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Derek Ali Obituary

Reporter for 'DDN' is slain

By Cathy Mong and Lou Grieco
Dayton Daily News

DAYTON — Derek Ali, a well-known community figure and Dayton Daily News reporter, was killed Sunday morning pushing a woman away from gunfire at a Lakeridge Court party.

Mr. Ali, 47, had been working as a disc jockey at the private party and was moving his DJ equipment to his car at about 1 a.m. A group of men denied entry became angry and at least one opened fire spraying the building, Dayton Police Sgt. Gary White said.

Mr. Ali pushed the woman out of the way and was shot in the chest, dying at the scene, White said.

"Absolutely senseless," White said. "He was absolutely minding his own business. He did not incite anything. He was not part of the problem there."

No one else was hit by gunfire, White said, but "the woman could have been had he not done what he did."

Police were checking a possible tip on a suspect.

Mr. Ali's death left community leaders and community members shaken.

"It's hard to believe," said Dayton Mayor Rhine McLin, who talked with Mr. Ali as he was DJ'ing Saturday at the Neighbor-To-Neighbor Street Festival at College Hill Park.

"We have to take back our city," she said. "People, not just city leaders, have to rise up and say enough is enough. The police need our help. The days of people standing behind their doors, saying, 'I don't want to get involved,' are over."

Trotwood Mayor Donald K. McLaurin, said, "I don't know what's going on in our world that African-Americans are being gunned down for no reason. It's just terrible to have to deal with this."

"I join the mayor of Dayton in condemning this," McLaurin said. "I'm prayerful that something good in all this will come out. I don't know what that is, but we need something good to come of this."

Mr. Ali, a native of Philadelphia, graduated from Camden High School and Glassboro State College in New Jersey. He was hired by Dayton Newspapers in 1984 as an Action Line Reporter and later became a regional reporter.

He is survived by his former wife, Angela Cathy Williams; daughters Leah, 15, a sophomore at Stivers School for the Arts, and Zuri, 11, a sixth-grader at Horace Mann Montessori School. He also has a grown daughter, Dawn Collins of New Jersey, and three grandchildren.

Mr. Ali was very proud this year to become Worshipful Master of Harmony Lodge 77.

"I knew Derek several years," said Ernest Neilson III, the lodge senior warden. "He was a compassionate individual and would help anybody he could, as often as he could."

Mr. Ali enjoyed working with youth.

"I worked with Derek in 1995," said Jacqueline McKenzie, who called the newspaper after hearing of Mr. Ali's death, recalling that he was instrumental in planning a weeklong trip to Washington, D.C., for a group of young people.

"He was an upstanding kind of guy and did such a good job with those children," she said. "Later, he took a group of children to the University of Dayton to see Desmond Tutu. He's going to be missed."

Mr. Ali served several years as adjunct adviser for the Tiger Times, a student newspaper at Stivers, mentoring students interested in journalism.

His affiliations included Omega Baptist Church and St. John Missionary Baptist Church; a charter, executive board member and past president of the Dayton Association of Black Journalists; charter member of Alpha Phi Alpha Nu Iota Chapter at Glassboro State College.

In 1999 he was named a YMCA Black Achiever.

"I was just talking Saturday about what a great guy Derek was," said Butler Twp. Administrator Joe Flanagan. "He was just a class act."

Clayton Mayor Ted Gudorf said, "The thing that stands out about Derek is that you liked him as a human being. He was engaged in the community and was incredibly likeable."

Former DDN staffer Dave Kepple, now pastor of Union Chapel United Methodist Church in Butler County, said he respected Mr. Ali as a journalist, but also "as a man of faith. Though our hearts are shocked and terribly saddened," Kepple said, "there is at least some measure of comfort knowing Derek is with his Lord and Savior, in that place where God wipes away every tear."

Services for Mr. Ali are pending at Loritts-Neilson Funeral Home, 3924 W. Third St.
Published by Dayton Daily News from Sep. 5 to Sep. 10, 2004.

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Leonard Johnson

August 19, 2024

Derek was a sibling I never got a chance to meet. We share the same father. It saddens me that we never knew each other. From what I'm being told we would have been partners in crime, (smiling). I'm extremely proud of his children and I wish them well. R.I.P. little brother!

Melanie Jackson

August 12, 2019

My Friend... You are deeply missed and loved! Contiuous prayers are for you and your family..

