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Raymond CRITTENDEN Obituary
He was the son of the late Raymond C. Crittenden Sr. and Rosa Cary Crittenden. He was born on Dec. 7, 1926, Richmond, Va.
He was a graduate of Armstrong High School, Richmond, Va. He earned a B.S, Degree from Virginia State College, Petersburg, Va., and a M.S. Degree from Indiana University, Bloomington, Ind. He completed post graduate work at Hampton University, Hampton, Va., and the College of William and Mary, Williamsburg, Va.
He served in the U.S. Army Air Corps 1945-1947 and U.S. Army Corps Reserves 1947-1950. While in the Army Air Corps, he attended the University of Hawaii, Honolulu, Hawaii.
His professional career as an educator, coach and school administrator with the Newport News Public School System spanned 50 years. He served as a coach, mentor and role model to students at Huntington High School, 1954-1969; an administrator at Denbigh and Warwick High Schools, 1969-1988; and Night Administrator for Continuing Education until 2004. He was extremely proud of the accomplishments of his students and athletes. Many became consummate professionals.
His athletic abilities are legendary. He played varsity football and basketball in high school and was voted the "Best Male Athlete" in 1944. In college, he started in every football and basketball game, lettered in football, basketball and track, was an all CIAA Conference football and basketball player and held a 10-year record for most points scored in a basketball game. In the Army, he was the only black American to play football and was voted the team's 1945 "Most Valuable Player."
He was a member of the Virginia State University Alumni Association, Indiana University Alumni Association, Omega Psi Phi Fraternity, Inc. and a former member of the Dochiki Civic and Social Club. Some of his awards include: 2004 Induction into the Hampton Roads African American Sports Hall of Fame; 1990 Induction in the Virginia State University Sports Hall of Fame; 1988 Secondary School Administrator of the Year; 1980 Newport News Mayor's Youth Commission Award; 1980 STRIVE, Inc. Youth Service Award; 1967 Virginia Interscholastic Association District Basketball Coach of the Year; 1961 Omega Psi Phi Fraternity, Inc. Man of the Year.
He was an avid traveler. His journeys took him throughout the United States, Canada, Mexico, the Caribbean and Asia.
Affectionately known as "Coach," he is survived by his loving wife of 65 years, Flora Davis Crittenden of Newport News, Va.; his three children, Raymond C. Crittenden III and his wife, Deborah of Fairfax, Va., Thursa D. Crittenden and her husband, Thomas W. Selden Jr. of Suffolk, Va., and Alonzo L. Crittenden of Hampton, Va.; his sister, Geraldine C. Turner of Newport News, Va.; five grandchildren; six great-grandchildren; several nieces and nephews; and a host of cousins, relatives, special students and friends.
A Celebration of Life to honor "Coach" will be held from 6 to 8 p.m. Friday, Jan. 8, at Huntington Middle School. His funeral mass will be held noon Saturday, Jan. 9, at St. Vincent de Paul Catholic Church.
If persons wish to continue "Coach's" work with young people, they may make a tax-deductible donation to the Flora D. Crittenden Foundation, 2124 Soundings Crescent Court, Suffolk, VA 23435.
Professional services are entrusted to O.H. Smith & Son Funeral Home. View and post condolences on our online guestbook at dailypress.com/guestbooks.
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Memories and Condolences
for Raymond CRITTENDEN
Michael D. Feldman
February 1, 2010
Mrs. Crittenden and Family:
I was sadden to hear the passing of Coach. He had a profound affect on me as student when I attended Denbigh High School ('76) and later as an educator/coach at Warwick. He encouraged me to be a "coach" and was very supportive of my endeavors to do so. When I would return home from college he always wanted to know what the latest things being taught where and how I was doing with them all. When I came to Warwick as an assistant football coach and later to teach US and VA History, Coach was there to welcome and encourage me....as always. Quick to share a good story and insight into the teaching-coaching business, his counsel was on point and to the point. And he could tell some stories.
Coach enriched the lives of those he touched on a daily basis. I am forever grateful for him being such an influence in my personal and professional development.
Coach Crittenden was a blessing to education in our community, state and country.
