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Cato L. Reaves Sr.

1941 - 2018

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1941

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2018

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Cato Reaves Obituary

Cato L. Reaves, Sr., 77, transitioned from this life on Friday, Nov. 23, 2018. He was born March 6, 1941 to Mary Reaves and June C. Reaves. He was preceded in death by his mother and father and only brother June C. Reaves Jr. Cato was baptized at a early age and received his formal education in Chatham County Public Schools. He attended North Carolina A&T University in Greensboro where he earned a B.S Degree in Electrical Engineering. He joined the R.O.T.C. where he received the rank of Second Lieutenant. He began his Air force career at Williams AFB, Arizona where he attended pilot training in the early sixties. He flew numerous missions over North Vietnam during the Vietnam War, as aid to the first 4 Star Black General Daniel "Chappie" James. He was afforded numerous challenges and memories. As his pilot, Cato flew him all over the United States and Canada in the F-106 and T-39 Sabreliner aircraft. During his career he trained and flew the following aircrafts: T-33 – Training students at the Air force Academy T-37- Pilot training F-4- Vietnam (100 missions) F-102- Training F-101- Air Defense Commander T-38- Instructor Pilot F-106- Air Defense Commander At retirement after 26 years, he received the Legion of Merit Distinguish Flying Cross and many other honors. One of his fondest memories was where he was voted "Top Gun" of his class by his fellow pilots. He was a member of Queen Street Baptist Church, Hampton, VA where he served as President of the Trustees and the Male Chorus. He was recently bestowed the honor of Trustee Emeritus by fellow trustees. He enjoyed fishing and sharing the bounty with friends and neighbors. He was an avid sport fan and a diehard Dallas Cowboy fan. Cato leaves to cherish loving memories his wife of 54 years: Elaine Crawley Reaves, (2) sons: Brian Reaves (Loreen) and Cato Larry Reaves, Jr.; (3) grandchildren: Brisa, Basilio and Belicia Reaves; (1) brother-in-law: Beckwith Crawley; (1) sister-in-law: Cheryl Crawley; (2) aunts: Geneva Baldwin Vincent and Gracie Baldwin and one uncle: Charlie Baldwin, Jr.; (5) nieces: Angela McFadden (Mac), Karen Ratliff (Tony), Tracey Reaves, Amber Neighbors and Yolander Smalls; his dear friend and mentor Brigadier General Timothy Boddie, Jr., USAF (retired), a host of cousins, AF buddies and dear friends. Funeral services Wednesday, November 28th at noon at Queen Street Baptist Church Worship Center, 190 West Queens Way, Hampton, VA. Burial will be at a later date at Arlington National Cemetery with military honors. Public viewing will be two hours prior to service. Condolences may be emailed to [email protected] or faxed to 434.572.1137. Arrangements are by Jeffress Funeral Home, 2000 North Main Street, South Boston, VA.

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Published by Daily Press on Nov. 27, 2018.

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Reginald Marable

July 29, 2024

My name is Reginald Marable. I knew Cato and the family when he was stationed in Colorado Springs at Peterson AFB. This was in the late 70s where I have a ton of memories. At that time, Beckwith was my good friend.

I was thinking about them today and just searched google to see where Cato might be and ran across the obituary. My belated condolences.

My dad, CMSGT James Marable was the logistics chief and worked closely with Chappie, of course with Cato being Chappies aide and pilot.

Anyway, my dad passed in 2014, but what a bunch of great guys they were. Thier achievements against all the diversity they faced is remarkable.

I dont know if Doll, Brian or Larry would remember me, but no doubt Beck would.

Frank Hosey

November 28, 2018

Having met Cato at Langley, he was a standout and I will always remember how he never met a stranger and truly wanted to help others. May the love of friends and family carry you through during your time of loss. God bless, Frank & Patricia Hosey

November 27, 2018

Cato flew with me when I was a Cadet at USAFA and I also thank him for mentoring all of the Black Cadets of 1977. He is a great man that GOD truly blessed all of us through his commitment to excellence. We are praying for his family and that all would come to know JESUS CHRIST because Cato was a great example. Cato GOD bless you and the family and rest in peace because you deserve it.

Colonel Ricky Cosby USAF Ret USAFA 1977

Herb Harrison

November 27, 2018

Cato was a pioneered who steered many onto the right path. May he rest in peace

Lynn Thompson

November 27, 2018

My deepest sympathy to the family. I worked with Cato at Hampton University many years ago. He was such a kind man. May he rest in peace.

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