Renee Scott

August 5, 2019

The recent events that occurred this past weekend in El Paso were sad, but I grew even sadder with the murders that occurred in Dayton. It bought up the memories of losing you all over again. I keep thinking that you would have been there covering that story, perhaps even knowing some of the victims. I replay the story; your story in my mind and my heart is sad again. Last night, Jill Scott's song GOLDEN was playing in my head as that was the song that kept coming on WDAS and Power 99FM they day of your home going. I actually just bought the CD and was listening to it on my way to the service. It made me think of you from the first time I heard it. You were truly living your life like it was golden. That became the DEREK ALI ANTHEM in my head! LOL. I was out walking this morning and put on a playlist that I hadn't listened to in months. I hit shuffle/play and GOLDEN came on! It shocked me, bought tears to my eyes but comforted me as it seemed that you were telling me that you were fine, that you are STILL golden! I've thought of you from time to time, but nothing like I have in the last 24 hours. Miss you my friend and our email chats. Rest well. Razz

Charles Williams

September 15, 2014

Derek, I will miss you my friend.

September 5, 2014

I will always think of you. Always miss you.

Stephanie Godwin

June 26, 2014

Still remembering and thinking about a friend.

Gerald Martin

June 25, 2014

Derek, Brother you may be gone, but please know that you are not forgoten. Your Brother Always Gerald Martin.

June 25, 2014

I think of Derek often and remember his pledging days when his AKA sisters were there for the line. Here's to honoring all of the first Alpha Phi Alpha line at GSC (Rowan University)and in loving memory of Derek.

-Deborah Spruill Barnes

Melanie Jackson Jones

June 25, 2014

Love & Miss You My Friend...

AOA Brother Reginald Butler

June 24, 2014

Hello My Alpha Line Brother. Always remember our pledge days....and very saddened you are not here. Remember, I was number four and you were number three " Trap Door". Missing you frat.....signed this 24th day of June 2014.... your Line Brother from 1977 Alpha Phi Alpha Frat....."Sabre" ..Brother Reginald Thomas Butler I .

Ray & Marie Howard

September 6, 2013

just thinking of you today and allways
love you
Ray & Marie Xxxx

MELANIE A. JACKSON-JONES

September 6, 2013

MISSING YOU MY FRIEND!

Yvette Moore Homan

September 5, 2013

I will never forget you, and always love you. Your friend....Yvette

Gerald Martin

June 16, 2013

Happy Fathers Day Brother Derek and RIP.

Ray / Marie Howard

June 15, 2013

Hey Ali
just a reminder that we are still thinking of you , and will see you again one day. Happy fathers day to you. Your girls proberly already told you but we wanted you to know that we still talk about you and still love you.
Happy birthday for the 18th your Dayton Mum & Dad
brother Ray & Sister marie

Jenny Conaway-Salami

February 7, 2013

Derek I was sadden when I learned of your passing at the 2011 Black Alumni College Reunion, and had the opportunity to meet your daughter. I remembered the good times back in 1976-1980 when I would hang out with you and the boys(AQA)at the Triad. You were such a kind and thoughtful young man. You will truly be missed, but I know you are definately smiling with the angels. Love you man!!!

Lori Keith

February 5, 2013

Beautiful memories with Derek! Seems like yesterday!!

Gerald Martin

February 5, 2013

Gone But Not Forgoten.

Kim Harris

February 4, 2013

I'm still missing you just like the first day. I will always love you with my whole heart.

Dr. Gail Brooks

September 17, 2011

You were a fine young man.

Melanie Jackson

September 12, 2011

I'll always miss you Derek!

Melanie A. Jackson

September 12, 2011

LOVE & MISS YOU DEREK!

Lori Keith

June 19, 2011

Thinking of you Derek! Your light still shines!

Melanie Burney

June 19, 2011

Happy birthday and Happy Father's Day my friend. You are missed, but lovingly remembered, especially by your classmates at Glassboro State College.
Rest in peace Derek dear.

Ray /Marie Howard

June 18, 2011

Happy Birthday Derek, Heaven must be rocking today. time flies by so quickly but your memory will always be with us, and your smile
love you brother,
Ray & Marie Howard.
San Antonio tx.

melanie a. jackson

June 18, 2011

happy birthday my friend! there is not a day that goes by that i dont think of you; i still have your picture in my livingroom with all of my family pictures. you are always part of my family! love you my friend; see you next life time!

Melanie A. Jackson

June 18, 2011

This is for you my friend, may it always stay lit in rememberance of your precious Time here on earth.

Melanie Jackson

June 18, 2011

HAPPY BIRTHDAY MY FRIEND! Its not a day that goes by that I don't think of you; you are always in my HEART! LOVE YOU.

Gerald Martin

June 18, 2011

Happy Birthday My Brother.

