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JEFFREY ALLEN LORD

1956 - 2021

JEFFREY ALLEN LORD obituary, 1956-2021, Yorktown, VA

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JEFFREY LORD Obituary

Jeffrey Allen Lord, age 65, formerly of Northville, NY passed away September 7, 2021, after an aggressive nine month battle with Head and Neck cancer. Jeff was born on January 11, 1956, in Schenectady, New York, to Bruce Allen and Grace Bruner Lord. He was preceded in death by his parents.

Jeff graduated from Northville Central School in 1974, from the University of Connecticut in 1978 and earned a master's degree in Education from Old Dominion University in 1996.

Jeff was a Yorktown, VA resident for over 27 years. He moved with his family to Yorktown after retiring from active duty Air Force in 1994. He was employed as a Government Service Program Analyst at Langley Air Force Base working in the Air to Ground Advanced Weapons Requirements Branch. While in the Air Force he loved flying as a F-111 WSO and as a member of the F-15E test team. He was proud of his time in the Air Force and earned many awards and developed many long standing friendships.

Jeff was a member of the Peninsula Soccer Officials Association (PSOA) for 25 plus years. He was the Director of Referee Development for 12 years, training hundreds of new referees. For U.S. Soccer he was a referee instructor for 15 years and a referee assessor for almost 20 years. The membership of PSOA awarded him the Roger Malloy Award for his service to the sport in 2005 and he was named the Virginia State Instructor of the Year in 2006. Jeff was a mentor, an instructor, and most of all respected by all whom he worked with and trained.

Jeff and Roxanne were actively involved in fostering puppies for Lab Rescue of the Potomac for more than 15 years. LRCP is a volunteer program that rescues, vets, and rehomes Labrador Retrievers in the Mid-Atlantic states. In those years they cared for more than 350 puppies.

Jeff loved to travel and was the "travel agent" for many trips with friends and family to Aruba, Hawaii, Sweden, Australia, Calgary, Las Vegas, and many trips around the country to watch Mississippi State Football games. He was a huge supporter of Roxanne's many power lifting competitions and arranged all the travel associated with them.

Jeff will be greatly missed by his family and friends for his crazy sense of humor, the ability to make people smile and shake their heads as well as his even tempered personality. His love of his family, Mississippi State Football, UConn Women's Basketball, WOOT and the Big Juan burrito are legendary.

Jeff is survived by his wife of 40 years Roxanne, sons Nick Lord and Alex (Serena) Lord, and the apple of his eye, granddaughter Jada Grace Lord, brother David (Betsy) Lord, sisters Deborah (Denny) Byrne, and Beth (Harold) McKinney.

A Celebration of Life will be held later in the Fall when it will be possible for Jeff's family and friends to gather to celebrate his life. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in Jeff's memory to Lab Rescue of the Potomac, P.O. Box 1814, Annandale, VA 22003 (lab-rescue.org), the First United Methodist Church of Northville, 301 S. Main St., Northville, NY 12134, or a charity of your choice. Arrangements by Amory Funeral Home, Grafton, Va.

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Published by Daily Press on Sep. 15, 2021.

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John M Wohleber

December 21, 2021

I was extremely sorry to learn of Jeff's passing. I had been texting back and forth with him in the months prior to get updates on his condition. Our friendship started at AFROTC summer camp at Plattsburgh AFB in 1976. We were then roommates at USAF Navigator school at Mather AFB in 1978. We managed to stay in touch throughout our active duty years and follow on civilian careers. Always taking time to visit each other when travels allowed. I will miss my old friend very much. Nickel on the grass for Lordski!

Lou Anne Savage

December 1, 2021

My sincere condolences to Jeff's family. Jeff was a church choir mate of mine at First Methodist in Northville NY. He was fun loving with a sweet tenor voice always in my ear at church. God rest his soul and condolences to his family.

Jacqueline Spencer

October 20, 2021

I am so sorry to learn of Jeff's passing - only met him a few times when I went to visit Roxanne and the Labs. But he was always friendly and gracious and I know how much support he gave Roxanne in her many endeavors. Thinking of Roxanne and his family at this difficult time.

Ron and Marie Skipper

September 20, 2021

We are very sorry for your loss. He was a great family man. Ron, Marie, Brian Skipper;Angela Goerger

Harry Grau

September 17, 2021

So sorry to hear of the loss of a genuinely great guy. Learned a lot from him as a peer soccer ref. He will be missed (and he will be remembered!)

Kevin Kendall

September 17, 2021

I only knew Jeff for 3 years when I made the transition from coaching high school and travel soccer to refereeing, while in my early thirties. I´m 52 and still reffing and am now joined by my two sons. His classes were always entertaining and he had a great personality. My condolences to the family and his close friends. I know he will be greatly missed.

ASCENCION GOMEZ (A.G.)

September 16, 2021

The Gomez family sends our heartfelt condolences for the passing of a great man. Jeff will be missed. Semper Fi brother

Chris Murray

September 16, 2021

Jeff you will certainly be missed my friend. You where an inspiration to us all on the soccer pitch. I enjoyed working with you and you helping my daughter come through the ranks in refereeing
. Rest in peace and God bless your family.

George Vergara

September 16, 2021

Jeff was such a wonderful person and I always enjoyed being with him around the soccer field.
I will miss him as well as will countless other soccer referees.
Prayers and condolences to the family

G

September 16, 2021

So sorry to hear about your loss. You know that God and Jesus are in the best position to comfort us when we lose a loved one in death.

Chris Mulholland

September 16, 2021

I'm so, so sorry to hear this. He was a good friend on and off the pitch. My prayers go out to all of the family.

Jane Ginter-Valik

September 16, 2021

So very sorry to hear of Jeff´s passing. Our family in Northville were friends of Jeff´s for many years. I use to baby sit the four children many years ago.... I will always remember Jeff as a young man, who liked to be a prankster....always so full of life. My sincere sympathy to Jeffs wife and children and to David, Deb and Beth and all their family. Condolences, Jane Ginter-Valik

Randy and Mary Mayville

September 16, 2021

Deb, we´re so sorry to hear about Jeffrey Allen!
Having lost two brothers, I can tell you our hearts are hurting for you.
We´re praying for you and your wonderful family.

Mark Cook

September 16, 2021

I know Jeff through soccer and I will miss his friendship and his smile. My condolences to his family.

Ginny Hager

September 15, 2021

Roxanne, I am so sorry for your loss. I always enjoyed the times I was able to visit with you, Jeff and your children on Thanksgiving! You both always made me feel very welcome --

Beth Sperry Hagy

September 15, 2021

Dear Debbie, Denny and family, I am so sorry for the loss of your brother. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you. May your wonderful memories sustain you in the days ahead. Hugs, Beth Hagy

Renny

September 15, 2021

A great mentor as a referee.

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