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Patrick McCLENDON Obituary
Mr. McClendon worked as a harbor pilot and tugboat captain for the C&O Railroad. He retired from the U.S. Army after 26 years of service. He served two years in Korea during the Korean War. He served four years in Vietnam and was awarded The Bronze Star with a V for Valor in Vietnam, and a Korean Service Medal with 5 Bronze Stars. He received a National Defense Service Medal, Meritorious Unit Citations, and a United Nations Service Medal. Mr. McClendon was a member of Parkview Baptist Church and was a Deacon Emeritus.
He was preceded in death by his mother and father.
Survivors include his wife of 59 years, Shirley R. McClendon; a daughter, Patty Eason and husband Merrill of Smithfield; three sons, Michael McClendon and wife Carol of Richmond, Raymond McClendon and wife Patricia of Poquoson, Bryan McClendon and wife Cindy of Fort Rucker, Ala.; three sisters, Peggy, Ann, and Jeannie; eight grandchildren, Chris, David, Joshua, Jordan, Liz, Sarah, Michelle, Meghan; and a great-grandchild, Jeffery Michael.
A memorial service will be held at 11 a.m. on Friday, Oct. 12, at Parkview Baptist Church, 604 Hilton Blvd., Newport News, VA 23605 with a reception to follow. View and post condolences on our online guestbook at dailypress.com/guestbooks.
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Memories and Condolences
for Patrick McCLENDON
October 18, 2012
I worked with Capt. Pat at the C&O for a few years. He was a great guy to work with. His sense of humor was always there and he spoke many times about his family and how he so proud of them. I'm sure his family was proud of him also. Calm seas and fair winds Capt. Pat.
Bob Cowan
Va. Beach, Va.
Virginia Keithley
October 12, 2012
Dear Michael and family,
I don't know if you remember me - it was Virginia Shorter back when we attended school together, but I was so sorry to read of your father's passing. I've often wondered where you were because you were such a kind, smart and quiet young man. I hope you're doing ok. My prayers are with you and your family.
Doug BUrrows
October 11, 2012
In a league of their own...Captain Pat will be missed....contributed to the next generation of officers...he will continue in all of us. God Bless he and his family.
Tom Wallace
October 11, 2012
I worked with Cap'n Pat many times on the C&O Railway Co. tugboats at Newport News, VA. I enjoyed his many stories, and his good nature. A good person. May GOD Bless him.
_Tom Wallace, deckhand
Ken Puckett
October 11, 2012
I will always remember Pat's never ending wit and smile. In the military we have two families. The one at home and our military family. I served with him overseas. His character, conduct and respect for his family was above reproach. No man could have lead a better life. I will always think of Pat as my military brother. He is one of the finest shiphandler I have ever met. We trained, worked and laughed together and he will be missed.
KATHY McCAFFERTY
October 11, 2012
My father was stationed with CW3 McClendon at Fort Eustis (3rd Port) many, many years ago. I can remember my father speaking of his friend on numerous occasions. My deepest sympathy to the entire McClendon family.
Charlotte Miller
October 10, 2012
I was so sorry to hear of Mr. McClendon's passing.Please know you are in my prayers..
2011 3rd Port Reunion Banquet
Becky Brashears
October 10, 2012
Pat, we will miss your stories and smile at the 3rd Port Reunion. One of the last of the guys who started it 36 years ago! Rest in Peace.
Josh and Jessica McKnight
October 10, 2012
The family is in our prayers as you all go through this time of grief.
October 10, 2012
Shirley and family,
We are sorry to hear of the loss of Pat,but we know you will see him again. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Love,
Norman and LaVona
Mark & Miriam Olson Waggoner
October 10, 2012
Shirley & Family,
Our thoughts & prayers are with you.
Nancy, Cathy, and Gina Gregory
October 10, 2012
Shirley and Family,
Our love and prayers are with you and the family during this time. May God's comforting arms give you strength in these upcoming days.
Our love and God's peace,
Mary Hall
October 10, 2012
Shirly so sorry to hear about Pat. I thoght a Lot of Pat.He was always very nice to me. If you need anything please let me know.
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