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James Gilpatric Obituary

James Francis “Digger” Gilpatric KINGSTON-James Francis “Digger” Gilpatric, 89, a lifelong Kingston resident, and one of Kingston’s longest-serving morticians, passed away in the comforting presence of his wife, on Saturday, Jan. 12, 2019. A native of Kingston, he was the son of the late Ralph and Marie (Murphy) Gilpatric. Jimmy was a graduate of Kingston High School Class of 1946, attended Siena College from 1947-49, was a veteran of the U.S. Air Force, graduated from the Renouard School for Embalmers (at Bellevue Hospital, N.Y.C.) June 1950, and earned his NYS License to Practice Funeral Directing on July 17, 1951. In 1950, Jimmy joined his grandfather’s funeral firm, the James M. Murphy Funeral Home. Following the death of his grandfather, Jimmy took over as owner and funeral director of the firm in 1954. In 1972, Jimmy marked the 100th anniversary of his funeral home with a change of name and plans for expansion, revealing that the four-generation family firm would be renamed the Gilpatric-Murphy Funeral Home. In 2009, the funeral home business was sold and renamed the Gilpatric-VanVliet Funeral Home, and eventually moved to Ulster Park in the Town of Esopus in 2012. Jimmy continued as an advisor and mentor to the firm’s new owner, funeral director Harry VanVliet IV. In his more than 60 years as funeral director, Jimmy was witness to many changes in the funeral profession. Jimmy was a former Ulster County Legislator, a past Commander of Kingston American Legion Post 150, a member of Kingston Council 275 Knights of Columbus 4th Degree, a longtime faithful parishioner of St. Mary’s Roman Catholic Church and a member of its Holy Name Society, a past member of Kingston Ancient Order of Hibernians where he was also recognized as 2003 Mayor of the Day, a member for 25 years of Kingston Babe Ruth Baseball League where, as an original founder,he served as its first president. He was also a past member of NYS Football & Baseball Officials, a past 45 year member of Kingston Kiwanis Club, and a longtime member of Twaalfskill Golf Club. Jimmy will be remembered for his quick wit, his Irish charm, and his laid back personality. He had two speeds, slow and slower, which allowed him to sit back, relax, enjoy life and its people as it unfolded before him. Jimmy ALWAYS had a smile on his face, a twinkle in his eye, and a joke to share. He dearly loved his hometown Kingston. He also loved his time spent in Cape Cod and Ireland, as well as his hand rolled cigars from Bach Factory Cigars on Wilbur Avenue, the Brooklyn Dodgers, the Mets, the Red Sox, and anyone who beat the Yankees. He was famous at Giants Stadium where he led his season ticket section in cheers and was proud of the drinks he shared with Joe “Willie” Namath the night before Super Bowl III. Jimmy worried about little, was loved by many, and will be dearly missed by each and every one of his family members and friends. He is survived by his wife of 27 years, Roslie (Parmenter) Gilpatric; his son, Hon. James P. Gilpatric, and his wife Elizabeth, of Kingston; three daughters, Mary Ellen “Mimi” Croswell, and her husband Dennis, of Kingston, Patricia Gilpatric, of Kingston, and Christine Gilpatric Fiore of Tennessee; three stepsons, Joseph Schabot and his wife Michele, of Apex N.C., Steven Schabot, and his wife Lynn,

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Published by the Daily Freeman from Jan. 15 to Jan. 16, 2019.

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January 20, 2019

Our sincerest condolences on your loss.
Kathleen and Ted Musialkiewicz

George Kotrady

January 20, 2019

Jim was a great person and a great baseball coach. Jim was my coach when I played on the Kiwanis Baseball team in the Babe Ruth League. Jim will be missed by many. Rest In Peace Coach. God Bless

Gabrielle Keenen

January 18, 2019

Dear Patty,Jim and family.,,
I am so sorry for your loss. Your Dad was one of kind with his own mold. You can be very proud of him and all the good he did for others. The Benedictine sisters will never forget his many kindnesses. I am sorry that I will not be able to make the wake or Funeral mass. I am disappointed,but I am a bit under the weather and feel it not wise to try.
I just know your Dad is in a better place and at peace now.
Love and prayers,Sr. Gabrielle Keenen. O. S. B.

