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Catherine Toye Obituary

Catherine M. Toye Rhinebeck- Catherine M. Toye, 84, passed away on Thursday, June 6, 2013 at the Northern Dutchess Hospital in Rhinebeck. She was born in New York, N.Y., the daughter of the late Abraham Cologn and Helen Rohr. She married Edward Toye, who passed away in 1956. She studied at the Latin American Institute, then worked at the U.N. as a Spanish translator. After moving to Rhinebeck, nearly sixty years ago, she did her undergraduate work at Bard College, then received her Master's in social work from Fordham University. She was a Doctoral Candidate at Columbia University School of Social Work. Catherine worked as a social worker for the Astor Home for Children. Later, she was Director of Social Services at St. Cabrini Home and then, Director of Residential Services for the Ulster Association for Retarded Children. In 1986 Governor Mario Cuomo reappointed her to the Wassaic Developmental Center Board of Visitors. She also served as President of the New York State Association of Boards of Visitors of Mental Hygiene Facilities, and volunteered for the N.Y.S. Commission on Quality of Care. Catherine was an active member of Good Shepherd Parish. She is survived by three daughters, Catherine Toye and her husband Frank; Monica Toye-Smith of Rhinebeck; and Marcia Toye-Vego of Atlanta, Ga.; four grandchildren, Anne Leigh, Laura Ellen, Erica Smith and Matthew Smith; a niece, Peg Bardong and a nephew, Thomas Porter. Calling hours will be held from 10 a.m. to 12 p.m. on Monday, June 10, 2013 at the Dapson-Chestney Funeral Home, 51 W. Market St., Rhinebeck. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 12:30 p.m. on Monday at the Good Shepherd Church, 94 E. Market St., Rhinebeck. Interment will follow in St. Joseph's Cemetery, Rhinecliff. Memorial donations are requested to Good Shepherd Church, 3 Mulberry St., Rhinebeck, N.Y. 12572. Arrangements are under the direction of the Dapson-Chestney Funeral Home, 51 West Market St., Rhinebeck, N.Y. 12572.

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Published by the Daily Freeman from Jun. 7 to Jun. 9, 2013.

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Dave Bayliss

June 20, 2013

For so many years, I knew of Catherine. As I used to plow her driveway and mow the field at the old house for my boss when I was younger. Always wondering what the story was behind that old house. Recently I was blessed to finally meet Catherine some 15 years later. Giving her a ride to the hospital in the ambulance where I stayed with her for a short time making conversation. I was getting a history lesson and the time came when I had to go. I asked Catherine to someday share the story of that old house I spent many years driving around as a kid mowing the field. She did promise to tell the story one day, and I believe she will someday. Thank you Catherine for the short time we talked see you again someday. For the friends and family I am very sorry for your loss.

Robert Smith

June 10, 2013

Dear Monica and Family,
I truly am sorry for your loss.
May the good LORD comfort you all during these terrible times.

June 10, 2013

Monica and Family,
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your family member. Please accept my condolences and best wishes.

Adele Cherry

Sandra Filler

June 8, 2013

Monica and family....I am so sorry for your loss. May the memories of your Mom & grandmother help to comfort you through this difficult time.
Sandra Filler, Charlotte, NC

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