Deborah A. Wilson
January 15, 2010
To Lonnie and family,
You are in my thoughts and prayers for God's divine healing during your time of loss. My God fill the void created by his passing with loving memories of your times together and his service to others. There is a time and season for all things. Ecc 3.
jackie dinkins
January 14, 2010
To Mrs. Crittenden and Thursa:
I was saddened to hear of the loss of your husband and father, but I rejoiced in knowing that he is with the father in heaven. He will be missed but he will forever be remembered by the legacy that he left behind. Continue to trust in God and lean not to your understanding, and He will direct your path. To God Be The Glory. Love, jackie James Dinkins and Harry James, Jr.
Ronnie Wyatt
January 11, 2010
May your hearts be filled with wonderful memories. Please accept my deepest sympathies and you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Tal Zlotnitsky
January 11, 2010
To Lonnie and family,
Maria and I share in your loss and grief.
All the best,
Tal J. Zlotnitsky
Joylette Hylick
January 11, 2010
Mrs. Crittenden, Thursa and family: Please accept my sincere condolences in the loss of your husband and father. As you enter this new 'season' of your lives, may the fond memories of family, friends, trips, events, and games put a smile on your face, and may it make your burden a little lighter.
Mrs. Crittenden, I am happy we had occasion to share some recent moments to talk and share. Be well. And, may God continue to bless you and your family. I love you,
Joylette Goble Hylick, GWC- Class of '58
Gloria Brown
January 11, 2010
TO THE CRITTENDON FAMILY--MAY THE LORD BLESS AND KEEP YOU IN HIS CARE. CONTINUE TO TRUST GOD AND HE WILL SEE YOU THROUGH THIS DIFFICULT TIME. REMEMBER, ONE DAY YOU WILL BE ABLE TO SEE YOUR LOVED ONE AGAIN. MY FAMILY AND I WILL CONTINUE TO LIFT YOU UP IN PRAYER. WITH LOVE, GLORIA CHEESEMAN BROWN AND FAMILY(Carver High--1967)
Anthony Cannady
January 11, 2010
To The entire Crittenden Family, My heart is sadden to hear of the lost of Mr. Raymond Crittenden Jr. affectionally known as "Coach". His life and principles certainly fall directly under the Tree of a Godly spirit in which he lived. Helping one another to be better then we found one another. I has the opportunity to work with "Lonnie" his son in a number of positions and his first order of busines was always to mentor young professionals in the work place. Always the under dog could win with the proper support, strategy and habit. Success was a change of habit, came with a cost. My heart is sadden for the family at this time, cause I know where Lonnie adopted his principles and spirit. Fruit falls under the tree when you look at this Family. Raymond lived developing others, demostrated to his kids real success and thoses he mentor. Right was right even if no one follow the strategy day end. Coach's spirit will live in those he touched forever to spread the same value system to approach life's challenges. Bless you all at this time. God is still good and his grace and mercy is present. Raymond is in your hearts forever. Just reflect his wisdom at any time, and he becomes present. Anthony , Alice and Toni Cannady
Betty Selden
January 11, 2010
Mrs. Crittenden, you and your family continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.
January 10, 2010
Mrs.Crittenden and Thursa, My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Loren Colander
January 9, 2010
Mrs. Crittenden, Thersa and family,I was certainly saddened to hear that Coach Crittenden had passed away. I have known your family since I was a freshman at Huntington High School. Coach Crittenden was well respected and admired as a teacher at Huntington. Thersa and I have been friends for a long time also. She and I have had many good times together. I will never forget her.
I pray that your family will continue to cherish the wonderful memories that you have in your heart for Mr. Crittenden. God bless you all.
Doris Joyner Taliaferro
January 9, 2010
Mrs. Crittenden, Thersa and family,I was certainly saddened to hear that Coach Crittenden had passed away. I have known your family since I was a freshman at Huntington High School. Coach Crittenden was well respected and admired as a teacher at Huntington. Thersa and I have been friends for a long time also. She and I have had many good times together. I will never forget her.
I pray that your family will continue to cherish the wonderful memories that you have in your heart for Mr. Crittenden. God bless you all.
Nathaniel Guthrie
January 9, 2010
Dear Mrs. Crittenden, I am sorry to hear of your husband's passing. I'll remeber you and your family in prayer. "May the Peace of the Lord be with you."
Jeraldine S. Hawkins
January 9, 2010
Mrs Crittenden, Thersa and other family members, I pray for your strength that God will keep his loving arms around each of you. I am most greatful for knowing you Mrs Crittenden for you had a great impact on my life. Thanks for the memories.
Jeraldine Sinclair Hawkins and family, Newport News, Va.