Toni Buycks

June 17, 2011

Happy Birthday. Today you would have turned 54. I'm feeling very sad cause I really enjoyed teasing you about being older than me but knowing what I know now I wouldn't do anything but hug you and tell you again and again how much you mean to me. I still miss those late night calls when you just had to tell me your latest adventure. Missing you my friend. XOXO

Cheryl Jack

April 29, 2009

I discovered that Derek died only 2 days ago, by accident, while browsing the internet, and I have been sad and shocked since then. We both attended Glassboro State College in the mid 70's and I admired him a great deal. He was an absolute favorite of everyone. I attended many of his fraternity parties. He hung out with the "girls" for East Orange and Newark including Nadine, and they were always fussing at each other, but they too loved him dearly. I hung out with the Koon Twins who were also very fond of him. He was a very pleasant individual, who ALWAYS had a smile. I last saw him in 1978, and then moved to California. Wish I could have said my last goodbye, at his memorial.

Beth Inabinett

June 21, 2007

Hey Ali,
Happy Belated Birthday to you. Man do I miss you! I still have all of your numbers and e-mail address save on my computer and address book. You called me just a few days before you were called home, and I'm glad to know that you left here knowing that I love you. You were one of my favorite D's - along with Dawn, Dexter and Dee Dee. It's been ten years since I lived in Dayton, but I remember hanging out with you at the Grenadier - (Today is Thursday), your old place on Grand Ave, and the Silver Fox's karaoeke night. I miss hearing you sing to me. I miss reading your articles and music reviews. I miss sharing our music collection. I miss your hugs, that infectious smile, and your crazy laugh. Thanks for turning me on to Johnny Hartman -( you did a mean Sinatra too). Thanks for blessing us with your presence. Sleep Well!

Loving and missing you always,
(Skee Wee)

PS - I recently gave birth to another son, Solomon. I will share your legacy with Zuhri and Solomon. They will know what a great friend and beautiful being you were.

Ms. Melanie Jackson

June 20, 2007

Hey Derek,
Just letting u know i havent forgotten you. Not a day goes by when i dont think of you and all the crazy things you used to do. I still have your picture on the fireplace and when i pass it everyday i look at it and think of you, your smile, your laugh and your crazy disposition. Derek, you are so deeply missed by everyone you touched. "See you in the next lifetime" and keep smiling.

Ms. Mel

Marva Morris

June 17, 2007

Dearest Derek,
Happy Birthday to you, one of God's most Special Angels. My girls and I still miss you and love you....and you will forever remain in my heart.

Love Always,
Marva

R.J. Fox

November 2, 2006

Dear Mr. Ali,
I never had the opportunity to know you but in many ways I feel like I've stepped directly into your enormous shadow. I only hope that I am filling it to the best of my abilities. I often feel like we fight the same battles personally and professionally. It comforts me to know that you were called to be in a better place than this inherently flawed earth. You did not die in vain. Your life will continue to be an inspiration to me and to the communities we strive to make better.

Your successor,
Ryan Fox

Nikki Crutcher

September 5, 2006

Dear Uncle Derek,



It's so hard to say goodbye to the ones you truly love and it's so hard to let them go when you feel as if it's not their time. But if your death has taught me one thing is to live life to the fullest. Everyday you smiled and gave it your all. There was never a time when I didn't see you smiling waving and brightening up someones day. Each time I get a moment a remember you. I remember the last time I saw you I was making a bid on my house and I was keeping it a secret because I wanted to surprise you. I had imagined how happy and proud you would be of me. I know that you are now watching and smiling gracefully. Proud of all that you see. These days I get so busy with life and trying to make it and I don't get to see the girls much but when I do get to see them. I am so proud I know you are so proud. Leah is so beautiful she is tall and has a wonderful outgoing personality. Zuri oh my goodness is tall and beautiful and smart. Both girls are doing so much Ms. Kathy is doing a good job with them.

Holidays aren't the same. Mom's birthday party was a huge success I just pictured you there. Today I was sitting in my car and I just thought of what today was and I felt a since of grief and confusion come over me but if I know what thing. It's that God is an awsome God. When something is done it is done on purpose. He's a Just and Righteous God!



Nothing is the same since you left and I truly hope that I can leave as great of an impression on life as you did!



You are truly missed! I love you!

Nikki,

Marva Morris

September 5, 2006

Dearest Derek,

My family still mourns you, and I will forever miss you. You are always in my heart.



Love Always,

Marva

Fay Bailey

June 21, 2006

Dear Ali,

I miss you. I often find myself thinking about what you would say about my latest quirky ideas, romance or career strife. I treasure our friendship, your mentorship and your truth. Although I have never met your daughters (from the youngest to the oldest) you kept me informed on their progress and I know they will make you proud). They are your legacy. I have decided its time to stop visiting the Guest Book, but your spirit shall live in my thoughts forever. You are the ANGEL watching over all the lives you touched.

Love You Ali,

Fay.

Peter Slaughter

June 19, 2006

Hi brother and sorry to see that u

have left. My brother Oneal told me

what happen.This is/was very tragic.

