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John DeLong

1959 - 2020

BORN

1959

DIED

2020

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Bekkering Ellis Funeral Home - Scotia

1 Mohawk Ave

Scotia, New York

John DeLong Obituary

John DeLong, 60, passed away at home, with his family by his side, on Friday, February 7, after a long courageous battle with ALS. Born in Schenectady, NY, on August 5, 1959, he was the son of the late Jesse and Shirley DeLong. John joined the service directly after high school and was very proud to have served in the US Army and later in the Reserves. John worked as a manager for several area supermarkets after leaving the army before becoming head custodian at Lincoln Elementary School in Scotia. It was there that John was encouraged to pursue his lifelong dream of becoming a nurse. John attended Ellis School of Nursing, graduating as an RN in 2006. John was a wonderful, compassionate nurse and worked at Ellis Hospital in the ICU and emergency room as a critical care nurse. John also did contract work for several area nursing agencies and spent some time with VNS, where he was their wound care and pediatric nurse. John worked in the emergency room at the St. Clare's campus of Ellis Hospital until the onset of his illness. John was a volunteer firefighter and EMT with the Beukendaal fire department and then later with the Scotia Fire Department, where he served as their medical captain during his last year of service with them. John loved the Mets, the Jets and Syracuse basketball. He was an avid photographer and spent many hours photographing various forms of nature. Predeceased by his parents and brother, Daniel DeLong, John is survived by his wife of 34 years, Bobbie DeLong, his children, Sonia Older (Mark) of Roanoke, VA, Kaitlyn DeLong of Scotia, John DeLong Jr. of Tempe, AZ and Jesse DeLong of Scotia, as well as his sister, Judie Taft (Larry) of Schenectady, his sister-in law, Claudia DeLong, of Delaware, Ohio, his grandchildren, Thomas DeLong, Christopher Ball and Natalie Older, several nieces and a nephew, his in-laws, Bob and Elsie Clayton of Ballston Spa and his best friend since childhood, Jim Rowland. The family would like to thank Dr. Roberta Miller and the staff at the ALS center for the wonderful and compassionate care they gave John throughout his illness, as well as Dr. John Pezzulo, for all the years he served as John's primary doctor. They would also like to thank Amber, from Home Instead, for the compassionate way you helped to care for John during the last two years of his illness. And to Brenda, our visiting nurse- we can't thank you enough for all you did to care for him (and us) throughout these last two years of his life. The family will receive visitors from 5-8 p.m. on Tuesday, February 11th, at the Bekkering-Ellis Funeral Home in Scotia, NY., with a memorial service to be held at 7:45. Interment will be in the Gerald B. Solomon Veterans cemetery, with a private service for the family at a date to be determined. In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made in John's memory to the ALS center, Albany, NY, or to the charity of your choice.

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Published by The Daily Gazette Co. on Feb. 10, 2020.

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Michelle & Michael LaLonde

February 11, 2020

We are so saddened to hear of John's passing. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this most difficult time.

Lori Marra

February 11, 2020

So sorry for this loss. I wasnt a close friend but I remember John from school and he was rememberable! RIP John.

Boo Reeves

February 10, 2020

My deepest sympathies to John's family. It has been far too long since he and I connected but I know from classmates and mutual friends that he remained the kind soul I knew so long ago. Rest easy John.

Eileen Clark

February 10, 2020

Thank you for your friendship through nursing school and the support that got me through

Stephanie Droms-Aitoro

February 10, 2020

John, you will be missed by many. Rest in peace. Many thoughts and prayers to family and friends.

February 10, 2020

To the Delong Family, we are so sorry to learn of Johns passing. John always had a pleasant greeting when we saw him. When you talked to him, he listened. What a perfect job for him, nursing. He had a great bedside manner.

As you move through these tough times, know that we are sending love and prayers to you all! Love Debbe and Tim Farry.

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11

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5:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.

Bekkering Ellis Funeral Home - Scotia

1 Mohawk Ave, Scotia, NY 12302

Feb

11

Memorial service

7:45 p.m.

Bekkering Ellis Funeral Home - Scotia

1 Mohawk Ave, Scotia, NY 12302

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