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1949
DIED
2023
Douglas Stoughton Obituary
Doug was born on September 22, 1949, in Patterson, N.J. to Ralph and Patricia Stoughton and was raised on the family farm in Palmyra, Va. He shared many idyllic memories with his four siblings, Adele, David, Jack and Randy, and many friends in the fields, farms and backroads of Fluvanna County.
He later attended Virginia Tech University in Blacksburg, Va., from which he graduated in 1971 with a degree in Agriculture Education. He always spoke fondly of his time at Tech.
Shortly thereafter, he met the love of his life, Deborah Morris of Richmond, Va., whom he married December 23, 1972. Doug and Deborah raised their two beloved daughters, Mandy and Shannon, in Fluvanna County, where their lives were full with love, laughter and joy.
Doug's farming background contributed greatly to his passion and dedication to his 30+ years with Virginia Farm Bureau. In his retirement, he and Debbie enjoyed the sights and sounds of the Rappahannock River in Topping, Va., with their dear friend Whitey.
Doug loved walking, reading, photography, fishing and being in nature. Above all, he was a family man whose life centered on the care and comfort of his wife and children.
His smile was infectious, his eyes twinkled and his hugs were filled with warmth.
Doug will be deeply and sadly missed by his wife Debbie, of 50 years; his daughters, Mandy and Shannon; his sons-in-law, George Boneillo and Zack Royer, his four loving siblings, numerous nieces and nephews, and friends.
Service arrangements will be made at a later date.
In lieu of flowers, the family asks that you please donate to Virginia Agriculture in the Classroom. Virginia.agclassroom.org/donors/support/
Memories and Condolences
for Douglas Stoughton
Louis Sparks
February 4, 2025
Doug was my shop teacher at William Monroe High at the end of my senior year he took 3 of us to the state FFA contest I room with him he was a great man
Tracy Scharer
February 14, 2023
Doug was a good friend to my husband, Edward Scharer.
He was an excellent Farm Bureau Representative and encouraged Ed to work with the organization. I will remember him fondly.
Virginia Rovnyak
February 12, 2023
I'm a longtime member of Westminster Presbyterian Church, where Doug's father, Ralph, served as our organist/choirmaster many years ago. I am sorry to learn of Doug's passing. This morning in church, I asked for prayers of comfort for Doug's family.
Donna P. Wills
February 10, 2023
So sorry to hear of Doug's passing. Sending prayers to his family. I grew up with Doug in Palmyra, VA with many school related memories. Donna Pace Wills
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Cheryl Neuhauser Henderson
February 10, 2023
I am so very sorry to hear of Doug´s passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you. We grew up family friends and spent many dinners etc together. He was a very fine man and I pray for God´s love and peace to be with through these times ahead without him, but know that Fluvanna county shares your loss.
David L Cox
February 10, 2023
Debbie I am sorry to hear the news about Doug. I have nothing but the fondest memories of Doug being my Ag teacher in High School. I always admired him with the highest respect. May God be with You and the Girls.
Louis Sparks
February 10, 2023
Doug was a great man and great teacher of mine for 4 years he took 3 of us to Va tech for FFA rest in peace
David L Cox
February 10, 2023
Debbie, I am sorry to hear of your loss. May God be with you and the girls.
Tracy Cornatzer
February 9, 2023
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I worked with Doug at Virginia Farm Bureau for many years. I can still see him at annual dinner meetings or helping me with county leadership. My heart aches for your family. I understand your loss. Praying that our heavenly Father covers you with comfort and peace.
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