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Pamela G. Mitchell Herbin

Pamela Herbin Obituary

NEWPORT NEWS - Mrs. Pamela Gaye Mitchell Herbin was born on May 25, 1959, in Newport News, Va., the youngest of three children born to John R. Mitchell Sr. and Juanita Christian Mitchell. She departed this life on Friday, June 22, 2007, in Hampton, Va. She received her early education in the Newport News School System. Upon graduation, Pamela joined the U.S. Army, serving a tour of duty at Fort Sill, Okla., before her discharge. She leaves to cherish her memories her husband, Ronald Herbin; parents, John R. Mitchell Sr. and Juanita Mitchell; paternal grandmother, Mattie Mitchell of Newport News; five sons, Nehemiah Mitchell of Elizabeth City, N.C., Hezekiah Mitchell, Maher Shala, Israel and Malachi Herbin of Newport News; a daughter, Ethiopia Herbin; one sister, Angela Wiggins of Roanoke, Va.; one brother, John R. Mitchell Jr. (Deborah) of Newport News; and a host of uncles, aunts, nephews, nieces, cousins and friends. A Homegoing service will be held 11 a.m. Tuesday, July 3, at O. H. Smith & Son Funeral Home. Viewing will be from 1 to 7 p.m. Monday at the funeral home. Arrangements are by O. H. Smith & Son Funeral Home.

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Published by Daily Press from Jun. 26 to Jul. 1, 2007.

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Patrese Morris-Carter

July 19, 2007

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

La'Tonya Clark-Smith

July 10, 2007

I taught Israel and Ethiopia. I often wonder how they are doing. Their mother was loving and attentinve and I am praying for her family.

Sheree Gatling - Alston

July 5, 2007

I have never had a friend as close as Pam. I remember Angie and John when we were growing up in the Harbor Homes. Mr. John would take our pictures. I think my mom still has one of me and my brother Darryl that Mr. John took. My mom and Miss Juanita were friends a long time ago. I remember in the summertime Pam would come to visit. I got to know her better at Menchville and we were always together. We would share clothes, chocolate milk, choke sandwiches, and Kool cigarettes. I saw her some years ago we made a pact that we would see each other by the time we were in our fifties and then I went overseas. I always thought that we would see each other again and talk about our lives our children etc., I just knew that we would see each other again. We had so much in common and we would balance each other out. My heart truly breaks for all of you and myself. I know that Pam had so much to offer she was a restless spirit that was multi-gifted. I was en route to her memorial service when I was stuck on the Coleman Bridge for two hours. I was immediately upset. However when I got out of my car and looked over at the York River it reminded me of the many bright sunny days we spent on the pier at Pinkys Beach or under the gazebo at Peterson Yacht Basin playing chess or down on Chesapeake Ave on the bench contemplating life and injustices. The time I spent on the bridge and the way the sun was shinning reminded me of my youth and my best friend. We would walk for miles and miles and talk to everyone. I did the same thing on the bridge; I stopped and talked to people. If Pam had been there she would have done that same thing. We never met a stranger. I met her husband for the first time on Monday and her children. I hope that all of you will find comfort in the good times and the impact for the better she made in many lives. I will pray for you and keep you in my thoughts everday.

Yvonne McClanahan

July 2, 2007

To the Family: Angie her sister was a good friend when she worked at Newport News Shipbuilding in Department E82. Just remember that God makes no mistakes. He gives strength when there is none and hope for all lost souls. God loves each and everyone of his children, Pam is one of God children he will take care of her. I am so sorry for your loss. May God's grace keep you and comfort you at this time.

Elders Ernest & Lillie Green

July 2, 2007

To Evangelist Corey Herbin & Family:
Whatever your hurt, remember His. Not only does God understand, he sympathizes. He knows what you are going through---He lived it.

Rosa (Boyd) Decatur

July 1, 2007

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Sonya Mitchell Marsh

June 29, 2007

Pam was my first cousin but I did not know her. I know details of her life and details of her loss. All of those details have come to this...she was a light who was shamefully lost to us. She is loved and she will be remembered Uncle John. I love you and I want you to remember that her light will deliver others...

SHIRLEY YOUNG (FARRISH)

June 29, 2007

TO HER FATHER, JOHN MITCHELL

KNOW THAT THE YOUNG FAMILY THOUGHTS AND PRAYER'S ARE WITH YOU. IF THERE'S ANYTHING WE CAN DO,YOU KNOW WE ARE HERE FOR YOU. MAY GOD BLESSINGS REST UPON YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.

Gail, Wayne & family

June 27, 2007

Our sympathy is extended to you all during this time. Our prayer for you is that the Holy Spirit will be your comforter and the Lord will give you strength and peace that passes all understanding.His mercies are new every morning. Love,

Kelvin & Karen Anderson

June 26, 2007

In My Pocket

I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.

My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.

They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.

Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.

But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.

TaTanisha Rodriguez

June 26, 2007

To her Father, John R. Mitchell...

Uncle John,

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. May God's comfort and peace be with during this time of sorrow.

Love,

Dice, Tan and the Children

Carl James

June 26, 2007

To the Mitchell family;Our deepest sympathy on the lost of a love one,Pam was a very close friend of the family growing up on ash avenue, she will always be remembered.May god continue to bring blessings to your family. sincerly Carl James

O. H. Smith & Son Funeral Home

June 26, 2007

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