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Gary Richard Jinks

Gary Jinks Obituary

Gary Richard Jinks of St. Charles Services for Gary Richard Jinks, 51, will be 11:30 a.m. Monday, at St. Patrick Church, 408 Cedar St., St. Charles, with the Rev. David Finn officiating. Interment will be private in Resurrection Cemetery, Geneva. Visitation will be from 4 to 9 p.m. Sunday, at Yurs-Wittenberg Funeral Home, 1771 W. State St., (Route 38), Geneva. Born April 7, 1953 in Chicago to Eugene and Genevieve Jinks, he died suddenly Thursday, Jan. 13. Gary was a gifted and innovative musician and composer whose love of music touched many people. His love of life was shadowed only by his passion for music. Mr. Jinks is survived by his loving wife, Marilyn DeStefano; son, William DeStefano; parents, Eugene and Genevieve Jinks of Carpentersville; brother, Michael (Susan) Jinks of Manitowoc, Wis.; former wife, Monica Jinks of Naperville; and many nieces and nephews. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the Illinois Spina Bifida Association, 3080 Odgen Ave., Suite 103, Lisle, IL 60532. For information, (630)232-7337.

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Published by Daily Herald on Jan. 15, 2005.

Memories and Condolences
for Gary Jinks

24 Entries

Neil Keenan

January 9, 2023

Dear friend,
No amount of time erases the great memories of times shared on stage, in the studio, and with family and friends. The energy was positive, and always left us thirsty for more. Here's to you, and the seeds you planted for us. Godspeed my rock brother!
Neil

NEIL S KEENAN

January 17, 2022

Forever grateful for the time spent with Gary and the entire musical entourage over time. Friendships, memories, and musical accomplishments will be cherished forever. Miss you dearly, you big lug!!!

Neil Keenan

January 10, 2020

I think of you often, my dear friend. You visit me in my dreams, and let me know you are still very much with us. I can never thank you enough for the greatest gift of all - the connecting of a wonderful group of people (family, says it better) who remain good friends today. The importance of this legacy can not be understated. Thank you and rock on "For All Eternity..."

David Jungels

January 23, 2005

My Deepest sympathy to all of Gary's immediate family. Like Jim Neff, I knew "wild & crazy" Gary in the 60's and 70's when I played keyboards in Boot Hill. In my eyes, he was a true musician and a bit of a genius. I can close my eyes and hear his FISH cheer from Country Joe. May the force be with you wherever you go.

Marge Mangelsdorf

January 22, 2005

Dear Marilyn & William,

Bob & I were so sad to hear such news. He was a tremendous musical force. He was in his element when composing, playing or directing a session. There are many people that will miss him. Please know that if you need anything, please do not hesitate to call us.

Love you both.

Marge & Bob

Maggie Schoenfeld

January 21, 2005

I've had the most interesting week, pondering the days of Decadence, and the creative individuals I worked with, especially Gary, our leader.

You were in your mid 20s then, and already equipped with a repetoire of original lyrics that would put many a musician to shame.

Even if you were to pour out half the amount of passion, creativity and stage presence before and after the time that I knew you, you've lived a thousand lives, my friend.

Godspeed, Gary.

My sincere sympathy to your entire family--

Maggie

Angela Cliff

January 21, 2005

Dear Marilyn & Will, Mr. & Mrs. Jinks, Mike and Monica - For all of you his closest family, my deepest sympathy and prayers go out to you in this very difficult of times. Over the years Gary became a dear friend to me. He was larger than life and through his enthusiasm and vision he brought reality to unimaginable musical projects. He pushed us to new individual limits. He was both teacher and coach. He believed in abilities we didn't even know we had. I will miss him greatly, his voice, his encouragement, his dreams and yes the countless hours of going over a multitude of projects that only he could follow the conversation. Gary, as I mentioned before you were larger than life and we feel your void - Godspeed! Love, Angela

Neil Keenan

January 21, 2005

To Marilyn and William,

I look at you both as family. Sandy, Roxanne, and I love you both. We are always here, always near. Will, if you ever want to jam - call me! If you need help with equipment - call me! Anything at all. Mar, never hesitate to call us -for anything. All of our love and sympathies,

The Keenan's

Neil Keenan

January 21, 2005

My Teacher, My Brother, I owe you everything. Thanks for all the guidance, patience, and friendship over the years in all of our musical endeavors. I will always be grateful. And God willing, we will carry on with your spiritual guidance, the dreams that are yet unfinished. Peace my friend, and Godspeed.

Molly and Bob Bolz

January 19, 2005

Marilyn and William,

We are so very so sorry for your loss. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you both.

robert and bruce prindle/wachholder

January 18, 2005

We were saddened to hear of your loss, Marilyn. Nothing ever prepares us for these events but our hope is that you and William can find some solace in the love of your friends and many relatives who are thinking of and praying for the both of you in this most difficult of times.

Josie Chukas

January 18, 2005

Dear Marilyn,

I am so sorry for your loss. Gary and I worked together. He talked of you and your son often, and he proudly shared with me your beautiful lullabyes. May you find comfort in your memories. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Josie Chukas

Jenn Bohn

January 18, 2005

Marilyn,I was very saddened to hear about your loss. I used to work with Gary and we would talk for hours at length about Music. I actually credit my current love of music to him. I pray that God give you strength during these times.

John & Debbie Parsley

January 17, 2005

Marilyn & William,

We were so sorry to hear about Gary. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you both.

John & Debbie Parsley

Geri Yaccino

January 17, 2005

I am one of Will's teachers at Haines and I wish to express my profound sympathy for your loss. Will's love of music and his guitar playing had to have been influenced strongly by his stepdad, Gary. Though we never met, I believe he must have been a wonderful mentor to Will. Your family will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.

George and Toni Fulscher

January 16, 2005

Marilyn and William,

We are so sorry to hear about Gary.

Though many miles separate us from you, please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Angela Dowat

January 16, 2005

Marilyn, I was so sorry to hear about your loss. Please know that you and your family are in my prayers. May God Bless you.

dawn lenaghan

January 16, 2005

dear marilyn and william

we are so sorry for your loss. please know that we are here for you should you need anything

with deepest sympathy

dawn, leo and grace lenaghan

Betty (Schumacher) Swinford

January 16, 2005

I was saddened to come upon this obituary. I went to Luther North with Gary, we were in the Class of '70. I didn't know him well, but I just would like you to know that my prayers are with your family. May

the Lord guide you through this and comfort you in His loving arms.

Scott Holmes

January 16, 2005

My profound sympathy goes out to you, Marilyn and William, and I pray that God will give you, as he has in the past, the strength to bare your sorrow. If God tests those he loves best -- you are both certainly among His most beloved.

Maureen Sullivan

January 15, 2005

Marilyn & William,

Our hearts and prayers go out to you.

Maureen Sullivan

Jennifer Washington

Jim Neff

January 15, 2005

To gary's family, I very sorry, My Deepest Sympathy to all of you. I meet Gary about 34 years ago When we were in high school we staterd our 1st band called BOOTHILL and from that pointe we spent many years playing music together and had many adventures while doing it and shared many good memories. He will be missed by all who knew him

Good By my Friend (ROCK ON)

Love Jim

Carolyn Bunnell

January 15, 2005

My deepest sympathy to Gary's family. I lived in the same apartment building w/him for several years and he, ex-wife Monica and I became good friends. He was a true lover of music, life and what the possibilities could be. I'm sure he will be truly missed by everyone whom he touched. Godspeed Gary.

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