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Donald Stokes

1938 - 2024

Donald Stokes obituary, 1938-2024, Dayton, OH

BORN

1938

DIED

2024

Donald Stokes Obituary

Stokes, Donald

Donald Edward Stokes passed away on April 27, 2024 at the age of 85. Don leaves a legacy of love & kindness as an incredible father, devoted husband, proud grandfather, beloved brother and dear friend to all who were lucky to know him.

Born on October 7, 1938 in Middletown, Ohio, Don spent the first 65 years of his life in his beloved hometown. He got a job right out of high school at Armco where he worked for over 30 years before retiring. He married the love of his life, Carole Kramer in 1969. He always said that marrying Carole was the best thing that ever happened to him. They were blessed with 3 sons and Don loved being their dad. He was a selfless and caring dad who always put his kids first.

Don loved all things Middletown and was a lifelong supporter of Middie Athletics. He rarely missed a football or basketball game. Don never passed up an opportunity to brag on his hometown and his beloved Middies. He was inducted into the Middletown High School Athletic Hall of Fame in 2003. It was the honor of a lifetime for him.

Don spent his remaining years in Clayton, NC and Columbus, OH to be closer to his family. He especially loved being a Papa and Papaw. He was forever changed after losing Carole in 2002 but his grandchildren gave him a new source of light and love. He will always be remembered as a committed, loving grandpa who adored his grandchildren and enjoyed every moment spent together.

Don will be remembered as a true friend to so many in Middletown and beyond. He never met a stranger. He exuded warmth and kindness and a connection to people that was unique to him. He built a life filled with enduring friendships and relationships that he cherished and nurtured.

Don leaves behind a loving family that will forever miss him. His sons, Brad (Betsy), Brian (Kendra) and Bruce (Sonal) and grandchildren (Jacob, Caroline, Matthew, Norah, Will, Stella, Theo, Vijay, Samir & Taj) will always keep him in their hearts and celebrate his memory. His sister Patty will miss him dearly. His many friends and relatives will remember him for his kind and fun spirit.

He was preceded in death by his parents (Homer & Inez), his sister (Jean), his brother (Homer Jr.) and many other relatives and friends.

Friends and family are invited to a funeral mass at St. John Church in Middletown at 10AM on Sat. May 18th. A gathering to celebrate his life will be held at Middletown Arts Center immediately following.

In lieu of flowers, the family suggests a donation to any organization that represents kindness and compassion towards others in honor of Don's legacy.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Journal-News on May 5, 2024.

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Christine Smith

May 18, 2024

Don was a good man and friend. Enjoyed going to grandkids activities with him. All of you will miss him & think of good things he said or did. Great memories that will make you smile. Take care of each other. He would want that.

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Pete Rossman

May 12, 2024

Seeing Don always brought a smile to my face. He was the ultimate Middies fan and also a great fan of the city of Middletown and rightfully so. His stories in Facebook brought back some great memories of the town and there sports! RIP friend , you did great in every way!

REV. CHUCK PURVIS

May 8, 2024

To the family my wife and I send our heartfelt condolences. Worked 25 years with your dad, what stories we have. My brother in law was Dons first cousin. Chris Sorrell. We had lots of good times at work. Laughing until we cried, always getting on someone. He was a one of a kind.

Tracey

May 6, 2024

Brad,Brian,Bruce & your family's, you have our deepest sympathy on the loss of your dad. Uncle Donnie was such a sweet man, and loved his family dearly. I hope it gives you comfort in knowing he is at peace being reunited with the love of his life, your mom, together again. Love & prayers to all of you
Tracey

Mark Kerns

May 5, 2024

It was an honor to know Don and call Don a friend. His Middie spirit and love of Middletown will always be a lasting memory.
His love of Middletown, family, and friends will serve as a standard for others to follow.
He will be dearly missed but his life will never be forgotten.
Rest In Peace Don..... Say hello to Woody, Pete, Doc Nisbet, and Tom Wiley for me....

Jason Carter Tisdale

May 5, 2024

Gonna miss you Mr. Stokes. I am 54 years old but I met you when I was 13. You always had a heart of love and gave me advice on life I have never forgotten. Take Care and Rest In Heaven

Dave Logan

May 5, 2024

Middletown lost another one of the good guys.

Wendy Isabelle

May 5, 2024

My daughter and I first met Don in the bar area of Buffalo Wild Wings in the winter of 2013. The place was crowded in which Megan and I circled the area looking for a place to sit and watch the Michigan State Basketball game. Don was sitting alone and asked if we would like to join "an old man" at his table. A friendship was immediately stuck and we continued our friendship through the years. Don met my entire family and attended many of Megan's NCSU events. He was a man full of love and laughter and a deep commitment to his Buckeyes. My family was so blessed to have Don walk into our lives. Love to the Stokes Family.

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