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for Wesley Wells
Charlie Gili
April 12, 2022
Hello,
We realize that we are very late to express our deepest condolences, but we wanted to let your family and friends know that we will be sending Care Packages to deployed troops this month and several of these will be dedicated to your loved one. Each package will carry the name, photo and hometown of Wesley R. Wells US Army Specialist.
We realize that this is a small tribute, but we do this with all respect and sincerity and we want you to know that it is made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals from across the American youth hockey community, their families and friends and others who support our mission.
We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you safe and strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of our US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign
Marleny Meyers
May 30, 2016
Thinking of you today my friend.
M Smith
May 30, 2016
Still in my thoughts every Memorial Day. Bless your soul, Wes. You are not forgotten...
Paparella family
May 30, 2016
You are in our thoughts today Wesley as we remember your sacrifice for our country on this Memorial Day . Thank you for your service and for putting others first. John15:13 Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.
Andrew G
August 27, 2015
He once sat in the back of my truck with the sole purpose of scaring his sister, tiffany. Good memories wes. Thank you
June 30, 2014
I can't believe it is almost 10 years, I know the immediate family will never stop grieving over the loss of him, the people who are close to his family should never forget that, and always try to offer their support
L Greene
October 24, 2011
I am so sorry for your loss. May SPC. WASLEY R. WELLS rest in peace and you find comfort in knowing that he is. My thoughts and prayers are with WESLEY and your family. WESLEY is a true American HERO.You are not forgotten, in remembrance you were on the Nancy Grace show tonight. Just one more thing~ HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! ~GOD BLESS~
Peggy Childers
September 20, 2011
To the family and friends of Spc. Wesley R. Wells:
Please accept my remembrance of Wesley on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Peggy Childers
September 20, 2010
To the family and friends of Spc. Wesley R. Wells:
Remembering Wesley on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Katina Parent
June 21, 2010
Even though it has been 6 years since Wesley was taken from us all, he still lives in our hearts. My Husband (SFC Parent) has not forgotten and will never forget that fateful day... and still thinks of Wesley as he trains new soldiers coming into the Army. Wesley is always with him, reminding him what these new recruits need to know and how they should be trained even though they are not infantry. My children still remember him, even though they were little, as the man who had a bright smile and laughed as he chased them around the company and climbed trees with them they day we all gathered at the company before the fellas deployed. Thank you for sharing him with us even for that brief time.
Lota of love and continued thoughts and prayers...
Katina Parent, wife of SFC Kenneth Parent
Peggy Childers
September 22, 2009
To the family of Spc. Wesley R. Wells:
Wesley gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Kenna Larra
September 10, 2009
”Honor and Remember” - “Project Compassion” We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families of our fallen heroes. War does not discriminate – It breaks our hearts to see the faces of the fallen. We want to give this gift to you. We are a 501c3 nonprofit organization! Over 1,750 portraits have been completed and shipped to the parents and or spouse - at no cost as this is a gift from one American to another!
Mothers of our heroes, please be aware that the Project Compassion sponsors will now help cover the costs of the portraits for you to have one - regardless if the spouse of the hero has one or not!
Contact us directly at [email protected] or go to www.heropaintings.com . If you have already had a portrait completed, we pray that you are enjoying the portrait and God Bless You.
Sincerely and Respectfully,
Kenna
Project Compassion
P.O. Box 153
Manti, Utah 84642
In Memory of Wesley ~ (Debra Estep)
September 20, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Wesley, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
Pastor Frank Noyes
September 18, 2008
Dear Family of Spc. Wesley R. Wells,
We want to say thank you. We understand that no words can be adequate for your sorrow. We certainly do not want to intrude upon your privacy. As Americans we want you to know that we deeply appreciate the ultimate sacrifice your loved one has made for all of us. We also would like for you to be aware that with this letter comes our special concern and prayers for you. We are all safer because young men and women who love their country, and know the value of a free nation, are willing to put themselves in harms way, and lay down their lives to keep this nation free and safe for all of us.
Your sacrifice is also very great. We know that we can give little comfort; however, the knowledge that your loved one did not die in vain, but died in the service of our country, gives each of us a noble example of the value of life, and the responsibility of freedom. We hope this will bring pride and comfort to you.
We at Gethsemane Church believe that there is purpose to life. We send this letter with our deepest appreciation for the greatest of sacrifices, you and your loved one have given to this country. We know it is not enough, but please allow us to assure you that your loved one is not forgotten.
Very Sincerely
Frank G. Noyes
Frank G. Noyes (Pastor)
Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.