Ann Pleasants
January 9, 2010
Mrs. Crittenden and family,
I was sadden to hear of Mr. Crittenden's death. I consider it an honor to have known him as I taught GED. He was supportive and kind to students and faculty. His example will be missed, but lives on in those he touched.
The Lipkins Family
January 9, 2010
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Wanda Lewis
January 9, 2010
Crittenden Family:
I had the joy and pleasure of knowing Mr. C at Denbigh High School Class of 1978. One of the greatest!!!!
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived
Dr. James Watkins & family
January 9, 2010
Mrs. Flora Crittenden & family: we want to express our deepest sympathy to you and your entire family. May all of you find comfort in the memories of a life filled with many joyful experiences! God bless you all.
Marvis Williamson
January 8, 2010
To: Mrs. Flora D. Crittenden & Family
Dear Flora,
I was sadden to learn that your husband, Ray, had passed. On behalf of myself and my family, I wish to send our condolences and sympathy. I know you will be strong and time will ease your grief and sense of loss.
I hope you remember our opportunity to chat during the Carver High Celebration this past November.
Sincerely,
Marvis Williamson, Sr.
(transmitted by Mildred Williamson Dockery)
Altadena, CA
Mary Taylor
January 8, 2010
To the Crittenden Family....
May God be with you at this most difficult time. Your Husband, Father, and Grandfather was a positive figure in the Newport News school system, and truly enhanced a lot of lives. He will forever be missed.
The Kelly Family
Larry Davis
January 8, 2010
Coach Crittenden - I want to speak to what he was, but upon reflection, I thought of the number of young men like me upon whom he had such a tremendous impact. Reflecting further, I realized that spirits never transition. Coach Crittenden's spirit is implanted in the many minds and souls among us existing spirits he has touched. In his honor it is our obligation and responsibility to him to pass the light of his spirit on to present and future generations. My condolences to the family.
Wilson (Bee) Davis
January 8, 2010
Mrs. Crittenden and Family,
When I moved to Newport news-Crittenden, Bacote, Buggs and Madden-we were sport buddies. I have not been able to associate with my friends for many years due to illiness. Crittenden was a wonderful person and a cool guy. I will always remember him for having a deep love for young guys career.
Johnny Lassiter
January 8, 2010
I came to know Mr. Crittenden through Mrs. Crittenden. We use to talk about life and education all the time as he was cleaning the pool and/or doing other household chores. Him and Mrs. Crittenden help me in my Architectural career at Hampton University in the early 80's. I'm still thinking of that oriental center piece I never finished.
My prayers and condolences are with you and the family Mrs. Crittenden.
Love,
Johnny
[email protected]
www.byjohnny.com
Kim Vaughan
January 8, 2010
To the Crittenden family, I wish to extend my deepest condolences. Mr. C was a great, kind hearted, compassionate person. Most people can remember at least one teacher who had a particularly positive impact on their lives. Although Mr. C never taught me in a classroom, he certainly gave me (and probably many others) great life lessons.
I remember skipping school for the first time and being caught by Mr. C. I was sent home and told to have my parents call. Scared to death, I called and faked being my mother. Mr. C immediately recognized the hoax and began to lecture me. Realizing my fear, instead of punishing me further, he told me to return to school the next day and promise never to skip again… I never did.
Denbigh High- Class on 1976
The Wards
January 8, 2010
To The Family,
May the fond and happy memories of Coach Crittenden live on in your hearts.
January 8, 2010
Mrs.Crittenden,Family,& sister Geraldine Turner,
I remember Coach Crittenden with fond memories, along with memories of Coach Madden and Coach Travis and the beautiful "lady coaches." They all inspired so many of us at Huntington High School.
Later, when I met and worked with his sister Gerry, at Hampton University's Huntington Memorial Library, was when I met Flora and became to this day part of the Crittenden/Turner family.
God's love and blessings to each of you.
Lillie Sneed Hubbard
Class of '57
January 8, 2010
He was one of the finest, kindest and most respected administrators I ever worked with and I have always treasured his work with students and teachers when we were at Denbigh High School. God bless and keep you during this time.Joy Gill
Kathy Phillips
January 8, 2010
Mrs. Crittenden,
I always remember the first time Mr. C asked me about my license plate (Hoosier). I told him about being from Indiana, and we reminisced about being Indiana University grads. He told me many stories about your time there and his good memories of Bloomington. He was a gentle man and gained the respect of all who met him. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Kathy Phillips, ESOL teacher in adult education
Joey Smith
January 8, 2010
Mr. Crittenden was a great role model, a true leader and a dear friend. I am sadden to hear of his passing. My heart and prayers go out to the Crittenden family.