You could have done the Dayton Black

Community some real good in the long run with your presence and the

way you would report things.

You are being missed for sure.

May 19, 2006

sorry for your loss - may you rest in the love and confort of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ

Tonya Mitchell

April 12, 2006

Derek, I hadn't heard from you in a while and realized I last spoke to you on labor day; only a few days prior to your death. Upon investigation, I learned why and I have been in a daze ever since.



I will never forget the time that I left the warmth of Miami to came visit you in Dayton for my birthday. To this day i don't know how you did it, but you pulled together a party in a day...spades and all!



I will never forget the countless laughs we shared, especially when I called you the "Grand Poobah" the first time I saw you in your Mason hat.



Most importantly, I will never forget your encouragement when it came to me writing my book. I'll always remember you saying "Just do the damn thing, girl. You're talented...I got your back on whatever you need." I'll always love you for believing in me.



As I prepare to release my first novel, rest in peace knowing that you played a large part in bringing it to fruition.



My world will never be the same now that I know you're no longer in it.



Rest in peace, my king.



Tonya

JaWana Spearman

April 10, 2006

Ali: Time just keeps on going doesn't it? Seasons pass... I think of you on snowy days, rainy days, sunny days - all of the time. I'll hear a new release on the radio and I'll wanna call and share it with you. I miss our friendship something fierce. However, I rest assured that you knew what you meant to me. Just read Zuri's entry. I haven't seen them in such a long time but I can tell from both of their entries, they're maturing. My friend.....my God, how I miss you! I try not to think too hard about my personal loss where you're concerned because it hurts so much. I love you babe! Leah/Zuri - Hello there young ladies. :) Keep doin' what you're doin'! Much Love!

Zuri Ali

April 8, 2006

Dear Daddy,

This is your youngest daughter here. I think it's taken me the longest to even come here and write something. Everything seems to be going so fast in life but i think it would al be going alot smoother if you were here to help me through it all. I've had so many acomplishments and goals achieved, and i just wish you were here so that i could share them all with you. But, when i feel that way i stop and realize that even though your not here in full flesh in blood your still with me in spirit. When I'm mad or upset i just picture your million dollar smile and it always makes me feel better. Some people look at me and my sisters and say i am so sorry for your loss, of course you are everyone is, but we have to face reality. There is a time set for everyone to go,I know you left a little sooner but I think it's helped to make me a little stronger. Before you left you taught me so many things that are important to me now and you left me with so many great memories. Our lives weren't always perfect like some peope thaught, but our love for each other was alot stronger than most. I just want to thank you for everything you've left behind for us to remeber you by, (especially Me and Leah, people say we look just like you, and I'm happy to say that I have your smile!) Daddy rest in Peace and know that you will always be loved and remebered by everyone and anyone who ever knew or loved you.



Love,

Your twin**your shadow**Your baby girl**Zuri Ali*

Martha Hardcastle Guthrie

February 28, 2006

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Darrin Stalling

February 13, 2006

To the family of Derek Ali; my name is Darrin Stalling and I pledged Nu Iota chapter at Glassboro State in Spring '86 ! It has been almost 20 years for me in Alpha and I thank Derek Ali for guiding the way for all us who followed into Alpha. I had a chance to meet him about 12 years ago and I found that to be an uplifting experience. Thank you Brother Ali, I miss you and Alpha misses you.

Leah Ali

February 9, 2006

~*Daddy*~

It has taken me over a year to sign this guestbook. The only reason I hadn't signed it sooner becasue there is absolutely not enough I can say and there isn't a right way to express it all.



So many things have happened since you've left us; some good, some not so good. I know one thing NOTHING has been the same since you've been gone. Not a day goes by that I can't sleep at night because I'm crying or thinking about how much I miss you.

I have so many regrets, and I just hope and pray that I was a good enough daughter to you. Zuri and I definately weren't blessed with enough time but we were blessed to have remarkable father like you.

I morn for her more than I do for myself. I try not to harp by saying "Zuri..do you want to talk about it?" but the only reason I do is because I don't want her to forget,I feel awful because it takes other people reminding me to even remeber little things, when I use to remeber everything.

You should see Zuri dad she's so beautiful and she's growing up so fast she's as tall as me now. Even though others seemed to have moved on, well at least on the outside,It has been a year and five months and I still cannot cope with the fact that my daddy is dead. I get jealous because I know you're not going to be present for my Cotillion or Debutante ball,Grauation, Journey off to college Wedding or first child and it kills me on the inside I need your loving advice on more things than I thought I would. I honestly do not believe that it was your time.

The other day I was downtown with some friends and a man that looked similar to you walked past me and I got a wiff of his cologne..and what do you know, it was curve, (your absolute favorite I got tired of buying you for every occasion)and tears immediately started steaming down my face, Zuri said the same thing happend to her yesterday at school.

