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Michael Curtin Obituary
Water recoveries. Auto extractions. Cajoling deranged gunmen into straitjackets. Talking jilted lovers down from a ledge on the George Washington Bridge. As squad sergeant for Truck Company 2 of the Police Department's Emergency Service Unit, Michael Curtin never knew what kind of risky rescue operation he and his men might be asked to perform on any given day.
But he believed in being prepared. On Sundays or slow days, when New York residents managed to keep themselves out of mortal peril, Sergeant Curtin, 45, a former marine who served in the Gulf War, did not let his squad members just sit around. Instead, he would drill them on old skills and teach them new ones — like how to wire a police van by tapping into a telephone pole.
"If you wanted an epitome of an E cop, that would be Michael Curtin," said Robert Yaeger, an officer with Truck 2, using the police lingo for an Emergency Service Unit officer. "He was always thinking on his feet and wanted you to think on your feet, too."
Not that Sergeant Curtin was all work and no play. At the end of those Sunday morning training sessions, he would fry up an outsize Marine Corps breakfast for all: sloppy eggs, sausage and bacon seasoned with his favorite red, blue and green spices.
On Sept. 11, Sergeant Curtin, the father of three athletic teenage girls, was due back in the kitchen of his home in Medford, N.Y., again -- this time, to make a birthday dinner for his wife, Helga.
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Memories and Condolences
for Michael Curtin
Derek Curtin
November 26, 2024
Was Michael the brother of my late father Edwin Arthur Curtin Toronto
Kayle f a 9th grader
September 11, 2023
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.
Mike Killeen
September 17, 2021
My sincere apologies for not posting sooner Mike, I guess it took the 20th anniversary of 9/11 to highlight how fast the years go by. I knew Mike mostly thru the high school years, but I believe we crossed paths once or twice when we were at the same duty station in the Marines. When Mike was a DI he found out my younger brother Kevin was in boot camp and took the time to check in on him to be sure he was OK. I was never sure what he meant by "Check in on him" but my guess is to probably got Kevin some extra PT!
During our senior year Mike was at my house and I introduced him to my father, Francis Killeen (GySgt USMC). My father, ever the recruiter, was always on the lookout for "a few good men" and he took an instant liking to Mike. Mike really was the perfect Marine candidate and my father knew it. A few weeks after they initially met, I came home to find Mike at my house, not to hang out with me, but to meet with my dad! He was there for hours listening to all my father's stories about his time in WWll, Korea, and Vietnam. I guess I had heard the stories so many times I never appreciated them as much as someone hearing them for the first time. The stories and my father's enthusiasm really lit a fire under Mike. They met regularly up until the day Mike left for Paris Island. When Mike came home on leave he almost always made a stop to see my father.
My father passed in 1999 and thankfully was not here for 9/11, it would have broken his heart to find out Mike had been taken from us, especially by such a cowardly terrorist act.
My sincere condolences to Mike's family and his many friends
Mike you are a true hero and gave the ultimate sacrifice in the line of duty
Semper Fi.
Good Night Chesty (ps, my father served with him in the 7th Marines)
Charlie Mahatcek
September 10, 2021
Hard to believe 20 years have gone by. You are very much missed. I think of the good memories and the many laughs we had. I am still telling those Mike Curtin stories. God Bless The Curtin Family! Semper Fi! Brother and Good Night Chesty!
Cindy Roe
September 5, 2021
Remembering Michael on the 20th anniversary of 9/11..
Geovanni Barris
September 11, 2020
I remember Mike as a high school baseball teammate leaping over a fence trying to catch a home run with reckless abandon. The opposing team started to laugh, but their coach immediately scolded his players commenting on the extraordinary effort Mike displayed. At that moment I realized giving 200 percent was in Mike's blood which motivated me to exert the same effort in everything I do. Mike "The Motivator". I am proud that Mike touched my life forever. God Bless the Curtain Family!!
Geovanni Barris
September 11, 2020
I remember Mike as a high school baseball teammate leaping over a fence trying to catch a home run with reckless abandon. The opposing team started to laugh, but their coach immediately scolded the his players commenting on the extraordinary effort Mike displayed. At that moment I realized giving 200 percent was in Mike's blood which motivated me to exert the same effort in everything I do. Mike "The Motivator". I am proud that Mike touched my life forever. God Bless the Curtain Family!!
Judy Beasley
September 12, 2016
Thought about you off and on all day yesterday. You were my son's DI at Parris Island. His name is James Beasley. I know he was thinking of you, too. Thank you for everything you did and for being such a role model for my son.
Ann Shepard
September 11, 2016
Blessings to you and yours Mike. You will never be forgotten.
