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Judge Manuel L. Real

1924 - 2019

Judge Manuel L. Real obituary, 1924-2019, Los Angeles, CA

Manuel Real Obituary

1924 - 2019 The Honorable Manuel L. Real, age 95, passed away at home on June 26, 2019 surrounded by the love of his family. He was the longest active serving Federal Judge in the United States (52 years) and continued to do the work he loved until a short time before his final illness. Manuel Real was born in San Pedro, CA to Francisco and Maria Real, had an older brother, John, and a twin brother, Emil. Manuel attended San Pedro High School and USC. He was a member of the Sigma Chi fraternity and continued to have monthly lunches with Sigma Chi brothers. He served in the U.S. Navy at the end of WWII and was released to inactive duty as Ret. Res. Lt. He attended Loyola Law School and was admitted to the California Bar in 1953. Manuel's legal career spanned over 60 years as Assistant U.S. Attorney, in private practice, then as U.S. Attorney. In 1966, he was appointed to the newly formed Central District of California of the United States District Court, by President Lyndon B. Johnson during which he served as Chief Judge for 11 years for his "court family." He believed in a fair and speedy trial and often kept late courtroom hours if he felt a jury was close to a decision and the trial could be finished. He expected those in his courtroom to be professional and well prepared and he mentored his law clerks as they commuted to work together daily. His staff and colleagues were like family and he respected and loved them. Judge Real believed in rehabilitation, not just punishment, and was known to give innovative sentences prior to the mandatory sentencing; such as sending a doctor to provide care for a reservation instead of taking his/her license/career away. He took the time to meet personally with parolees to help them keep on track to a better life. Judge Real shared his passion for the law with students and lawyers in courses, on panels and as judge in moot court competitions. He traveled internationally to help enhance democratic opportunities in South America, Eastern Europe, Russia and Mongolia by meeting with judges, lawyers, law students and government officials through programs with the State Dept, Dept. of Justice and the American Bar Association. He shared his time, expertise, wisdom and caring with so many. He received numerous awards including being knighted by King Juan Carlos 1 of Spain with the Order of Queen Isabella the Catholic with the Rank of Officer's Cross in 2001. Manuel L. Real Elementary School in Perris, CA was named after Judge Real due to his efforts to create the Val Verde School District. He participated annually in the school's Read Across America Day as Principal for a Day, reading to the children. He loved kids and was always happy with a lap full of grandchildren and great-grandchildren. Manuel taught his family values by being honest, kind, accepting of all, full of integrity, and having the courage to do what he felt was right, even if not popular. He enjoyed working in his extensive garden and watching USC Trojan football games. His humility was his greatest asset and his love towards his family was his greatest gift. He was so proud of his hometown, San Pedro, which he affectionally referred to as "God's Country" and he was a devoted, loving, and generous husband, father, brother and friend. In 1955, Manuel married Stella Michalik and they had four children Michael, Melanie, Timothy and Jay. They were married for 37 years until her death in 1994. In 1999, he reconnected with Tao Sykes, his love from his youth, and they married in 2000. He is survived by his wife, children, 9 grandchildren and 3 great-grandchildren. Memorial Mass will be offered at Holy Trinity Church in San Pedro, CA on July 16, 2019 at 1:00pm. In lieu of flowers, donations can be sent to the Manuel L. Real Elementary School, care of Manuel L Real PTO 19150 Clark Street, Perris, CA 92570 in Perris, CA or the Sisters of Charity of Rolling Hills, 28600 Palos Verdes Dr. East, Rancho Palos Verdes, CA 90275. Please sign the guestbook at mcnerneysmortuary.com.

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Published by Daily Breeze on Jul. 12, 2019.

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April 22, 2020

Judge Real administered my attorney's oath in 1994. He was a great judge and an even better man. Rest in Peace, The Honorable Manuel L. Real.

April 9, 2020

Dear family of Manny Real:

My Mother and her best friend Granville Abbot went to USC with Manny and he was a dear friend of my mother and was there in my time of need. I will never ever forget his compassion, strength and love.
He is looking down and loving you all. I send my sincerest condolences and fond aloha.

Melanie Marilyn Goss

Cindy Villegas

August 19, 2019

My sincerest condolences to the family. I work at the Costco hearing center where Judge Real had his aids serviced. I was blessed to get to know both him & wife. They would come in together every Friday to do some shopping & would come by to say hello & have me service his aids. Over time I built a relationship with them. A few weeks ago Mrs, Real came by to let me know he had passed & I was so heartbroken. Judge Real you will truly be missed as you touched many hearts, as well as mine. RIP Judge Real

July 21, 2019

Dear Tim, Melanie, Jay and Michael:

I am very sorry that I could not make it to the services for your beloved dad. I know how much you love him and how relevant and influential he has been in the life of each of you. He leaves a space that nobody will ever be able to fill. His life story is an incredible series of accomplishments and his passion for the mission he carried on for his entire life is a great example and an inspiration for all of us. I am sure that you are now all cherishing the wonderful memories he left behind: those memories will keep him alive forever.
Please accept my sincere condolences and a big hug.

Sincerely,

Renato

July 17, 2019

Sending my condolences and prayers of comfort and peace to the Real family.
Maria Todora-Denue

July 17, 2019

To Tim, Jay and the entire Real Family,
I'm so sorry for your loss. Judge Real was a great man and an asset to this city. My prayers are with you.
God bless,
Lissa DeLuca

Sigrid Draper

July 14, 2019

Judge Robert J Kelleher Adored this man! We spent many wonderful years together. He was a wonderful man. He will be missed!

Erin Cahill

July 14, 2019

Deepest sympathy to the Real family,

July 14, 2019

Elizabeth
So sorry to hear of his passing. My deepest prayers are with you. So miss seeing you at Curves and our lunches . Hopefully, we can get together very soon
Katie Pederson

Kimberly Seaber Flowers

July 13, 2019

Dear Michael, Melanie, Tim and Jay:

On behalf of the Seaber Family, I must say we have the most loving memories of your wonderful dad, our "Uncle Manny." We had so many fine times sharing dinners and Christmas' feasts with the four of you, Stella and Manny, and of course, spunky Amelia. Your dad was always so engaged and focused on each and every child -- he made us feel special and important. Our hearts will forever cherish the love and respect your father showed for everyone he encountered. What an amazing addition to heaven he will make! Lots of love and warm thoughts, Kimi Seaber Flowers, Garry, Shelly and Donna, and Poppa Harry from above! xo

Bryant

July 13, 2019

When I was a young boy in the 1960s, I had a school assignment that included name all the Supreme Court justices. I could not find the answer anywhere, so I looked in the phone book and called the Municipal Court. Judge Real answered! When I explained my situation to him, he very patiently helped me with the assignment. Although through the years I met many who knew him, I never met him. But I always recalled his kindness from that one phone call. I think it spoke a lot about him. May he rest in peace.

July 12, 2019

A Life well lived....God Bless and keep him and his Family. Fondly, Alana Binns Maury, Gig Harbor, Wa.

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