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Linda (Neiderhauser) Wiggins
March 29, 2008
Mary,
I'm very sorry to hear of the loss of your mother. I only met her a few times, but she was such a kind and memorable lady.....very much like you. My thoughts and prayers are with you, and your whole family.
Mike, Patty, Mary Sue The Children of Gladys
March 29, 2008
Eulogy for Gladys McGill from her Children
Gladys was born on January 3, 1918 and died on March 25, 2008. This 90-year journey took her to many places, where she had a wide variety of experiences.
Born in Harlingen, Texas, she saw many hard times as a child. She lost her father at an early age, and the family experienced tough challenges during the depression. Her older siblings worked to provide food for the family, and her wardrobe was a collection of homemade, hand-me-down clothes, worn thin with use.
She put herself through nursing school, and enlisted in the army during World War II. The military was a patriotic duty and a ticket out of poverty. She had a distinguished military career, serving many years as a nurse in the Pacific theatre. After the war, while still in the Army nurse corps, she married Dr. Ed McGill. Her years of distinguished service resulted in her attaining the rank of captain prior to leaving the Army.
Most of us here knew her only as a loving mother, grandmother, mother-in-law, aunt, or friend. She was a central figure in the family, and despite her quiet ways she was intelligent and compassionate, a healer, teacher, care-giver and role model. She seldom mentioned the years of hardship that she experienced during the depression, or the horrors of war that certainly affected her life in ways that we will never know. She was far too modest to believe that her accomplishments were unusual or exceptional, although they certainly were. While she was “tough as nails” as a result of her life experiences, to us she was a tender, loving homemaker with a quick smile and a good sense of humor—which remained with her till the very end. Nothing gave her more pleasure than spending time with her loved ones.
Gladys, everyone here was a special person to you. You were a certainly a special person to all of us, and an amazing individual by anyone’s standards. We love you, and we will miss you. We salute you and wish you well as leave us to join your loving husband, parents, and siblings, as you complete your journey.
Jody, Ron and Sons
March 28, 2008
Thinking of you ~ Adam , Amity and family of Grandma McGill.
Trevor Estes
March 28, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Adam Bolda
March 28, 2008
Dear Grandma,
Thirty two years ago I was blessed into this life and accepted by a wonderful family that you raised to have the biggest, warm, accepting hearts. I was always told of the stories of you driving across country in a cold, uncomfortable jeep in the middle of a blizzard just to be there with me when I was born. This is just one of the many examples of my life that you did whatever it took to be there for me. I have always believed in my heart that you loved me before you ever knew me. As I grew older it didn't take long to realize that the love you showed me is the same love you showed everyone that shared a moment of your life. From you I learned you should not judge people by the way they look, the job they do, but to love them as an equal person. Not only are you one of the pillars that supported the foundation of our family, you are a true American soldier and hero to our country. I am so proud of what you accomplished in your life and the service you provided to our country during your service in the military. It is because of you, that your family as well as all other Americans belong to a free country and are given the chance to live a prosperous life. The transition from your childhood of growing up in the depression having to guess where your next meal would come from, to an adult having accomplished so much that you were able to provide an upper middle class life to your family, shows proof to any outsider, it isn't what you are given, it is what you choose to do. Having made accomplishments like this, you never bragged, instead you would rather spend your time with your family and focus on them and their lives to make them become the best they can be. You have given me a mother that is absolutely one of my best friends, an aunt that has loved me as her own child and an uncle that means as much to me as a father. I thought my world had crashed to an end twelve years ago when grandpa died. But today, I have truly felt the affects of the foundation of our lives being shifted to us you have shown to be strong. I undoubtedly will pass the strength and the love you given me to my kids one day to treat the world with the respect it deserves.
Thank you for always loving me, smiling and caring.
Thank you for loving my wife as a grandmother of her own.
Thank you for changing the plans of your retirement and the golden years of your life to want no more than to move here to be with me.
Thank you for doing whatever it took to teach me the basic lessons of life.
Thank you for always accepting everyone and treating them with kindness.
It is because of you, I am the successful person I am today and able to feel the impact of such a huge loss in my life.
Thanks for letting me hold your hand when you left this life to begin a new one in heaven.
I know you and grandpa will forever be with me to give me strength whenever I need it.
I will always love and miss you….Adam
Peggy Evans
March 28, 2008
I will always remember Gladys and her gentle spirit. Thank you for sharing her with us!
Mary Schrom Breese
March 28, 2008
I will never forget Gladys' smile the morning of the day she died, sitting with her, holding her hand, hearing her say she wished she would hurry up and die and, yet, in the midst of all that, asking me how I was. All of us here at Living Community loved Gladys and we shall miss her so much.
Joyce Cadwallader
March 28, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
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