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Edward Handler Obituary

Edward J Handler III

Edward J Handler III of Darien, CT, formerly of Short Hills, NJ, passed away peacefully in his family home at the age of 81 Mr Handler was born on April 20, 1937, was raised in Parkchester, the Bronx and attended Xavier High School in Manhattan and Braden's Preparatory School in Cornwall, New York He graduated from the United States Military Academy at West Point, NY, in the Class of 1960

Mr Handler earned a law degree from the University of Virginia School of Law in 1964 He was named among the World's Leading Patent Lawyers in 2003 and the World's Leading Trademark Lawyers in 2004, having taken a lead role on numerous significant technology and pharmaceutical intellectual property cases over many years While a partner at the law firm of Kenyon & Kenyon he served over time on all of the firm's major governing and operating committees Subsequent to his career at Kenyon & Kenyon, he served as President and COO of Storm Bio, a developmental stage biotech company working on a therapeutic reagent for pandemic influenza and attendant cytokine storms He then founded The Bronx Project, Inc, a pharmaceutical company working to develop small molecule C3

Mr Handler served as an elected member of the Board of Directors of The Association of Graduates, USMA and has been president of The West Point Society of New York He was a member of the Board of Governors at The Union League Club of New York and a member of the Sono-Tek Corporation Board of Directors During the 1970s he was an elected official of Millburn-Short Hills, New Jersey serving as a Councilman and Police Commissioner In the early 1990s he served as an elected member of the Darien Representative Town Meeting (RTM)

Mr Handler is survived by his loving and devoted wife of 53 years, Jane Handler (Simons), his son, retired Lt Col (USMC Ret) Edward J Handler IV, husband of Stefanie Handler of Virginia Beach, VA, daughter Charity Lefferts, wife of David Lefferts of New Canaan, CT, daughter Louise Laudano, wife of Paul Laudano of Wellesley, MA, his four grandchildren, Lucia, Caitlin, Henry and Emmie, and sisters Mary-Jane Stanton and Susan Sohni

A devoted friend and mentor, Ed was known for his intellect, keen wit and his ability to engage just about anyone long enough to make a meaningful connection and put a smile on their faces

The family received friends on Sunday, July 8 from 4:00 pm – 6:00 pm at the Edward Lawrence Funeral Home, 2119 Boston Post Rd, Darien, CT 06820 A Funeral Mass was held on Monday, July 9 at 10:30 am at Saint John Church, 1986 Boston Post Rd, Darien, CT 06820 with a reception thereafter at the family home Burial will take place at the West Point Cemetery, West Point, NY at a later date

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Published by Darien Times on Jul. 9, 2018.

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Alejandro González Rossi

June 16, 2020

great friend! Amazing human being and professional! Just learned he passed away! Love and peace to his family! Alejandro González Rossi from mexico

August 28, 2018

To the family of Mr. Handler, I was saddened to see the obituary of Mr. Handler. I was his secretary at Kenyon and Kenyon for almost three years in the 1970's. So sorry for your loss. Linda Soave(Andreone)

Judy and Tom Mack and family

July 26, 2018

Dear Jane, Teddy, Charity and Louise,
We will always remember your father and the many holiday dinners we shared with you. He was so brilliant, so alive, so funny and we will miss him terribly.
Judy Mack

Vince DeRentiis

July 15, 2018

To Jane and the family, We're so sorry for your loss. Ed was such a good friend to our family, he would pop in and he would tell stories for hours at the gas station. we had many of the same interests and great conversations. He was most kind to me and my son Michael. He will be very sorely missed by all. My deepest sympathies to you all may he rest in peace.

Bill Meder

July 13, 2018

To Jane and the Handler family. Sorry for your loss. I remember Ed well from our time in Co. B-2 USCC with the Class of 1960. I enjoyed seeing him once again at the USMA reunion in New Jersey in 2015.

M.

July 9, 2018

Please accept my sincere condolences. May the precious memories forever be cherished & remind you of the wonderful times spent together, bringing pleasant thoughts mind. May God's loyal love give you the comfort that you need at this sorrowful time and also give you the strength to endure. Psalms 119:76

July 8, 2018

Dear Jane and family - so sad. My thoughts and heart go out to you. I am so sorry -- much love to all, Brandie

Tracy Hussell

July 7, 2018

Dear Jane and family so sorry for your loss. Ed was such a character, full of fun and mischief. I will never forget him phoning me at home in the UK and saying "Tracy, where does an 80 year old man with chest pains go in the UK?" I sent him to the Cromwell. He battled so bravely. My love to you all. Tracy Hussell (United Kingdom)

Jim O' Connell

July 6, 2018

Jane and the Handler family. Pauline and I offer our deepest condolences for your loss. Ed and I were friends for more than 65 years. We met as freshman at Xavier HS in 1951; graduated in 1955. Caught up with each other again in a Plebe math class at West Point in 1956; graduated together in 1960. In many respects peas in the same pod; values; politics; West Point; UVA and much more. I will always have fond memories of our dinner together in Vero Beach last April. May he rest in peace and may God bless your family in the years ahead. Oaky

John Gibbs

July 6, 2018

Jane and family, the passing of Ed is very hard to realize. I first met Ed back in Beast Barracks in 1956. Although in different Regiments, I always enjoyed my encounters with Ed. I know it was heart braking when his injury prevented his commission at Graduation. I was always proud of his appearance before the Supreme Court. I don't t think we have another classmate who has done that. Paul Cerjan most likely will greet him as he enters Heaven. I will be remembering tomorrow at Mass and each day next week. God be with all of you in this most special time. John Gibbs

Martha Eustis

July 6, 2018

Dear Jane, Mary Jane, Susan, and your families,

My heart aches for all of you at the loss of your beloved husband, Ed, brother, father, grandfather and uncle. Please accept my deepest sympathy and love.

Martha Eustis

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