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Larry Bailey Obituary

Larry Bailey
CHOCOWINITY - Larry Bailey passed peacefully in his sleep in his Chocowinity, NC home on May 22nd at the age of 85. A
native of Marshall, Texas, he graduated from Marshall High School in 1957, and, in 1962, he obtained a BS
degree from Stephen F. Austin State College in Nacogdoches, TX and later earned a master's degree in
education from East Carolina University.
Larry was sworn into the U.S. Navy in June 1962 upon entering Naval Officer's Candidate School at Newport, RI. Upon graduation, Ensign Bailey was assigned to the USS Leary (DDR-879) as Assistant Engineering Officer. Not finding destroyers to his liking, he volunteered for Underwater Demolition Team Replacement Training, the precursor of today's BUD/S, or Basic UDT/SEAL, training. A career Navy SEAL, he served in a variety of leadership positions in the SEAL Teams and their precursor, Underwater Demolition Teams (UDT). He participated in the 1965 invasion of the Dominican Republic and where he first came under enemy fire. In 1967, he commanded one of the first SEAL Team TWO platoons to deploy to Vietnam, where he conducted numerous combat and intelligence-gathering operations.
Following his return from Vietnam, Larry left the Navy briefly in 1968, where he worked for a year as Executive Director of the Tarrant County, TX, Republican Party.
Returning to the Navy, Larry held Special Operations leadership roles at the US Southern Command in the Panama Canal Zone and as the Navy Section Chief at the US Military Group in La Paz, Bolivia. Returning to the US, he was one of the first Naval Officers assigned to the newly formed Joint Special Operations Command (JSOC) in Fayetteville, NC. In 1982, he assumed command of Naval Special Warfare Unit TWO at the Royal Air Force Base in Machrihanish, Scotland, where he spent three years overseeing the activities of all SEAL operations in the European Theatre. Upon completing that tour of duty, CAPT Bailey received orders to report as Commanding Officer of the Naval Special Warfare Center, US Naval Amphibious Base, Coronado, CA, where he oversaw the basic training of entry-level SEALs. Larry spent his final two years in the Navy at the US Special Operations Command (SOCOM) at MacDill Air Force Base in Tampa, FL, where he retired from active duty in 1990.
Larry's awards include the Defense Superior Service Medal, Legion of Merit with Gold Star, Bronze Star Medal with Combat Valor Device, Special Warfare Insignia (SEAL Badge), and numerous other personal and campaign medals.
Larry was a prolific author and speaker on military subjects and has worked at a number of non-profit, educational, and patriotic organizations since his retirement. CAPT Bailey was a lifetime member of the American Legion, the VFW, the UDT-SEAL Association, the UDT-SEAL Museum Association, and the National Rifle Association.
Larry is survived by his wife, the former Judy Alligood of Elizabeth City, NC; his sisters, Betty Martin and Jo- Nell Rogers; and their two children, Tucker Bailey (Hillary) and Hallie Heiter (John).
In accordance with his wishes, Larry's ashes will be swum out to sea by active-duty SEAL brethren at the UDT- SEAL Museum in Ft. Pearce, FL on Memorial Day 2026.
Paul Funeral Home & Crematory of Washington is honored to serve the Bailey family.

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Published by The Daily Advance on Jun. 4, 2025.

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Rick Anderson

September 19, 2025

I just found out about Capt. Bailey's passing. Capt. Larry Baily was my Commanding Officer in BUD/S in 1988, and we have become friends ever since, even working together after our Navy service during my time hunting cartel and other violent fugitives in South Texas and internationally to the south. Further, when I went to West Africa working undercover as a chief diver on a diamond mining operation, Capt. Bailey was instrumental with his Team contacts, who assisted me in the region that aided my operations.

Capt. Bailey has always been one of my most staunch supporters over the decades, right up to the last time we spoke and texted each other on the phone and through WhatsApp this spring, probably literally days before he passed away. We often spoke a few times a year, nearly every year, since we served in the Navy.

Capt. Bailey was a leader who treated everyone, regardless of rank, with amazing dignity and respect. I was just a lowly E-3 going through BUD/S, who was a professional firefighter and law enforcement officer before being recruited into the Divefarer Program, when Capt. Bailey took a personal interest in my progress through BUD/S. Capt. Bailey was such a Commanding Officer, unlike most - he often called you by your first name and was very personable with those under his command. If I had to, I would have followed Capt. Bailey into anything, and there was a trust in his leadership that he inspired in me that I have always deeply respected. I did not only respect his position, I also respected Capt. Bailey personally, very genuinely.

Thank you, Capt. Bailey for being an amazing Commanding Officer, friend, and staunch supporter through the decades! Words cannot do justice. May you rest peacefully until the first resurrection in Christ! You are surely missed, my friend!

Michael Hanley

September 6, 2025

I learned yesterday, September 5th, of Larry's death. As far as I remember there was no notice by Cypress Landing HOA.

I met Larry's in front of the CL Golf Club several years ago and agreed we'd meet regularly at the Fitness Center which we did for an extended period – I honestly don't remember which one of us broke the covenant.

Needless to say, Larry's was a very interesting person from whom I learned a lot. May God hold him in the palm of His hand.

Pat Lewis

June 13, 2025

Judy, I was so sorry to read about Larry's passing. Prayers for you and your family.

David Russo

June 12, 2025

It was an honor and privilege to know Captain Bailey, who was a Patriots Patriot. God bless his memory and my condolences to his family. Thank you for your service and friendship, sir.

Carolyn VanZorge

June 12, 2025

Larry was a good man, and a good patriot.
I got to know him through my affiliation with The Gathering of Eagles........
may he rest in peace and calm

Shirley B Diehl

June 8, 2025

What an amazing Patriot ! He will be greatly missed.. Rest In Peace Captain.

Beverly Perlson

June 7, 2025

Capt Larry Bailey was a truly Great American Patriot, in every sense of the word. We in the military support community will miss him dearly. There isn't anything Larry wouldn't do in support of this country he loved so much. We will miss you Larry, and we will never forget you. It was an honor and priviliedge to know you. Until we meet again, may God hold you in the palm of His hand.

John Mccasland

June 6, 2025

Captain Bailey was one of the 2 most influential people in my life. I can say enough about him. He will be dearly missed.

Patricia Eubank

June 5, 2025

What a wonderful Man, I was blessed to have known him. Prayers for his family!

Patricia Eubank

June 5, 2025

I was blessed to have had Captain Larry Bailey in my corner as a kid. Always have and always will consider him a friend.

Michael E Hayes

June 5, 2025

Larry was a personal friend dating back to qm1964. Larry and I were mentally aligned with interests in anthropology, and also ethereal topics like Edgar Cayce teachings. I was making arrangements to visit, living 2 hours away. It was very sad for me when son Tucker contacted me to let me know about his dad's passing. Rest in peace Larry. See you on another ride. Michael E Hayes Outer Banks NC.

Hood Richardson

June 5, 2025

I am so sorry we lost Larry. I always found his values to be in the right place.

Robert and Fonda Gautier

June 4, 2025

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends. Continued prayers for you and your family!

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