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Vandalia, Ohio

Nicholas Goings Obituary

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GOINGS, Nicholas T. "Nick" age 18 of Vandalia, passed away unexpectedly Wednesday June 28, as the result of an automobile accident. He was a senior at Vandalia Butler High School. Nick loved to race dirt bikes and ride in Hare scrambles, and also enjoyed participating in paintball competitions and was very popular among his many friends. Nick was preceded in death by his maternal grandmother Wanda Goodin and his paternal grandfather Vernon Goings. He is survived by his mother Mary Goings of Vandalia and his father Kirk Goings of New Carlisle; one brother Chris Goings of Miamisburg; paternal grandmother Ruth Goings of New Carlisle; maternal grandfather Bill Goodin of Miamisburg; one aunt Saundra & husband Daniel Forsee; 3 uncles Michael Goodin, Mark & wife Beth Goodin, and Matt Goodin; Godmother Patricia Stubbins; his mentor Chet Howard and a host of other relatives and friends. Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 10 A.M. on Saturday July 1 at St Adalbert Catholic Church with Fr Mike Holloran officiating. Burial will follow at Calvary Cemetery. Friends may call at the Morton & Whetstone Funeral Home 139 S. Dixie Dr. Vandalia on Friday evening from 4 to 8pm. If so desired, contributions may be made to Hospice of Dayton in Nick's memory.

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Published by Dayton Daily News on Jun. 29, 2006.

Memories and Condolences
for Nicholas Goings

59 Entries

July 29, 2006

why?

another mother

July 29, 2006

mary and family just to let you know nick is still in our thoughts and prayers and our hearts still ache for you and all the pain your family is suffering through let the love and memories of nick carry you through these hard days with the hope that someday we will all be together again in a better place filled with love and joy.

your loving friend

Kathi Tilson

July 24, 2006

Nicholas Goings was a very sweet little boy with a huge heart. He always expressed open arms to me as his step-mom with a big smile. Though just a short part of his life, I am delighted to have known him his younger years.

Shawn Foley

July 12, 2006

Kirk,

My deepest sympathy to you and your family as you go through this tragic loss. May your memories bring you comfort.

Larry Browett

July 12, 2006

Kirk and Family,

I was saddened to hear of your loss of your son Nick from some of your fellow classmates from Gettysburg Elem. One of my touhgest jobs over the years as a paramedic was to inform a family of the loss of a son or daughter so early in life from some tragic and unexpected cause. Although I must admit I have never understood or tried to understand God's wisdom, I do know that he is there for you and will give you the strength to get through this. May God hold you in his arms and dry your tears. You and yours will be in my prayers.

shana burchfield

July 12, 2006

to nicks family i did not know you or nick but my son josh is a vandalia butler student attending ctc he is a senior also i cant imagine the heartache you must feel losing a child but just keep in mind his spirit will live on thru you he will always be with you in spirit god bless you and your famly.shana burchfield vandalia butler student mother.......

Heather, Saundra, Daniel and Daniel Forsee

July 12, 2006

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2006

Terry L. Gilliam

July 6, 2006

Dear Kirk, Mary and Family: I am so very, very sorry to hear about your loss. I extend heart-felt sympathy to all of you. Please feel comfort knowing God's arms are around you right now and He is always there for you to call on Him for strength. With Much Sympathy,

Chris House

July 5, 2006

Mary and Family:

My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this difficult time. I'll always remember Nick's smile.