Grace Scott
September 11, 2016
Hey,good buddy,you are one in million and never will you be forgotten! Thank you for everything you sacrificed on Earth. Thank you for your continued work from the other side. Grace J Scott
Charlie Mahatcek
September 10, 2016
Hey Brother, 15 yrs. now. Seems like yesterday. I'm still telling Mike Curtin stories. I'm sure you are laughing as there are Coast Guard Boats, Police Dogs, horses, and now a Marine Corps Installation named after you, and the Greatest namesake of all Your Grandson, Michael Sean. Your Legacy lives on, and you are a Great influence to all. I often look back in this gallery and reflect on all the people you have touched. Alway's a True Friend, and my Hero. God Bless the other Hero's, Helga and the Girls, and now Michael Sean. Keep watching over us Mike. Semper Fi!, and Good Night Chesty.
Grace J Scott
September 13, 2015
Mike, once again, thank you for watching over all of us. Love and blessings are sent to you and your family. You live on in the hearts of friends and loved ones.
K Sciarrone
September 11, 2015
Still you are not forgotten. Still missed, my friend.
Charlie Mahatcek
September 11, 2015
Hey Mike, Always' thinking of all the good times we had, and I'm still telling Mike Curtin stories. Someone has to tell them. As every Heroic thing you did, you would never brag. Everyone always' heard about it from the news, or a Brother Marine or Brother Cop. If not for you a lot of people would not have gone as far in life, myself included. You were a mentor to all, and you are missed. I know that you are still on a mission to make the World a better place. Semper Fi! and Good Night Chesty'
roger raley
July 13, 2015
Mstsgt curtin was one of the few guys I remember from naval weapons station earll. I recently signed onto the marine corp web site. I got out of the marines n 87, I guess he did to. I didnt know he had been killed in the 911 attack. So sorry to hear, he was a great boss, great leader. I remember helping him fix an old vw bug he used to drive. Reat n peice brother
Grace J Scott
May 25, 2015
The light still burns Mike. You will never be forgotten.
Thank you for watching over all of us.
May 24, 2015
My name is Judy Beasley. Sgt. Curtin was my son's DI on Parris Island, SC. I have been doing research on my uncle, S/Sgt John Wallace Rogers, whose plane was shot down over France during WWII. All aboard were MIA & later declared dead. One of the names listed was a T/Sgt Michael F. Curtin. I was wondering if anyone in the family knows if there is a connection. I would be honored to know that a member of your family was with my family member at that time
Nilda deJesus
September 11, 2014
I will always remember your fatherly advice, kindness and words of support in the Marine Corps. I will always remember that day at the drill center. The news was on and we watched as the events of the 1993 attack unfolded never imagining what would happen 8 years later. You will never be forgotten. Peace for you and your family.
dave larson
September 11, 2014
The world still mourns the loss of a true American hero. Semper Fi
Tom
September 11, 2014
I sit here thinking of you and Gunny Garvey, tears in my eye's. I got to the Pct. As fast as I could, got to see your truck go by me, i knew you would be going into and up to save lives. I have gone once to see the memorial with my family, my wife found your name for me. I can hardly believe it has been 13 years. Thank you for everything you ever did for me. I Pray for your family, and wish a Happy Birthday to your wife. Until we meet again, Semper Fi.
Charlie Mahatcek
September 11, 2014
Hey Mike,
Another year gone by. I reflect on our good times on a daily basis, and I am still telling those Mike Curtin stories. They are Memories I hold close to my heart. I know you probaly have earned some reputation where you are now, and are still helping others and watching over us. Have a beer with Ashley today. Miss you Brother. Semper Fi and Good Night Chesty.
Grace Scott
September 10, 2014
The light of your soul still shines and is felt daily on Earth. Love and Blessings to your family always! Thank you for everything you continue to do on the other side.
John Fitzgerald H Company 3rd Bn '78-'81
September 10, 2014
Well here we are again huh Mike. I thought that someday it might be easier but deep down I know it won't .This is a very dark time for me personally and as I try to climb out I realize it's better for me to be where I am. 343 is always etched right in the front of my mind everyday. Not to take anything away from the rest of the 1st responders and civilians in the mess. I miss you my brother, I remember like yesterday the times on the street and the people we were fortunate enough to be with, Gunny Kirby, Klemm, Roche, Wentworth and a slew of others that will forever be bonded together. Look down over us Mike and keep us away from that cliff, because it's always looming right in front.
Semper FI My Brother.
D G
September 9, 2014
Your sacrifice is not forgotten.