Dad I miss and love you sooo much I told mom, even though it may sound cliche' I never knew that I could love someone so much that it could hurt, and it hurts that you aren't here with us.

I don't even think you knew actually how many people loved you. I wasn't suprised at the funeral that over 1000 people came to show there respects, because I saw fist-hand how many people you had encounters with and how many peoples lives you've touched, including mine.

I'll be a senior next year, and guess what dad! Zuri's at our school now, I can only imagine how crazy it would've been with all three of us there :) Well I think you'll be happy to know that I plan on following in your footsteps and pursuing my dreams of also being a journalist, I even had an internship at your paper this past summer.

You were and still are my inspiration,my counselor, my comedian,my friend, my father and my hero. I love you and will always...I'll continue to speak to you in my dreams...so you continue to guide us..kiss nannny 4 me



~*Love,Luck and Lollipops*~



Your loving REAL daughter( you seem to have quite a few on here lol)

Leah C. Ali <3 xoxoxo

Lanora Bonasio

February 8, 2006

A painting in honor of and inspired by Derek Ali

http://familiart.zip.net/

Andrew Nelson

November 12, 2005

I used to call myself N.Drew Ali to keep the name Noble Drew Ali alive, but now I call myself "Djali", a word more ancient & more profound than Griot. Like W.D.Fard, I am known by cognates.

Long live the Spirit of Brother Derek Ali.

S. Thompson

October 30, 2005

D,



Man I miss you......so much to tell you, so much to share, keep expecting my phone will ring and this 'dream' will end! Man, guess what? I took Jordan to the CSU game and he was stepping like an Alpha in the parking lot (now where do you think he learned that!!!?) It brought tears to my eyes watching him and knowing how proud you would be....Also, I can now skee-phi you, I know you would be proud of that too as you always wanted me to do it....and last but not least, guess who Jordan absolutely loves? The Philadelphia Eagles!!!! D, he will watch football by himself!!! Now, tell me again, where did he get that from man? I brought him a kid's NFL issued Philly Eagles football uniform for his b-day and he won't take it off! Every now and then he will see a picture of you and quickly say "that's Uncle Derek, he's in heaven!" D, so much to share, so much I just wish I could tell you, but I know you hear and I know you see, but above all I know you are where we are trying to get. God bless you D, for all you were on earth and for all I know you are now in heaven. Your friend always, Stac.



p.s. I saw Leah at the Cox Arbortorium dedication and she is beautiful D. Of course I'm still bugging her about Spelman, but I know she will do well wherever she decides to go....

Melanie Jackson

October 21, 2005

Hey Sweety,

Yes, it has been a whole year and a month....when i look at your picture on my fireplace everyday, i know that you are still with me and always in my heart...May god bless the girls and keep them safe. I know that you are watching over them...I love you Derek, one day we will see each other again...



Your Friend,

Mel

GENA

October 20, 2005

Hey Derek,

It's amazing how God works in mysterious ways. I did'nt know that this site existed but when I was accidentally directed to this site I decided to leave a message. I met Derek a few years back at a club on 3rd Street in Dayton and we danced through like 3 or four songs. He was'nt one of those guys that tried to take you home afterward he was the perfect gentlemen. From that day forward we bumped into each other in other clubs or while on our lunches downtown. He was always courteous and professional. But the one thing that I remember about him most is that he was always smiling. I would like to mention to his family and friends and I'm sure that you all have heard this before but God has other plans for Mr. Ali. REST IN PEACE DERRICK

Megan

October 10, 2005

Dear Mr. Ali,

It's been a year and a month since you moved on to another place and the pain doesn't seem to be getting any easier. Everyone says with time things pass but it's hard to let it go so easily. Every time I think of you or see the saved articles I have it makes me cry. Leah and Zuri are still the same crazy girls and seeing them smile helps me and Eleah kind of deal with our pain but it still hurts and we all miss you like crazy...keep in touch

Brenda Branum

October 9, 2005

Hmmm. A year and a month has passed and I still can't believe that you're gone. I'm sure you and Deanna Scott-Craft is in heaven cutting up. I could still hear your jokes and I could still hear her singing her butt off. I want to tell you both.....your children are growing before my eyes. Derek, I ran into your daughters, back in August. Could you believe that they had the nerves to have on some cute outfits that they worn to school. Can their big sister (ME) give them an early time to be in the house....like 5:30p? Okay....I'll shoot for 7:00p, but that's the lastest that I'm willing to go. :-) Better yet...I can go to all of the school dances, homecoming and prom with them. I bet they would love that.....right? D, I miss you and keeping your memory alive. As always, if the girls need me...I'm still a phone call away. I miss you D and Dayton will never be the same. Tell Deanna that I say what's up and I'm going to be there for her children too. Again, tell my ma and pa that I said what's up too. The boys are doing okay. Can you believe John will be 20 this month and Justan will be 18 in December. Yes....they grew before my eyes. Well D, I won't say good bye, because I know one day I'll see you, Deanna, my momma, my daddy, my aunts, my uncles and my sisters soon. Thanks again for being you, because it was so easy for me to be me. Miss ya dearly, but God knew what was best. Love ya, The Branum Family

John Thomson

September 27, 2005

Derek,

We're all still here doing God's work for you. It's not the same without you, but we're giving it our best.

