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Casey and Melanie Barber

Casey Barber Obituary

Barber, Casey McCartney
(July 31, 2006)
Barber, Melanie Cecile Jones
(August 1, 2006)
Casey and Melanie passed away after a tragic car accident on July 31, 2006. As loving husband and wife they focused on raising their three boys - Nicholas (8), Cullen (5), and Albert (3) - with joy and God's strength. They will be deeply missed by all their friends and family. Casey M. Barber, born February 1, 1966, was raised in Pacific Beach and attended St. Augustus and Mission Bay High. He graduated from the University of San Diego with a B.S. in Business; he focused on theater arts and production, stage managing and lighting techniques. After graduation he joined the Set Builders' Union in San Diego and was a member for 20 years as a respected master carpenter. As a young boy he learned to surf from his father, Ralph, and never lost his passion for catching the big waves. Melanie C. Barber, born December 27, 1965, was raised in San Pedro, CA as the youngest of 11 children. She graduated from Mary Star High School and received a basketball scholarship to the University of California Riverside. She also played volleyball at UC-Riverside and lead the volleyball team to their first National Championship. Later, Melanie played professional club volleyball in Switzerland. Melanie and Casey met in Mammoth Lakes; it was love at first sight. They settled in San Diego, had been happily and lovingly married for ten years and were blessed with three beautiful boys. They honored God and as loving and involved parents they shared their love of life and sports with their family. They enjoyed many family activities together: camping, skiing, hiking, swimming, boating, fishing, surfing, bike riding, soccer, baseball and gardening (Mel's favorite). All who met Melanie and Casey considered them ones to be counted on; immediately giving their time and resources to friends, family, the Church and the kids' schools. They sprinkled joy wherever their paths took them. They will be deeply missed. Casey and Melanie are survived by their three sons, Nicholas, Cullen and Albert; their parents, Ralph and Nancy Barber and Stan and Bette Jones; and their brothers and sisters. A Hawaiian Surfer's Tribute for the couple who loved surfing and Hawaii will be held at noon on Tuesday, August 8th at Tourmaline Surf Park, Pacific Beach. Vigil Service and viewing will be at El Camino Pacific Beach Chapel Tuesday, August 8th from 4:30 to 8:00 PM. Mass of the Holy Souls will be held at All Hallows Catholic Church on Wednesday, August 9, 2006, 12:00 PM (All Hallows Catholic Church: 2390 Nautilus, La Jolla). Hawaiian attire welcome. A memorial service will also be held in Durango, Colorado on August 17th where the Barbers lived from 2002 to 2004 and retain a summer home. The family wishes to thank all of Melanie and Casey's friends for their outpouring of love and support for the Barber boys and especially the medical staff at Flagstaff Medical Center and Donor Network of Arizona for their dedication and professionalism. In lieu of flowers, the family has asked for donations to the Melanie and Casey Barber Family Fund at Washington Mutual- account # 3124243241. Donations can be made at any Washington Mutual Branch. Please sign the guest book at www.dailybreeze.com/obits.

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Published by Daily Breeze on Aug. 5, 2006.

Memories and Condolences
for Casey Barber

104 Entries

Tiffany Sieker

September 5, 2007

I try to daisy-chain my memories of you
Keep them whole, so I can be too
Just once more I'd like to see your smile
But all I have are daisies to comfort me for a while

You, on your knees, tying my boots
I'd never loved you more

Radiant, as we said goodbye
You seemed to glow that day
Too soon your spring turned into winter
Torn from our bouquet

Every spring in fields of daisies
You will rise in immortality

Annie Feller

May 16, 2007

Unbelieveable. It's coming up on a year since our friends have passed and I think about them daily. What a tremendous loss to the world for their spirits were so full of generosity, laughter, and love. I pray that their strengths live on in their wonderful boys and that the children are finding positive ways to cope, Our prayers are with them daily. The Feller Family

Edward Simms

May 14, 2007

I am saddened beyond words. I worked with Melanie at Canon (Astro Office Products). We were workout buddies; she loved sports of all kinds. We use to run a 5-mile path in San Pedro, and lift weights together. I missed her, so I was trying to find her via the Internet, and came across this article. My love goes out to the Jones and Barber family.

Mark Hoover

December 5, 2006

This is a tragedy of immense sadness. I was honored to know & work with Casey. As I have come to find out I had also spent some of his last days on this earth as he helped my wife & I finish our dream home in Hawaii. He was truly a person whom made everyone around him shine with happiness, and joy. Always with quick wit, and a light heart.
I was not able to meet Mel, but it seems from everything I have read she was a mirror to the man I knew. Though my heart is saddened by the loss of his presence his memory will live on forever in our souls never to leave.
Aloha my brother! Mahalo Nui Loa for everything! I will miss you.