Semper Fi
Grace J Scott
September 12, 2013
Hello Mike,You know you will never be forgotten.Thanks for all the lessons taught to us and and for watching over us continually. Love and Blessings. Grace J. Scott
September 11, 2013
I was only in one class of Mike's, but knew him from the bus ride home and living closeby. He was a true leader, a kind of 'mayor' type personality. I saw him out of school once in his marine uniform and I thought, "That figures", such a cleancut guy and brave, he has to love the marines. Then, I saw him in church one night before choir started at St. Anthony's and he was praying on his knees at the altar with his daughter. I thought, "Wow, Michael, you are leading your children to God, what an amazing thing to teach." My heart goes out to the Curtin family who lost a wonderful husband, father, brother and son. God Bless You, Michael Curtin.
Elizabeth Newton Taggart
Frank Smusz
September 11, 2013
A Great Guy doing Great Things....gone way too soon. I recall our soccer playing days in high school Mike always had my back. Peace and prayers to Mike's family.
Al & Geo Barris
September 11, 2013
Always in our prayers and never forgotten.
Charlie Mahatcek
September 11, 2013
Hey Brother,
Another year gone by. You are in my thoughts everyday, but I know that you are still with us and watching over us.
Semper Fi!
Charlie
Ellen Reilly
September 11, 2012
Where do I begin? I grew up with Mike in Rocky Point. He was full of life, energy, he was mischeivous and everyones friend. He was always a big guy, a mans man and a girls friend, a catch, a nut job! He had a nick name "psyho" said with love... He had a wonderful way about him, a great laugh, a sensitivity at the same time a tough competitor.... He was loveable and we were all so proud of his accomplishments in the service. I am so proud and grateful to have known him. My heart goes out to his family... A light burned out far too soon, luv u mike....
Darci (Mott) Strickland
September 11, 2012
Miss You Mike! Darci
Grace J Scott
September 11, 2012
You will never be forgotten. Blessings to you and your family always. Thanks for all you did and continue to do from the other side.
John Fitzgerald
September 11, 2012
Having served as a Hco 3rd Bn DI with Sgt Curtin I am so very sorry for the loss we all feel even 11 years after. Every platoon picked up in the series worked was always the greatest memories of my life. Semper Fi my Brother you will always be remembered.
Bill Bakewicz
September 11, 2012
Miss You. God Bless America, you, Helga and your girls.
Maria R
September 10, 2012
You are remembered this day and always will be. You are a true hero to all Americans. GOd Bless you and your family.
MIke Killeen
September 10, 2012
My deepest sympathies to the Curtin family. I knew Mike from Rocky Point HS, he was a great role model and a friend. He was the guy we all looked up to. An incredible athelete, I always expected to see him in professional sports, he was that good. Like other selfless, incredibly gifted people, he instead served his country by joining the USMC. I'm pretty sure he joined because of my father (Gunnery Sgt Timmy Killeen, USMCR). Mike would come to my house, many times even when I wasn't there, and shoot the breeze with my father for hours talking about the Marine. My father saw alot of promise in Mike and loved talking with him. Who wouldn't, Mike really was a Marine's Marine. As Charlie M said, this generation's Chesty Puller...couldn't have said it better. I am incredibly proud to have known him.
courtney rappa
March 11, 2012
dear curtin family,
as you may know my father passed away on 3-1-12, and as you definitely know my dad would not have been here without your husband and father for the last 10 1/2 yrs. my fathers passing will not stop me from coming to this page, michael is still my hero. i'm writting to thank you,and to michaels daughters there is not a day that goes by that i don't feel a horrifying guilt about you 3 young ladies losing your dad at such a young age,as i am now 34 and not handling my loss well at all..much love and gratitude
Nancy and Courtney Rappa
Ray Farley
November 10, 2011
Mike and I were Drill Instructors together on Parris Island. He was one great guy,a loyal friend and an outstanding Marine. Miss you Murph.
Semper Fi Brother.
Ray Farley
SgtMaj. USMC Retired
Carson
September 29, 2011
Dear Curtin Family,
I was only three years old when 9-11 happend, but I am now old enough to understand the tragedy that took place on that awful day.
Our school has and done a lot to educate us about this awful day, and remember all of the families that were affected in any way.I am now in the eighth grade. On the tenth year anniversary, the students from our school released red, white, and blue balloons in memory of the victoms who lost their lives and their families. Today, we are going to plant bulbs, making a memory garden at our school.
Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you all.
September 17, 2011
God bless, from a fellow Curtin...Dan Curtin, Jersey City
courtney rappa
September 11, 2011
forever my hero, rest in peace my angel.
