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Mary Jedamus Obituary

Mary Lu Jedamus, 85, died peacefully at her home in Boulder on Jan. 28, 2016. Born in Fall River, Wisconsin, to Will and Anna Miller, Mary Lu was educated at Lawrence University in Appleton and the University of Wisconsin, where she met her future husband, Paul Jedamus. They married on Sept. 9, 1952, and moved to Boulder the following year so that Paul could take up his position on the faculty of the CU Business School. Mary Lu and Paul met in the Pres House choir in Madison; later they both sang as soloists in the choir of the First Presbyterian Church in Boulder. For many years they were active members of the Church of the Apostles, a liberal offshoot of 'First Pres.' Mary Lu also worked at the United Protestant Center (later the Center for United Ministries) on the CU campus, where she met many students who became lifelong friends. For several years, Mary Lu worked in the Boulder office of the Board of County Commissioners. She was equally committed to her volunteer work: at the Boulder County AIDS Project (BCAP), the Rape Crisis Center, as a victim advocate with the Boulder Police Department, and for the Conference on World Affairs. Her empathy and sense of social justice will be remembered by many. Mary Lu is survived by her daughters, Julith Jedamus (Stryker McGuire), Laurel Jedamus (Todd Ferwerda), Carrie (Allan) Heltzel, and Lissa Jedamus (Dave Denu); honorary daughter, Kenia Sanchez of Teotecacinte, Nicaragua; grandchildren, Jacob Jedamus-Denu, Rhett and Alex Denu, Emmet and Will Ferwerda, and Will McGuire; brother, Larry Wright; and eleven nieces and nephews. A memorial service will be held at Ryssby Church, 9000 North 63rd St., at 2pm on May 15th. Memorial donations may be given in Mary Lu's name to the Boulder County AIDS Project.

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Published by The Daily Camera on Feb. 14, 2016.

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Carla Sciaky

February 8, 2021

It is hard to believe it was already five years ago! I hadn't seen Mary Lu for many years -- probably not since Julie's son Will was a very young boy -- yet I can still hear her sweet, kind, upbeat voice in my mind. Whenever I saw her, she was so welcoming, seemingly so happy to see me, and it always made me feel so cared for! I felt a very special kind of affection for and connection to her. I send much love to all of her daughters, such a big part of my life years ago.

Carla Sciaky

March 6, 2016

I am so sorry to hear of Mary Lu's passing! My heart goes out to Julie, Laurie, Carrie, and Lissa, and to Kenia, whom I have not met. What a kind woman she was -- I can still hear her sweet voice in my ear when I think of her. My love and best wishes to you all!

Maggie Pennington

February 18, 2016

Just wanted you to know I am truly sorry for your loss. Your mom and grandmother was an outstanding lady, and extremely proud of her family.


I considered her a good friend and will miss her. I was fortunate enough to have had a long visit with her over lunch on the 26th of Jan.

Know you have many great memories of the past.

Sincerely

Diana Smith

February 17, 2016

Boulder Rotary Club sends heartfelt condolences to Mary Lu's family. We do miss Paul, as a long-time Club member, and we will miss her as well.

February 16, 2016

I haven't seen Mary Lu in a few years, since before Paul's passing, but all of my memories of her stay clear. A wonderful person, and her obituary makes that even more pronounced. I will try to contact Kenia, whose love for Paul & Mary Lu was quite deep.

Greg Bowles (Nicaragua)

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