(Jn. 15:13)
Spc Nolverto E Gardea III
May 6, 2008
To the wells family
My name is Spc Gardea and i knew Spc wesley wells he was my battle buddy in basic training we meet in ft.benning and continued thru basic training together becoming infantrymen. To the wells family my condolences. To spc wells i say to you good buddy you now know why the sky is infantry blue. your forever with me bro.
April 19, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Spc Wells!
SGT Joel Kalka at Ali AB, in southern Iraq.
Joel Kalka
November 3, 2007
I know this is way over due, but my heart is greatly saddened every day by this loss. Even after 3 years, Wesley still crosses my mind often. I am SGT Joel Kalka, Wesley's old team leader. I took him into my team as a younger brother, and groomed him to succeed in the grueling Infantry. My term of service ended before the Wolfhounds went to war, and I only wish I could have been there to make a difference, and maybe I could have prevented his loss. Either way, I will always remember Wesley for our talks about the wonders of Chicago, his positive outlook and good attitude, and his toughness and heroism as a Soldier in the United States Army. He will always be remembered. Wolfhounds!
August 13, 2007
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend (KIA on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
July 12, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Spc Wells and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
wes smiling big for the camera
July 1, 2007
wes showing off his muscle
July 1, 2007
Wes and jonalyn
July 1, 2007
Wes and jonalyn
July 1, 2007
Christina Crum
May 22, 2007
Mama Joani,
I just wanted to tell you how much I wish I had met you sooner so that I could have met Wesley. I am only able to hear stories now about what a great person he is and was. I think about him all the time and think about what you are going through. I am here always and forever for Heather,Tiffany, and Yourself for whatever you need. I love you and your in my prayers!
Nathan Remigio
April 12, 2007
To the family of Wells
"Wesley R. Wells"
My name is Nathan Remigio Remy as he called me. I was your sons room mate and friend before I got kicked out of the Army. I don't know if your son ever mentioned me and if he did it was probably bad. We had our differences but for some reason he believed in me more than I beleived in myself. He was there for me when no one else was and I admire him for that. When I got out of the Army he took my place in the squad. To this day I always think that It still should have been me in his place and it tears me apart. I wanna let you know that your son is greatly missed and loved by my family. You raised a good son and the best man I have known. I would likek to tell you more so if you read this PLEASE give me a call my number is (918)521-6044. If no one answers please leave your number and a message.
God Bless,
Nathan "Remy" Remigio
Pat Brannon
November 30, 2006
To The Wells Family.
I did not know your son , but I know he was your precious son who
gave his all.
Each night look up to the sky ,
to see the stars, those stars
represent the soldiers who were there to greet him. He is now one of the stars, who is with you every
night, the same as when he was a child.
Talk to him , as he is not so far away, just a whisper away.
Our Prayers are with you, may his wings of comfort wrap around you and give you peace.
From another Wells Family.
Garnet Jenkins
September 15, 2006
Paying tribute to Spc. Wesley R. Wells, with a Multitude of Thanks, for his Dedication and Service to our Country and for Freedom..
Rest In Peace Young Hero, in God's Care and may God's Loving Grace and comfort continue to be with the Wells family.
Those who Made the Ultimate Sacrifice, So Many and So Young, shall NEVER BE FORGOTTEN.
My brother among them. KIA-Vietnam 1967.
"Greater love hath no man than this, that he lay down his life for his friends." - John 15:13
Hoping you continue to feel the thoughts of caring and support that surround you each day, as this Country mourns with you, for someone very precious to you, who is a Hero to all of us.
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
May 7, 2006
My heartfelt sympathy to the Wells family in the loss of Wesley. I did not know Wesley, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. Wesley my heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. It has been 19 months since you were taken. You are a hero and you will never be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
wilmer mcleroy
December 19, 2005
dear joan,
I am sorry about your loss i don't know if you remember me wells was my team leader in afghanistan we met when you came to hawaii. I'm very sorry about your loss and he will always be a hero in my eyes.
Carol Walsh
October 25, 2005
Joan:
We have had Wesley's photo on our refrigerator for the past year and will continue thinking and praying for you and the family. I am sorry to have missed the 6:30 am Mass on Monday. Love to you all.
Carol Walsh
Carolyn Evans
October 16, 2005
Always in my hearts and prayers. A Gold Star Mother.
Deena Neal
August 9, 2005
Dear Joan, Heather and Tiffany,
Just wanted to let you know that you all are still in my prayers. We miss Wesley alot, but we laugh and share stories with the kids of all the great times with Wes. He will always have a special place in our home and in our hearts. We love you and are here for you.
