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Gary Blair Obituary

LANEXA - Gary Lee Blair, 58, of Lanexa, Virginia, known by his family and friends as "Blair Boy" and "Bo" passed away on December 27, 2013 after losing his fight with cancer. Gary was born in Newport News, Virginia to the late Richard and Elizabeth Blair on July 5, 1955. After attending Denbigh High School, Gary continued his education, becoming a Master Plumber, Electrician, Mechanic and Master HVAC Technician. He was a member of the Plumbers and Pipefitters Union Local 540. Gary's career took him on projects around the world from Alaska, the Virgin Islands and a risky assignment in Iran. Gary was dedicated to his work and his family and loved to use his skills and talents for both. After starting chemotherapy, Gary still continued working as Project Manager and Estimator for Arietta Construction under Bubba West. Although cancer treatments were taking toll on his body, "Blair Boy" often came home from work in his company car, only to get in his truck and head back out to Lowes to get parts for a friend or family member who was having a problem that he was determined to solve. When he wasn't helping others, "Bo" loved to fish. He spent several years restoring his 1976 Ranger Bass Boat and would often spend the day out on the Chickahominy River fishing with Wayne, his best friend of 50 years. Gary is survived by his wife of 34 years, Nancy Burcher Blair, their son Jeremy Parks and partner Philip Markley, Grandson Bryce Davidson. His two siblings Ricky Blair and Peggy Blair Roach. His nieces and nephews Mark Roach, Jason Roach, Nicole Burcher Cook, Natalie Burcher Krebs, and Bradley Burcher. His childhood friends, who were his true "brothers", W. Wayne Savage and Dr. C. Rudy White who will always be part of his family. Pallbearers; Wayne Savage, Rudy White, Jason Roach, Mark Roach, Bradley Burcher and Philip Markley. A special thanks from the family to the Heartland Hospice Team, as well as Gary's cousin Cindy Poplin, RN and Care Giver, Rebecca Haley Krebs, who is also Gary's great niece, and many family members. The funeral service will be held at 2:00 p.m. on Friday, January 3, 2014 at The First Baptist Church, 12716 Warwick Blvd, Newport News, VA, officiated by Carl Miracle, followed by a graveside service at 3:00 p.m. in the Mausoleum Chapel at Peninsula Memorial Park. Arrangements by Peninsula Funeral Home. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made to ChristmasForCancer.co- and for more information on how you can volunteer or become a sponsor, email [email protected] or Pancreatic Cancer Foundation, at [email protected].

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Published by Daily Press on Jan. 1, 2014.

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Liane Mirochine

October 18, 2016

Thinking of you. You will always be remembered as a kind soul. RIP Gary! ❤❤

With Love,
Liane

Becky Brashears

October 17, 2016

One of the best men it was my fortune to know. Miss you, Gary.

Peggy Roach

October 16, 2016

This is dedicated to my precious brother. You were a kind, generous and loving soul. You brought joy and laughter to everyone fortunate enough to know you. Now it is your time to have joy, laughter, peace and well-being in Heaven. I am sure by now that God has made you supervisor of angels in charge of mansion construction I am also sure that you have pointed out what was not done right on the existing ones and have rehabbed them (Smiling). When you look down on us know that we still feel the pain of missing you but that we also feel the joy of knowing you no longer suffer. I know that one day you will be there to take my hand and lead me to the perfect paradise God and all the angels like you have prepared for us. You are in my heart and thoughts every day.

Peggy Roach

October 12, 2016

It has been almost 3 years now little brother and it still feels like it was only yesterday that you were here. I love and miss you so very much and that will never diminish. I am only consoled by the fact that I know I will see you again one day. I know you're in a better place, happy and healthy.

Forever in my heart and thoughts

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December 27, 2015

Happy 2nd birthday in heaven little brother. I love and miss you so much

Terry Clifton

December 17, 2015

Gary was a wonderful person. He was kind and generous and always willing to help someone in need. I could always count on him to correct a problem whether it was hvac, electrical, or plumbing related. He was truly a master craftsman.
I was privileged to know Gary for 9 short years and during that time, I witnessed the love and devotion that he showed to his family members and his friends. I was proud to call him my friend. He was a remarkable man and his memory will live on forever.