Nina Swenson

September 11, 2006

My name is Nina Guerin Swenson. I am 1 of 10 Guerin children. My father, John Guerin and Stan had been best friends since childhood. We were raised with the Jones family. We took many family vacations together. I was particulary close with Melanie as we were about the same age. My Mom just received the tragic news about her death. We are all so deeply saddened. Although we lost touch many years ago, the memories of Melanie and the Guerin/Jones family trips have alway's remained special childhood memories. Not too long ago, my sister gave me a picture of her, myself and Melanie posing together. We were probably 10 or so. I will cherish that picture.

It's comforting to read all the wonderful words about what type of person Melanie and her husband were, and how happy they seemed. It sounds like they lived life to the fullest.

My prayers and deepest sympathy are with both families.

Nina Guerin

Greg and Suzane Settelmayer

September 1, 2006

Melanie and Casey were good friends who will live on in our hearts for a long time. They each had an incredible energy and an amazing zest for life that they freely shared with all around them. Melanie and Casey lived life to the fullest in the very best sense. If life on Earth is preparation for eternity with our Lord and Creator, perhaps Melanie and Casey needed less time than most of us.

We think of them every day and continue to miss them both very much. They touched our family and united friends with their many activities at home, camping, and various other events. Although there is a void in our life, their example of living life well will provide us a model to strive towards. God bless you Melanie and Casey. We will always be here for the boys! We look forward to reuniting at the beach camp in the sky!

P.S. We will bring the margaritas in a bag.

Stacey Jones

August 29, 2006

It has been very heart warming to read all the entries from friends of Melanie and Casey. The out- pouring of support, prayers and love has helped us as a family to cope with such a loss. Melanie truely embodied all that was good in our family and she and Casey will be missed greatly. As the youngest, growing up with ten older brothers and sisters provided Melanie with the biggest gift of all, role models she could emulate and she seemed to reflect the best qualities of us all.

We have many great memories of Melanie and Casey and will pass those along to their boys along with all the heart felt memories, thoughts and prayers from this guest book.

Nancy Lemke

August 22, 2006

To the Families of Casey and Melanie,

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. I have had a hard time with this and did not know what to say. We were neighbors in Mission Hills and every time I look across the street I am reminded of what fun, energetic and loving friends Casey and Mel are. We seemed to be pregnant aound the same times, and joked about something in the water. Life wont be the same without them. Are prayers go out to their family and friends. We send extra prayers for the boys who have the biggest lost of all.

Love,

The Lemke Family

Ned, Nancy, Andrew, Ryan and Jake

Sandy and John Fields

August 22, 2006

Casey was my son's soccer coach last season and I enjoyed Melanie and Casey and thier sons. Our prayers are with all of you

Dina Kempler

August 20, 2006

I have the sweetest memories of Melanie on Perch Street in San Pedro. She had an impossible number of older siblings and an inspiration of a mother. We played hide and seek on the entire block, including the roofs. The Melanie I remember was about family, irresistible smiles, fiercely leaping across rooftops, and the natural beauty of a gifted athlete. What a terrible loss for her children with Casey. My heart goes out to them.

Kathleen McInnis

August 19, 2006

To the Barber and Jones families,

I have just returned from the beautiful Memorial Service held here in Durango, Co. for Melanie and Casey. It was a loving and heartfelt service- as in California, Mel and Casey touched so many lives. They were always in a hurry, but once at their destination, they had a way of making you feel like you were their best friend! They knew how to be truly present with those they were with. Durango will never be the same without them and those beautiful boys! We miss them terribly, but will always smile with the thought of their smiles & love of life! God Bless you all!

Kathleen, Kohler, Koby, Kohler, and Kiernan McInnis

Robin & Charlie (Gettman) Salvato

August 18, 2006

Casey & Melanie will truely missed. I went to school with Mel for 4 years. We were in clubs (ski, Volleyball and Basketball). She was a beautiful person. Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire family. Love Robin & Charlie

Tina Bauer

August 16, 2006

It seemed there was a Jones for every Bauer during the Mary Star years. I went to school with Melanie's brother, Bill. My sister, Sylvia, was one of Mel's best friends through high school and together they rocked on the basketball and volleyball courts of Mary Star. It was incredibly sad to hear of this most tragic accident that took two beautiful people who were thriving. My thoughts and prayers to the families of Mel and Casey.

Ray Duran

August 16, 2006

I am deeply saddened by the news of the passing of one of my dearest classmates, Melanie, and her husband Casey. I went to school and graduated from Mary Star with Melanie. She was a truly inspirational person with such a vibrant personality whose smile brightend evryone's day. She was one of our school's greatest athletes and her legacy as an athlete can only be surpassed by her legacy as one of our Lord's truest angels from above sent down to impact the lives of all who knew her. She definitely had an impact on mine, by not allowing me to give up on playing baseball when things weren't going my way. I'll never forget her for that, as she inspired me to not give up on my dream of playing just as she has inspired all those who played with her. Melanie and Casey were taken from us far too soon, but that only means that our Lord has far greater inspirations for them to impose on us from above. God bless their boys to carry on the images of their parents in their own lives and the thoughts, prayers and deepest sympathies from my wife, Martha, my son Joshua, and myself to the Jones and Barber families. The brightest stars above you are the twinkle in their eyes looking down on you until we all meet again in heaven. Thank you Melanie, for being such a good friend, and a wonderful, genuine, loving person, whom I am honored, priveleged, and proud to have known.