Joey Smith (Denbigh Class of 77')
Michael Johnson
January 8, 2010
Mrs. Crittendon and the entire Crittendon family. You have my deepest condolences on the passing of Mr. Crittendon. Denbigh High School would not have been the same and I might not have made it were it not for his presence. The loss of someone who touched so many lives cannot be easily measured.
God's peace and blessings,
Michael K. Johnson
Cheryl Davis Waldren
January 8, 2010
I wish to extend my condolences to Mrs. Crittenden and family during their time of bereavement. Mr. Crittenden truly influenced my life and others while at Denbigh High. Because of him we all strived for the best and did our very best in everything we did in life and still continue to do so. I like, so many others, will truly miss him. I’m very grateful for knowing him. I remember I got sent to his office and he pulled out a “pink” slip, he stated he did not want to see me again and he did not until the day of graduation. He then said to me “why did I not come and visit?” I just laughed and told him because of what he said to me that day changed my life. My heartfelt prayers go out to the family as well as all of us who knew him. Mr. Crittenden will truly be missed. – Denbigh High Class of ’77
Stan Winter
January 8, 2010
The Crittenden Family,
My condolences to you all. Surely you were blessed with this man in your family.
Coach was the only reason I got through High School Gym, (Denbigh 77) I was not the Jock type. And though we didn't really have much in common, he saw my plight and helped me along, I will always remember him as smart, athletic and cool. He was the type of guy all the kids liked and respected. I will include Coach and his family in my prayers tonight.
Thanks Coach!
Tracie Jones-Lassiter
January 8, 2010
Mrs. Crittenden & Family,
We are sadden to hear of your loss and we extend our heartfelt sympathy to you and your family. May God continue to strengthen you during this most difficult time.
Susan Fitchko
January 8, 2010
Crittenden Family... This world has lost one of the kindest and dearest men I have ever known. I had the pleasure of working with him at Denbigh High and not a day went by that he did not make me smile. He was a wonderful human being, a great mentor, a loving husband and father. May you all use the wonderful memories to help you through this difficult time. You all are in my thoughts and prayers.
Andrew Hudson
January 8, 2010
Mrs. Crittenden and Family,
The heartfelt condolences of the G.W. Carver Class of '59 go out to you in the passing of your husband and precious loved one.
We are praying that the the love of God and the support of family and friends will strengthen, comfort and give you peace.
With deepest sympathy,
Andrew Hudson, President
William and Dorothy Evans Richmond
January 8, 2010
Mrs. Crittenden,
We are so sorry to hear about the loss of your beloved husband.
I am thankful for the brief moments we shared from time to time at Coliseum Park as you visited your husband and I visited my Mom and Dad.
Mr. Crittenden and my Dad were roommates at one time and rested together. Dad went home to glory in June. Now they are both in sweet rest with the Lord.
May the comfort of God's loving arms surround you and your family as you cherish your huband's loving memories.
With deepest sympathy and prayers,
Dorothy Evans Richmond,
Class of '59
William Richmond, Jr
Class of '57
Billy Lewis
January 8, 2010
Mrs. Crittenden and Family; I was heartbroken when my sister called with the News of the Coach Passing. There are so many Men from Newport News that are better people because of Coach. He was not only a Teacher to so many young people, but a example of what we as young Students could achieve with hard work and a goal in mind. As a young Man, I always saw Coach as a cool Adult. I know now what I saw, was a strong competent and accomplished Man, that was always there for us. The world is a better place today, because of men like Coach Crittenden, Madden and many other mentors in Newport News. I love you Coach
Billy Lewis
Debra Ivey
January 8, 2010
Mrs. Crittenden & Family
My deepest condolences. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Debra Ivey
Okiniwa, Japan
Glenn Hitchcock
January 8, 2010
Mrs. Crittenden & Family,
Our hearts are with you and our prayers are offered on your behalf. Fondest memories of past times ( I Sam. 20:18.
Glenn I. Hitchcock & Family,
Audrey Williams
January 7, 2010
Mrs. Crittenden & Family,
On behalf of the G. W. Carver Class of 1963, we want to offer our deepest condolences on the lost of your loved one. Please know that we will keep you in our prayers.