Richard and Kathryn Fleming
September 11, 2011
Dearest Helga and family - My sincere and warmest thoughts are with you and your family. Love, Richard (Richie), Kathryn, Grant, Blake and Ava Fleming (Love from Josie and Harold too)
Grace Scott
September 10, 2011
September 10, 2011. Remembering you and your family in all our thoughts and prayers always. You will never be forgotten. Grace J. Scott
September 10, 2011
Sure do miss you Mike, Have your face in my mind everyday. Sure did have some great times. To a Man who taught and influenced many in such a positive way. Semper Fi Brother. Good Night Chesty.
Charlie Mahatcek
September 9, 2011
In each of the last ten years that have come and gone, I, we, have never forgotten you! We have kept you in our hearts, our thoughts and in our prayers. We all miss you, your presence and your leadership. I know that you are in a better place with the love of the highest! We here, still love you! Your life shall be honored on this tenth anniversary for the man you were to so many.
Sgt. Bonilla
USMC
May 3, 2011
You are our hero and will be missed. Your distant cousins.~Rita Sapienza
Grace Scott
January 8, 2011
Remembering you and your family with prayers.
Lisa Runne
October 23, 2010
Thank you for your ultimate sacrifice. My thoughts & prayers to your family.
courtney rappa
September 11, 2010
forever my hero
September 11, 2010
I think of you and miss you still. I can hear your voice in my ear, see your words typed out.. You will always be in my heart, Michael.
charlie mahatcek
September 11, 2010
Think of you everyday Mike, and I tell a Mike story everyday, sometimes a few stories. Miss You Brother. Semper Fi.
Grace J. Scott
March 17, 2010
Thank your for all you taught me. I use your words often in helping and healing others. They are very effective. I've had them published and am quietly trying to spread the words. Any dollars are given to children which I believe you would appreciate. Grace J. Scott
Ray Rose
March 16, 2010
Today I was cleaning out the back room of a dusty closet in Whitehall, New York and found a police cap. There was a note attached to the cap attached with a sewing pin "Michael Curtin. NYPD. Emergency Services. Died September 11, 2001 grandson of Michael E.. Finnican of Whitehall, New York". I just found it this morning and documented it. COntact me at [email protected] for further information. Ray Rose
January 1, 2010
leonidas daniel laourdakis
38gordon ave.carbondale pa.
l/cpl fox co.2/25 new rochelle n.y.
D Coan
October 14, 2009
You were right about having kids mike. There is nothing in all this world that can top it. rest easy my friend.
Ann Shepard
September 13, 2009
September 13,2009. Hi Mike, thanks for all you did as you walked the Earth. Now we thank you for all you are doing for us on the other side. You are indeed a special soul that God made. Ann Shepard
hank kuhn
September 12, 2009
class 3058 1979 semper fi iron mike god bless you
Nick Koridis
September 11, 2009
As a classmate from the first graduating class of Rocky Point, NY in 1975, you will be always remembered as a true friend close to our heart and soul. God bless you, your family and friends as we will always think of you. The fond memories will always be remembered with the great times we had in class, soccer, sports, high school senior trip, high school reunion’s and more.
Peace, Nick Koridis…9/11/09
Charles Kim
September 11, 2009
Semper Fi Sgt Major
-6th Comm Battalion, radio Plt
courtney rappa
September 11, 2009
i didn't forget last year...it seems to be getting harder to write.. i thank you once again my hero, my angel. God bless your family!!
Doug Abraham
March 29, 2009
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009
Gerald Hughes
August 20, 2008
As Michael's youngest male cousin, he was always a hero in my eyes. As my mother's godson he maintained a special place in her heart. They were the original 'Curtin Girls', his aunt Peggy and Maureen. Though they would never admit to any favoritism, they adored the boy they called Michaelughich.
I spent most of my childhood around that big stud, yet I never recall a frown from his face, only smiles. Mike is one of the funniest guys I've ever known. A simple look from him encouraged uncontrollable laughter from even those with the slightest sense of humor. A no bs guy with a smile on his face,naturally missed.
He's keeping company with our sainted grandmother these days. She would always light up in his company. I'd like to think that they are together and happy.
COURTNEY RAPPA
September 11, 2007
REST IN PEACE MY HERO AND ANGEL
Robyn Trudeau
September 11, 2007
God bless your family always! Thankyou for helping saving my dearest friends dad!
RIP
Christine Thomas
September 11, 2007
Michael, you are a true hero and no one will ever forget you or the sacrifice you made. You never thought twice about risking your life for another, and that was evident in Oklahoma, and again when you made the final sacrifice. May God Bless You, because I know you are sitting up there with him.
miriam galvan
September 10, 2007
Thanks for your hard work and don't for get that you will always be in our heart's and thoughts well god bless you and take care of you in a place that you belong. God bless your family,friends god will watch over them.
Sharon
September 9, 2007
In remembrance..
william Salaita
September 7, 2007
Your outstanding& heroic courage will renew and strengthining our freedom & that of our country future generation.God Bless America.
