago and you have been in my thoughts and prayer daily since that time. I did not know Lyndsey but I know she was a beautiful loving daughter from a wonderful family. Only a parent who loses a child can know your grief, but know that your friends(even those from your past at Queen of Peace) are here for you. Please call me if there is anything I can do for you, Nancy or your family. Hold onto your faith and know that Lyndsey is in a better place and you will see her again.
Richard,Dale Robertson and Amanda
November 30, 2006
Ray, Betsy and family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. I can only imagine the pain you are feeling. Have comfort in knowing you will see her again in a better place.
Hyundai Buyers
November 16, 2006
We are sorry for your loss. We were customers of Lyndsey, she was very gracious and courteous to us. She was thought very highly around here.
Jessica Pesha
November 14, 2006
I have many memories of PCC swim meets and practices with Lyndsey. She was a great swimmer and a natural leader. Even years later, she always said hello and made me smile. In her short time she touched so many lives, including mine. I will forever remember her with a smile.
Peggy Kelly Wytrwal
November 14, 2006
Dear Dr. Ray and Betsy,
I was a fellow classmate at Peace with Betsy and lived in Frankfort before moving away. I received the terrible news just yesterday of your precious daughter's passing. I cannot imagine the heart ache you must feel, as I would be inconsolable if my daughters were called to Heaven. I lost my only sister when I was 7, but my strong faith in God still consoles me knowing I will see her again. May God Bless you at this time and may He hold you in the palm of His hand.
Julieann Murray
November 12, 2006
Our deepest sympathies as we just heard the news. You are in our prayers and thoughts as always.
The Murray Family
Sandy Darr
November 8, 2006
To: The Whittingham Family, We don't know each other. I'm very sorry for the loss of your daughter Lindsey. She sounds like she was a wonderful young lady. I know what you are going through. I lost my son Brad Darr on September 2, 2006. He got killed on his Dad's Birtday, He's also buried at Pleasant Hills Cemetery. My son was 25 years old. My prayers and thoughts go out to your family. My Phone # (708) 720-2584 if you need someone to talk to.May God give you comfort.
Meredith Bulan
November 7, 2006
Dr. Ray, Betsy, Joe and Kevin:
I was heartbroken to hear about Lyndsey. I fondly remember babysitting her and helping with swim lessons at PCC. She was such a sweet girl. I imagine that she was an even more amazing young woman. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Meredith, Jason, Emma and Elijah Bulan (Merritt Powell and family)
Melanie (Bertrand) & Paul Koreman
November 6, 2006
Lyndsey will be remembered forever. Our prayers are with you during this very difficult time.
The last memory we have of Lyndsey was her sitting with her mom at PCC enjoying a quiet summer evening, letting my young daughters gravitate towards her. She brought a smile to both of their faces that will never be forgotten.
Carmella Kimble
November 6, 2006
Dr. Ray, Betsy, and sons,
Lyndsey was one of the special few. Her radiant kindness drew people to her. To lose her so young is very hard. May your faith, friends and family support you during this difficult time. Please accept our sincere condolences.
Jim, Carmella, Chris & Katie Kimble
and Alice Mendez
Nicole Gaudiuso (Geisler)
November 6, 2006
Dear Dr. Ray, Betsy, Kevin, and Joe,
My family and I were absolutely heartbroken by the news of your loss. Mrs. Whittingham, you used to drive Joe, Tammy and I home freshmen year from Marian Catholic. I know that no words can express your loss. I remember how you would always talk about your daughter. She will be greatly missed.
Sincerely,
Nicole, Marino, and Arabella Hope Gaudiuso
Michelle and Jim Teutemacher and Jonathon Paprocki
November 5, 2006
Dear Whittingham Family,
We are so sorry for your loss. You will be in our prayers.
Lee Gallaher
November 5, 2006
Please accept our sincere sympathy.
Lee Gallaher Family
Burr Ridge/Sister Lakes
Abby McJury
November 5, 2006
Dear Whittingham Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with your family in this difficult time. I lived down the hall from Lyndsey sophomore year. I would always look forward to seeing her smiling face in the hall. She always had a kind word to say and she truly was one of the most genuinely kind people I have ever met. As you already know she will be greatly missed by all who have crossed her path.
