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Barbara Eldridge Obituary

Barbara Cole Eldridge died peacefully on Wednesday, January 29, 2020, at home with family around her. She was 97. Barbara, the only child of Herbert Norman Cole and Lydia Creesy Cole, was born and raised in Beverly, Mass. She married Edgar "Duke" Eldridge, also from Beverly and a recent graduate of the US Naval Academy, in 1943. Then began the challenges of active military service during war time followed by the transient life of a Naval officer's family. After 26 years in the Navy, Barbara's husband retired and embarked on a second career at the University of Virginia in Charlottesville. After moving every few years for almost three decades, Barbara lived in Charlottesville for almost 50 years. She finally made her way home to Massachusetts and her beloved Cape Cod in 2014. Barbara loved life in the Navy. The frequent moves and extended periods when her husband had to be away were more than offset by the supportive community of friends and several nice locations. She was a skilled knitter, bridge player, and home decorator. Barbara loved her various pets, and was a strong advocate for the SPCA in Charlottesville. She was a well-read fan of American and British history and served as a docent at Thomas Jefferson's home, Monticello for 21 years. Most of all, Barbara had a wonderful sense of humor. Barbara was predeceased by her husband of 57 years and by her eldest son, Randall. She is survived by her daughter-in-law, Margot Eldridge of Mesa, Ariz.; her son, Peter and daughter-in-law, Celia of Kemp, Texas; and daughter, Anne Koehler and son-in-law, Steven of Orleans, Mass. She is also survived by eight grandchildren and ten great-grandchildren. A funeral service will be held at Church of the Holy Spirit, Orleans, Mass. on Saturday, February 15, 2020, at 11 a.m. Inurnment will be held at the United States Naval Academy on Friday, April 17, 2020, at 10 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Broad Reach Hospice, 1455 Main Street, Chatham, MA 02633, the Charlottesville Albemarle SPCA, 3355 Berkmar Dr., Charlottesville, VA 22901, or Heifer International. For online condolences, please visit www.nickersonfunerals.com.

Published by Daily Progress on Feb. 11, 2020.

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