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James Alexander Sands

James Alexander Sands obituary, Altamont, NY

James Sands Obituary

James Alexander Sands died suddenly and accidentally at home on June 13, 2021. He was known as James or "Alex" by his friends, classmates and business associates. He was a creative, kind and the sweetest person you could have known. His smile lit up his face and his enthusiasm was infectious. His passions were cycling, hiking, photography, cooking and the creations of his family's architectural design build business. He was proud of the community work that he and his family carried out in the Village of Altamont. Whether it was hanging up Christmas decorations or the hanging of the flower baskets and placing pots of flowers in the village center. He marveled that his family had been doing this for over 30 years. He always said a touch of beauty goes a long way and saw beauty in everything around him. James Alexander also loved traveling around the US visiting family and friends and also his many trips to the British Isles and Europe. He also loved architecture, the culture and the food he experienced in his travels. He especially loved his family home on Martha's Vineyard and the new family guest house that he helped build over the past year. He always tried to catch every sunset and sunrise whether it was on the Vineyard, in the Village of Altamont, at the Helderberg escarpment or looking west from his Saratoga Springs residence. Upon graduation from Guilderland Central High School he and his dad drove his uncle's vintage Chevy suburban (10 mpg) across country to some of the many colleges and universities that he was accepted at: College of Charleston; University of South Carolina; University of Alabama; University of Mississippi; Baylor; University of Texas; University of Colorado and the University of Oregon. He settled on the University of Mississippi or "Ole Miss", home of William Faulkner and Jon Grisham. At Ole Miss he started the Ole Miss Cycling Club and enjoyed all things SEC football-tailgating, baseball and the camaraderie of the SEC Council. He also was a member of the "Sig Ep" fraternity where he made life-long friends. He loved the college town of Oxford Mississippi. After graduation he traveled and then joined the family design/ build business. He is survived by his dad and mom, John and Sherry Makepeace – Sands, of Altamont New York; his brother Dr. John "Max" Sands and his wife Dee and daughter Sophie Sands of Raleigh, North Carolina; his sister Kendra Makepeace Sands and Scott Lindrup of Park Slope-Brooklyn, New York; and his many aunts, uncles and cousins from Florida, New York, Michigan, Georgia, Texas, Indiana, Colorado, Alaska and especially California which he loved. Calling hours will be held on Saturday, June 19, 2021 from 4 to 8 p.m. at Fredendall Funeral Home, 199 Main Street, Altamont . A funeral service will be held on Sunday, June 20, 2021 at 2pm at the Altamont Reformed Church, 129 Lincoln Ave., Altamont, followed by a reception at the church.

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Published by The Daily Gazette Co. on Jun. 18, 2021.

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Ellen Cappellini Frost

June 30, 2021

Sending hugs and prayers to John, Sherry and family and friends. You are in my daily thoughts.

Brenda L Slingerland

June 27, 2021

My condolences to the entire Sands family on the loss of James. Having lost my son at the age of 22, I feel your grief and will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers for comfort and understanding.

Christine Schuff Ackerknecht

June 23, 2021

John and Sherry, I didn't know Alex, but I understand he was an exceptional individual. May you brave this most difficult time together in peace and love for him. My prayers are with you and your family..

David Stankavich

June 22, 2021

John and family. I'm so sorry to hear about the passing of your son, James. Know that my thoughts and prayers go out to you at this time.

Lucinda Robinson

June 21, 2021

My heart goes out to you upon hearing this news. I am praying the Father above will give you peace and rest during this painful time.

Judy Cohen

June 19, 2021

John and Sherry and all the Sands family:
As you all gather today and tomorrow to celebrate Alex's life, know that I am with you in spirit. My heart is breaking with yours. Although I never met Alex, I've heard about him for years. There are no words for a loss such as this. His good deeds and sensibilities will live on through you all and those whose lives he has touched. May you each take comfort in the love of all who know you and who have known Alex. May his memory always be a blessing to all who love him. Sending healing thoughts to you all.

Keith Barbagelott

June 19, 2021

John and Sherry: I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My sympathy to you and your family.

The Alejandro Family

June 19, 2021

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Brad boivin

June 18, 2021

Infectious welcoming soul is right! I got talking w this exciting guy at Ketchum´s last year talking landscaping for almost an hour then realized I knew his dad for 30 yrs. I´m sure he has made this world better for being in it.

Chuck and Kathy Ciaccio

June 18, 2021

Our most sincere heartfelt condolences are sent to your entire family. Please know we are thinking of you during these most difficult days. Our hearts break knowing your loss. We are so sorry and send our love.

Bobby & Denise Garza

June 18, 2021

We are so sorry for your loss. Sending thoughts and prayers to you and your family.

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Skylar Vanwie and family

June 17, 2021

So sorry for your loss. Sending love and prayers to you and your family at this time.

Scott & Liz Wilson

June 17, 2021

Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal. We are so sad for your loss. You are in our prayers.

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4:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.

Fredendall Funeral Home

199 Main Street, Altamont, NY 12009

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20

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2:00 p.m.

Altamont Reformed Church

129 Lincoln Ave., Altamont, NY

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