Richard & Joanne Bush

January 17, 2019

Jim and family....so sorry to hear of your Dad's passing.....our condolences to you and your family.

Kim Letus

January 17, 2019

I have many fond memories of Digger from years ago uptown. Running into him out and about always made my day happier because he always wore a smile and had something funny to say. Rest In Peace. Sincere and heartfelt condolences to the Gilpatric family.

January 16, 2019

Dear Patti and family,

So sorry for the loss of youre Dad. He's looking over all of you and smiling down upon all of you. Truly hope you know that in this difficult time that others are praying and thinking of you.Fondly Lynn Hughes

Marc and Ellen Luksberg

January 16, 2019

Sending our condolences to the family and many friends

January 16, 2019

My deepest sympathies to the entire family.
Sincerely,
Merle

January 16, 2019

He was a wonderful man. Our deepest sympathy. Ron and Kathy Keillor

January 16, 2019

I am so sorry for your loss. Your all in my thoughts, prayers and heart.
Pat Coyne

January 15, 2019

Jim,Betty, Patty and family,
We are so sorry for the passing of your Dad. May you find comfort in the love and wonderful memories that you have. Our hearts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time.

Frank and Rose Piccoli

Claire Hannis

January 15, 2019

Dear Christine,
My sincere sympathy, for the loss of your Father. It was such a pleasure to read about his life and career, truly a great all round guy. Someone to be very proud of and family he could be very proud of.
So hope to connect with you while you are back in the area. I so remember our days at Benedictine volunteering. I just loved that and spent my entire career between Nursing Homes and Hospitals. Never could get enough of working in the field of healthcare. However started out to follow in the footsteps of your Father in Funeral Service, but never found my way back to it.
You will be in my thoughts and prayers as you go through this difficult time.
Sincerely, Claire A Hannis
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Joe & Penny Stinton

January 15, 2019

Dear Jim and family!
So sorry to hear of the passing of your dear dad! What a legacy he leaves to all who knew him! A true Kingstonian!
Fondly, Joe and Penny Stinton

John DeGasperis

January 15, 2019

Jim & Family, I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your Dad. I have many fond memories of Jim,
My Hero, and always thought the world of him. Truly one of the good guys!

Jacqueline & Philip Timbrouck

January 15, 2019

Our prayers are with the family.

Bea & Harry Freer

January 15, 2019

Truly one of a kind. Our thoughts are with you.

Wendy Buzzanco

January 15, 2019

Dear Jim
It has been an honor to have met you and have spent lunch time with you and your lovely wife Roslie..I enjoyed you sense of humor and your contagious smile and laughter. It was amazing how your face lit up when you were singing and or having lunch with MiMi and Patti at dinner but always for Roslie. You will be missed and loved always at table 19.
I send my condolences and prayers to Rosali, Patti & MiMi and to the rest of the family.

January 15, 2019

Dear Jim
It has been an honor to have met you and have spent lunch time with you and your lovely wife Roslie..I enjoyed you sense of humor and your contagious smile and laughter. It was amazing how your face lit up when you were singing and or having lunch with MiMi and Patti at dinner but always for Roslie. You will be missed and loved always at table 19.
I send my condolences and prayers to Rosali, Patti & MiMi and to the rest of the family. ❤
Wendy Buzzanco

Nancy Lo Galbo

January 15, 2019

My deepest sympathy for your loss. I remember oh so well my father talking about his friend "Digger". He was a wonderful man who took such good care of my parents when they passed. God bless him.

roger brandt

January 14, 2019

Sorry for your loss.I will always remember Jim being a friend and always had a smile on his face.GOD BLESS.

Rosemarie McCardle

January 14, 2019

I remember all the good times our families had at the Cape. Hopefully Digger and my father are sitting on a deck somewhere enjoying an ice cold . Two of the best men I grew up with.

Michael Cronin

January 14, 2019

Joseph, James and the rest of the Gilpatric family I wish to send my deepest sympathy for your loss. Jim was a fantastic, professional person and will be missed by all. God bless.

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