December 5, 2015

Gary was a great friend to us. He was quiet and kept to himself a lot, but he was always their if you need him. He will be greatly missed by all family and friends. W
e know he is in God"s hands now. Rest assured, he is still looking out for us.

Linda Logan

December 4, 2015

Gary was like a brother to me when I was a teenager in Newport News. He was always helpful, funny, and sweet, and I felt safe when he was around. If I needed anything, he never had to be asked. He made me feel special. He was genuinely kind. When I think about those days so very long ago, he still stands out as a mischievous angel and bright image who loved me because he loved his dear sister and he knew I loved her too. Rest in peace and merriment, laughing boy.

Im glad I had the chance to have him in my life for few years!! What a kind human been. Thank God for the privilege

Myriam

December 4, 2015

Ada Pagano

December 4, 2015

Gary was the type of guy who never met a stranger. He would do anything for anybody at any time. CASE IN POINT: I had a plumber and two electricians look at my hot tub that would not come on and couldn't do anything. Gary went down, took a look, ten minutes later came up and said I know what is wrong. He ordered a very expensive part, took zero money mind you,
shipped it to his home....drive 3 hours there and back to install the part and 6 years later zero problems. I offered for he and bro' to spend the night take the boat and go fishing. He said that wasn't necessary he was glad to help AND would not take a dime for his labor. While there he also fixed my ice maker and ran a check on my A/C. That was Gary. BTW What a "snappy" dresser... Never saw him not put together perfectly

With Gary in his garage

Joella

November 17, 2015

Janet Birdsong

November 17, 2015

I miss you Gary. Just sitting in your garage talking and laughing and having fun times ! You were the light of Nancy's life and so many others ! You were so giving of your love and time and skills to others without hesitation. You are greatly missed by many many people. You are loved.

Liane Mirochine

November 9, 2015

Unfortunately, I did not get to know Gary until he was already diagnosed with cancer. In the short time that I did know him, he was an amazing man, friend, husband, brother, etc., and he will always hold a special place in my heart! I am very grateful to be able to share his memories with his friends and family. And, hopefully, the friendships formed since and before his loss will continue to strengthen and help ease the pain. Gary, you are loved and continue to be missed by many. And you will NEVER be forgotten.

In loving memory of Gary Blair...Rest in peace my friend? <3

Seeing our friend Gary and sharing some love!

Joella Allerton Allerton

November 8, 2015

Linda Logan

November 8, 2015

Gary was like a brother to me when I was a teenager in Newport News. He was always helpful, funny, and sweet, and I felt safe when he was around. If I needed anything, he never had to be asked. He made me feel special. He was genuinely kind. When I think about those days so very long ago, he still stands out as a mischievous angel and bright image who loved me because he loved his dear sister and he knew I loved her too. Rest in peace and merriment, laughing boy.
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Cindy Poplin

November 8, 2015

Cindy Davis Poplin -
November 5 at 12:14am

I remember as a young child, Gary, taking my brother and I to get us something to eat. He spent time with us and acted like he genuinely cared about us. I will never forget my cousin investing his time in us as a teenager. That meant a lot. I reflect on how much love he showed toward us in our early years of life and how gracious God was allowing me to show my love towards him towards the end of his life. God brought us back together full circle.

2004 - Bermuda

Peggy Roach

November 2, 2015

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November 2, 2015

July 1994 - Alton's 50th Birthday Party

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July 1994 - Alton's 50th Birthday Party

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November 2, 2015

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November 2, 2015

Megan's graduation - 6/9/2012

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November 2, 2015

2011 at Becky's Retirement Party

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October 14, 2015

Debra MOngar

October 12, 2015

Gary does not seem like you have been gone for almost 2 years. Miss seeing your beautiful smile. We talk about you all the time, and tell Gary stories. Love and miss you.