Deena, Marty, Addie, Jack, Sean and Joey
mary jane rodriguez
June 4, 2005
Dear Families, I am so so sorry for the ulitmate loss.My son George served in afghanistan 2/27 Wolfhounds.I just returned from Hawaii,I need to let you know Your SON is Honored and Remembered. God's Blessings to You All. Wolfhound MOM Mary Jane
Gretchen Gratta
October 20, 2004
Dear Tiffany, Heather, Joanie, & The Neal Family,
I am deeply saddened over the loss of Wesley. I hope that your sorrow will lessen with each passing day and that your memories will bring you comfort. You are such a loving family and it breaks my heart to know how difficult his passing has been. I only hope that with each day your pain is lessened in knowing how many lives Wesley touched and how loved you all are. I will never forget Wesley and that huge glowing smile which, of course, was nothing compared to the size of his heart. My thoughts and prayers are with his wife and all of you.
With Love,
Gretchen
Sarah Fluent
October 18, 2004
Dear Tiffany, Heather, Joanie, and the entire Neal family,
It breaks my heart to hear of your loss. But it fills me with happiness to see all of the love and support Wesley is making sure you all are receiving during this time. I only had the chance to get to know him a little bit, but he was a wonderful person with a smile that could light up the room. My thoughts are with you all and his wife and her family.
Sincerely,
Sarah
Kelly Allison
October 15, 2004
Dear Tiffany, Heather, and the Neal family,
I am so saddened to hear of Wesley's passing. While I only met him a few times, I've heard numerous stories about him from Tif. I know he was loved very much and will be missed by all. My heartfelt condolences go out to his entire family and to his wife. Although Wesley may not be with you physically, his spirit and his memory will be with you always.
Thinking of you....
Kate Shaffer
October 15, 2004
Tiffany has shared nothing but wonderful stories about Wesley and because of her, I feel as if I really knew him. I know that Wes is a beautiful person and has touched everyone's heart. You didn't have to know him to be touched by all of the good he has given this world, and all of the good he will continue to give to us. His life will never be forgotten.
David Brown
October 6, 2004
To the Neal and Whiting families,
Our heartfelt condolences to all of you on your loss. While I never met Wesley, I understand he was a terrific young man who was just so proud to serve our country. May his memory be a continued blessing for all of you.
Fondly,
David T. Brown
Michelle Humbert (nee Smelzer)
October 4, 2004
Joanie & Family,
My parents lived next to you when you were on Park Place in Libertyville years ago. You did my flowers for my weddingin 1991. I remember the cute little kid (Wesley) running around the yard looking for some trouble to get into like most boys his age.After losing my Dad (Ron) in March of this year, I learned to love my family even more than I thought I could. Wesley died a hero for all of us. My friend Randy is in Wes's unit & was on the medvac call for Wesley that day. I think of the guys everyday & hope they stay safe until they can come home.
My thoughts are with you & your family
patricia albano
September 30, 2004
I am a Friend of Carol and Philip Whiting. I send my deepest sympathy to the entire Neal Family. I did know Wesley,but will keep him and those who love him in my prayers. Most Sincerely, Patti Albano
Rebecca Drews
September 30, 2004
I remember growing up with Wesley since we were toddlers. I share your difficulty during this time. In deepest sympathy and love. God bless Wesley Wells
Kelly Borcia
September 29, 2004
Dear Tiffany and family,
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Even though I only met Wes a few times, I just knew he was someone special. He had a smile that lit up the room. I want to let you know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Wes will never be forgotten.
Sincerely,
Kelly Borcia
Ann Pfeil
September 28, 2004
Dear Heather and Tiffany,
Our deepest sympathy for your loss.
Your friends at the Sports Complex,
Ann Pfeil, Theresa Gasick, Rhenea Culp, Dale List
Ramona Dreher
September 28, 2004
To the entire Neal family:
Our deepest sympathy to you all on the loss of Wesley. We pray for your strength to endure the sorrow.
The Ed Dreher family
Geralyn Finlayson (Pokorny)
September 28, 2004
Joanie & Linda,
Even though I haven't seen you in a while, your family will always be truly special to me. Linda, I will always consider you a really good friend, and have held you close in my heart for a long time. I pray, that SOON, the memories and love you have for Wes will become stronger than the pain of his loss.
Shirley Modes
September 28, 2004
Dear Joan and Family,
We have never met, but I sit here with tears flowing and a heavy heart, feeling your loss. August 2003, my son, David, was WIA; his two partners, KIA in Afghanistan - Soldiers with the 10th Mountain Dv. (Adam Thomas's mother, Ellen, was at the Gold Star Mother's gathering with you this past week-end.) Lean on those who love you and those who understand. A long road is ahead, but you will never be alone - Wesley will forever be with you, in heart and in spirit.