Dawn DailyBreezeReader

August 16, 2006

I as many Daily Breeze readers were very touched by this story. May God take care of their boys, they are in the prayers of many that didn't even know them.

May God Bless you all, their family and friends.

Friend in Christ,

Craig Yates

August 15, 2006

I had the good fortune of having Casey and Melanie be my son's first soccer coach (or coach of any kind) when he was 4 (the Green Grasshoppers, see pictures). Melanie and Casey generously team coached two teams. Their devotion was truly special, particularly as my son had lost his mom to cancer just the year before. They both graciously assisted me with issues regarding practice times and helping with transportation. They were both truly giving and wonderful people. I am saddened to see they have gone. They will be truly missed.

Casey - Coach in Action

August 15, 2006

The "Green Grasshoppers"

August 15, 2006

"Thank You" Plaque to the Coaches

August 15, 2006

Casey, Melanie & Nicholas - Soccer Awards

August 15, 2006

Kathy Emanuel

August 15, 2006

To the Family and Friends of Casey and Melanie Barber,

I am so saddened to hear of the passing of Casey and Melanie. My prayers are with you.

johh vilicich

August 14, 2006

my prays and thought are with the family and children. I graduated with melanie and have great memories of her playing sports and skiing on trips together as a ski club. Our class was extremely close and she will always have a special place in all of our hearts.

Maureen Speck

August 14, 2006

Although I did not know this family, I became aware of this tragedy while at a friend's daughter's birthday party. My heart and prayers go out to the whole family in this time of sadness and transition. I hope that knowing others are praying for you gives you some peace and comfort. I am a Christian and believe that all things work together to those who love God, and it sounds as though this family was strong in their faith. We don't always see God's plan immediately, but somehow it will be displayed along the way. My sincere sympathy for your family. Maureen Speck, Pacific Beach resident.

Cheryl Roberson

August 14, 2006

Please know that prayers are with you all during this hard time. God bless you all!

Quyen & Trish (Buzzetti) Vo

August 13, 2006

Our thoughts and prayers for Melanie & Casey's families and especially for God's grace on their three boys. I too enjoyed Melanie at Mary Star for a couple of years. Many years later my husband and I were tenants of Melanie & Casey's in SP. They were both very friendly and outgoing and truly in love. May the Lord guide the families and fill their boys with the love and character they displayed to everyone they touched.

Karen Overklift

August 13, 2006

I lived a few blocks away from Casey growing up and I have fond memories of our hide and seek games, bike riding, and intense boys vs. girls berry fights (with those little red berries that grew in Tony Blane's yard). He used to sing me songs by The Police when we were in junior high (and he did a fine rendition of "S.O.S.," which remains one of my favorite songs to this day). My last memory of him was seeing a blur with Buddy Holly glasses fly by me down a ski slope in Mammoth. I hadn't seen him in years, but I recognized him instantly. I yelled out " Hey, Casey! And I could hear him start singing "Sending out an S.O.S..." as he shot down the hill out of sight. My deepest sympathy goes out to his and Melanie's family. Though the voice is quiet, the spirit echos still.

Mary Peters

August 13, 2006

Stacey, my deepest sympathy to you and your family. You will all be in my thoughts and prayers.

Cathy (Fiamengo) Gioiello

August 12, 2006

I am deeply saddened after hearing of Melanie & Casey's passing. I went to high school with Melanie for 4 years at Mary Star & can't believe she is gone. I remember her smile, her laugh & how she MADE people smile & laugh! I remember her as a gifted athlete & a good friend to everyone around her. My prayers go out to her family, her husband's family & especially to her children. May the Lord bless them & lift them up to Him. May the Lord let it be known to them that they are loved. May He guide those children through their lives, to continue the legacy of their wonderful parents. The world will always see & remember the good in Melanie & Casey, each time they look into the eyes of those boys.

This is a huge loss in our lives, but Heaven is now a brighter place.

God Bless

Karoline Dreer-Tomasello

August 12, 2006

I am so sorry to hear of Melanie's passing and her husband Casey. We had gone to school together at Mary Star and I have great memories of her. My thoughts and prayers to both families and the children.

The Rubio Family

August 11, 2006

To the Barber Family....Please know how blessed you truly are and will be with such beautiful parents...God is still looking after you!!!!!

Jinx Olson

August 11, 2006

Every time I think of Casey I can't help but smile. We laughed together, surfed together and worked together. Usually in that order.

Melonie and Casey together always brought a special light everywhere they went.

It was a pleasure and an honor to be able to call them friends.

Our thoughts and prayers go out to the families of Melonie & Casey.

