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James Handy Obituary

James M. Handy Jr., formerly of West Chester James M. Handy, Jr. a longtime resident of West Chester, now of Baltimore, Md., passed away on Monday, Aug. 5, 2013. He was born to James and Marjorie (formerly Young) Handy, Sr. He graduated from the University of Delaware with a B.S. in electrical engineering. He later served under Admiral Rickover in the U.S. Navy's Naval nuclear propulsion program. After serving in the Navy, he went to work for Chalmers and Kubeck where he was a partner in the company. He was a member of the Stone Harbor Yacht Club and enjoyed traveling, the beach, sailing, camping, and trains. Most of all he loved spending time with his family. James is survived by his wife of 50 years, Susan (formerly Chalmers); son James M. Handy III; daughters Beth DeFluri and Jennifer Malcom; and grandchildren, Elizabeth, John, Megan, Ryan, Thomas, Teagan, and Torrey. A memorial service will be held at 11 a.m. on Monday, Aug. 12th, at the Westminster Presbyterian Church, 10 W. Pleasant Grove Rd., West Chester, PA 19382. Donations may be made in James' name to The Wentworth, 112 S. Church St., West Chester, PA 19382 and to the First & Franklin Presbyterian Church, 210 W. Madison St., Baltimore, MD 21201-4693. Condolences at www.radzieta.com.

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Published by The Daily Local from Aug. 6 to Aug. 7, 2013.

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Peter Maroulis

August 1, 2019

Dear Susan, in September of 2013 I wrote you a letter and sent it to the last address I knew which was in Baltimore. It came back "undeliverable as addressed, unable to forward." I kept the unopened envelop all these years hoping that someday I could give it to you. I can no longer remember what I wrote but I still want you to have it. Send me your address and I will send the letter to you. I had such fond memories of Jim.

August 1, 2014

August 1, 2014
Dear Sue:
It's been almost a year since Jim left this world. Losing someone so dear is very difficut. We hope that you take comfort in knowing that other people care, and wish you God's peace. We often still reminisce about meeting you and Jim, and how enjoyable our trip to Alaska was.
Best Wishes for the future.
Jan and Bill Hakala

August 20, 2013

Dear Sue and family - I am so sorry Tom and I were unable to attend the memorial service. You and Jim were always a model for us of courage and grace and appreciating everything that you had together despite all the challenges you faced. Hope to see you at Wells Memorial again soon. Best wishes, Carol and Tom

August 8, 2013

Dear Sue and Family,

So very for your loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Carol McAdam

Barbara Stone

August 7, 2013

Sue: It has been an absolute privilege to have had the opportunity to meet and know you and Jim. Indomitable spirit, matter-of-fact approach to your challenges, acceptance with no display of apology or resentment. It is clear that you and Jim valued time and used it well. My heart is with you and your family.

August 7, 2013

Sue: What a privelige it has been to know Jim for the last 60 years. As a fellow class member of the WCHS Class of '58, which Jim served as President, has said "Jim was one of the finest persons I ever knew. We are all very lucky to have known him and enjoyed his company for so many years." I think that says it all.
God Bless,
Joe Barnett

Debra Kent

August 7, 2013

Dear Susan and Family,
We were so sorry to hear of Jim's passing. We will always remember his kind smile, happy disposition, and positive outlook. We so enjoyed getting to know you both while we were neighbors. We wish you and your family comfort and peace, and we will keep you in our prayers. May God bless you.
Chane and Debra Kent

Claire Lamberth

August 7, 2013

Sue,
John and I extend our condolences on Jim's death. What a sweet and kind man he was. Every time we saw the two of you we always remarked on how patient and good natured he was in the face of adversity. He made the world a better place.
Claire and John Lamberth

Peter Maroulis

August 7, 2013

Susan, I was so fortunate to have spent time with you and Jim last year in Baltimore. I have such fond memories of Jim at KA and as EE students. I will remember the times we had together forever. May God bless him. He is now home.

Joe Spaziani

August 7, 2013

As a kid growing up on Biddle street. I worshiped this man. I would always talk to him as he waxed his MG. He even took me for a ride every once in a while. I am sooo sorry

August 7, 2013

Dear Sue:
We are so sorry for your loss. Jim was such a friendly, sincere and just a very lovely person. We only knew him for a short time but we will never forget the time we spent together. God Bless you, Sue and Peace be with you.
Lovingly, Jan and Bill Hakala

Clare Badner

August 7, 2013

Susan, I am so deeply sorry to see that Jim has passed away.
Clare Monaghan Badner

Ray & June Batz

August 6, 2013

We are so grateful to have known Jim. We are church family in Avalon and were so inspired by both Jim & Sue's positive upbeat outlook on the tough walk they were taking together. Your family has such a rich legacy.
May God continue to comfort, bless and inspire you each day and give you peace, Susan and children.

Mary Cosgriff Morrell

August 6, 2013

To Susan and Family,

I worked with Jim for several summers at Lenape Park, just south of West Chester, Pa.

I extend to each of you my sincere sympathy in his passing.

I have not seen Jim for many, many years but read with great interest all of his earthly accomplishments. He has enriched Heaven.

He was always a gentleman and a very hard worker.

Sincerely,

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