My deepest condolences,
(Formerly from Mundelein)
Dave Robinson
September 27, 2004
Joan and Bob,
This letter from Abrahm Lincoln to a Mother who lost a son in battle states it better than all the emotions I feel for your loss.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> >>>>>
Abraham Lincoln's Letter to Mrs. Bixby
Executive Mansion,
Washington,
November 21, 1864.
Mrs. Bixby,
Boston, Massachusetts:
DEAR MADAM: I have been shown in the files of the War Department a statement of the Adjutant-General of Massachusetts that you are the mother of five sons who have died gloriously on the field of battle. I feel how weak and fruitless must be any words of mine which should attempt to beguile you from the grief of a loss so overwhelming. But I cannot refrain from tendering to you the consolation that may be found in the thanks of the Republic they died to save. I pray that our Heavenly Father may assuage the anguish of your bereavement, and leave you only the cherished memory of the loved and lost, and the solemn pride that must be yours to have laid so costly a sacrifice upon the altar of freedom.
Yours very sincerely and respectfully,
Abraham Lincoln.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
Our nation is deeply grateful for his sacrifice.
All the best,
Thomas Krystofiak
September 27, 2004
My deepest sympathies go out to your family. My son is in Afghanistan and knew Wesley, as I spoke to him this weekend he was saddened by the loss of 'one of our own'. It is the bravest act of courage what these young men do to protect our freedoms, they will never be forgotten. My son, Tom, is a part of the 2-27 out of Scofield and left today on another mission. God speed for his return! Our thoughts are with you, God will have a special place for Wesley. Be proud, be strong! Hold your head high!
Thomas J. Krystofiak
patricia hoffman
September 27, 2004
To the family of Wesley Wells, I wish to extend my sympathy to all of you. I lost my son Jim, January 27 of this year. I saw you at the ceremony on sunday for the Gold Star Mothers. I will keep your family in my prayers and God Bless all of you
Colleen Drews
September 27, 2004
My prayers go out to you and your family at this very sad and difficult time. I will never forget Wesley's big smile when I used to baby-sit him and his sisters a long time ago. God bless you all.
Dan Gaida
September 27, 2004
Dear Joannie and family,
My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family at this very sad and difficult time.
God bless you.
CPT Jason & Kristin Hunt
September 26, 2004
I was informed in Iraq last night of the loss of SPC Wesley Wells by my wife Kristin. Although I didn’t personally know your son, a loss from our military family is always a sad event. My family and I want to extend our deepest condolences and we are extremely grateful for the sacrifice that SPC Wesley has made. His accomplishments in the military speak volumes for his age and rank. SPC Wesley is the type of soldier we take pride in serving with. Our prayers are with you.
Marcy Lucchesi
September 26, 2004
Joanie,
My deepest sympathies to you and yours. I remeber Wes very well. I have a special place in my heart for you. My condolences.
Marcy
Elise
September 26, 2004
I knew Wes from my time at Libertyville High school. Wes was always someone I looked forward to seeing. He had a huge heart, and was always kind. His smile was contagious. He was a very brave individual. My prayers are with all of his family and friends. He will be missed by many and always remembered.
Penny Pet Rescue
September 26, 2004
Dear Paula, Sorry to learn of your nephews passing. Condolences to your family.
Abby Walker
September 26, 2004
Wesley is someone I think about whenever I come home to Libertyville. He was a major part of my life and I will always remember him. My thoughts go out to his family, his new wife, and the many friends he left behind. I'm extremely proud of his accomplishments, and saddened by his passing. I Thank God for having met and being apart of his life. I'll miss you Wesley R. Wells.
Ed & Helen Hughes
September 24, 2004
To the Neal Family,
Ed and I and our family were so sorry to hear of Wesley passing away. He will always be remembered for his bravery for our country. Our prayers are with you all at this time.
Pam Marzec
September 24, 2004
Dear Marty and Family:
We have been customers of yours for years and were terribly saddened to hear of the tragic loss of your beloved nephew. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers during this very difficult journey.
Sueanne Lineberger
September 24, 2004
I am so sad to here of Weselys death, the war is not some faceless men and women who service us, it is friends and children and spouses. My prayers are with his family.
Marie Brausam
September 24, 2004
I was very saddened to hear of Wesley's passing. I remember him from his days at LHS and always knew he had a kind heart. Reading his obituary and seeing his acknowledgements told me volumes about his character. We will be eternally gratefull for his service to our country. May your memories of Wes bring you comfort. Nothing can ever take them from you.
Chris Krumenacher
September 24, 2004
My heart goes out to you and my prayers are with you
Carrie Bending
September 24, 2004
Dear Wells Family,
My husband Bill works with Pat Neal and Bob Key and we were very sorry to hear of your sons passing. We hope your finding comfort in the memories you have of him.
Bill,Carrie,Cameron,Trevor and Shane
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