Love, from the Olson's

Jinx, Mindy, Allied & Katie

Matt and Debby Giacalone

August 11, 2006

To the Barber and Jones Family,

Our deepest and most heartfelt condolences on the loss of your beautiful couple, Casey and Melanie. It is extremely hard to make sense of this tragedy, but what we do know is that they have given us their biggest gift, their three angels, the light of their lives. As we look up into the heavens and remember Melanie and Casey, we pray that Nick, Cullen and Albert will continue to plant the flowers that Melanie loved; to build with their hands, just like their Dad; and to always dance like they loved to do.

My entire family will always remember Melanie for coaching our girls 8th grade volleyball team at St. Vincent's school, even when she didn't have any children in grade school. She was dedicated and always upbeat. And who couldn't forget Casey and his great Buddy Holly glasses. If there was a set to build, he was your man. If there was a dance floor with fun music, you could always find the two of them dancing the night away with their perfected moves. We were blessed to have known them.

May God Bless your entire family during this difficult time.

Emily Goss-Waring

August 10, 2006

Heartfelt sympathy extends from my family to yours during this difficult time. I have very fond memories of Casey as we grew from kindergarten'ers through our "golden" years at Carden...I will cherish them forever. As a mom, I am sending love, support and strength to the Barber boys. My thoughts are with you all.

Randy Fogg

August 10, 2006

Casey, We all will miss you dearly. My heart and prayers go to you and your family. It was an honor working with you. I pray that you are watching over all of us. 122 wont be the same.

donald bader

August 10, 2006

dear barber and jones families -

we were out of town when the accident occured, but other neighbors called to tell us soon afterwards. i am sorry that we were not able to make it to the funeral, we badly wanted to come, but we could not make the flights work out from vancouver island.

my family and i knew casey, melaine and the boys well - we were neighbors in durango. we supported eachother while our kids were born, i treated the boys on my kitchen table when they would get cut, i hauled casey into the er when he put a nail through his thumb, he helped us many many times with projects around the house, we barbequed, watched each others kids, went skiing, drank beer, talked about life. our kids grew together. we bought their bed when they moved back to san diego (we are still sleeping in it) - when we had our third child by suprise, mel said "i guess i forgot to tell you that we sold you the 'fertility bed'"!

casey and mel were definitely the most genuinely friendly, caring, thoughtful, outgoing, entertaining people i have ever known. Their lives were full to overflowing.

Giving to others was part of their nature – it was no surprise to hear that melaine’s final gift was to give literally of her own body to someone else through the donation of organs.

i consider having shared our lives with them to be one of the greatest priviges of my life. i know that i will always remember the time that we had with them and will think of them often. they were the best of the best.

just before i wrote this message, i listened to our phone messages from being out of town. there was casey's voice telling us that he and the family would be back in durango soon asking to get together. his last words were "i miss you and hope to see you soon."

i will miss casey and mel for the rest of my life.

Through the tears of my intense sorrow i keep thinking that through the example of the way they lived their lives, it will help me and my family to live better, more connected lives. I think that will be their legacy.

donald bader

durango colorado

Ericka Strong - Kreifels

August 10, 2006

I went to Mission Bay High School with Casey, he was a fun loving guy back then, someone that you would always remember with fond memories! I'm glad he continued to live his life to the fullest. It breaks my heart to hear it ended in such a tragic way. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family and his wife's familiy! May God bless and watch over the children that were left behind.

Patrick and Danielle McCay

August 10, 2006

Melanie and Casey,

We miss you so much! We wish that we had you back here with us, but the I guess Lord decided it was time for you to join him in paradise. I think it was your time to join God since you seemed to get it right in the game of life down here on earth.

As husband and wife you made such a good team. You truly completed each other. The two of you became one. It’s no wonder that you went to be with Jesus together.

What awesome parents! You always gave the best to your three beautiful sons. You were so active in their education and spiritual formation. How about the chicken coop, gardening, family trips, Deutschland… The list goes on and on. It was a blast coaching soccer with Casey. He was great with all the players on the soccer field.

As friends we really enjoyed hanging out with you two. We were very attracted to your more adventurous side. We are so thankful for the times we had at Casey’s favorite camp spot San Onofre, hanging out, talking story, surfing, cooking outdoors… Melanie always made a game out of everything, told ghost stories and even organized a wine tasting event on the beach.

Once, Melanie tore her knee up at Mammoth. As the ski patrol was about to load her injured body onto the rescue toboggan, “Wooly the Mammoth” came skiing by. Melanie hobbled herself up on one leg to get a photo with Wooly, Casey, the kids, and some of us friends. You both were hardcore adventurers.

As Christians, you were both a tremendous example to all of us. You showed us such a great faith in God. Your actions always showed a great love for those in need. There are so many stories of when you have reached out to someone or volunteered to help. Danielle especially enjoyed doing Bible/book study with Melanie.

The memorial services ended yesterday. We realize more than ever that you weren’t just our Casey and Melanie, but numerous family and friends who all have experienced the tremendous love that you never hesitated to give. It was great to see what a strong group of family and friends that you have. We feel confident that Nicolas, Cullen and Albert will continue to have outstanding love and support.