Bianchi "Chi Chi" Petrasek
November 5, 2006
Dr. and Mrs. Whittingham and family,
Lyndsey was an exceptional young woman. As I mourn this tragic loss I can only sit back and think of the fun times I’ve shared with her and a smile comes to my face as she was the only person I have ever known to constantly be smiling and laughing. It was a guaranteed good time when anyone was with her. She touched my life as a friend, and will stay in my heart as my sorority sister. Even in death she was truly a woman for others by giving the gift of life. During this difficult time may you find God’s peace and comfort through memories of Lyndsey’s laughter. I love you Lynds.
Rebecca Olchawa Barker
November 5, 2006
Dear Whittingham family:
I grew up in Prestwick and knew Lyndsey, Joe and Kevin as we all swam on the Prestwick swim team. She was such a sweet, smart and caring young girl. Allow your memories comfort you during this very difficult time. My thoughts are with you all.
November 4, 2006
To the Whittingham Family
Our family would like to extend to you our deepest sympathy. We pray all the great memories and good times with Lyndsey bring you comfort and peace.
Tim, Vanessa, James & Jill Mummaw
Denise & John Nyholt
November 4, 2006
Dear Dr & Mrs Whittingham,
Deepest, deepest sadness regarding the loss of your daughter Lyndsey. Our hearts just ache for you. May the many, many prayers in her honor help you uphold your strength to face each day with faith and trust.
(Love and prayers from an old family of patients and best friends of the Lewkowski's.)
Eric and Tara Kristoff
November 4, 2006
Dear Dr. Whittingham and Mrs. Whittingham,
We are so sorry to hear about Lyndsey. She was a kind and beautiful woman, inside and out.
She will be greatly missed by us and our children,Tori and John. They looked forward to her driving by our house to either wave or make a funny face at them. It made my kids laugh so hard and they were always on the look out for her silver SUV. When she did spend time with them this summer, all we heard for weeks afterwards was how much fun they had with her and how kind she was to them. Tori actually wanted Lyndsey to move in and share her bedroom (she said she had the extra space for Lyndsey's stuff but not anyone else).
We are praying for you all and we are always here if you need anything.
MARY GIERAT
November 4, 2006
DEAR WHITTINGHAMS
MY HEART IS BROKEN AT YOUR LOSS.I FELT YOUR LOVE FOR FAMILY EVERY TIME I WAS IN THE OFFICE.
FIND SOLACE IN THE LORD AND KNOW NOW THAT YOU WILL ALWAYS HAVE A SPECIAL ANGEL ON YOUR SHOULDER.
Nina Dambrosio
November 3, 2006
Dear Whittingham Family,
I was blessed to meet Lyndsey just this last semester before we graduated. We were in a Biology Lab together this past spring. Lyndsey and I worked across the lab bench from each other and I looked forward to seeing her smiling face every Friday afternoon. After that first day we met, she always stopped to talk with me whenever we saw each other, whether in class or around campus. She was a beautiful person and I am so blessed that I had the chance to know her, even for a short time. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with Lyndsey and your family. She was a true blessing on the John Carroll campus.
Tony & Joyce Planeta
November 3, 2006
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Elmer & Linda LaChapelle
November 3, 2006
Dr Ray and Family,
We were so sorry to hear about your great loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time
Larry and Margie Bramel
November 3, 2006
Ray and Betsy,
As I write this note, I know friends and family are surrounding you with love, deep sympathy, and support. You are constantly in our thoughts, and our hearts and prayers will be with you throughout this time of sadness and beyond. You have many warm memories of Lyndsey that will provide a source of comfort.
Love,
November 3, 2006
To the Whittingham Family,
Words can't express our sympathy for your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Prestwick C.C. Staff
Brian & Wendy Wilson
November 3, 2006
Dear Dr Ray and Betsy,
Our deepest sympathy to your family.
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Rita Huffman
November 3, 2006
I only talked to Lyndsey a few times and lived on the same floor as her during sophomore year; but every time I saw her she had a smile on her face and brightened my day. She was a sweet person and I'm so sorry for your loss. She and your family will be in my prayers and may God bring you comfort and healing in time.
Annette Bronson
November 3, 2006
Dr. Whittingham & Family,
I'm so sorry to hear about Lyndsey. Please know that you and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers as you go through this difficult time.
Annette Bronson/Michelle Rabka's Sister
Henrietta DeFago
November 3, 2006
Dear Mr.& Mrs. Whittingham,
I have been praying for you and your family over you loss of Lyndsey.
