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Charlie Gili
September 3, 2018
Hello,
We realize that we are very late to express our deepest condolences, but we wanted to let your family and friends know that we will be sending Care Packages to deployed troops this week and we'll be dedicating several of these to your loved one. Each package will carry the name, photo and the hometown of Ivan V. Alarcon US Army Staff Sergeant. We realize that this is a small tribute, but we do this with all respect and sincerity and we want you to know that it is made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals from across the American youth hockey community. We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you safe and strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of our US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign
L k
October 28, 2014
October 27
My condolences to the family and friends.
May you find comfort an strength in remembering him on his day of his anniversary of his passing and know that he is missed. John 3:13
Stephanie Alarcon
December 6, 2012
Tomorrow is your birthday, so Jade and I will let a balloon float to you up in the sky. It will be blue (of course, your favorite color). 7 years you've been gone. You are still my favorite person! I love you and miss you. Happy Birthday to you, love.
Peggy Childers
November 27, 2012
November 17, 2012
To the family and friends of Staff Sgt. Ivan V. Alarcon:
Always remembering Ivan. "Some gave all."
April 12, 2012
Still remembered after all these years. A belated thank you for your service to this country.
Peggy Childers
November 19, 2011
November 17, 2011
To the family and friends of Staff Sgt. Ivan V. Alarcon:
Please accept my remembrance of Ivan on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Stephanie Alarcon
November 17, 2011
Hey there Amore. So its been 6 years since you have been gone. I hope and pray you are able to see the girls and how big they are now. I miss you and all the things we shared together - especially our dork moments. But I know you are always there and for that I thank you with all of my heart. I wish I could talk to you and tell you all the things that are so different. Like how the music is different, spinning rims are no longer cool OHHH and 50 cent has not made a CD in what feels like forever. (I know, right!). I know with time, we will be able catch up, but until then, keep an eye on me and remember we love you always.
Julio Rodriguez
August 30, 2011
To the families of our American Heroes,
I want to thank each of you for your personal sacrifices on behalf of my family and America.
May God comfort your souls and bring peace in your hearts that your loss is not in vain.
God Bless our valiant warriors families in the ages to come.
RIP courageous ones!
Psalm 25:20
L Greene
July 5, 2011
I am so sorry for your loss. May STAFF SGT.IVAN V. ALARCON rest in peace and you find comfort in knowing that he is. My thoughts and prayers are with IVAN and your family.~GOD bless~IVAN is not forgotten.Thank You Soldier.
Elizabeth Raab
January 14, 2011
Your legacy will forever live on in the hearts of those who knew you and shared in your struggle to protect our country and the ultimate sacrifice you gave so that we can be grateful for what we have. Your family, friends, loved ones and fellow soldiers will stay in my thoughts and prayers.
A Proud Military Mom.
Peggy Childers
November 17, 2010
To the family and friends of Staff Sgt. Ivan V. Alarcon:
Remembering Ivan on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Kenna Larra
May 19, 2009
”Honor and Remember” - “Project Compassion” We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families of our fallen heroes. War does not discriminate – It breaks our hearts to see the faces of the fallen. We want to give this gift to you. We are a 501c3 nonprofit organization! Over 1,450 portraits have been completed and shipped to the parents and or spouse - at no cost as this is a gift from one American to another!
Contact us directly at [email protected] or go to www.heropaintings.com . If you have already had a portrait completed, we pray that you are enjoying the portrait and God Bless You.
Sincerely and Respectfully,
Kenna

In Memory of Ivan ~ (Debra Estep)
November 17, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Ivan, but I am remembering
his service and sacrifice. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
Peggy Childers
November 11, 2008
Veteran's Day, 2008
To the family of Staff Sgt. Ivan V. Alarcon:
Ivan gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
May 17, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Staff Sgt Alarcon!
the Buck family
April 28, 2008
To the family of Staff Sgt. Ivan V. Alarcon, our thoughts and prayers are with you in your loss. What he has done for our freedom will not be forgotten. May God Comfort and bless your family.
grateful
November 18, 2007
Please know that you are not forgotten- never will be. Thank you for your sacrifice- rest in peace and watch over your loved ones.
October 3, 2007
To a hero:
THANK YOU so much for all that you have done. You were truly a angel on earth.My sympanthy to the whole family. And thank you for allowing us to contiune to have this freedom that we get to enjoy each and every day. For every fallen soldier there is a star in the heavens and I will countiune to bow my head and pray.
R.I.P Angel
August 19, 2007
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
July 24, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Staff Sgt Alarcon and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
Stephanie Alarcon
February 28, 2007
It has been over one year since you have been gone. I think of you still everyday. I pray that you can read these messages in Heaven. Every evening, after the sun has set, I see this bright star up in the sky. For some reason, it is in the same spot every night. I tell myself it is you, shining ever so brightly Dearest, letting me know you have not gone anywhere. Funny how I feel you now more than I ever did...you are and always will be my bestest friend. I love you always, and I was proud to be your wife.
Garnet Jenkins
November 17, 2006
I am Deeply saddened to learn of the loss of Staff Sgt. Ivan V. Alarcon, one year ago today.
The price this young hero and his family have paid for this country and for freedom, WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN.
May Ivan rest safely in the Loving Care of God and may the Peace of the Lord continue to be with the Alarcon family.
There will never be enough ways to humbly thank these heroes for their Supreme Sacrifice, my brother among them. KIA~Vietnam, 1967.
May you find Strength in your Faith,
Comfort in God's Love, and
Peace in knowing this country remembers Ivan's Sacrifice.
I am deeply sorry for your loss.
Shirley & Joseph Siravo
October 21, 2006
The loss of someone so close is difficult to bear. Please know that we share your grief, and our prayers are with you. THANK YOU for serving our country, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!
ROBYN GARSIDE
May 15, 2006
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST SYMPATHIES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE ON FOR YOUR LITTLE ONES. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. STAY STRONG AND GODSPEED. SEMPER FI
A MARINE MOM
Jennifer Grenz
May 10, 2006
Ivan I never really knew you. You were just my friends big brother but as time grew on and I grew to know you more.You were a great person inside and out. At every assembly the school has honored you. God rest your soul. You will never be forgotten.
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
February 18, 2006
My heartfelt sympathy to the Alarcon family in the loss of Ivan. I did not know Ivan, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
January 16, 2006
Alarcon, you were a great person to know and will greatly be missed. All of our hearts are here for you and your family. God Bless
tony martin
January 10, 2006
this is your best friend,i miss you ,and u will be my brother from another mother,R.I.P. big al.
Arturo Romero
January 9, 2006
I was stationed at Fort Irwin with Ivan and we also flew over to Korea together...We been through a lot together. He was a great soldier, husband, father,and to me...a great friend. I'm glad he was apart of my life. Ivan, I will never forget you! You will truely be missed. Rest in peace. Our deepest condolences to the Alarcon Family...May God Bless, the Romero Family
Mrs. Ivan Alarcon Alarcon, Stephanie
January 2, 2006
Well, My Dearest Husband, this is as close as I can get to you now. The girls and I miss you very much, and just know that we love you. Christmas and New Year's were not the same without you. See you when you open the gates of Heaven for us.
Love You Always, Forever your Wife.
7th Grade Louisburg Middle School
December 13, 2005
We care and share your sorrow.
Diaz Family
December 5, 2005
Good bless you and your family! Rest in peace.
Mari Ramos
November 28, 2005
Que Dios lo tenga en su Santa Gloria. Estaras siempre con nosotros.
Jamie Graves
November 25, 2005
God Bless ( Jamie,Navy wife)
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