And we'll all be together someday. Think of all the stories we can tell.

Leah Tyler

September 19, 2005

HeyCuz, I miss you so much i still

remember whem Leah was born and you

call to tell me you name her for after me oh how special you made me

i think of you everyday and know you are still here with all of us whem i laugh at nothing at all i know it you

loveyourcuz

Leah

mike green

September 18, 2005

hey cuz, now that i sit back and dry my eyes from the memory of you and my brother walter's anniversary of your going home services, i wonder who is in the lead with the chess match, i know you two have been going at it like gangbusters as you did down here on earth. I can only sit back and smile thinking of all the times i sat by idlely watching and learning the moves and strategy between you two, and hear all the trash talking back and forth; it was worst then some conversations about football & basketball games. Well good luck to both of you.



love mike

"so mote it be"

Shane Dickey

September 17, 2005

Derek was the father of a student of mine, and a colleague. He was a kind, gentle, knowledgable person whose spirit lives on in the people whose lives he touched.

mike green

September 12, 2005

may the lord god keep and bless you, and the rest of the family. I miss you cuz, but i will see you again. ps kiss your mom, and aunt betty for me.

love mike

"so mote it be"

Constance Harris

September 11, 2005

To the family of Mr Ali, I am so sorry for your loss, I was reading today and saw that the anniversary of his deayh was recent, The year went by fast I was invited to that party but I didn't make it and was devastated to learn of the news.My sister was there and she still is still very affected by the tragdedy. I pray for peace of mind to your family and peace also to my sister may God bless you and keep you always. Sincerly constance H. Dayton ohio

Deborah Barnes

September 7, 2005

The Bible tells us that to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord. On this first anniversary of Derek's Homegoing, I continue to treasure his friendship and his memory, and send my love and prayers to his family.

RAY & MARIE HOWARD

September 7, 2005

One year has passed and it only seems like yesterday.So much has happened since then but you are still in our thoughts all the while. God bless all your family , like us they will see you again one day, heaven must be more beautiful with you there.We love and miss you so much, Mum & Pop Howard.

Gerald Martin

September 6, 2005

Yesterday was a year that we suffered a great loss of a beautiful young man. I am so glad to see that the community is going to make a dedication of Derek's memory by donating a bench in his honor. I still would like for the City Of Dayton name a street in Derek's honor. Brother may you rest in peace until we meet again.Gerald E.Martin and family.

Ms Kim Harris

September 3, 2005

Hey Love!



As usual, you are on the mind. Actually not a day goes by without you on my mind. I still miss you so very, very much words cannot explain. All I know is God sent you to me as an angel and I know you are still watching over me. And I Thank God For That. Today is Leah's Birthday.........HAPPY BIRTHDAY LEAH...SWEET 16!!! We spoke on the phone yesterday and will get together very soon to have one of our "Girls Only Powwow" that you thouhgt I was crazy for having expecially when she and the twins were only six and I had all of the little people with me. They are truly what makes the world go around...The Children. Even though I can't tell you personally, I am going to do the one thing you told me to do 10 years ago....WRITE...and yes, I have made a decision to make it public notice thanks to you! And as we always say, "Shut Up or Put UP"...Im really going to do it! And in honor of your memory. I love you and miss you so very much. Until We Meet Again. xoxoxoxoxoxox

Rhonda (Shouse) Powell

August 10, 2005

I just learned of Derek's death last fall when reading about the sentencing of the young man that took his life. I know this is a tremendous loss for all that knew him.



I worked with Derek at DDN in the late 1980s. I was a lowly stringer/metro clerk/reporter wanna be. Derek was such a good mentor and friend. He had such a contagious smile!



Derek's legacy will continue to touch many lives for years and years to come. I feel so honored to have had the opportunity to know him and work with him.

FRIEND

June 22, 2005

dear derek, i didn't forget your birthday--that would be like forgetting you. hey,! but all is well that ends well--i just forgot to send you this greeting, so "HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY" to a dear,dear friend. love you!!!

S Thompson

June 21, 2005

Happy B-Day D,



I though of you Friday and it made me laugh and cry. I remember your b-day and after party on Superior two years ago....I came late and you made me feel like the party wasn't a party until I got there. Typical D, always making everyone else feel special! I know how special b-days were to you, so I couldn't let this day pass without saying Happy B-Day to my dear, dear friend! Luv ya brotha!