Debbie

Peggy

October 10, 2015

I still miss you so much brother. I took Peyton to Pumpkinville yesterday (10/9/15). It was her first time there - I know you were watching but I wish so much you could have been there in person and I wish so much she could have gotten to know you. I will love and miss you forever until I see you again

Nancy Blair

December 31, 2014

My Dearest Hunny Bunny, Its been one year since God sent for you to be an Angel in Heaven. A lot of tears have been rolling down my cheek, my heart is broken and scared. You were my best friend. You were the smartest Man I ever knew, there wasn't any thing you could not do. When I came to you with a problem, you would always say. I will take care of it. You were there for me to lean on, to tell my concerns and secrets to. The very best is now in Heaven with all of the others that have passed. I miss you my Dear Beloved Husband. My heart is filled with love and sorrow.

I Am Spending Christmas In Heaven

Peggy

December 31, 2014

Lisa Simonton

January 7, 2014

Nancy & the whole River Crew. Gary was such a pleasure to be around. Riiick and I both have such great memories to treasure. All our love..

Janet Reynolds Doyle

January 4, 2014

Hi Nancy and family,

I was so sorry to see Gary's obituary in the paper. Your family has always been special to me. My prayers and sympathy are with you.

Susan Oliver

January 3, 2014

Sending love and sympathy to you Nancy and Jeremy. I will keep you both in my thoughts and prayers.

January 3, 2014

I will miss you Gary and I know Chad will miss fishing with you on our annual trip out to VA. You had such a calmness about you that I have always loved and you always made me feel loved. I know you will always be with us. Until we meet again.. <3 My love and prayers to you Nancy and to all of our family and friends who love Gary so much. God Bless. xxoo

Terry Clifton

January 3, 2014

Nancy, Peggy, and family - My heart goes out to you during this difficult time. Gary was truly one of the most kindest and generous people I have ever known. He was always willing to help someone in need as he helped me many times through the years. I shall always be grateful. Gary was a good friend to all that knew him and I'm glad that I had the opportunity to call him friend.
With deepest sympathy,

Kathy Coe

January 2, 2014

Nancy,Peggy and family.
I am so very sorry for your loss. Gary was a wonderful man and I know he is in heaven watching over all of you.

January 2, 2014

Our heartfelt sadness,prayers are with the BLAIR& BERCHER families. Anyone who knew Gary will always carry in their hearts how genuine his kindness was shared. We're proud to say that we've shared a life with GARY BLAIR! your friends at ED ALLEN'S andy,walt,paul Shattuck George allen

Jay Barbery

January 2, 2014

I am so sorry to hear about Gary's passing. I haven't seen him in years but I do love and appreciate the time that we spent together during our high school years. Gary and his family made me feel like an adopted member of the family. My sincere condolences to Nancy, Peggy, Ricky and the rest of the Blair family.

Joella Allerton

January 2, 2014

My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. I will see you on Friday. I'm glad Gary is finally pain free and at peace. He will be missed by so many. Love to all of you!

angie coxton

January 2, 2014

Dear Nancy and Jeremy,
I am so sorry to hear of Garys passing.I am praying for your family.

Bryan Spindle

January 1, 2014

Although I never had the pleasure of spending alot of time with Gary, whenever I was around him he was very warm and freindly and I could tell he was a really great guy.I never heard anyone say anything but good things about him and his generosity and his considerable skills. I know he will be missed by the many family and friends whose lives he touched, but I also know he shared some wonderful times with them all which they will cherish in their memories.

Jenny Hughes

January 1, 2014

Nancy, please know your are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Gary was a quiet individual, but he always had a smile and a hug whenever I saw him. I will miss him, but he is now without pain in the arms of The Lord.

January 1, 2014

We feel the great loss of our beloved Gary. You will always be remembered.
Your Arizona family.

Liane Mirochine

January 1, 2014

In loving memory of a wonderful person. May God bless your family and friends during this time of difficulty and ease their pain and sorrow. You are loved by many, will be missed terribly, and will NEVER be forgotten. Rest in peace, Gary. <3

Whit and Peggy Parks

January 1, 2014

Nancy, We are very sorry to hear of the passing of Gary. Our prayers and deepest
Sympathy go out to the Family in this
difficult time. Old friends Whit and PEGGY Parks.