My daugher Erica was with Lyndsey and the other girls that dreaded evening.They all were Sorority Sisters and roomates thier Senior Year. You will be in my prayers and thoughts for a very long time.
God bless you and give you the strength to get by each day.
Always,
Henrietta DeFago
Marjorie Leahy-Boyd
November 3, 2006
Our deepest condolences
Tony Kraut
November 3, 2006
Dr. Ray & Betsy, We are overwhelmed
with grief. May God hold your family tight.
November 3, 2006
You have my deepest sympathy for the loss of your daughter. I am praying for you and your family now during this time. My daughter and yours were House mates in College and Sorority Sisters.
God Bless you
Nick Kleinhenz
November 2, 2006
To the Whittingham Family,
My thoughts and prayers go out to you at this tragic time. I was lucky enough to meet Lyndsey during my second year at John Carroll where we attended many classes together. Lyndsey’s energetic attitude and upbeat spirit will forever have a lasting impact on me. I feel as if we could all learn from Lyndsey’s positive outlook on life and carry her memory close to our hearts for years to come.
Erin Fahey
November 2, 2006
Dear Dr. Ray, Betsy, Joe, and Kevin
I want you all to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I could not believe what I heard. I really wish that i could be there this weekend to be there for you. Just know that I am constantly thinking about you. God Bless
love, Erin
liz gerske
November 2, 2006
Dearest Betsy and Ray,
Since the news of Lyndsey's acccident, our family has been aching for all of you. I now close my eyes and see beautiful Lyndsey skiing around and around and around the lake. What a talent she was, in so many ways. So vibrant and happy and always with a smile on her face.
There is no deeper pain than the one you are feeling now. Please try to find some comfort in knowing that there are so many others that are sharing that pain along with you. If only we could each take a small amount of your pain away.
Until tomorrow, when we will see you all - our love and prayers - Liz and Scott Gerske
Josh Luster
November 2, 2006
A perfect person was the least one could say about Lynds. Loving, funny, and beautiful. She will be truely missed. I love you Lynds.
nicole K
November 2, 2006
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Whittingham,
I went to JCU with Lyndsey. My heart goes out to you and your family during this time. I will keep her and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
Thanks,
nicole karlak
Justin Heinrich
November 2, 2006
Lyndsey will not only be missed by her family, but also by everyone she touched in the John Carroll Community. There was never a time when I was greeted by Lyndsey where she did not have a smile. She was loved by all. My deepest sympathies.
Alan Barth
November 2, 2006
Dear Ray & Betsy,
As many have said to me this past year, there are no words to abate the pain and grief you are experiencing. I am so very sorry for your tragic loss. I can only offer prayers for you as you go forward with your life without your daughter. For what it's worth, "the deeper that sorrow carves into your being, the more joy you can contain" (Kahlil Gibran/The Prophet). I pray you experience joy again at the earliest possible opportunity. Be strong for each other. Love to you both.
Mary Herout
November 2, 2006
My thoughts and prayers are with the whole Whittingham family and all of her friends. Lyndsey was genuinely nice to everyone... I met Lyndsey through a friend and immediately felt close to her because of her warmth and openness. I give you my sincere sympathy at this difficult time and will constantly pray for Lyndsey, her family, and friends.
God Bless,
Mary Herout
Sallye Bommarito
November 2, 2006
Dr. Mr. and Mrs. Whittingham, Joe and Kevin- I was so deeply saddened to hear about Lindsey. No words can take away your pain but I want you to know that I feel so blessed to have been able to share a few moments in her presence during her life here on earth because she truly is an angel. I remember Lindsey as being so kind and she had a warmth about her. When I picture Lindsey in my mind all I see is her beautiful smiling face. My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. Lindsey and your entire family will always have a special place in my heart. All my heartfelt love and sympathy.
Jason Boskey
November 2, 2006
Dr. Ray, Betsy, Joe, and Kevin,
I am terribly saddened and sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and hearts are with you.
Maridel Stice
November 2, 2006
Dear Nancy and Family,
I am so sorry to hear of your niece's passing. Please accept my sympathies and prayers for you and your family. Maridel
Cathy & Mike Russo
November 2, 2006
Dear Betsy, Ray, Kevin and Joe,
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this time of sorrow. Please know that you will always be in our prayers.
