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Pat Smith Obituary

Pat Smith, the University of Dayton’s first soccer coach and best known for his pioneering work as a referee, died of cancer Monday, Dec. 7, at his Florida home. He was 86.

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Published by Dayton Daily News from Dec. 10 to Dec. 15, 2009.

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Stuart Zwang

March 23, 2010

Patrick was a true friend and mentor. I cherish his humor, knowledge and insights not only to soccer, but life in general.
He will truly be missed

Pat Marrinan

December 15, 2009

When I was a kid I didn't know that there could be a soccer game without Pat there. We love him here and thank him for all the opportunities he presented our community. He taught us what integrity is.

Jeffrey S. Forward

December 13, 2009

I was a referee at the US Soccer Festival in 2003, where Pat was an assessor & instructor. He was funny, sharp, passionate and knew so much about all aspects of soccer, you could do nothing but be amazed and enjoy the experience. I managed to keep in touch with Pat over the years and he was always providing encouragement and words of wisdom. You will be missed, Pat!
Jeff Forward

Steve Musser

December 13, 2009

My family lived next door to Pat and he had been at Parker Elementary where my wife teaches. He would stop and chat whenever he was out walking. He would always be ready to discuss soccer, but after reading about his accomplishements, I realize now how modest he was. My youngest son will remember him by his picutre with Pele at his daughter's restaurant. It was our loss that we didn't take the time to get to know him better. Sincere condolences to his family.

Al Haberbusch

December 12, 2009

Guaranteed every time you were around Pat you would be entertained and learn something about life and soccer refereeing. A truly one of a kind individual. The soccer community we miss him very much

Al Haberbusch, Soccer Referee and District Referee Administrator Niceville FL

David McKee

December 11, 2009

Pat's memory will be with me every day. As a mentor, instructor, assessor and friend, he set the standard for others to follow.His contributions to the growth of soccer in this country made him a very unique individual. My sincere condolences to his family.
Respectfully,
David E. McKee
Naitonal Director of Assessment
United States Soccer Federation

Walter Jones

December 10, 2009

Pat you were a big reason that I made it as far as I did as a referee. I will miss your wit, humor and lessons. Dayton owes you more that it can ever repay

Walter Jones

December 10, 2009

Pat you were a big reason that I made it as far as I did as a referee. I will never forget your wit, humor, and lessons. Dayton owes you more that we can repay

julie noblit

December 10, 2009

I work with his Grandson Chris MItchell. Chris was very proud of his grandfather and will miss him greatly. He sounds like a great man. My condolences to his family.
~Julie (Panama City, FL)

Bob Delaney

December 10, 2009

As a soccer referee, I morn Pat Smith's passing, and thank him posthumously for his work on behalf of soccer refereeing here in the USA. I never had the chance to meet Pat, but am grateful for what people like him did for refereeing. My condolences to his family, friends & associates. RIP, Pat Smith.

Esse Baharmast

December 10, 2009

Pat will forever be in our hearts. He lived with integrity and passion, showed kindness and caring and led by example.

Heaven just became a better place.

Respectfully,

Clay Berling

December 9, 2009

To PAT'S family,
You must surely know the impact Pat had on the game of soccer. Whenever we met over the years in distant places
I could always count on a cheerful greeting. The game is better because of his involvment, my life is richer for having know him. He'll be missed.

Charles Kummer

December 9, 2009

We, who are here now, must thank those who came Before.

Pat Smith is one of the those in the Before who made Soccer what it is today. Without those who lead the way, there would be nothing for us today.

We will miss him. But let's make sure we don't forget what he has taught and shown us to do.

Ruth Pearson Woosnam and Phil Woosnam

December 9, 2009

We are proud to have known you, Pat. Surely Eddie and you will now have quite a time discussing the great days of building refereeing in the US. Your contribution at all levels was enormous.

Sincere condolences to your family.

December 9, 2009

Thanks for all you did for us at Parker Elementary School. You will be remembered.

Gary Harris

Gary LeMay

December 8, 2009

Now soccer referees really do have an angel looking after them. Rest in peace, old friend.

John Motta

December 8, 2009

To a wonderful referee mentor who shall be remembered for his dedication to the National Referee Program and for helping young referees pursue their dreams. May you rest in peace!

Judy Brackett

December 8, 2009

I am so sorry to hear about "Grandpa Smith's" passing. He brought such spirit and smiles to the students and faculty at Parker Elementary. May he rest in peace.

Joe Masteson

December 8, 2009

God Bless You Patrick I enjoyed EMailing with you I wish I knew you longer you were such a gentelman.Semper Fi Joe Masterson

Steve Olson

December 8, 2009

Soccer in heaven just got better. Takk for Alt!

Thomas Bobadilla

December 8, 2009

Thank you for all that you did for soccer and to better our lives.
Thanks to your family for sharing your life with us.
May God bless you and your family.

December 8, 2009

The entire southern Ohio soccer community is saddened by your parting. Thank you for all you have done for us.

Ken C

Jim Allen

December 8, 2009

Farewell, Friend and Mentor

We will all miss you and never forget what you have done for us and for soccer.

HERB SILVA

December 8, 2009

SINCERE CONDOLENCES

PATRICK WILL BE MISSED OFTEN
BUT
REMEMBERED ALWAYS
WITH A SMILE

SAEPE EXPERTUS,
SEMPER FIDELIS,
FRATRES AETERNI

RESPECTFULLY,

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