January 1, 2014

Wish I had the words to express the sadness that is in our hearts for you Nancy,Peggy and family.
Stuart and I so appreciated all Gary did for us during the years.He always gave so much of himself to others.You will be missed.God Bless Stuart & Shirley

Marilyn & Tom Jeffers

January 1, 2014

Gary fought a valiant battle with cancer and continued to be a selfless friend. He will be missed but not forgotten. For those he left behind...be proud you got to share a small part of his life here on earth.

Dwight Keatts

January 1, 2014

Nancy,
I am so sorry to learn of Gary's passing. I just found out recently of his illness. I have not seen Gary in years,we worked together at Energy Services Group in the mid 90's for over 3 years. As everyone has said,He was a great person,very smart and willing to help everyone. Nancy,I wish you and your family the best during this difficult time.
Sincerely,
Dwight

Billy Birdsong

January 1, 2014

I can honestly say I have never meet a nicer person than Gary. He always made me feel welcome when ever I was in his presence. The laid back nature the he approached life with even as the cancer was talking its toll is something to be envied by us all. He will truly be missed.

Edmund & Gail Skelly

January 1, 2014

We are so glad our lives crossed paths. We have wonderful memories of the good times we had with you and Nancy, and they will be permanently etched in our minds. Thanks buddy for being the best neighbor ever. As Ed would chant "Gary, Gary!"

My Inspiration

Peggy Roach

January 1, 2014

My precious little brother you did inspire my soul. You were always there to guide me through difficult times and to share and enhance the good times. I will miss you more than I could ever put into words. I loved you your whole life and will continue loving you until the day that "I Will See You Again"

Dickie Yeatts

January 1, 2014

My most sincere condolences to Gary's family. Gary was one of the good guys that came out of Denbigh and will be missed, but not forgotten!

Ronald Lauderman

January 1, 2014

I lost a good friend but heaven just gained a great man. Gary was one of the smartest men I knew, he could do anything. He will be greatly missed by me and so many others. Nancy and Peggy and family I am so sorry for your loss. Love you Gary!

Deb Clark-Ward

December 31, 2013

May the hearts of the family be filled with peace and great memories to carry them through these hard times. Think of you often Nancy. Gary will always be remembered. Donnie, Debbie, & Nick Ward

Tammy Stinson (Eads)

December 31, 2013

I didn't really know Gary but I knew Nancy as (Aunt Nancy) growing up. My heart goes out to the family. I will be keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.

Jason Roach

December 31, 2013

Gary was truly the best man I know. He will be missed by all that knew him.

Denise (Lee) Korn

December 31, 2013

Sorry to hear of Gary's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with all his family and friends.

Carol Woody

December 31, 2013

My condolences to the Blair family.

Roxanne Prine

December 31, 2013

Will miss you so much my dear friend. Love you always.

Diana Weisflog

December 31, 2013

May fond memories be consoling to the Blair and Burcher families. With deepest sympathy.

Chester and Connie Pope

December 31, 2013

Our thoughts and prayers are with Nancy and all the family. Gary was a true friend to us for many, many years. Even though he stayed in the shadows a lot, we always knew he was with us. We love you and will miss you, but know that you are now in peace.

Becky Brashears

December 31, 2013

Gary, our hearts are filled with sorrow at your passing, but we will forever keep wonderful memories of joyful times together as we celebrate a life well lived. Thank you, Gary, for being a wonderful friend. I will miss you very much.

Julia Evans

December 31, 2013

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Travis Lauderman

December 31, 2013

Gonna miss Gary a lot him and nancy were the greatest next door neighbors anyone could Ask for he was always helping us out and as were helping him! We all become really close and laudermans and many others are for sure going to miss you!

Debra Mongar

December 30, 2013

Thank you Gary for making this world a better place, The world will be a lttle darker for all that new you. To Nancy, Peggy & Becca Hailey you all took such good care of Gary, You all and the family will be in my thoughts and prayers. RIP Blair Boy

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