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Carl Bertrams Obituary


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BERTRAMS, Dr. Carl H. 84, of Dayton, Ohio, passed away peacefully on March 27, 2009. His life began on December 7, 1924 in Dusseldorf, Germany. At the age of 3, his family moved to Dayton where he spent his childhood and graduated from the University of Dayton. He attended Dental School at Marquette University where he met and married his devoted and beloved wife, Mary Ellen. They returned to Dayton to raise five sons that he referred to as his "Jewels". His family and his faith were guiding lights in his life. He was a kind and generous man who had a passion for tennis and cars and whatever sports his children or grandchildren were playing. He was also an enthusiastic supporter of Alter High School Soccer for almost 40 years and a longtime member of Virginia Hollinger Tennis Club. Professionally, he was a lifetime member of the Dayton, the Ohio and the American Dental Association & President of the Childrens Dental Society. Carl is preceded in death by his parents, Aloys & Margaret, and his brother, (Frank & wife Ginny). He is survived by his wife of 54 years, Mary Ellen; his 5 sons (Carl Jr.& wife Debi, Tom & wife Teri, John & wife Tracy, Jim & wife Mary Ann, Paul & wife Lynne); his 16 grandchildren (Brittany, Jourdan, Lexie, Katie Mabarak & husband Stephen, Dan, Tessie, Tara, Tony, Nick, Kyle, Andrea, Lauren, Matthew, Jonathan, Alex & Derek); his great-grandson Moses; his sister (Chris & husband Harry); numerous nieces & nephews and his loyal friend since kindergarten, Joe Haacke. A memorial mass will be held Tuesday, April 7 at 6:30pm at Church of the Incarnation, 7415 Far Hills Ave. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to St. Vincent Hotel. Condolences may be sent to tobiasfuneralhome.com

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Published by Dayton Daily News on Apr. 2, 2009.

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Bob & Sandy Vogt

April 7, 2009

John, Tracy, and family,
Just learned of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

Ross & Sue Shira

April 6, 2009

While we shared a profession I best new Carl through his sons and it is with greatest sympathy that I wish them peace at this difficult time.

April 6, 2009

We were neigbors in Wasington Township and shared many common interests with our children. Carl was always interested in others and their welfare. He will be missed. Walter and Betty Buchsieb

Dr. A. J. Haacke

April 3, 2009

It is with immeasurable grief that one sustains when losing such a close friend as I have. Carl set a standard of the highest integrity in all his dealings in life, whether it be his fellow man, family, or his practice. It was so easy to admire such an individual and I always held him in the highest esteem for these commitments he set for himself. Thru a lifetime together, I don't believe I knew a more selfless individual than Carl. I admired him for his great love of his family, his church and his friends. He truly left a legacy for all of us to emulate.

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