With all our love,

Penelope L. 'Penny' Goss

August 10, 2006

Dear Ralph, Nancy and Erin,

Emily contacted me and Abigail to inform us of Casey's passing. I am deeply sorry for your loss. Though I didn't know Casey in his adult years nor did I have the fortune of meeting his wife Melanie or their three sons, I share in your tremendous loss. I will remember the great times we had at Carden, St. Stephens and during the weekend visits as kids. You were one 'Kewl' and fun family!

I will keep you in my thoughts and reflect on the great times we had as kids.

I am so very sorry for your loss.

Please contact me if you get the inkling and give Erin my best.

Lynne bader

August 10, 2006

I extend my very deepest sympathy and regrets to the Barber and Jones families, and especially to little Nicholas, Cullen and Albert. My shock at the loss of Casey and Mel can hardly be expressed. My husband and I were their "backdoor" neighbors in Durango for four years.

Duraing the time they were considering buying their house in Durango, they came by our house and introduced themselves. I remember being struck by what an incredibly handsome couple they were, and of course what I came to know as their genuine friendliness and love of people was apparent at once. So, they moved into our neighborhood and soon knew more people than my husband and I had met during our years there. They continually hosted gatherings, welcoming everyone into their home and lives. I particularly remember their annual Halloween parties, which typically featured a pot of Casey's yummy chile and always treats galore for each child, plus wonderful decorations with which Melanie carefully adorned the house, even if she had to stay up late at night to complete her creative work. Mel and Casey were always carefully costumed, too, clearly enjoying the parties as much as the children.

Their children and mine played together, happily ranging between our yard and the Barbers'. One or another of the Barbers visited us often. Mel never entered our yard empty-handed; she always had at least a small gift for someone. And as for Casey, he never -- not once -- missed an opportunity to offer his help with any project than happened to be in the works at our house.

Casey and Mel's lives were gifts to us all. Their example of community-building and, quite literally in our case, loving one's neighbors, will not be forgotten. I will miss them terribly.

Lynne Bruzzese (Durango, CO)

Carla Matthews Wilson

August 9, 2006

I will remember Casey the way he was our Senior year in High School. He was a natural and charismatic leader to our "group" at that time, and everyone looked up to him. I hadn't known he turned out to be a loving husband and father. I'm so sorry for both families' losses.

Jan Percival

August 9, 2006

I am deeply sorry for your loss.

Jan Percival

Andy Yamamoto

August 9, 2006

Dear Barber family and Stacey Jones:

I am very sorry to hear about your tragic loss. Please take care.

Byron & Angela Turner

August 9, 2006

It has been a privelage to know Melanie & Casey Barber.

They were dear friends of ours in Durango, CO. We will think of them always as a loving & spirited couple who lived life fully and never wasted a moment. They were parents before us and taught us so much about how to be involved and loving parents. They truly lived for their children & each other. They were a wonderful couple who impacted all they met & earned enormous respect here in Durango from their many friends. It is hard to imagine this world without them. This is a tragic loss for their 3 boys and anyone who has known them.

We will miss them deeply and think of them always, always, always.

With Our Deepest Regret and Love,

The Turners,

Byron, Angela & little Miss Mason

the neighbors on W. 2nd Ave

Ed Schmeltz

August 9, 2006

Stacey, My sincerest sympathies to you, your family and those of your brother in law for your loss. You are in our prayers.

Jerry C. and Diane Rodin

August 9, 2006

Diane and I wish to convey our sincerest sympathy to the Corcoran, Jones and Barber families. Living next door to the Corcoran family we are the benefactor of their friendship, hospitality and true love only a genuine and wonderful neighbor can provide. Melanie is a shining example of the spirit, kindness, and beauty of the Jones sisters. Casey was blessed with a relationship we all wish to attain. We all will miss them dearly. Their presence will eternally remain in our memories.

Geli and Rachel Lehmann

August 9, 2006

I met Melanie and Casey while our children went to German classes, and then I discovered our kids attended All Hallows School as well. Melanie invited us to a nearly authentic "Oktoberfest" at their house, and many gatherings followed after that. Casey guided us safely through Tijuana while driving up to the Casa de los Pobres, and we had fun spending the day there. Melanie was always there to extend a helping hand, and she embraced my daughter Rachel like she was one of her own. Melanie and Casey will be dearly missed, but we are so utterly thankful to have known them.

michael winston

August 9, 2006

we will miss you so much it hurts to contemplate the tragic story.god bless casey and melanie and protectand guide your children. with love,fraternlly your brother mike winston ia122 forever

Charles & Nelsena Hann

August 9, 2006

To the Jones and Barber Families:

We are the parents of Helene Becker, Melanie's brother Bill Jones' girlfriend.

We are deeply saddened by your devastating, untimely loss of Melanie and Casey. We have heard so many wonderful things about them from our daughter Helene. There are no words to convey how we feel for your grief at this time. Band together and love each other; it's what will keep Melanie and Casey alive in spirit forever, with your love for each other and for their sons. We want to say this, after reading this obituary, Melanie and Casey sure packed a lot of living into their short lives; may their boys remember this for always and may God always watch over all of you.