Audrey P Williams, President
Stephanie G. Anderson
January 7, 2010
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009
Stephanie G. Anderson, Huntington Class of '67
January 7, 2010
Mrs. Crittenden, Ray III, Thursa, Lonnie and Family,
My sincere condolences to you. I felt like part of the family growing up next to Mr. & Mrs. Buckner. Always remember that God knows and He cares. Be blessed and know I am only a phone call away. I had to enter the poem that follows because it seemed so appropriate for Mr. Crittenden for all the lives he has touched. Love to you all.
Beatrice Delores Jeffries
January 7, 2010
My deepest condolences to the Crittender family.
A true Viking from the class of 1958.
Dr. Michael Banks
January 7, 2010
To the Crittenden Family:
My deepest condolences on your loss. Mr. Crittenden was my Assistant Principal, Confidant, Fraternity Brother. His advice to me as a kid was profound and challenging. I am proud that he used to call me "son' whenever we held counsel. I will cherish those conversations from Denbigh High as some of the most thought provoking and inspirational moments of my life. Although we have not spoken in many years I have thought of him often..May he find Peace in the arms of The Almighty!
January 7, 2010
Dear Mrs.Crittenden & Family,
Just wanted you to know that I am truly sorry to hear of the passing of Mr. Crittenden.
I have know you both for almost 25 years and It was always a please to give you both my services.
Please know that you & your family are in my prayers.
Sincerely;
Judy Mangum
VECU employee
frankie faison
January 7, 2010
I wish to extend my most sincere condolences to the CRITTENDEN FAMILY. Coach Crittenden was dearly loved and will be missed. He served as an inspiration to me and I will always remember him a very important role model. I know his family celebrates the inspiring and joyful life he led. My love and wish for peace to you all.
sincerely, Frankie R. Faison
Marjorie Lawrence
January 7, 2010
Please know that you Flora and your family are in my prayers during this time of saddness.
Marjorie Emerson Lawrence
james clark
January 7, 2010
To Ray Jr and family. Coach Critt was instrumental in my success as an adult because of the attention and concern shown to me as a young kid. All of us in East End loved and respected him.
James B clark HHS(63)
Darryl M Clark HHS(65)
January 7, 2010
Mrs. C.,
I was deeply sadden to hear of Coach Crittenden's passing. You and he played important roles in the lives of thousands of boys and girls who are now men and women. May God bless and keep you and the family in love and under his Grace and protection.
Butch Birchette - HHS 1960
Vikings Basketball - #00
Shirley Cantey(Biss)
January 7, 2010
My deepest sympathy goes out to you and
your family,my our father or God keep you close. He's touched so many lives, he'll truly will be missed.
DHS Class 76,Anchorage Alaska
Pamela Whitehurst
January 7, 2010
To Mrs. Crittenden and Family,
I extend my sincere condolences to your family on the loss of your husband. I was a student at Carver HS and you were my guidance counselor.I didn't know your husband, but I can tell by the remarks that he was indeed a gentleman. May you always have fond memories of him and know that I will keep you in my prayers.
Pamela Taliferro Whitehurst (class of 68)
January 7, 2010
The Perry and Wharton fmalies sends their deepest condolences to the Crittenden family on the loss of there beloved husband, father and grandfather. May God bless you, Ronnie Perry, Hellen Perry and Brenda Perry Wharton.
James Williams
January 7, 2010
As a student in the late 1950s, I had three great teachers at Huntington High School. "Coach Crittenden" was one of them. He was kind, thoughtful in his assessments, and deeply personable. He and I shared a camaraderie that was more man-to-man than man-to-boy. As I advise my students, I am sometimes aware of his influence that constitutes a part of who I am as a teacher and mentor. Much of what he gave to his students derived from his innately caring and loving spirit. His love will be eternal.
Sincerely,
James H. Williams, Jr.
School of Engineering Professor of Teaching Excellence
Charles F. Hopewell Faculty Fellow
Professor of Writing and Humanistic Studies
M.I.T. Room 3-360
Cambridge, MA 02139-4307
U.S.A.
