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Alexander Brian Stratton

1995 - 2019

Alexander Brian Stratton obituary, 1995-2019, Tarpon Springs, NY

Alexander Stratton Obituary

Alexander Brian Stratton, 23, died on Monday, August 5 when the torture of depression brought him to end his own life. Alex was born on December 5, 1995 in Schenectady NY to Brian U. Stratton now of Colonie, and Lisa Coppola Stratton of Indian Rocks Beach, FL. Both parents survive their son. Alex was diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome at 3 years old and battled anxiety and depression his entire life. Despite years of efforts from all who loved him, he lost the fight. Alex was educated at Howe Elementary School in Schenectady, The Brown School in Niskayuna, and graduated from Guilderland High School with high honors in 2014. He then attended SUNY Cobleskill, majoring in fisheries science. He transferred to Hudson Valley Community College where he was on the Dean's List each semester and received an associate's degree in December 2016. He most recently attended the University of South Florida St. Petersburg where he majored in global business and accounting, and received an award for his Mastery of the Principles of Financial and Managerial Accounting in March 2018. Professionally, Alex was interested in business, politics, international affairs and technology. He was employed in 2017 by Malwarebytes in Clearwater as a lead development representative. While there, he traveled to business events in Phoenix and the Silicon Valley of California. He also traveled to England, Germany and the Netherlands as part of a trip sponsored by the USF Department of Global Business in the spring of 2018. As a high school student, he was employed as a camp counselor at the YMCA's Camp Nassau in Guilderland, where he had spent summers since he was 6 years old. He also loved his weeks on Lake George at the YMCA's Camp Chingachgook. Alex loved to fish and enjoyed many trips to Adirondack lakes, the Great Lakes, fly fishing in Colorado, and ocean fishing in the Florida Keys and the Gulf of Mexico. Several months ago he hooked a monster Tarpon from his ocean kayak right off of Indian Rocks Beach, one of his proudest fishing accomplishments. Alex's biggest passion in life was the game Magic the Gathering. He began playing while only in middle school, often learning from and beating adults who had been playing the strategic card game for years. As he progressed through high school and then college, he continued to play competitively, traveling across the country and even to foreign countries including Costa Rica and most recently, Barcelona, Spain. He not only played the game but became a competition-level judge, a difficult and timely designation to receive. He judged at both Levels 1 and 2 in New York, Florida and at a conference in Las Vegas in 2015 with nearly 10,000 participants. One of his biggest dreams was to qualify for the Magic the Gathering Pro Tour. On May 11, 2019, his dream came true when he placed first of some 250 players in Orlando and was granted a place in the Championship in Barcelona in July 2019. Thankfully, he played well in Barcelona and was happy with the trip. Music was another of Alex's passions, and anyone who knew him well, had heard him play the guitar and even sing his own original music. His refurbished Martin guitar could often be found with him in the back of the car on the way to one stop or another in his active life. His musical tastes varied from alternative rock to grunge to hip hop. He attended many live concerts throughout the country. Through his travels and talents, Alex acquired literally hundreds of close friends throughout the country and even foreign lands. The outpouring from those in the Magic the Gathering Community worldwide has been astounding. His generosity, intelligence and sheer passion for life and what he loved were shared and admired by so many people. Besides his parents, Alex is survived by his maternal grandmother Alice Brown of Indian Rocks Beach, FL, who he was very close to and confided in over the years; David Ardman of Indian Rocks Beach (Lisa's life companion); his maternal aunt Debora Moran of Dunedin, FL; paternal aunts and uncles: Lisa Bravo (and the late Martin Bravo), Debra and Roger Mott, Kevin Stratton, and Kim and Mike Petrie. Several cousins throughout the country also survive Alex. He was predeceased by his maternal grandfather Joseph Coppola of Troy, step maternal grandfather Donald Brown of Waterford, paternal grandfather the Honorable Samuel S. Stratton (US Congressman) and paternal grandmother Joan Stratton. Memorial donations in the name of Alexander Stratton can be sent to Family & Child Service of Schenectady, 256 Union St., Schenectady, NY 12305. This organization was a life support for our family during Alex's entire childhood, providing guidance and assistance with special education systems, doctor referrals, and respite care. Burial will take place in the Capital Region at a later date. Services are being handled by the Thomas B. Dobies Funeral Home, Tarpon Springs, FL.

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Published by The Daily Gazette Co. on Aug. 22, 2019.

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Ivan Kipniss

September 9, 2019

Brian and Lisa, we are devestated by this news.
A terrible loss of a gifted young man and beloved son.
You and your family are in our thoughts, please accept our sincere and heartfelt condolences.

Barbara & Ivan Kipniss

David Wilkinson

August 29, 2019

Brian and Lisa - Please accept my deepest sympathy for the loss of your son. My thoughts are with you and your family at this most difficult time.

David Wilkinson
Schenectady, NY

August 26, 2019

To Alex's family: I am so very sorry for the
loss of Alex. He obviously accomplished many of
his dreams in such a short time. I sincerely admire your courage in mentioning depression.
Maybe if we talk about this heartbreaking illness more frequently we can change the world.
Prayers always.
A Grandmother

Vincent DiCerbo

August 23, 2019

Brian. It with great sadness that Lynn and I learned of Alex's death. Words cannot do justice when a child is taken in the prime of life. You as well as Alex will be in our prayers as you move forward through this difficult time. Once again please accept our sincere and heartfelt condolences.

Christine Novac

August 22, 2019

We're so very sorry for your loss. Alex was smart, compassionate and thoughtful. And his dry, quick wit and brutal honesty were SOOOO refreshing! He was a good man, a lovely human being and an awesome neighbor. He will be truly, truly missed - Christine & Michael Novac

Lynn Goliber

August 22, 2019

Lisa, Brian, I have no words. I can only Pray.

August 22, 2019

My deepest heartfelt condolences to the family of Alex Brian Stratton. You don't know me, but my mom worked in the City Clerk's Office in Schenectady City Hall and since retired. My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time. He had so many accomplishments throughout his life. I know what you are going through as depression and anxiety runs in our family. He will be loved and missed by all who knew him. May He Rest In Peace.

Jennifer Ziskin

August 22, 2019

So very, truly sorry to hear of the loss of this amazing young man. Our thoughts are with you. Sending you peace and love.
Warmly ~ Jennifer & Bill Ziskin

Craig & Heather Jasenski

August 22, 2019

So very sorry Lisa to hear of the passing of your son Alex. Losing a child is a terrible tragedy us parents dread to ever face. Please accept our deepest sympathies in this time of your mourning.

Tony Catalfamo

August 21, 2019

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Mike McNulty

August 21, 2019

Brian, Lisa, and Family: Alex was my dear Friend since he was a little boy. I enjoyed and benefited from our many encounters and conversations over the years. The most recent one was a review of the 2020 Presidential race, when Alex went through a detailed analysis of the key states. I will miss my Friend Alex, and I am very sorry for your loss.

Stephen Iachetta

August 21, 2019

Most sincere heartfelt condolences and comfort to all family and friends of Alexander Brian Stratton. Words cannot convey the sadness we share; together we can rise to our collective challenges and opportunities to make a better world.

August 21, 2019

So sorry for your loss.

August 21, 2019

He was an amazing person with so many accomplishments! My heart goes out to his family!

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