With deepest sympathy,

Vic Noguerola

August 9, 2006

What a tragic loss, Our hearts and prayers are with the families. I have many great memories of the old Pacific Beach days with Casey.

Alice Wiggins-Tolbert

August 9, 2006

My prayers are with you, Stacey, and your family at this time of great loss. God Bless you.

dan johnson (JWD Group)

August 9, 2006

I am so sorry to learn of this tragedy. I am the youngest of 11 children, and I know how protective all my older siblings were of me. My deepest condolences.

Scott Cairncross

August 9, 2006

Our prayers are with the children and the rest of the family. It is really tragic to see such a wonderful family go through such a devistating double loss.

Ernie & Sandra (Began) Beutler

August 8, 2006

To the Jones and Barber Families,

We are deeply sorry for your loss our hearts and prayers go out to all of you. We ran into Melanie last year when Sandra and I purchased our Christmas tree from her brother's tree lot. I haven't seen her in such a long time and it was great catching up and reflecting about the old times when we use to hang out. The best memorie I have of Melanie is when a group of us went to the 1st Annual San Pedro Street Fair we had such a BLAST. Always so sweet and beautiful. (Ernie)

It was my first time meeting Melanie, she definitely had such a beautiful and warm spirit about her.(Sandra)

The Vassallo Family (All Hallows)

August 8, 2006

Our hearts go out to you and your family. There are no words to ease the pain of your loss. We are so deeply sorry. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.

Prof. Jim Moore

August 8, 2006

My deepest sympathies to my professional colleague Stacey Jones and her family on the sudden loss of her sister and brother-in-law.

Pete & Andrea Ancich

August 8, 2006

The Mary Star of the Sea Class of 1984 is deeply sadden over the news of one of our classmates. It is hard to swallow the fact the Mel and her Husband are gone. It has made me realize (again) how precious life is and we need to tell our loved ones how much we love them when they are with us here on earth. Mel & Casey, you will be missed!!! Mel, Thanks for all your smiles.

Mariea Amalfitano-Mattera

August 8, 2006

I am so sorry to hear of Melanies passing. We went to school together at Mary Star. She was such a great person. We would always have a great time in the locker room joking around. My heart goes out to the Jones and Barber families, especially the children. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. May God give you the strength to make it through this difficult time.

April Kenniston

August 8, 2006

Thoughts and prayers to the families of Both Casey and Melanie. Casey worked with my husband and was a dear friend. I am amazed at how many lives he touched. Casey was funny, Happy, so outgoing and just a great guy. We were so shocked and sad at the horrible news. Casey will be well missed by all of his Union Brothers of 122. Many, Many prayers and thoughts are with you all.

With Much respect,

John and April Kenniston (San Diego) CA

Ken & Lucette Dean

August 8, 2006

To the Barber family

Our heart felt sympathy is with you

during this trying time.

Virginia Buchanan-Hammer

August 8, 2006

Nancy and Ralph, I cannot even begin to know your sorrow. Such beautiful people and what a loss. Al and I send loving thoughts and prayers to you and your family. Virginia Buchanan Hammer

Gina (Forato) Wurzell

August 8, 2006

To the Jones and Barber Families,

Melanie and I went to Mary Star together. I have so many wonderful memories of her. Casey and Melanie were very kind, loving people. My prayers are with both of your families. May God bless and watch over their very precious boys.

Dick Woodman

August 8, 2006

We are very sorry for your loss.

Dick Woodman

DMJM Harris/JWD Group

Alexandra Spencer

August 8, 2006

Stacey, you and your family are in my heart and prayers.

Eileen Tankersley (Mancusi)

August 8, 2006

My heart goes out to the Jones and Barber families. I went to Mary Star for a few years with Melanie. She was a great person and friend.

Adrienne Hart (and your classmates)

August 8, 2006

Nancy, I heard about your tragic loss from a couple of my students in dance class yesterday. I am so sorry. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May God comfort and hold you closely. Please let us know if there is anything we can do for you. In the meantime we send our love.

Audrey L. Hann

August 8, 2006

I am the sister of Helene Becker who is Melanie's brother Bill Jones' girlfriend. I have never had the privilege of meeting Melanie and Casey, however, my sister Helene has glowing comments to say about them. My heart goes out to their young sons, their parents, siblings, other loved ones and friends. I have not had a good night's sleep since I've heard the news because this tragedy is too much to bear so I can't even imagine the unspeakable grief you all must be going through. May God give all of you much strength during the coming days, months and years. Melanie and Casey live on in their sons and what a heartwarming legacy that is.

EARTH WEEPS, BUT HEAVEN REJOICES.

In Sympathy,

Sue Gozansky

August 8, 2006

Coach Monica and I are deeply saddened with the news. Melanie was a big part of the UCRiverside volleyball program. She started for four years. She was an All-American and member of the 1986 National Championship Team. She was a great athlete and an even better competitor. She was a "warrior." She was full of energy and enthusiasm on and off the court. She was spunky and fun. She excelled academically as well. Melanie Jones #12 was a member of our volleyball family. She will not be forgotten.