Kristine
October 30, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
P Tabbernor
September 19, 2006
In memory....
Evelyn B
September 15, 2006
Thank you for your courage and bravery. Everyone who was lost on that day will be remembered but especially our police officers and firemen who went into that building when everyone else was running out. You made the ultimate sacrifice in order to save others. God Bless!
courtney rappa
September 11, 2006
DEAR MRS.CURTIN & FAMILY,
YOUR FAMILY AND MICHAEL ARE ALWAYS IN OUR THOUGHTS TODAY AND EVERY DAY.WE WILL NEVER FORGET.
Welcoming home the gulf War Veterans,
Peter Starken
September 10, 2006
Mike and I both attended the Barton Elementry School Human Flag ceremony back when our daughters were students there.I sat with him up on the deck by the annex bldg. and we were talking when the ceremony for welcoming home the Veterans and Hero's of Gulf War 1 began.
Little did I know that all the guys on the deck were Honories and I was not suposed to be up there lol.
I went to leave the deck and Mike said no stay here it's ok,no one will ever know.
I stood up with the row of Honories and was sweating bullets as I felt like everyone knew I wasn't suposed to be there.Well it went off without a hitch and I was glad when it was over.Then One of the organizers said you are wearing a blue shirt and we need all teh extras we can get to to form the flag,so now I was in the photo and was proud to be part of such a memorable event.I thank you Mike for making me feel relaxed in a silly situation.You are a great Friend, neighbor and I will always remember you and I salute your flag each morning as I pass your home.
Heaven couldn't have a better Guy than you in there midst.
Five years and we still all miss and remember you and will for life.
Peter your neighbor.
Michael Lanning
August 25, 2006
I just wanted to say that Mike made the biggest impact on me as a Marine. I was assigned to I&I Fox 2/25 in New Rochelle from 1987-1990. When I was selected to SSgt, Mike showed me how to be a Marine SNCO. He set the example for all to follow. Fair winds and following seas my brother. Semper Fidelis. MSgt Mike Lanning USMC Ret.
alena lyras-simcox
June 6, 2006
Never Forget 9-11
Very sorry for your loss...
AS
Phil Reyman
September 11, 2005
On this anniversary many memories about Mike, as the 1stSgt Alpha Company 6th Comm Bn, proud to have served with him, he was and is a Marine's Marine, Semper Fi
Phil Reyman
GySgt USMC Retired
James Johnson
September 11, 2005
God Bless You...
Joseph Zawol
July 29, 2005
My sincere condolences to your family. I apologize for taking so long to write but I just found this website today and I had to write. After 9/11 I volunteered to come to your house with other Marines and Mow your lawn for your family but your kind neighbor was already ahead of the game. Since 9/11 I served 2 tours in Iraq for 6th Comm Bn and proud to have defended this country. Sgt Maj is greatly missed both in the NYPD and USMC. To this day he is highly spoken of and respected for who he was...I only wish I knew him. Semper Fi Sgt Maj!
CPL Zawol
Bob Bierman
March 12, 2005
To the Curtin Family,
I knew your dad when he was assigned to Truck 7 in Brooklyn. I was assigned to Truck 2 and we all worked together. A great man, friend and brother in Blue. Alot of laughs on many jobs together in ESU. No words can replace your loss. I know that he is watching over you all and is proud of all your accomplishments.
Bob
COURTNEY RAPPA
September 11, 2004
THANK YOU AND GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ALWAYS
THE RAPPA FAMILY
Anna Kakis-Onesto
July 6, 2004
To the Curtin Family,
My deepest sympathy to you all. My family had our summer home across from your home in Rocky Point for many years. It was only recently that we heard of your loss. Please accept our condolences. (we were on the corner of Friendship and Neptune)
MS1 C/ Pvt. Jeremy Graber
February 10, 2004
To the Curtins, my name is Jeremy I recently joined the Cowboy Battalion's Army ROTC here at the University of Wyoming. I owe Michael a lot from the two years I knew him. Time was too short, and I dedicate my service to him. It would have been a great honor to have been able to serve with him, I only wish I was older and had the chance to. Michael was so much more than a Marine and an officer, he was a great friend. UNIT CORPS GOD COUNTRY...Semper Fi
Kristin
September 16, 2003
To The Curtain Family,
I remembered this name from Thurs. when the children mentioned his name and promised myself to write. I did not know he was a police officer. My husband happens to also be an NYPD police officer currently applying for a position in ESU. So there is a slight connnection.
I think that God chooses certain men and women to protect us. These people who are our police and firemen, our everyday heroes. On Sept.11 He chose to take Michael to be an eternal hero, an angel to protect all of us forever. God bless you all.