Nikki Johnson

July 4, 2006

To the Goings Family,

I did not know Nick nor his family but i am a Student from Valley View High school and i know how it feels to lose a close friend! in Oct of 2005 i lost 2 friends with in 2 weeks of time, one of them being Jamie Bryant and the other one being my VERY BEST FRIEND CAPRICE ROBERTS. I couldnt eat or do anything for weeks. all i could do was pray to god, asking him why he was taking these young kids away from us. And one night i had a dream and he said because he takes the best first. And i am sure Nick was the most caring Kid out there. The only thing that got me thru the time of greif was knowing that my friends were in such a better place, where there was no pain or crying, everyone is happy, and not to mention they are with god now. So keep that in mind,. and one day we all will be reunited again. May Nick Rest In Peace. If you need anything i left my email adress all u have to do is write to me

donna baine

July 4, 2006

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Zack Shell

July 3, 2006

Mary and Chris,

Im so sorry for your loss. You have tons of family and friends that are here for you. I can remember running up and down the street with Nicky as i called him. Last time i saw you guys was 11 years ago in your apartment. Ill never forget you guys or Nick. I remember playing with both Nick and you Chris, we had some good times. God bless you guys and Nicky. God always has a plan.

John, Kristi, Taylor & Kaitlyn Craig

July 3, 2006

Dear Goings Family,

We were so sorry to hear about your loss. May God bless you all and keep you in his care as you endure this very difficult time. We only knew Nick as "the boy across the street with the big dog Smoky", but the amount of friends he had was always evident. Again, our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Terry MacPherson

July 3, 2006

I did not know Nick or this family.

But I have a 20 year old son and I pray everyday for his life and decisions he has to make. I do not rest at night until I know he is home safe. When I read the paper I felt your pain. I know how that knock on the door in the middle of the night or the phone ringing with news you do not want to believe is a moment you do not want to happen. Nick seems to have been a special person, but no matter if no one would write or think such nice things he was your son and he would always be special even if no one told you that. He is safe now and away from all the pain and trials of this life. My prayers are with you and your family to have peace and keep your wonderful memories close to your heart. He will never leave you then.

Terry MacPherson

Centerville Ohio

kathy allen

July 3, 2006

Dear Mary, Chris and all of Nick's special friends,

I can't believe such a tragic event has taken place in all our lives. I was deeply touched to the very core of my soul to see how such a young person as Nick had obviously touched and affected so many people in his short time here.

He was lots of fun and I think anyone who ever met him liked him instantly. If a man would be judged on his friendships he was one of the best.

When I looked around at the viewing and the funneral I saw so much love and emotion from all the kids in the room. Their grief was so very real. Everyone there truely loved Nick. His buddies all hugging and crying trying to ease the others pain. Real men showing real emotions about a friend they so obviously loved very much.As a mother I was deeply touched to see such caring between all the young people there.

He was here on earth such a short time but he will be carried in all his friends and families hearts and memories forever. In time you will all be able to share stories and memories without tears and you will be able to laugh again when you remember your special son, brother and dear friend.Until that time let your tears ease your grief and your thoughts and prayers guide you through these hardest days that are ahead. Nick is always with us now, we can't see him but we feel him in our hearts.If his death is to have any meaning to all of you who loved him please be safe and look out for each other and remember these feelings we all have now so nobody we love has to go through the pain and sorrow of losing a loved one much to soon. Rest in peace Nicholas and watch over your buddies and keep them safe. Mary what a special woman you are to have raised such a sweet and caring son. My heart and prayers are with you forever.

Kathy, Frank and Ben Allen

Brittany Holman

July 3, 2006

Mary,

I just want to let you know that I am so sorry for your loss, Nick was very special to me and I am glad that I got to see him grow up into a handsome man I'll never forget all the fun times Nick, Chet, Jaime and I had............ I am so glad he was there like every weekend making me and Jaime laugh the way he used to say "hurry" (hurray hurray)we didn't have a brother so when we would go to the mall or wherever we would introduce him as our little Bro and he will always be that in my heart.....these memories and many more that would fill this whole book up will be forever instilled in my heart....I couldn't believe at the viewing on the slideshow that he still kept his picture of me and him!!!!! that meant ALOT to me knowing he held onto it and it didn't get lost. I wrote on the back of it how much he meant to me and I told him I'll have a copy and you will too and whenever your friends come over you can tell them this is your big sis.... he was such a loving person and I hope my son will be just like him

sincerely Brittany Holman

Rachael Stomoff-Thomas

July 2, 2006

I graduated from Butler in 2003, I did not know Nick or his family but I do know some of his friends. I would like to offer my deepest sympathy. God Bless all of you, my thoughts and prayers are with you. You'll see him again someday!