Marcy Farrell
November 2, 2006
Dr. and Mrs. Whittingham, Joe, and Kevin- I just wanted to express my sympathy to you. I will always remember how kind Lyndsey was to Maura and I at your cottage, every single time that we came over. She taught us how to make "smores" and just always had a way to make us feel comfortable. I'm so sorry for your loss.
Elaine Bryan
November 2, 2006
Dear Ray, Betsy, and Family,
My prayers are sent out to you and your family. I send my deepest sympathy to you all, and you are in my thoughts.
John van der Oord
November 2, 2006
My deepest sympathies go out to the Whittingham family. Lyndsey was loved and is missed by so many people, it is impossible to express the level of sincere sympathy that is felt at this time of loss.
Respectfully,
John van der Oord
Cindi Patula
November 2, 2006
Kevin and family: Please accept my sincere condolences on the passing of your sister. You and your family will be in my prayers.
Cindi Patula
former co-worker at Harris NA
Hamed Hamad
November 2, 2006
I didn't know Lyndsey, but may God rest her soul. I am also a JCU graduate, and never seen this gracious lady. Yet when I pulled up her photo, I felt as if I had known her for a lifetime. Again, God bless her and her family. Be strong...it's the only way to move on with Lyndsey in your minds and hearts.
Ken Pasiewicz
November 2, 2006
Dear Ray, Betsy, and Family,
Leslie and I are very saddened by the news of your immense loss. Our hearts feel for you and your entire family at this tragic time.
Our deepest sympathy
Kristin Platz
November 2, 2006
Whittingham Family,
As I am sure you already know Lynds had a spirit unlike anyone else. Such a wonderful heart and love for all people. She will never be forgotten and we will all miss her beyond belief.
Megan Warren
November 2, 2006
The Whittingham Family,
Lyndsey had an amazing spirit and energy that touched everyone around her. She will be missed always. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Theta Love and all of mine
Always,
Megan
Mary Lu & Ted Sweeney
November 2, 2006
Dear Nancy, Ken and Family, Ted and I send our deepest sympathy and prayers to you at this awful time.We ask God to help you through the difficult days ahead. May God hold Lyndsey in the palm of His hand until we meet her again. Mary Lu and Ted Sweeney
Mike and Lisa Wells
November 2, 2006
Ray and Betsy,
There are no words to express our sorrow for your loss or that will provide comfort today. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers as Lyndsey is in God's loving hands. Our sincerest sympathy.
Michelle Rabka
November 2, 2006
Ray, Betsy & Family
Please accept our sincere sympathy on your loss of Lyndsey. We just spoke of Lyndsey last week and I can honestly tell you the gleam in both of your eyes when you spoke of her was so apparent.
I know your hearts are broken. Please know that both you and the boys will be in our prayers always.
Love, Peace & Prayers,
The Rabka's
Michelle, Amanda, Andrew, & Alyssa
Jeff Buonomo
November 2, 2006
Lyndsey was a great friend at Marian and was always in good spirits! We shared many laughs and she will be greatly missed.
Lisa Figlewski
November 2, 2006
Dr.W, Betsy, Joe and Kevin,
We want you to know that you are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. There are no words we can say that will ease your pain, but please know your angel Lyndsey is in our thoughts always.
Patrick, Lisa, Andrew and Kate Figlewski
Heather & Jimmy D'Angelo
November 2, 2006
Dear Dr.Whittingham and Family,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. We hope you will soon find peace in your hearts.
Mark, Paula and Ross Richardson
November 2, 2006
To the Whittingham Family,
We are so very sorry for your loss. Please know our prayers and thoughts are with you at this difficult time.
Greg and Roberta Petrasek
November 2, 2006
Lyndsey's Family,
Our daughter Bianchi was a sorority sister of Lyndsey's at John Carroll. She has spoken so highly of Lyndsey, how much fun she was, her acts of craziness, the things she had to offer this world, and her extraordinary gift of friendship. As Bianchi mourns the loss of a very dear friend, we want you to know that last weekend Lyndsey became everyones's sister, and everyone's daughter. Even in death she gave the ultimate gift, the gift of life by becoming an organ donor. We now pray that God who gave you the gift of Lyndsey will heal your hearts as you return Lyndsey to Him. With our deepest sympathy.
cheryl lewkowski
November 2, 2006
Dear Dr.W, Betsy & Family,
I can't begin to tell you how sad this news has made us. Your Lyndsey was a beautiful, & sweet girl. WE know There are no words that we can say to help you feel better at this most difficult time in your lives, but please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers constantly, and always nearby if there is ever anything we can do to help. Remember that Lyndsey is with you all the time,and you will be together again.