CHARLIE MAHATCEK
September 12, 2003
I MET MIKE WHEN I WAS 8 YRS OLD IN THE BACK OF THE BEACH PLAYING IN THE SAND. I ASKED HIM TO BE MY FRIEND AND HE SAID O.K. I DID'NT KNOW AT THE TIME, BUT HE WOULD BECOME LIKE A BROTHER TO ME. HE WAS A LEADER OF MEN EVEN AT 8 YRS. OLD. THE WORD CAN'T WAS NEVER IN HIS VOCABULARY. HE WOULD EXCEL IN SCHOOL, SPORTS AND BECAME ROCKY POINT HIGH SCHOOL'S CLASS VICE PRESIDENT AND CLASS ATHLETE. MIKE WOULD ALWAYS HELP OTHERS WHO WERE NOT AS GIFTED AS HIM, AND HE WOULD HAVE A POSITIVE AFFECT ON WHOEVER HE CAME IN CONTACT WITH AND HE TOUCHED MANY PEOPLE IN HIS LIFE. MIKE, MYSELF AND TOMMY SHUKER WERE CLOSE FRIENDS GROWING UP AND WE DID EVERYTHING TOGETHER, AND WE REMAINED CLOSE THROUGH OUR ADULT LIVES. THERE ARE MANY STORIES THAT CAN BE TOLD ABOUT MIKE, AND HE WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTTEN, HE WAS A EXTRAORDINARY PERSON. THE CHESTY PULLER OF HIS TIME. YOU MARINES KNOW WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT. I COULD GO ON AND ON ABOUT MIKE, HUSBAND, FATHER AND HERO. MIKE WAS A HERO LONG BEFORE SEPTEMBER 11. HE WAS MY HERO ALL MY LIFE, AND I LOOK AT HIS PHOTO ON MY DRESSER EVERYDAY AND ASK GOD TO HELP ME BE AS STRONG AS MIKE.
MY PRAYERS ARE WITH HELGA, AND THE GIRLS WHO ARE MIKE'S PRIDE AND JOY AND WITH ALL THE CURTIN FAMILY.
SEMPER FIDELIS
CHARLIE
courtney rappa
September 11, 2003
To the Curtins,
My name is Courtney Rappa,the last name will sound familiar. Michael helped to rescue my father from tower 1 along with 4 other police officers. I wanted to let you know, that your husband/father has been in my thoughts and prayers everyday for the last 2 years. I would love to speak with you. All of this has been very hard for me to deal with knowing that 2 men(heros)lost their lives helping my father. you and your family truely have my love forever.
Courtney Rappa
Terence Faherty
September 11, 2003
I served as a reservist with Mike Curtin in F Co., 2nd Bn, 25th Marines. I remember when he first arrived and word spread that he had been a drill instructor, there was some dismay that he would look down on the rest of us "weekend warriors". Nothing could be further from the truth. Mike was a supremely professional and motivated Marine whose enthusiasm was infectious. He loved the Corps and was the quintessential "grunt". I left the unit in '89 and didn't run into Mike again for some time. I had joined the NYPD in '86, and years later, who did I see on a detail but a certain salt and pepper haired jarhead as a bright and shiny new rookie. It just didn't feel right though. I was the salty dog veteran and he was the newby. It just didn't sound right calling him Mike and not Gunny. Next I read about his trip to Oklahoma and the recovery of our fellow Marine and I couldn't help feeling that Mike was the right man to be there. When his name was mentioned as one of the missing on that fateful day, after the initial shock, I realized that he had answered the call yet again. This time he gave his all for his fellow New Yorkers. My sincere condolences to his wife, whom I met years ago at the unit's Marine Corps Ball, his daughters and his whole family. Semper Fi, Mike. You'll always be Gunny to me!
Sgt. Terence J. Faherty
122 Pct
Formerly, Cpl., USMCR
MSgt S. Douglas Strebel III, USMC (Ret)
June 6, 2003
While browsing through the June 2003 issue of Leatherneck Magazine two nights ago, that often familiar voice that lives within me began repeating "say it ain't so," when I noticed that the Marine Corps League has a Detachment named in honor of Sergeant Major Michael J. Curtain (See page 71). At first I thought, "no, it can't be," but then again I was attempting to deny the obvious, for this had to be the same Marine that I continued to cross paths with for 16 years. And without any prior knowledge of his death, I knew immediately that he had to be one of the fallen heroes of Sept. 11, 2001.
Mike and I first met at Parris Island, SC in 1979 when we were both a couple of young and motivated Sergeants. We trained recruits together on a few occasions, as he was a Drill Instructor and I was a Primary Marksmanship Instructor. I distinctly remember the time that Mike gave me a ride home in his van and we hit it off right away because we were both "grunts" (infantrymen).