Desiree

July 2, 2006

To the Goings..

I didn't know any of you all that well but I do know that this was a terrible loss for many. Everyone is praying and we have Nick to look over us now. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

<33

Vandalia Mom

July 1, 2006

To the Goings family,

My daughter went to school at Butler with your son Nick. As a mother of a teenager, I cannot imagine the grief you must be feeling. Please know that my heart goes out to you. I am certain that is felt by many mothers in the community.

God bless you and keep you and your family.

Ashley McGinnis-Watkins

July 1, 2006

I did not know Nick-but I do know what his family is going through. My brother Joshua McGinnis-also a VBS Student died in 2000 as a result of an automobile accident. My sympathy goes out to all who knew Nick. I'm so sorry for the loss of your son, brother, and friend.God bless you all.

July 1, 2006

So sorry to hear about your loss..my thoughts and prayers are with all of you....

Stephanie Alexander

July 1, 2006

Hey cuz, I'm sorry I couldn't make it up there to see you off. I will never forget you ever. Keep Aunt Nana safe for us, I love you.

Mike & Kathy Santmire

June 30, 2006

With our deepest sympathy

rick and lori

June 30, 2006

We wish to offer our sincere condolences to you and your family during this time of loss,may God bless you.

June 30, 2006

i do not know the family nor did i know nick. I just wanted to let the family know they are in my prayers during this very trying time. i have a 21 year old son and the prayers NEVER stop for his safety. I cannot imagine the pain this family is going through. May God Bless you.

Ashley McGinnis-Watkins

June 30, 2006

I did not know Nick-but I know what his family is going through. My Brother Joshua McGinnis-also a VBS student died in 2000 as a result of an automobile accident.I am very sorry for the loss of your son,brother, and friend. My sympathy goes out to all of you who knew Nick,and God bless you all.

Ashley McGinis-Watkins

Tracy Shell

June 30, 2006

Mary and Chris:

I am so sorry. I have you in my thoughts and prayers Nick was very special. I still remember Nick and Zack running up and down the street playing and having fun. Nick we miss you.

Emily Shell

June 30, 2006

Dear Goings family,

I remember when myself and my older brother Zack were little and used to play with Nick all the time. We moved away but still kept in touch. We used to live right down the street from you guys and my brother and Nick were best friends. I will always remember Nick and the fun we used to have. Nick is a great kid and always will be. God bless you guys and Nick. May he rest in peace. And he will be forever loved.

Tina Hammond

June 30, 2006

Kirk

My heart goes out to you and your family in your time of sorrow

Tina

Bill James

June 30, 2006

Mary & Family,

I am extremely sorry about Nick. My prayers are with all of you at this very difficult time.

Lauren Hartman

June 30, 2006

Nick, I never knew how much I could miss someone this much. When I moved we still stayed in touch and I thank God for that. I remember those summers we spent like every night together Im really going to miss you. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Nick I love you so much and you will be deeply missed.

Ill see you again one day!

Dick & Lucille Tilson

June 30, 2006

So young and sweet, we have missed you and now we will have to wait. May God hold you tightly.

Ashley Lairson

June 30, 2006

Nick u as well as your friends and family are in everyone hearts, thoughts, and prayers just stand by your loved ones through this tough time as they grieve your loss...u will be missed.

~REST IN PEACE~

Brittnie Reed

June 29, 2006

Hi Nick. Although I hadn't seen or talked to you since we were in elementary school, I will always remember you. I wish I would have gotten the chance to know you better when we were younger. I hope that you are resting peacefully in heaven right now. You will be missed.