(617) 253-2221
http://web.mit.edu/jhwill/www/
Bishop Joseph Gurley
January 7, 2010
May the love and peace of God keep you and your family during the homegoing of your beloved in the loving arms of God. Our heart felt condolences are with each of you at the loss of Coach. He was love and bless by students and all.For you we are praying and he will always be remembered. May the peace and the love of God comfort you and the family.
Chaplain Gurley
Leroy Keyes
January 7, 2010
Mrs. Crittenden & Family,
We are truly sadden by the lost of your husband, friend, lover, confidante and hero. Sixty-five years of maritial joy. How special!
I had the great honor and pleasure of sharing your husband for a short period of time while attending G.W. Carver High School. I remember him affectionately calling me "Keyes". To have been a part of his legacy and also a part of yours still sits fresh on my mind.
Coach will be missed by so many but will continue to inspire those of us who lives he touched. He is now a part of the "Viking" nation in Heaven.
Please know that my prayers and thoughts are with you and the family at this time. I am so sorry that my schedule will not allow me to make the journey home to say "Farewll" to Coach.
May God continue to Bless each and everyone of you. I respect and love you all tremendously.
I remain,
M. Leroy "Nursey" Keyes
Chris Williams
January 7, 2010
I cannot imagine the number of people and former students that also feel the family's loss! Those that influence children... influence the world and he certainly did that. I do want to express my sincere gratitude for the guidance and influence that "Mr. Crittenden" personally gave to me. A mental picture of him and Coach Johnson walking the halls of Denbigh HS with those wooden shop paddles still make me laugh! His own "Board of Education" helped to positively influence so many of us! Now that he can look down and see all the good that he put into so many students will certainly help him get his wings! May God bless him and his family.
Elwood Hill
January 7, 2010
God Bless Mrs.Crittenden,Ray,Lonnie,and my girl Thursa. Coach was something else, crossing his path in my life was a blessing.
Frank Tolliver
January 7, 2010
My deepest condolences are hereby extended to the Crittenden Family. I remember Coach Crittenden when I was a child growing up in East End as being a remarkable coach during the glory years of Huntington High School. Under the leadership of Coach Crittenden and Coach Madden, Huntington High School produced some of the finest athletes and scholars that we all are so proud of. Coach Crittenden was a pillar in the East End community and he enriched so many lives with his kindness, wisdom and helpful ways. He will truly be missed, but his legacy as a great man will live on forever. May the Lord comfort you during this most diificult time. Peace be with you.
Nia Odeoti-Hassan ( Pearlie Aytch) Class of 1966
January 7, 2010
To the Crittenden Family:
Please accept my condolences on the passing of "Coach Crittenden" "Coach Crittenden" was a great educator and person. He was one of Huntington High School major assets when I was a student.
My prayers are with you all at this time.
January 7, 2010
Mrs. Crittenden & Family -
I lived at 657 Spencer Circle with my aunt & uncle M.C. & Mealaine Francis. I remember your family and I wanted to express my and my family's sympathy for your loss. I pray that with time and God's continues love that your loss is bearable and your heart is peaceful. I know that your wonderful family memories will also assist with your comfort. Love & Prayers for you and your family -
Stacy Alexander & Family (Herbin Family)
Bishop J A Kelly
January 7, 2010
May the love and peace of God keep you and your family during the homegoing of your beloved.
Yours In Christ Jesus,
Jackie Pleasant
January 7, 2010
Rest!! In the loving arms of Jesus
Wallace & Beulah Mitchell Davis (HHS)
January 7, 2010
We extend our heartfelt condolences to each of you at the loss of Coach. We remember him as being a supportive, kind and impressive man. He was very concerned about the wellbeing of his students. He will always be remembered as a Gentle Giant.
May the fond and loving memories of Coach bring you peace and comfort in times to come.
Be encouraged and blessed.
Jimmie Smith
January 7, 2010
At this mournful time, we hope that the love and peace of the Lord will give you some comfort.
Lloyd Atkins
January 7, 2010
Mrs. Crittenden,Raymond,Thursa and Lonnie,
I loved Coach because he told me things as a child that even today help me as a a man.I always knew he was great man but I know that for sure since he and I share the greatest fraternity in the world-Omega Psi Phi.
Nelson Armstrong
January 7, 2010
My prayers and heartfelt sorrows join the Crittenden family as we move forward through this time.
