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Thomas DeLorenzo Obituary

Thomas E. DeLorenzo, Esq., 82, of Rotterdam, died Monday, Columbus Day, October 8, 2018 at Ellis Hospital after a brief illness. Thomas was born in Schenectady, the son of the late Dominick and Theresa DeLorenzo, and was a graduate of Mont Pleasant High School. He received his bachelor's degree from Siena College in 1957 and his law degree from Albany Law School in 1959. Later that year, Tom was admitted to the New York Bar, the U.S. District Court Northern District of NY and the U.S. Courts of Appeals 2nd Circuit. Tom worked as an attorney for 60 yrs and was the managing partner with DeLorenzo, Grasso and Dalmata, LLP. His professional memberships include the Federated Bar Association, the American Bar Association, NYS Bar Association, Schenectady County Bar Association, and past president of the association, and the American Trial Lawyers Association. Tom also helped to found the Capital Region Italian American Bar Association, and was licensed to practice before the United States Supreme Court. Tom cared deeply about his community especially youth programs including the Rotterdam Boys and Girls Club and Rotterdam Little league and girls' softball. Tom was a proud member of the Sons of Italy, Kiwanis International, Knights of Columbus and Our Lady Queen of Peace Church. He also served as past chairman of the Rotterdam Republican Club and was a past president of the Rotterdam Little League. In addition to his parents, Tom was also predeceased by his brother, Tommaso DeLorenzo and his sister, Mary Bianchi. He is survived by his beloved wife of 57 years, Patricia Rourke DeLorenzo; three children, Thomas D. DeLorenzo of Palm Springs CA, Paul DeLorenzo of Rotterdam and Dana (Michael) Gannon of Rotterdam; as well as his cherished grandchildren, Zachary, Lorenzo, Nicholas and Alexander. Calling hours will be held on Friday from 9 to 11 a.m. at Our Lady Queen of Peace Church, 210 Princetown Rd. A Mass of Christian Burial will begin at the church at 11 a.m. Burial will be at St. John's Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, the family requests memorial donations be made to the Rotterdam Boys and Girls Club, 721 Curry Rd., Schenectady, NY 12306 or Meals on Wheels Schenectady County. Condolences and memories may be shared at demarcostonefuneralhome.com.

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Published by The Daily Gazette Co. from Oct. 10 to Oct. 11, 2018.

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Paul Tocker

October 4, 2020

I Was a law colleague for many years .He was a very component Atty & very well liked in his community.

David Jarvis

October 4, 2020

A very fine professional friend. Will miss him very much

David Jarvis

February 13, 2020

Tom was my attorney and a very professional person. Sorry to hear about his passing.David Jarvis

Shanna Williford

February 2, 2019

My condolences i just found out yesterday I love tom he was the best attorney i ever hired I cryed when i heard he was a good guy and cared about what he did he help out alot went out his way for people you will be missed tom

Tania Olsen

October 29, 2018

Hi Paul and Family I'm so sorry to hear about your dad he will truly missed by everyone He's just like you Paul The Best Lawyer I have ever met

October 12, 2018

my prayers for all his family and friends you will be missed tom xo

Pamela Hopkins

October 12, 2018

Dana and family, so very sorry to hear of your dads passing . Keeping all of you in my thoughts and prayers , may God bless your dads soul and watch over all of you during this most difficult time.

October 11, 2018

Our condolences on the loss of a wonderful man.
RIP ❤

Kathleen Farina & Doreen Greco

Donna Ingersoll (Cooper)

October 11, 2018

Paul And Family,
I'm so sorry to hear that Tommy has passed on. My thoughts and prayers are with everyone in your time of need!


Jeff Cooper

October 11, 2018

So sorry for your loss Patty our prayers are with you.

Susan and Marty Manti

Donna Ingersoll

October 11, 2018

To Paul And Family,
We are so sorry for the passing of your husband, and dad..... Tommy DeLorenzo. Our prayers are with you in your time of need.


Jeff, Donna, Cousin Frances And Family

susan mastroianni

October 11, 2018

MR D I CALLED HIM. MY FAVORITE LANDLORD AND JUST AN AWSOME PERSON. MY SINCEREST CONDOLENCES FOR THE LOSS OF A GREAT MAN

Paul Tocker

October 11, 2018

I had the pleasure of knowing Tom for moe than 40 years .We belonged to the Schenectady County Bar Association and we were very active in the Republican Party. Over the years Tom gave a lot of time to his community ,he was a terrific lawyer and a good friend and will be missed.My condolences to his family.

Gallo and Carroll Families

October 10, 2018

To all members of the DeLorenzo Family: thoughts, prayers and our sincere condolences at this very difficult time.

SUSAN NUGENT (Pitucci)

October 10, 2018

Patty, Paul and family,
My heartfelt condolences for your loss. Tom was a wonderful and honest man who I could always count on to help me at a moment's notice. He was a true and dear friend to my dad, Gino, and my mom, Rosemary. My own dad got sick a few months ago and, sadly, has passed away and when I called Tom, he was there to see him. We had no idea of his own health issues. God bless all of you at this difficult time and know that he is not suffering anymore and he is once again with my dad together in heaven in peace. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

henry bottieri

October 10, 2018

I have known and done business with Tom Delorenzo for over 30 years and he was always a pleasure to work with. I am very sad to hear of his passing. I am sure that his family will appreciate the fact that he will be missed by so many people who have known him throughout his long and honorable career.

Sharon Bialahoski

October 10, 2018

My sincere condolences to the family. Rest in peace Tom

Lisa J McKeen

October 9, 2018

My heartfelt condolences to the DeLorenzo Family. Tom will be missed more than words could express. Remembering Tom and the impact he had on many lives;including mine and my family:
T= thoughtfulness
H= honorable man
O= open-minded
M= memorable
A= amazing person
S= sincerity
all of these words describe the noble attributes and the legacy he has left behind. He will always be thought of in the highest regards.

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