Morgan Cull

June 29, 2006

Sorry to hear your lose. Your family and friends are in my prayers.

Krissy Sites

June 29, 2006

Nick my prayers go out to you and your family. im so sorry this has happened

Chris Ralston (One of Nicks many friends)

June 29, 2006

Hey dude, I wish we could hang out one more time. You were a really good friend to me and I will never forger you.... Don't worry I will treat Chelsea well for you.

Chelsea Reilly (one of his many best friends)

June 29, 2006

Nick, I know you would be telling me to shut up, and stop crying. I am trying but the tears keep coming. Know that you will always be in my thoughts, and my dreams. I love you Nick, and always will.

See ya soon! muahh...

Cassie Turner

June 29, 2006

To Nick's family, God Bless you all. You will be in my prayers. I went to grade school with Nick all the way up through 9th grade, he was such a great person, you guys should be proud. <3

Mike Bragg

June 29, 2006

Nick bro, I dont know why you had to leave us but we will all miss you and I will never forget you for as long as I live.

Heather Carson

June 29, 2006

I went to school with Nick, and I just wanted to say may God be with you all in this time of need. I will keep you all in my prayers, and may God watch over everyone.

Alli Miller

June 29, 2006

Nick, you will be missed greatly. You are loved by so many. Rest In Peace buddy, God Bless you and your family.

Toni Settle

June 29, 2006

Dear Goings family,

i am so sorry things happened this way my deepest thoughts and prayers are with your family and nick i didn't know you that well but we have talked a few times at school you will be missed by everyone.... i will always remember that smile you had everytime we talked or say hey to each other and you are such a great friend...... good bless you and your family....

love toni settle

Jamie,Nate,Erica Willis,Wilson,Sillin

June 29, 2006

Nick, we will miss you very much. This is very sad and unexpected. We all will keep the good memories of you in mind and we pray for you every night. We love you and you will be missed very much by all who werec lose to you. You will be kept close to all our hearts.

June 29, 2006

I didn't know Nicholas nor did I know the family. But, I do know that this is a hard time for the family and friends. You are all in my thoughts and payers.

Bob Confer

June 29, 2006

I give you my deepest sympathies. Chris you and your family are in my prayers through this time of sorrow.

Paula Grow

June 29, 2006

Mary,

I was so sorry to hear about Nick. I always thought so much of him and just spoke of him with Eddie a few weeks ago. My heart and my prayers go out to you.

Steve Crank

June 29, 2006

I am sorry for your unexpected loss and sincerely hope you get through this.

June 29, 2006

I didnt know nick, but it really brakes my heart to hear of a young person's passing in our community. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. God bless all of you!

Janette Boomershine

June 29, 2006

My son Michael was in class with Nick at CTC this summer. Our family sends their deepest sympathy to your family. May your thoughts and memories allow your family to find some peace. Take care, Michael Boomershine and family

June 29, 2006

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Ashley Conley

June 29, 2006

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Jordan Miller

June 29, 2006

Nick. i love you and i miss you best friend<3 ill see you friday.

Melody Brackney

June 29, 2006

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

Melody and Danielle Brackney

Nancy Owen-Hawkins (Butler teacher)

June 29, 2006

May God, who watches over each of us, keep you close in this, your time of grief, and give you peace.

ryan newland

June 29, 2006

hey buddy, going away for a while i see. one day we'll surely meet again.

Leah Hartman

June 29, 2006

Nick, you were a great kid. You were so generous, and so caring and giving. Everyone loved you, I know I didn't hang out with you much, but the times that we have hung out were great. You will be missed dearly, and where ever you are, you're with every one of your friends. We miss you, Nick. Stay with your friends, where ever you may be. We love you man, rest in peace.

keith Curtis

June 29, 2006

To Mary, my very special friend, and to the rest of the family, I wish to express my deepest sympathies.

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