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Marita Petzoldt McClymonds

1935 - 2023

Marita Petzoldt McClymonds obituary, 1935-2023, Charlottesville, VA

Marita McClymonds Obituary

Marita P. McClymonds, 87, of Charlottesville, died very peacefully March 2, 2023, at the University of Virginia Medical Center surrounded by her family. She was born in St. Louis, Missouri, on December 4, 1935, daughter of the late Adie Sylvester Petzoldt and Elda Louise Engert Petzoldt.

Surviving members of her immediate family are her son, James Taylor McClymonds, his wife, Susan B. McClymonds, and twin children, Malcolm and Emilie, of Amsterdam, N.Y.; daughter, Julie Rose McClymonds-Smith and her husband, Nicholas Page Smith, of Charlottesville, Va., their son, Gabriel of Rochester, N.Y., and daughter, Ariel of Charlottesville; nephew, Michael Owen Tudor and his wife, Dawn Heather Tudor, of Alameda, Calif.; stepsister, Andrea Farthing and husband, Alan; sister-in-law, Lois Hudson and family; and nieces, Rosanne Quatroke and Jean Pechtel and their families. Besides her parents, Marita was preceded in death by Clarence Milton McClymonds, her husband of 58 years; sister, Eleanor Tudor; brother, Tristan Petzoldt; and stepmother, Maria Petzoldt.

Marita was a graduate of Quincy High School, Quincy, Ill., and received her B.A. at Culver-Stockton College, Mo., and M.A. and Ph.D. from the University of California at Berkeley. Prior to her graduate work, she taught music privately and in public schools in Missouri and Illinois. Marita was a world-renowned musicologist. Her academic career began in 1981, when she was appointed professor of music at the University of Virginia, where she was also chair of the Music Department (1988–95, 1998–9). Her dissertation on Italian composer Nicolo Jommelli's last years proved to be the starting point for extensive, wide-ranging studies on 18th-century Italian opera, in particular the innovations and modifications in opera seria during the second half of the century. Her studies threw new light on the background to the operas of Mozart, Haydn, and Gluck, and focused scholarly attention on the librettist Mattia Verazi. While chair of the Music Department, Marita was instrumental in founding the graduate program leading to Ph.D., as well as the music performance concentration there. She took great pride in mentoring and supporting other music scholars, and developed close friendships with many of them. Marita was a board member of the Mozart Society of America, board member and advisory committee chair of the Ashlawn Summer Opera Festival (now Charlottesville Opera), consultant and outside evaluator, A. Co. M. sub-project, "Catalogo dei libretti" Sele Sistemi S.p. A., Venice, co-founder and first conductor, Commedia dell Opera (now the Berkeley Opera), Berkeley, Calif., and member of other professional and musicological organizations. She was an Orthodox Baha'i. She had an international outlook, and her friends and colleagues came from every corner of the world. Marita had a great love of family, friends, food, music, travel, art, birdwatching, gardening, and cats, and enjoyed attending classical and jazz concerts, plays, and opera. She was an avid supporter of her local music and arts organizations, and environmental and wildlife conservation causes and organizations.

A simple graveside service for friends and family will be conducted at Riverview Cemetery, on Tuesday, March 7, 2023, at 1:30 p.m. A reception will follow at the home of Julie and Nick Smith.

In lieu of flowers, the family suggests memorial contributions to the World Wildlife Fund at worldwildlife.org and Charlottesville Opera at charlottesvilleopera.org.

The family would like to thank everyone who supported Marita in her last days, particularly devoted caregiver Sandy Lapp and her dear friends at The Blake. They would also like to thank the staff at The Blake Assisted Living and the University of Virginia Medical Center for their loving care of Marita.

Funeral arrangements by Anderson Funeral Services.

Published by Daily Progress on Mar. 5, 2023.