In 1983 I ran into Mike again in Hawaii. This time we were both Staff Sergeants with the 2n Battalion, 3rd Marines. While aboard the USS Peleliu, Mike and I shared a bunk-space together during a 6-month Western Pacific Deployment (1983-84). It was during this time that I gained a lot of respect for Mike as I began to see first hand, the true professionalism that he never failed to display.
Then in May (or June) of 1995 while I was serving on recruiting duty in Brooklyn, NY, I read in the Marine Corps Times that a Marine Reservist from New York, who was also a Police Officer with the Emergency Services Unit of the NYPD, had accompanied a team of rescue personnel to Oklahoma City shortly after the Murrah Federal Building had been bombed by an infamous domestic terrorist (whose name is not worthy of mentioning in this guest book entry) on April 19, 1995. The first thought that crossed my mind was, "can this be the same Mike Curtain that I know?" My second thought was, "when and why did he leave active duty to become a reservist?" Then it dawned on me that during our 6-months aboard the USS Peleliu, Mike had drilled me with scores of questions about the Marine Corps Reserve, as he knew that I had previously served in the reserves. So I knew that this had to be the same Mike Curtain, and I was determined to visit him prior to completing my tour of recruiting duty later that Fall.
Then just a few months after that (in September 1995) I was attending the Staff Noncommissioned Officers Academy at Quantico, VA. It was early on a Monday morning when I was returning from a 3-mile run, that I noticed a large group of First Sergeants and Master Sergeants standing outside the main building. They were all dressed in their Summer Service "C" uniforms, and I knew they were there to attend a 5-day seminar. As I looked through the crowd with the anticipation of recognizing a familiar face (or two), I was nearly floored when I saw this gray-haired First Sergeant staring at me with this s#%t eating grin on his face. Although our reunion lasted only 10 minutes, we somehow managed to catch each other up (the way Marines do) on the 11-years since we had last seen one another.
As it turned out, this was to be our final reunion. And not because he (or I) failed to stay in touch, for Marines seldom do. After all, we were never best friends; just two professionals who respected one another, and were fortunate to have crossed paths 3 separate times in 3 separate decades; enough to witness each other's hair turn from dark brown, to salt and pepper, to..., well you get my meaning. And as I reminisce about a time that once was, I can see Mike's face so clearly etched in the memories of Parris Island, Hawaii, the USS Peleliu, Australia, the Philippines, Korea, and Quantico. But more importantly, when I think of Mike, I think of the selfless sacrifices he made for our country, the Marine Corps, and to the people of New York. Sacrifice is what Mike was all about. It was embedded throughout his character. A passage taken from the Robert Frost poem "The Road Not Taken," best epitomizes what Mike Curtain stood for: "Two roads diverged in a wood, and I - I took the one less traveled by, and that has made all the difference."
May God bless Sergeant Major Michael J. Curtain and the beloved family he left behind.
daniel coan
September 15, 2002
my name is daniel coan, i am a police officer with the nypd emergency service unit squad #2,i have recently been informed of this site by jen curtin.Sgt. Curtin was my friend,car pool mate,and my boss. to read the passages from this site,from former marines to people who have never met him,reminds me how fortunate i am to have learned from the best. i have much to say about Michael curtin,but instead, i will continue performing at work as mike would have expected, i will continue my days guided by the way he would expect me to lead. just as many others, we at truck two miss him dearly. rest in peace Sergeant.....
Kevin Nolan, USMC
September 12, 2002
Firstly, my deepest condolences to the Curtin family. So happens that I have a vivid memory and reminder of Mike Curtin. I have a small scar under my right eye that was put there by Sgt Mike Curtin when we were in Drill Instructor school together on Parris Island back in the very late '70s. Mike went to 3rd battalion and I went to 1st, but it's a pretty small island. While attending my son's graduation on the Island in February, '02, I visited the Marine Corps Drill Instructor school. Proudly hanging on the wall is a photo of our class with Sgt Curtin standing tall. Those who knew him as a New York cop saw the man that was forged as a Marine. Mike, you know the words, and now I'm sure you've seen, "IF THE ARMY OR THE NAVY EVER LOOK ON HEAVENS SCENES, THEY WILL FIND THE STREETS ARE GUARDED BY UNITED STATES MARINES." Semper Fidelis, Mike!
