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MONICA DERUE Obituary

Monica P. DeRue of Wildwood/Grayslake A memorial service to honor the life of Monica P. DeRue (nee McNamara) 92, will be held Oct. 26, at Independence Grove, Libertyville, with the Rev. James Merold officiating. Born Nov. 26, 1919, in Chicago, IL, to Robert and Mona (nee Neagle) McNamara, Monica died peacefully Sept. 16, 2012, surrounded by family. A lifelong resident of Lake County, Monica owned several businesses with her late husband of 52 years, William "Bill" DeRue. Monica is survived by her children, Renee (Tom) Ward of Libertyville, William "Butch" (Lynn) of Glendale, AZ and Mark (Maija) of Lake Villa; and her grandchildren, the joys of her life: Jaclyn, Nicole, Christopher, Jennifer, Kelly, Kim, Becky and Tracy. "GG" will be missed by her great-grandchildren, Barrett, Riley, Jenna, Fiona, Ronan and Nola; and sorely missed by numerous nieces, nephews and cousins. She is survived by brothers-in-law, Robert (Marsha) DeRue and Art (Ellen) Rasmussen; and sister-in-law, Dorothy DeRue. She was preceded in death by siblings, Robert, Joseph and Thomas McNamara and Mary Schuermann; and husband, Bill. A gathering for family will be held at 11 a.m. prior to the service. Interment will be private. Memorials can be made to Alzheimer's Foundation of America.

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Published by Daily Herald on Oct. 14, 2012.

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September 18, 2011

October 25, 2012

Aunt Monica, You have alway been a very special part of my life. I have many wonderful memories at your home in Waukegan and Wildwood. You were not just my aunt, you were my mentor, you had my back, you really listen to me though I was still just a child -- all these and more, I will be eternally grateful. I cherished our phone calls these last few years...And as you asked me in one of them... "I PROMISE, I WILL NEVER FORGET YOU".
All my love, Nancy

Dawn DeRue Dresser

October 15, 2012

Those wonderful kisses you gave so long ago to us, your nieces and nephews, always left a faint red lipstick mark on our cheeks. My sister Gale and I dubbed those 'Aunt Monicas' and I taught my children to call them the same. They were signs of your great love for all of us, and to this day, I still cherish the remembrance of those small tokens of your love on our cheeks. We loved you in return, dear Aunt Monica, and will miss you very much. And Praise the Lord for your faith in Him!

October 14, 2012

Aunt Monica, for such a petite lady, you had the heart of a giant. You showed love and opened your arms to all who knew you. Love, Debby

Rose's 60 Birthday party in 1990 with brother Bob and Sister Mary

October 14, 2012

You are in heaven with opened arms! A classy lady! Love, Colleen

October 14, 2012

October 14, 2012

So glad to have had you as my Godmother -- you treated me as one of your own (when they finally came! :-) ) I know you are with Uncle Bill and my mom now -- give them my love.......... Love Leigh

Mother's Day 2009

October 14, 2012

Grateful for having you as a loving and honorable role model. We are all heartbroken, but feel your presence daily. I believe the Angels lead you in.......keep us safe Mom.

Love you to the moon and back........ Renee'

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