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Rob Levit

January 11, 2025

I think of her often - she was a great professor at UVA and I loved her class, Masterworks, learning all of the great classical works and digging deep into them. Marita and Clarence came to hear my jazz group at Miller's when I returned to visit Charlottesville. I wish I could write more only to say she had a wonderful spirit, a true joy in all music and culture and a profound influence on me as a person. I think of her frequently.

Mary McKinley

March 9, 2023

Marita was, in her quiet way, very successful at getting things done at the university. We served on a couple of committees together, and I learned from her. She was gently persistent, savvy about how to persuade others. She was always very kind to me. My heartfelt condolences go out to her children, loved ones, and friends. Mary McKinley

Marcy Day

March 7, 2023

My deepest condolences to Marita's family and friends. I know she will be missed greatly by all who knew her.

I cherish the memories I have of Marita and Clarence. Soon after I began working at the UVA Music Department, there was a large construction project that displaced the department staff. Marita was the chair of the department at the time, and offered to share the chair's office with me and my four student employees. It was a great few months in close quarters with one of the brightest and most gracious people I have ever met. I learned so much during that short time, and it seemed like our days were filled with joy and laughter and wonderful stories, and Marita's laugh was lovely and infectious.

Marita was the person I would turn to if I had a difficult work issue, and she was always a wonderful sounding board and was able to solve problems with amazing grace and tact. She found the positive in any situation. One night I wrote for her advice in the middle of the night, and within minutes I had a reply and soon after a phone call. She offered that since we were both working we may as well get the job done.

Marita would come to almost every music department concert even well after she retired. She was particularly dedicated to our Distinguished Major Recitals, but she was always there to provide encouragement to all of our ensembles and visiting artists.

She loved working with the UVA students, and would employ students researchers even after she retired. I know those students must have had the time of their lives working for and learning from Marita.

The last time I actually got to see Marita was during the pandemic and I parked outside The Blake and we spoke on the phone while she stood at her window with her cat. She was still making the best of the difficult situation.

James Ladewig and Jane Bernstein

March 6, 2023

James Ladewig and Jane Bernstein

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James Ladewig and Jane Bernstein

March 6, 2023

James Ladewig and Jane Bernstein

March 6, 2023

James Ladewig and Jane Bernstein

March 6, 2023

James Ladewig and Jane Bernstein

March 6, 2023

James Ladewig and Jane Bernstein

March 6, 2023

I and my wife Jane Bernstein will miss Marita so much. We cherish the 50-plus years that we have known her and her family. Here are some pictures we have taken over the years. From the 1970s: The McClymonds family at their home on Josephine Street in Berkeley. Marita visiting me in Rome during our dissertation research year abroad. Marita in Berkeley with Daniel Heartz, her dissertation advisor and long-time mentor. From our visit to Charlottesville in March 2015: With Clarence and Marita at James Madison's Montpelier and together after a lovely dinner in the home of Julie and Nick.

Raven A Hunter

March 6, 2023

I remember Marita reaching out to me after she attended a concert that my ensemble, MIRA, had given, and she was very generous in her praise of the music and the concert notes. I was grateful and surprised, since, as a UVA music professor, Marita represented a section of the community that I had not encountered in this way. She seemed, at the times I ran into her, to be a lovely and gracious woman. I am glad to read that she passed peacefully. I wish our paths had crossed more often. Marita, go with God.

Suzanne G Cusick

March 4, 2023

Marita was one of my favorite people in the world, An inspiring source of grace, integrity, vision, and down-to-earth humor, she was as shrewd and wise a department chair as I have ever met. Just Thursday afternoon, the day that she passed, I was saying to a friend that without Marita's administrative persistence and intellectual generosity there would never have been a Ph.D. in music, or a ground-breaking new undergraduate curriculum in music at the University of Virginia. Marita knew that she needed a younger faculty team to design both, and steadfastly recruited, mentored, tenured and supported that team, claiming no credit for herself while literally changing the world in Old Cabell Hall. Thank you, Marita, for my career, for the careers of so many others, for the example of leadership you set for us all. And thank you, Julie, Nick, and James, for sharing her with us, and with the musical life of Charlottesville.

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