Beth Inabinett

June 19, 2005

Happy Birthday and Happy Father's Day Ali. I miss you so much!!!



Beth Inabinett

JAMES G. SPEARMAN III

June 18, 2005

HEY BRO HAPPY BIRTHDAY TOO YOU AND I DO MISS SEEING YOU AROUND THE HOUSE ON ALL THE HOLIDAYS. WE ARE SO HAPPY TO HAVE HAD THE PLEASURE OF KNOWING YOU THROUGH MY LITTLE SISTER JAW'ANA L. SPEARMAN. I KNOW YOUR IN GODS KINGDOM BEING WITTY AND BOTH OF YOU JUST SMILEING. YOU ARE MIST BRO, I'LL SEE YOU LATER ON PEACE BE WITH YOU.

GRAD OF PATTERSON CO-OP HIGH SCHOOL 1981.

Van Berkeley

June 18, 2005

Yes Derek I still miss you! You were a special person!



Van H. W. Berkeley

Ray / Marie Howard

June 18, 2005

How sweet it is to bw loved by god! On this father`s day god bless all of your family, Ali, we know you will be smiling down on them. We miss you so much but we know there is allway`s room for angels in heaven and you certainly are one. Love you for ever, Mom @ Pop Howard

mechelle saddler

June 17, 2005

Dear Derek,



Hey Friend,right about now i would have either called yoy or would have called me to wish one another ....Happy Birthday ....Derek i miss you ...Happy Birthday Friend.....

Gwen B.

June 17, 2005

Happy Birthday, fellow Gemini...

Marva Morris

June 17, 2005

Dearest Derek,



Today I would be calling you to wish you a Happy Birthday, and find out what kind of mischief we could get into. I miss you so much and will always love you. You are ALWAYS in my heart, Derek.

Martha Hardcastle Guthrie

June 17, 2005

Happy Birthday, "Dali." I just wish you were here to have a drink with us and hear you laugh again.

JaWana Spearman

June 16, 2005

Ali: I think about you so often. Remembering you, my friend, brings both joy and sorrow to my heart. On this eve of your birthday, I pray for Zuri and Leah and the rest of your loved ones - family - friends. We miss you so. I thought we'd be two old friends sitting around fussing, as usual, and watching movies. I'll just have to wait. I Love U, Babe. Friends 4-ever!!

Constance Scott

June 3, 2005

Angela,Zuri and Leah, just thinking of Derek today and how precious life is. Know that he is still smiling and saying "these are my girls" Your father loved you then and still loves you from afar. Friendship and love seldom dies.



Love and Miss you all - Constance

Fay Bailey

June 1, 2005

I miss you friend. I saw your daughter's article online and I thought how proud you would be. Each time I remember you, I am thankful for our friendship.

Linda

May 31, 2005

Yesterday was Memerorial DAY,and as I remembered all of my friends that have gone before me, you were right there among the best of them. If we could go back in time, I know that you would have been somewhere with friends or family helping to make their holiday the best. WE MISS YOU

Kim Harris

May 31, 2005

To My Dearest Friend:



I CAN'T STOP LOVING YOU. No matter where I go or what I do, a thought of you vividly exist. You know I will never forget you and will wait my time til we meet again



I LOVE YOU ALWAYS,



Kim



ps....Leah & Zuri call me or email me as soon as possible. Love you both.

Diane Fields

May 19, 2005

Derrick, you will be sadly missed May God bless you and keep you in his arms forever Lovingly yours

May 17, 2005

It's been hard with the days turning warm outside not to be able to see Derrick walking as fast as he can around the downtown dayton area. To this day it breaks my heart that such a talented, well educated, respected man was taken away I miss him and feel truly blessed to have had him touch my life....I miss seeing your smiling face! I know that you are in heaven looking down with that smile. Keep on smiling!

Anesha Hinesman

February 21, 2005

My heart goes out to the man

Derek Ali

Its still hard to believe that your gone. Your name says it all the greatest fighter of them all. Although we know you actually didnt go into the ring to fight anyone but you put up a fight when it came to the youth at Omega Baptist Church. I looked at you as one of my fathers who showed me what it means to be a great leader just like you. I will always be one of your daughters. Your smile always made me smile and although your gone,seeing a picture of you in my head,I am reminded to smile.

Its so hard to say goodbye and so Instead i'll say until we meet again keep smiling down on me cause I'm smiling up at you. Until we see each other again. I love you and truly miss you.