With our deepest love & sympathies, Nick& Cheryl Lewkowski & family.
Glenda Fahey
November 2, 2006
Dear Betsy, Ray, Joe, and Kevin,
I know there are no words that could possibly convey the sorrow in your hearts over losing your beloved Lyndsey. And there isn't anything anyone could say to you to ease your grief, but please know you are constantly in my thoughts and in my prayers as you face these difficult days ahead. If there is anything I can do - ANYTHING - please, please let me know. May God Bless You and help you through this.
Love to you all,
Glenda
Sarah Johnson
November 2, 2006
Lyndsey was the kind of person who could always put a smile on your face, and she was definitely one of the most beautiful people that I have ever had the pleasure of meeting.
I'll miss you Lynds
Dr. Linda Eisenmann
November 2, 2006
To the Whittingham Family,
We are so sorry for this immeasurable loss.
Dr. Linda Eisenmann, Dean
College of Arts & Sciences
John Carroll University
Rob & Carol Dietel
November 2, 2006
Dearest Ray, Betsy & family,
Our family was extremely saddened to hear about Lyndsey. While we never formally met Lyndsey, we feel like we knew her at least a little through ongoing conversations with Ray. Please know that you will be in our thoughts and prayers during this most difficult time in your life.
Lyle, Colleen & Lauren Collins
November 2, 2006
Ray, Betsy, and family,
We are so sorry to hear about Lyndsey. You are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time and the days ahead. Please let us know if we can do anything for you.
Bill and Julie Hein
November 2, 2006
We know there is nothing we can say to make you feel better. Just know that our thoughts and prayers are with you.
William Bichl
November 2, 2006
Dear Betsy, Ray, Joe, Kevin, and Sean,
My heart goes out to all of you at this terribly tragic time for you.Be sure that Lyndsey is much in my thoughts and prayers now, and will be continually.I will be offering Mass for her (and for all of you) in the near future -- not just at the funeral on Saturday. Rejoice in having had Lyndsey in your life all these years, and together let us look forward to our reunion with her in God's Presence.
Fr. William Bichl, SJ (JCU)
JOYCE ISBELL
November 2, 2006
DEAR RAY, BETSY & FAMILY,
OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU ...OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHY
JIM,JOYCE & RAY ISBELL
Marie Hoppert
November 2, 2006
To the Whittingham family,
Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. When such a tragic death of a young person from JCU occurs it touches all of us at JCU. My daughter Melanie graduated in May from JCU with Lyndsey and sends her prayers to you from North Carolina. Pray for strength to help you through this and be at peace to know that Lyndsey is now in a peaceful place.
Sincerely,
Marie Hoppert
Secretary - Transfer Admission Office - JCU
Peter Bernardo
November 2, 2006
My prayers are with you at this time of loss. I cannot imagine the grief that must accompany the loss of a child and one so full of promise. We at John Carroll University will have a mass said in your daughters memory.
Rick and Therese Hrad
November 2, 2006
Dear Betsy and Ray,
Our heartfelt sympathy to you and your family. May all your memories of Lyndsey help comfort you at this difficult time. We will keep Lyndsey and your family in our thoughts and prayers.
Mary & Tim Freeman
November 2, 2006
Ray & Betsy,
Our hearts and prayers are with you.
CJ Burhenne
November 2, 2006
You have my deepest sympathy and you are in my prayers. God bless you.
Dawn Urewicz
November 2, 2006
My prayers are with you during this time of sorrow. I didn't know Lyndsey personally, but Betsie always glowed when she spoke of her
Michael McCarthy
November 2, 2006
My prayers are with you.
November 2, 2006
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2006
Chris & Mary Jensen
November 2, 2006
Dear Betsy, Ray & family,
Our hearts and prayers are with all of you during this very sad and difficult time.
With great love & concern,
Kathleen Berry
November 2, 2006
Ray, Betsy and family, I was so sad to hear about Lindsey and want to extend my deepest sympathies to all of you. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time. Please know that I am with you in spirit. May God bless you.
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