Phyllis Moore James
January 7, 2010
To The Family of Coach Crittenden: I remember him well as one of the wonderful, dedicated teachers/coaches we had at HHS who truly cared and gave selflessly to motivate and encourage young Black students in those early days to strive for excellence. What a legacy! My thoughts and prayers are with you all. As you grieve the loss of his physical presence, may you rejoice and celebrate his life and the hope that those who share his faith have of seeing him again along with the Savior. "And this is eternal life that they know You, the only true God, and Jesus Christ whom You have sent." John 17:3
Phyllis Moore James and Family (HHS Class of "72")
Vernon Lyons
January 7, 2010
The Lord Bless you in your rising up, your lying down,your going out, your coming in, all that you put hands to, to prosper for the Lord and his kingdom, angels be about you to guard and proptect you and your's in your leisure, in your work and as you go in life.
for the CRITTENDEN FAMILY.
Estherr Williams
January 6, 2010
Dear Mrs Crittenden and Thursa,
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. I pray that Our Lord will give you His Peace that surpasses our understanding during this period. Know that you are in my prayers and thoughts at this time.
Arnetta Lewis Slade
January 6, 2010
My heart is deeply saddened by the passing of "COACH CRITTENDEN". He was a great man who was respected and loved by his students. My prayers are with you all during this difficult time.
HHS Class of 67
Charles G Miller
January 6, 2010
Mrs. Crittenden and Family, My condolences to you. Ray was a kind and caring person. We shared many experiences together at Huntington, Warwick. summer school and Adult Education. His work with at risk students saved many students and put them on a pathway to success. He will be remembered and missed by many.
Dr. Stanley P. Jones
January 6, 2010
Dear Crittenden Family,
You have my deepest sympathy. Mr. Crittenden was my assistant principal at Dengigh High School. With his gentle spirit he brought much energy and enthusiasm to the school. He was well-liked by both his colleagues and students. May God give you all strength now and in the days ahead.
January 6, 2010
Dear Flora, Thursa and Family, please accept my most sincere condolences.
Michelle Gilliam
Director of the Ella Fitzgerald Theater
Downing-Gross
Cindy Holdsworth-Cokley
January 6, 2010
So sorry for your loss. God bless you and your family during this difficult time.
Former student of Denbigh High School
Class of 1983.
James Cheek
January 6, 2010
Much love and sympathy to the Crittenden in this hour of sorrow.
January 6, 2010
Crittenden Family,
"Coach" lived a life that was representative of an individual who loved his fellow man. His life brought joy and hope to all who interacted with him.
May God's love comfort you during these times.
Rev. Charles Cheek
Patricia Nottingham Cheek
Hampton, Virginia
James Temple, Jr.
January 6, 2010
Mrs. Crittenden and Family, my family and I send our deepest condolences and prayers for you and your loved ones.
May the Lord bless you and keep you, may He cause His face to shine upon you and give you peace. Much grace to you all. I use to shoot camera for the Newport News City Council meetings with you and Ms. Jessie Ratley were at the helm, years ago.
Clay and Marlies Hester
January 6, 2010
Mrs Flora Crittenden and all of the Crittenden family. Marlies and I were saddend to hear of the death of Mr Crittenden, and extend our deepest sympathy to all of you. Our prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Jenny Alford Schmidt
January 6, 2010
I am so sorry for your loss. Mr. C was a great man! He will be missed. My prayers are with you.
JOHN THOMAS
January 6, 2010
TO THE CRITTENDEN FAMILY,IAM VERY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS,ALSO THE COMMUNITY OF NEWPORT NEWS WILL ALSO FELL THE LOST.MYSELF COUCH CRITT TAUGHT ME HOW TO KICK A FOOTBALL.AND I APPRECIATED IT THIS FAR.RAY 3RD WAS ALSO A GREAT FRIEND OF MINE.THIS IS(SWEET-TOE THOMAS) 63-65
January 6, 2010
Dear Mrs. Crittenden and Family,
I am so sorry about Mr. C's passing. You both have very special places near my heart. It seems like only yesterday when he was laughing and having such a great time with us in Adult Ed. I will hold those memories dear forever. Much love to you, Teresa Blaum
January 6, 2010
Mrs. Crittenden,
My deepest sympathy to you and your family and may God grant you peace and serenity in the days ahead.
Tracie Jones-Lassiter
Carver Intermediate 1978-1979
Vincent Joseph
January 6, 2010
Flora: I am saddened by the news of Ray's passing. It was an priviledge being able to spend time with you both. My deepest condolences to you and your family. God bless each of you with his healing now and into the future.