Ray & Marie Howard

February 1, 2005

Ali,we made chocolate cake and chicken soup today, first time since you traveled the golden road to your new home, oh how we wish you could have come over for supper. miss you all the time keep your smile working as we will definatley see it when we move. loving you allways your Dayton dad and mum.Ray & Marie Howard.

Mrs. Jones

January 24, 2005

I can't stop crying. I can't stop missing you. This pain is never going to go away. I'm constantly hurting. Why? Why you? I miss you every single day. Every single night. I can't erase your phone numbers, I can't erase your e-mail address, I still want to pick up the phone and call you. I want to talk to you every single day, just like before. I feel like I'm going crazy. Friends say the pain will go away, OK - when? When does the pain go away? You were my best freind. Few people knew the kind of time we spent together. You and I knew. I miss you.....And I will always love you. No matter what, no matter who, I will always love you. Always and Forever.

Veronica

January 18, 2005

Somehow you manage to cross my mind.



I missed you today.



See ya later.

Ashley Woodall

December 24, 2004

Rest In Peace And May God Bless Your Family And Friends

Monica Carter

December 20, 2004

Still missing you. I hate that I can't just call or e-mail you at the drop. You are and will always be missed.

mike green

December 12, 2004

still miss you cuz, i hope you walt and angie have found your way to the rest of the family; if you have and don't see them yet, display that smile and shine a little lite for the pathway home, so that all will be together when god sees it fit for me, much love. "so mote it be".

Rahsaan Price

December 9, 2004

You were a God send taken away to soon. I will miss you.

Rahsaan Price

carolyn hoogsteden

December 7, 2004

I've been seeing you everywhere, the reminders of your face at interviews keep me optomistic- it's nice of you to keep crossing paths.

Tango Brown

November 19, 2004

How do we keep the music playing without you?



God Bless You

God Bless Your Family

God Bless the Community that you left behind.



There are moments in your life when you realize that things will never be the same....



Tango Brown

Royal Temple#41

Dayton,OH

Cynthia Rippie

November 1, 2004

Derek was like a wonderful son to me. He always made me smile. I will forever remember him and his beautiful smile.

Lloyd E Dixon

October 30, 2004

Derek was my ex-son in law and the father of my grand children. I received him into my family as a son and our relationship remained as such. His lost was as if I had a son killed. I shall always carry him in my heart.

Gwendolyn Johnson-Brown

October 29, 2004

I just found out about Dereks passing at the Classmates message board, which then led me here. Derek and I went to school together, and I always remembered his big smile. We had been corresponding for a while thru Clasmates, but lost touch for a while, which I regret very much right now. Wow...you just never know...my deepest condolences to his family...

Joyce Plunkett

October 21, 2004

I was shocked, as were so many of you, to hear of Derek's death. He will be missed. During my years at DDN, I could always count on Derek's smile. There were many days when he brought much-needed sunshine. God bless you, Derek.

Jody Hamlett

October 21, 2004

I met Derek during a speech he did for Wright State University's WRIGHT STEPP program back in 1998. Derek's speach and motivation was an inspiration to the high school students we were mentoring and also the mentors. The Dayton inner city community has taken a grave set-back due to this loss. My prayers go out to his family and children. Celebrate his memory by being what he's always wanted you to be! Strong, Successful, and Proud! And may Derek's memory live on through his acheivements.



ONE

roger witherspoon

October 21, 2004

I regret the senseless loss of a talented and dedicated black journalist. My sympathies in your loss, while celebrating the life he led.

Veronica Ogletree

October 19, 2004

Please accept my deepest sympathy during your time of mourning. Derek always had a smile on his face whenever i saw him. I haven't been home to Dayton in a while, so this was definately a shock to me, but god always has a plan. Peace and Love to the entire family, you are in my prayers.

Shirley Hines

October 19, 2004

TO THE FAMILY OF DEREK, IM SORRY FOR THE LOST OF YOUR LOVE ONE. I DID NOT KNOW HIM PERSONALLY, BUT I RECIEVED A CALL TODAY CONCERNING MY BROTHER RICKY SANDERS. I WAS TOLD THAT DEREK HAD IN HIS POSSESION A YEARBOOK THAT BELONG TO MY BROTHER RICKY. RICKY PASSED AWAY IN MAY. I WAS TOLD THAT DEREK HAD BEEN TRYING TO REACH RICKY FOR A LONG TIME SO THAT HE COULD RETURN THE BOOK. THAT JUST TOUCHED MY HEART. I THANK HIM FOR KEEPING IT FOR HIM. I TRULY KNOW THE PAIN OF YOUR LOSS. THE BIBLE TALKS OF A TIME WHEN GOD WILL RESSURECT THOSE IN THE MEMOMIRAL TOMB. I LOOK FORWARD TO THAT TIME.I HOPE ALL GOSE WELL FOR THE FAMILY



SHIRLEY HINES

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