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Sandra Manning Obituary

Our beloved mother Sandra Manning, also known as Sassy Luby, passed away at the age of 84. We are blessed to have been able to care for her at our home in Inverness, CA where she passed peacefully. Born in Peoria, Illinois, Sassy lived in Orange County, CA, for most of her life as a successful Real Estate Broker and socialite, starting her own Real Estate Company in Costa Mesa in 1972 called 'Southlanders' with her friend. Sassy lived a fabulous life on the Orange Coast and was well-loved by her friends and family.
Sassy was preceded in death by her beloved daughters Joleen Hart and Christina Fiori. Sassy is survived by her children Janelle and Casey, her son-in-law Jim, and daughter-in-law Jane, her grandchildren Sierra, Geo, Max, Alexandra, Marco, Miles, and Alana, and her great-grandchildren LaVetta, Joleen, and Isabella.
When asked by Judy Chamberlain of the Daily Pilot in 1990 how she got the name Sassy, she responded, "I earned it."
Sassy's ashes will be put out to sea at Crystal Cove, in Corona Del Mar, as per her wishes.

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Published by Daily Pilot on Jan. 29, 2023.

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Judy Lang

January 13, 2025

Missing you Sassy. XO Judy

Judith Lang

December 12, 2023

Holidays past (2000 ?) with Krista Clark Sassy Luby Judy Lang

Deirdre Kloth

July 22, 2023

This is your cousin Deirdre´,
Maryellen´s daughter. I wish I´d known my sincere condolences to all of you. I´ve always loved your mother and all of you. Mary passed away today in 2017, and none of us could find Sassy´s phone number to let her know.
Well, they are together again.

Judith Lang

January 31, 2023

Judith Lang

January 31, 2023

Judith Lang

January 31, 2023

Judith Lang

January 31, 2023

Judith Lang

January 31, 2023

Judith Lang

January 31, 2023

I first met Sassy about 30 years ago, when I rented her unit above the garage on Heliotrope. We became fast friends. We walked together every morning, sharing in the updates in our lives. And frequently we would wind down the day with a glass of wine. Or two.
Later, we would play tennis when she lived at Park Newport. And she proudly showed me a plaque with her name on it, that was imbedded at a prior home´s tennis court. I know she had a lot of history before I even met her. Like the rest of us, some good, some not-as-we-would-have-liked.
I enjoyed many a time with Sassy at her wonderfully decorated homes in Newport and occasionally at the Balboa Bay Club. We had a marvelous trip to France. We stayed with Christina and Marco in their lovely home overlooking the Mediterranean. I didn´t want to leave.
Over time, Sassy sold me two homes. She had great insight, as to what would be a good fit for me and what would be a good investment. When needed, she gave words of encouragement or caution. I learned to trust her judgment.
There were so many reasons to love Sassy. Her huge smile, outgoing personality, upbeat attitude, open arms. She always brought a smile to my face.
Until our spirits reunite, I will miss my friend.

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