With much respect,
Eddy Summers
January 6, 2010
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Sheila Camp
January 6, 2010
I would like to extend my deepest condolences to the family of Mr. Raymond C. Crittenden Jr. I will forever remember him and be grateful for his role as principal at Denbigh High School. Undoubtedly, if it had not been for him, I would have never graduated. He was truly a caring man and I thank God for him and pray for your strength in the Lord during these times of sorrow. May God bless you.
Patricia Thomas
January 6, 2010
Ray, my sympathies to you and your family at this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Remember the word of God says weeping may last for a night, but joy cometh in the morning.
Shirley A. DeLoatch-Fenwrick
January 6, 2010
To the Crittenden Family,
I wish to express my deepest sympathy on your loss. I was fortunate to know both the coach while attending Huntington and Mrs. Crittenden and Thursa while attending Carver. The coach was a great influence on many of our young men. I sincerely hope that some of the men he mentored will carry on his torch.
Constance Goode
January 6, 2010
Dear Crittenden Family, our thoughts and prayers go out to you. May you find strength in knowing that others share in your sorrow. May God bless you.
Curtis Braonax, Sr
January 6, 2010
We, the Brodnax family, offer our sincere condolences to the Crittenden family at this sad time in your lives.
Coach Crittenden was a positive influence in our lives.
May GOD grant you peace and comfort.
Christian Robinson-Brodnax (HHS-'59)
Curtis L. Brodnax, Sr (HHS-'58)
Stephanie Cherry
January 6, 2010
Mrs. Crittenden,
My deepest sympathy to you and your family. I am sorry to hear of the loss of your dear husband. My prayers are with your and your family during this difficult time.
THOMAS RICHARDSON
January 6, 2010
FLORA I`M SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT THE PASSING OF YOUR HUSBAND " CRIT " AS MY MOTHER USED TO CALL HIM ! GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY !
Bernard James
January 6, 2010
The Huntington H.S. Class of '69', and I wish to share condolences with the Crittenden family. This is a great day to be thankful for the many years that OUR loved one shared with family, students, faculty, friends and the community his zest to see all persons he encountered enveloped with the "Golden Rule" Now as he lays down to sleep, we all pray his soul tp keep.
Bernard(69), Patricia(Taylor)James(71)
Sandra Woodridge-Coney ('70)
January 6, 2010
Please accept my heartfelt condolences for your and your family during this time and in the days to come. May God grant you peace and strength.
January 6, 2010
MamaFlora, Ray III, Thursa, Lonnie,Sr and The Entire Crittenden Family
DaddyCrit will always be remembered for his generous ways, his powerful voice and stately manner. "As quiet as it's kept" the power of his energy will remain as his spirit lives on. We pray his journey will be speedy into the arms of his loving father. With our deepest condolences,
LeVonda Henry Crittenden& Sons and the Family of Herman and Lucy Henry of Java, Virginia
Cynthia Brown
January 5, 2010
To the Mrs. Crittenden and Family,
May God be a source of strength to you and your family during this very sad occasion. You and your family will be in my prayers. May God continue to bless and keep you.
Champ Henry
January 5, 2010
Flora,Ray,Thursa and Lonnie We are so sorry for your lost and wish to extend our condolences. Coach was really a good guy even when he taught me at Huntington and I'm sure he'll be truly missed.
Champ,Jackie and Melea Henry
Delores Ricks Bramlett & Family
January 5, 2010
Sorry to hear of the passing of your loved one. I pray that God will surround you with his love and peace during this difficult time.
January 5, 2010
Mrs. Crittenden and Family,
God's blessing to each of you. Mr. Crittenden and you have given so much to the community and we are so grateful to the two of you. We will keep you all in our prayers.
Mattie Broadnax Evans
January 5, 2010
To Flora And family. I was so sorry to hear of Crit's passing I have fond memories of the times we had together. Mary Webb (St. Peters, Mo.]
January 5, 2010
Mrs, Flora Crittenden and Family,
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. I will always cherish my time with Mr. C. both at Warwick High School and at Denbigh High School. He was a caring, concerned boss as well as a friend. I could always count on him to help me with any "problem" student, who needed only a stern talk , rather than a suspension. Gratefully, I know that your many precious moments and memories will sustain and comfort you today, tomorrow, and always.
Blessings and love,
Ivy D. Lee
Newport News
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