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LaDonna Shea Obituary

After successfully battling multiple myeloma for many years, LaDonna R. Shea succumbed to a rapid upsurge in the disease on November 16 at the Anschutz Hospital in Denver. Even when she endured grueling therapy, she never complained if she could see friends, fun and adventure on the other side. During her last few weeks she could be seen going for long walks on the Anschutz campus with Michael, her husband of 42 years, and her IV medication pole, which she referred to as R2 D2. LaDonna was born in Minnesota to Don and Harriet Reiner. At her age four the family moved to California where she grew up in Whittier and Glendora, where she was the 1966 Miss Glendora. She loved walking in the hills and horseback riding. She attended UCLA and graduated in 1970 with a BA in theatre arts. She considered her degree a prerequisite for her airline career because she could fly all over the world and see great plays. After graduation she joined Pan Am as a flight attendant. She lived briefly in NYC and Santa Monica before moving to Honolulu where she lived for 18 years. In Hawaii she especially enjoyed sailing (she won a Hawaii Yacht Club Wahini Invitational trophy in 1979), spinnaker flying, and kayaking, kayaking the north shores of Oahu, Kauai and Molokai despite the admonition of a young Molokai boy that if she did the north shore in that kayak she would end up "dead meat". Having been scuba certified at UCLA she enjoyed diving from the Hawaiian Islands, Fiji, Palau and Truk to Mexico and the Antilles. LaDonna loved the airline industry, so when the first and then the second woman were hired as pilots she went straight to the airport and started pilot training. Within a year she was flying for smaller operations, including Scenic Air and Air Molokai, where she flew the last DC 3 in regular passenger service in the United States. An inspiring pioneer in women's aviation, she went on to fly L-1011 first officer and DC-9 captain for Hawaiian Air and 747 first officer and 737 captain for United. In 1994 she was transferred to Denver and she and her husband moved to Boulder. LaDonna embraced Colorado life, improving her downhill skiing and taking up nordic, where she climbed to level 3 certified ski instructor. She and her husband raised black angus cattle. She particularly enjoyed riding her Harley around the west, hiking, fourteening, kayaking, paddle boarding, shooting with Denver SWAT, square dancing, the Bolder Boulder, and throwing political parties for Mark Udall and Ken Salazar (partying was another skill acquired at UCLA). LaDonna loved walking with her 4 dogs over 17 years and volunteered with many organizations, including Meals on Wheels, Victim Advocates, Longmont Buddhist Temple, Conference on World Affairs, and a wild bird rehabilitation center where she was the only volunteer who could safely feed Cookie the owl. LaDonna was a joy to be around, brightening every encounter with her smile, grace, humor and cheerful irreverence. Her death brought condolences from all over the world, phone calls inevitably ending with laughter through the tears over shared memories of the delightfully unique LaDonna. LaDonna was predeceased by her parents and sisters Shelley and Ros, and survived by her husband, sister Wendy, niece Jennifer, and nephews Joel, Jerry and Jeff, and two of her devoted dogs. In lieu of flowers, gifts can be made in her honor to the Humane Society of Boulder Valley. A memorial service is being planned for January in Boulder, and celebration of life happy hours will be planned beginning in the spring in Boulder, Honolulu and Mexico. Because of current venue restrictions, those wishing to participate are asked to contact Michael at [email protected].

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Published by The Daily Camera on Dec. 5, 2021.

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Shelly and David Dezzani

December 20, 2021

Dear LaDonna,
In loving memory,
You always made us laugh and feel joyful, during the years we knew you in Hawaii.
Thank you for the memories, which remain with us and still bring laughter and joy.
Shelly and David Dezzani

Stephanie Konopelski

December 18, 2021

I am very sorry for your loss Michael. LaDonna was an extraordinary person and I am lucky to have known her and worked with her at Lakeshore Athletic Club. I will miss her smile and all the stories of the adventures you both had. I´ll be keeping you in my thoughts.

Pam Ross

December 15, 2021

So sorry for your loss Michael we enjoyed our Prospect Street neighborhood and watching the beginning of your early morning Harley rides. Much Aloha. Pam

Bob McClendon

December 14, 2021

I will never forget my dinners with LaDonna in your backyard! She was and will always be one of my favorite people!

Mary Elsea

December 11, 2021

I feel blessed to have known LaDonna, and am in awe of her many extraordinary accomplishments. Despite her circumstance, she never complained, and was simply grateful for the day. My condolences to you, Mike, and to hour family. I will look forward to raising a glass in her honor.

John Walsh

December 9, 2021

Michael, such a beautiful tribute to LaDonna. She was a remarkable woman but I had no idea just how extraordinary her accomplishments were. She is missed and has clearly left an indelible impression on all her family and friends. I look forward to being able to hoist a jar in her honor. Be gentle with yourself and please let me know if I can help in any way. Love you.

Betty Harris

December 6, 2021

she was always so happy and smillng. we had not crossed paths for some time but i missed her.
Take special care

Martha Lawrence

December 6, 2021

LaDonna is like extended family to us Driggs girls. Her kindness, generosity, eye for beauty, love of animals, and all-around gutsy approach to life were and are an inspiration. It was a privilege to be a part of her world. Sending warm hugs to you, Michael. Chrissy and I are here for you if you need us. Love, Martha

peter

December 5, 2021

Michael....thinking of you; it's hard to be left behind.Dylan Thomas' poem is so relevant under these circumstances.
Fond regards,.....P

Joel Tyler

December 5, 2021

Just sending my condolences to uncle Mike and all of LaDonna´s family / friends. We are all so blessed to have known her. Actually, we can all BRAG, that we knew her! She was a woman who left her mark on this world, and left family and friends who are better people, for knowing and loving her. I will continue to gain strength and wisdom from her spiritually, until we meet again. Mike, I can´t imagine your loss, although you too are so lucky to have had such a woman for a wife. We love you now and forever, LaDonna.
Joel

Ed & Jan Kanemoto

December 5, 2021

Michael,
What a phenomenal life you and LaDonna shared. We are remorseful that we did not get to you both better.
Our appreciation for your support of the Longmont Buddhist Temple.
Our Condolences to you and your family.
In Gassho,
Ed & Jan

Eric and Nancy Hanson

December 5, 2021

LaDonna was such a great person. We will miss her very much. We thought that the obituary was very touching.

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