K. McKenna
September 11, 2002
I am a friend & neighbor of the Curtin family. The Mike Curtin our family remembers was a kind, giving man. One who would open his home to you on a moments notice...The Dad at the soccer fields yelling "Go Heth", His face beaming at all the school concerts. The heroic deeds Mike did at work and elsewhere weren't common knowledge to many of us on the soccer fields. We only knew he was a hard working NYCPD Officer who, like most of us, was juggling his job, Helga's job, and a very busy home/school life with his 3 talented daughters. Many of his feats of patriotism and heroism were learned after the tragedy of 9/11. What was mostly conveyed by Mike was his love and committment to his family. Mike's spirit and true legacy is within them. Helga, Jen, Erica & Heather, our love & support is always there for you.
Ron, Alice, Buddy, Meghan & Mckenna Carroll
September 11, 2002
Helga - I want you to know you and your family have been in our thoughts and prayers over the past year.
May the love that surrounds you be a source of your comfort and the memories keep you close.
Our & prayers are with you today and always.
K Burdette
September 11, 2002
Today, 9/11/02 our public school honored and remembered those lost loved ones. HS students placed a small history card with Mikes name which was tied to my car attenna with blue, red and white ribbons. So, I got to this web site and found him. He sounds like he was a great man and sounds like he put on one heck of a breakfast, just like my dad. He was in the Army. God speed the healing process. God Bless us all.
Alexis Baggs
September 11, 2002
My name is Alexis Baggs.I didn`t really know Micheal Curtin.But i knew the family.I`ve heard so much about Mike.I never met him though.My sister and my mom did.But i wish i could have met Mike before the tragic avent of 9/11.i`m sorry for your lose Curtins.*****God Bless You*****
sarah
September 11, 2002
Hello Jen, and the rest of the Curtin Family. It's me Sarah. I hope you got my flowers, i sent them so you knew i was thinking of you--Your always on my mind jen you are one of my bestest friends and to see you go through something like this hurts me terribly bc i love you and your family very much. Your dad was a great hero Jen he has set a great example for all americans in our nation. He expressed himself to be what every american should be. It is unfortuneate that I never got the chance to meet him, but he is in my heart and so are you and your sisters and your mom. All of you are sucha big part of my life. Not only was your father a hero and a role model jen, but you also are a hero to me, you have showed incredible strength and courage and I admire you greatly for that. You are my role model Jen and i hope you realize how proud your father is right now looking down from heaven seeing what an amazing person you are growing to be. I pray for you and your family and i am always here for you jen just remember that! I love you!
.:Sarah:.
Jessica Pausewang
September 11, 2002
Jen, the Curtin girls, and Mrs. Curtin:
I know you already have been told how amazing your father, and husband was, but it needs to be said one more time. He came to basketball games, field hockey, and track meets. Flew the plane overhead. He was a great man, and you should know he ment something to everyone. He ment something for the nation. We all love him and will miss him. I love you guys so much!!! Love always, Jess ;)
Kelli McKenna
September 10, 2002
My name is Kelli McKenna and I am 9 years old. I live in the same neighborhood of the Curtin family.This past September 11 was the scariest day of my life.Lots of people lost cusins Aunts and Uncles. I lost something different.My hero Srgt.Michael Curtin.Though he never braged about what he did he still saved alot of people.The summer of 2000 me and my sisters went to there house to go in there pool.He said that my sister had the best cannoball and I had the loudest scream.That day of September 11 brought Americans together and also brought many tears.Me and my family were very sad when we heard that he was dead,but now he is in heaven.
September 10, 2002
Im sorry to hear about the loss of your loved one...I am proud to say that i new Mr.Curtin..but not very well...He has the greatest girls and the nicest wife....My heart and prayers go out to you Mrs.Curtain,Jen,Erika,and Heather..i will never forget the great man your husband/father was..he is and shall stay in my heart forever..for he is loved by many....and grieved by a lot
Shannon Leissner
September 10, 2002
To the family of Michael Curtin:
I chose a mercy band bearing Michael's name in November of last year. I am lucky in that I suffered no personal loses on 9/11, just shared the greif of a nation. I chose a police officer because I have several close friends who serve on the force, and I know that any one of them could risk their lives at any time. I don't know why I chose the name Sergeant Michael Curtin from the stacks and stacks of those available, but I did. I have worn his name on my wrist almost every day ever since, as a reminder that there are people in the world who will risk all for others. Today I pulled up Michael's biography for the first time, in preparation for a memorial service the community college I teach at will be giving tomorrow. I wanted to share anything I could find out with my students tomorrow, as we reflect on the horrors of last year. The biography only told me what I already knew, that Michael was an honorable man, who served others and our country with no regret, and that he is missed terribly by those who loved him. I want to express my sorrow for your loss, and I want you to know that even though I did not know Michael personally, I have greived for him and all of the lives lost that horrible day last year in my own way, and will continue to do so. I will continue to wear Michael's name with pride.
Sincerely,
Shannon Haney Leissner
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