Joan & Larry Cairncross

August 8, 2006

We send our heartfelt sympathy to you and all the family for your tragic loss.

Mary, Melanie and our fabulous waitress

August 7, 2006

Madame Melanie at Mary's birthday cruise

August 7, 2006

Vivian E. Anderson

August 7, 2006

Dearest Nancy & Ralph,

How very saddened I was to hear of your tragic loss. I remember so well the great times Jerry & I had with you and the ski club when the kids were young. My love and prayers are with you and the children.

Pete and Mary Giron

August 7, 2006

Our deepest sympathy to the Barber Family who we knew at St. Vincent's school. We are praying for you. They were a beautiful couple and absolutely devoted parents.

Mel and Katie Bobich

August 7, 2006

Dear Bette and family:

We always were happy that we sent our children to Mary Star schools because there was always a sense there of "family". The relatively small enrollment gave us a chance to meet almost every student and most of the parents. That is why the loss of dear Melanie is so devastating to us. We lost a member of our own "family"

Our prayers are with you and your wonderful family and, particularly, Melanie's and Casey's three boys.

We pray God takes good care of them and helps you through this very, very difficult time.

A fond memory for Mel involved Melanie. In 1989 San Pedro had a year-long celebration of its

Centennial year. One feature was selecting the 100 greatest athletes from San Pedro. Mel nominated Melanie Jones from Mary Star of the Sea high school. She had a fabulous athletic career, particularly in volleyball at Mary Star and at the University of Riverside where she was the Most Valuable Player for the team which won the national championship.

On March 11, 1989, the News-Pilot unveiled the final list with pictures of the honorees. Melanie was included!

Christopher Sosenko

August 7, 2006

Melanie and I went to school together at Mary Star. Besides being a fantastic athlete, Melanie was a kind person who treated everyone as a friend. She was a great person who will be missed.

Diane Yoshida

August 7, 2006

I am saddened by the lost of Casey and Melanie. I met Melanie through her cousin Jim because of Melanie's love of volleyball. We played a lot of beach volleyball together. I met Casey when they were dating. We have stayed in touch over the years through the births of their 3 adorable boys. They will be deeply missed. My prayers go out to their families and the boys.

Bill & Megan (Delane) Collins

August 7, 2006

Mel and Casey were two of the happiest, most loving people we know. Mel and I went to highschool together and spent hours working together, laughing and having fun at Marineland. We reconnected at our 10 year reunion and met Casey (at the time her boyfriend). We realized we had gone to Univ of SD with him. We instantly bonded with both of them and our friendship has grown over the years. We are deeply saddened by this loss and will miss them immensely. Our lives will never be the same again. We feel blessed for the time they were in our lives. Our thoughts, love and prayers go out to the boys. This tragedy reminds all of us to treasure every moment we have...take time to tell those around you how much they are loved.

Pat & Gary Hom

August 7, 2006

We had just met Casey & Melanie in February 2006 through their generosity of hosting a foreign exchange student from Germany. We talked for hours - as if we knew each other for a lot longer. We were looking forward to surfing and skiing with the family. We are all at a loss. Our prayers are constant and we will help in any way we can. Fortunately, there is some comfort in knowing they are with our Lord now and at peace.

Claire Jardine-Reader

August 7, 2006

I am so sorry to hear Casey is gone! I can't believe it!I just saw him at Home Depot and we cracked up and promised we would get our families together!! I've known Casey since 1st grade as we carpooled to Carden Elementary School! I also have fond memories of working with him in high school at the S.D. Visitor Info. Center, flipping burgers in our Snack Bar. If there is ANYTHING EVER that I can do to help Nancy, Ralph, Erin, and the 3 darling boys, Please call me first. 619-475-2525! I love you all!! Again, I am so, so sorry!!! God Bless You!!

Annie Kniss-Feller

August 7, 2006

Mel was my best friend in college. I was her teammate on the volleyball team. She was a lively, energetic, and happy soul. She shared her faith, her competitive spirit, and her genuine goodness with all.I have many fond memories. She was an important part of UCR history and will always be remembered by her teammates.I have truly been blessed by her friendship and will look forward to our reunion in heaven. My continued prayers go out to her children, her family, and friends.

Donna J. Flor

August 7, 2006

I was shocked and saddened when I heard that first Casey and then Melanie had passed away. It is a tragic loss for their families and for all of us. Casey was a sweet, smart, funny, and clever man. He was also a top-notch stagehand. He helped open the Center for the Arts, and was a total pleasure to work with. On behalf of the entire California Center for the Arts, Escondido, I extend our deepest sympathies.

Doug Thurston

August 7, 2006

I remember when they first met at Mammoth Lakes. I was happy to see them again last July 3 after many years at my sister Evelyn's birthday party. They were a special couple and full of life. I join all who knew then in sadness at this tragic loss.

