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Warren Nicholas Gaffney Jr.

1937 - 2017

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Warren Gaffney Obituary

Warren Nicholas (Nick) Gaffney, Jr.

AGE: 79 • Elizabeth, NJ

Warren Nicholas (Nick) Gaffney, Jr., 79, died peacefully with family Saturday April 8, 2017 at Sunrise of Westfield.

Nick was born on August 11, 1937 in Elizabeth, NJ, the eldest son of Warren Nicholas and Angela Ewing Gaffney. His childhood days in Roselle and South Orange held many a fond memory. He was a proud graduate of St. Joseph's School in Roselle (1951), Seton Hall Prep in West Orange (1955), and the College of the Holy Cross in Worcester, MA (1959). As an active Holy Cross alum, he was known to wear purple in camaraderie and share his house with a life-size crusader. He recruited many NJ sports stars to HC teams. The deep bonds he enjoyed and nurtured from his school days became his extended family.

Diane Schussler Gaffney was the love of Nick's life. They were married on June 25, 1960 at St. Aloysius Church of Great Neck, NY and his love and devotion over their 60 years together cannot be overstated. They enjoyed raising their family on Lake Valhalla in Montville and on the beaches in Stone Harbor, NJ. Nick was a wonderful father to their five children - involved in their activities, wise in his guidance, easy in his laughter, tender in his love. The Gaffney 'revolving' door was always opened with a hug or a handshake for countless friends that he genuinely loved getting to know.

Professionally, Nick joined his father-in-law Kurt Schussler in building Dammann and Company, an import/export business within the spice trade. Their offices were located in the Empire State Building, and then among the first tenants in the World Trade Center and finally in Oakland, NJ. Dammann became the largest vanilla importer in the country and the entities of Malagasy Agencies and Gourmet Club flourished as the first to import green peppercorns among many other spices and gourmet foods. Nick served as the president of the American Spice Trade Association. His work entailed traveling the globe and collecting wonderful business friendships worldwide. He was well loved and respected by his work family. Each time you enjoy the taste or fragrance of real vanilla, think of Nick.

Nick was a man of service. After college he proudly served in the New Jersey National Guard. Early in his marriage he served on the Montville Township Committee and continued his NJ political activity for decades including as the NJ Republican State Finance Chairman. Throughout his life Nick volunteered his time and was generous to many causes, including his alma maters, the high school his children attended, Morris Catholic, and as a board member of St. Vincent's Academy in Newark.

Nick will be greatly missed by his four daughters, Corinne Catalano, JuliAnn Ferdenzi, Angela Lynn Gaffney, and Suzanne Vedder, as well as his sons-in-law, Anthony Catalano, Paul Ferdenzi, Bill Backus, and Kevin Vedder and his daughter-in-law, Tatiana Nefedova Gaffney. He was Papa Nick to his grandchildren Martel Catalano, Troy Catalano, Kurt Ferdenzi, Kaitlin Ferdenzi, Nora Vedder, Seamus Vedder, Declan Vedder, and Genevieve Backus. Nick joined his wife Diane Schussler Gaffney and his son Warren Nicholas (Guy) Gaffney III in eternal peace, along with his parents and his sister Josephine Dow and brother Neal Gaffney.

A wake will be held from 4pm to 8pm on Monday April 17, 2017 at Dangler Lewis & Carey Funeral Home, 312 West Main Street, Boonton, NJ. Nick's funeral Mass will be at 10am on Tuesday April 18, 2017 at St. Pius X Church in Montville, NJ. Letters of condolence may be posted at danglerlewisandcareyfuneralhome.com .

In lieu of flowers, Nick asked that donations be made in his name to support special causes affecting two of his grandchildren - Retinitis Pigmentosa and Autism. Dr. Samuel G. Jacobson's Research, Center for Hereditary Retinal Degenerations, Scheie Eye Institute, 51 N 39th Street, Philadelphia, PA 19104 and/or UCESF - Crossroads School, Attn: Reed Leibfried, 45 Cardinal Drive, Westfield. NJ 07090.

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Published by Daily Record on Apr. 13, 2017.

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Richard Beni

April 7, 2023

The first time I met Mr. Gaffney, I was taken in by his adventures he had in his profession. I came away thinking that he was the quintessential Father and husband.

Rich Beni

April 7, 2021

Met him only once but I will never forget him.

Stephen & Thom Quandt/Heyer

April 22, 2017

Dear Lynn,
Thom and I loved reading your father's obituary, what a great and full life, surrounded by so many loved ones and friends! No one can prepare us for this type of loss, perhaps the best we can do is navigate it knowing we are loved by friends and family and in that spirit we send our love to you and Bill.

April 21, 2017

Nick had a great interest in helping people, particularly young people. He gave me my first job when I wanted to learn how to work. Years later when I faced adversity, he called me out of the blue and offered me encouragement. It's no wonder he raised a terrific family. I'm sorry for their loss. Rest in Peace with Diane.

Kevin

My God - My God

Maggie Magee Molino

April 18, 2017

Nick Gaffney was one the most loving and kind men I have ever had the good fortune to meet. He was my boss, but most of all he was my friend. We came to know and care for each other's family - he taught me what class and loyalty were all about! Nick had an extremely positive view of life that served him well in both his business and personal life. He was dearly loved by so many and will be truly missed by us all!

David van der Walde

April 17, 2017

I was very saddened to her of Nick's passing. I knew him through business and enjoyed many conversations with him over the years touching on all types of subject matter. I sincerely appreciated Nick's humility and respect for others and their opinions even if he did not share them. I wish to express my sincere condolences to his family during this difficult time.

David van der Walde

Aust & Hachmann (Canada) Ltd

Michelle Jensen

April 14, 2017

Mr. Gaffney was the kindest most generous man. Some of my best childhood memories were spent with my friend Suzi and her family. All the wonderful places an vacations I shared with Suzi made all my summers. The Gaffney family treated me like part of their family an I never forgot that. May you rest in peace Mr. Gaffney with your wife an beloved son. Love always, Shell Belle

Rich Beni

April 14, 2017

I met Mr. Gaffney 2 or 3 times. The wonderful loving impression will last a lifetime. Rich

Susan & Steve Barry

April 13, 2017

John Adams said that to do good and be good was all we had to do; if that is the case, Nick had it made, for he will be remembered for his uncommon wit & charm, his great sense of humor, the simple pleasures he enjoyed, the many friends he loved, and who loved him, and for the great family he raised with his Diane.

Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass...
It's about learning to dance in the rain.

Requiescat in pace, old pal.

Vita mutatur non tollitur ~ Life is changed, not ended

G. Freeman

April 13, 2017

It can be so hard to face the first year without your loved one, but the love of family and friends can carry you through.

Klaus and Ute Hofhansl

April 13, 2017

We are grateful that we were allowed to get to know you as a friend. We have so much admired you for your human attitude and family spirit and we will never forget the many beautiful moments we have spent together on so many occassions around the world. Rest in peace, my friend. We will miss you.

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