Jim and Karen Gyerman

August 7, 2006

I was deeply shocked and saddened by the news of Melanie and Casey . I went to school with Melanie at Mary Star. She was a special person, anyone that knew her knows the world lost one of the good ones. Melanie and Casey will be in our prayers forever.

Peggy (Biazevich) Roan

August 7, 2006

I am so sorry to hear about this tragedy. Melanie and I were in school together at South Shores Elementary through Mary Stay High. At the 20 year reunion she was so beautiful and kind. My thoughts and prayers are with the families. May God Bless and watch over her boys.

Bevan Cass

August 7, 2006

My prayers are with Casey and Melanie and their three children.

Mary (Bobich) McLachlan

August 7, 2006

Still in shock at the news, I cannot think of appropriate words to convey my sadness for your loss.

I am so incredibly sad for you.

I'll always remember Melanie as the bright, energetic, friendly person I knew from Mary Star. Gone but never forgotten.

My prayers and sympathies go out to all of you. God bless each of you today and always.

Mary Anne (Rosbottom) Caserma

August 7, 2006

I was truly saddened to hear of the tragic loss of Melanie and her husband. Melanie touched my life during our four years at Mary Star of the Sea High School. We shared many good times together, as we played volleyball, both JV and Varsity, from our freshman to junior years at Mary Star. She always had a smile on her face and was well liked. She will be truly missed.

My mom always tells me, we know not the day nor the hour, and I believe her. I also believe that although we are left behind with feelings of sorrow, pain and anguish, the Lord decends upon us in all His awesomeness to comfort us.

My deepest heartfelt condolences to the families. I will keep Melanie, her husband, the families and their children in my prayers.

God Bless

Tara Milbrand

August 7, 2006

Melanie was a great friend and I will miss her sharing during our book studies. We never did finish "Having a Mary Heart in a Martha World". But Melanie definitely had a Mary heart and pointed to God with her actions towards everyone she knew. She was always giving. I am glad to have shared our lives and will miss her here on earth.

Mary Arzuman

August 7, 2006

The Jones Family and the Hobus Family shared many classrooms at Mary Star. I can't imagine the loss of any brother or sister. Lead by the good works and love of Bette Jones and the older siblings, Melanie raised her family likewise alongside Casey. I pray that your pain will subside as you attend the family gatherings with these two chairs empty. The boys will continue to be blessed by all of you.

Anthony Chambers

August 7, 2006

Words lack the true impact Casey and Mel had on peoples lifes. They are special once in a lifetime friends. I will miss them greatly. With my deepest sympathy, Anthony

Mary and Patrick McGee

August 7, 2006

Our prayers and condolences are for the Barber and Jones family and the three sons of Melanie and Casey in their great loss.

Mike Doktorczyk

August 6, 2006

I was deeply saddened to hear the news about Melanie and her husband, Casey... I thought very highly of Melanie - she was kind, had an easy going nature, witty, and as we all know, she was an extremely competitive person, yet gracious and always a team player... I very much enjoyed spending time with Melanie and Casey at the 20-year Mary Star High School reunion - we even talked about getting our families together sometime in what we hoped would be the not too distant future... my thoughts and prayers go out to their families during this very difficult time...

Warren Lovell

August 6, 2006

What fun times my brother Brian and I had growing up with Casey. Stacking surfboards in the Army Jeep, and always living life! I worked a bit with Casey at IATSE, and always thought he'd be one of the old school surfers at Tourmaline. The world just got ripped off. I'll see you out there Casey.

John & Lisa Morreale (DiLeva)

August 6, 2006

We are deeply sorry to hear of your tragic loss. John and I both went to school with Melanie and have very fond memories of her. We will keep her,her husband, and children in our daily prayers. God will take these two angels under his wing.

Jane Flanagan-Brown

August 6, 2006

Casey was a beautiful soul. I went to Mission Bay High School with him. He will be missed by every life he touched. God Bless the little angels they left behind.

August 6, 2006

We are deeply shocked and saddened by the untimely death of Melanie and Casey. Their unity and love towards their children should be an example to all of us. Our thoughts and prayers are with the whole family.

Sincerely,

The Fadda Family from All Hallows

August 6, 2006

Casey, you are dearly remembered and deeply missed.

Jill and Ross Latimer

August 6, 2006

I only met Melanie once but was struck by how beautiful she was. I am her sister Mary's friend but have always felt a strong kinhsip with the entire Jones family. Barber and Jones families, my thoughts and prayers are with you.

Christine Bogdanovich Vidovich

August 6, 2006

I was so sorry to learn of such a tremendous loss. My deepest sympathy to the entire family.

Lisa Bjazevich Caraveo

August 5, 2006

Melanie, I will always remember the fun we had together as kids on Perch Street!

My prayers are with you Barber and Jones Families.

God Bless,

Debbie (Rosso) Baker

August 5, 2006

Our heartfelt condolences to the Barber and Jones families. We offer our prayers and fond memories of Melanie and Casey.

Sincerely,

Brian & Debbie Baker

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