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Philip SHAY Obituary

SHAY, Philip John Age 66, of Clayton, passed away on Saturday, April 25, 2020. He was born April 16, 1954 to the late Carl J. & Winifride (Carroll) Shay in Dayton, Ohio. He is preceded in death by his parents. He will be missed and remembered by his loving wife Mary V. (Elliott) Shay of 43 years; loving children Emily (Rusty) Hockenberry of Phillipsburg, Peter Shay-Martinez of West Chester, Philip (Sonnie) Shay of Nashville, TN, and Elizabeth Shay of Clayton; 8 grandchildren; siblings Christopher Shay of Dayton, Vincent (Cathy) Shay of Omaha, NE, Regina Palmer of Dayton, Angela Shay of Dayton, and Bernadette (Steve) Ryan of Dayton. Phil was a 1972 Chaminade High School graduate, License Massage Therapist and a General Motors retiree. He was a self-proclaimed "pedaling preacher" because he never met a stranger and loved helping and praying for others. Phil also was an avid Euchre player at the Englewood Earl Heck Center, Curli Q's square dancer, joke teller, enjoyed biking, and was a pro father, husband, and errand runner. The family will receive friends from 3-6 PM on Sunday, May 3, 2020 at Hale-Sarver Family Funeral Home, 284 N. Miami St, West Milton. Private funeral services will be held at the convenience of the family with interment in Clayton Cemetery. Memorial contributions may be made to Show Hope, PO Box 647, Franklin, TN 37065 or at showhope.org. Online memories of Phil may be left for the family at www.hale-sarver.com.

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Published by Dayton Daily News on Apr. 29, 2020.

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Sandy Prikkel

May 3, 2020

My fondest memories are of growing up on Ferndale. The Shay and Elliot Homes were where I spent a large part of my childhood.
The entire Prikkel family sends prayers and love to Mary, her children and grandchildren, her sister Dorothy and other siblings; to Bernadette, Steve and Alex; to Chris, his son Tony, his daughter and their families; to Angela, Regina, Vince and his family.
May God bless you all with an abundance of cherished memories and few tears. May He watch over your family sending the Holy Spirit to you all with his abundance of Gifts. May the Blessed Virgin Mary embrace you all in her loving arms and wipe away every tear!
Know that the Holy Family welcomed Phil into the gates of Heaven and Phil is again in the arms of his mother, Winnie and father, Carl as he is reunited with other family and friends.
If there is anything you need, our family is there for you. Please contact me if we can help in any way. You are all very special individuals and a wonderful family.

Janelle & Larry

May 1, 2020

He will be missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Mary-Ann Schmutte

April 29, 2020

I am so sorry for your loss. Please accept my condolences.

Joe Plummer

April 29, 2020

Sorry for your loss Mary and family.

Mary Ruf

April 29, 2020

I am so sorry to hear about Phil's passing. He was a big hearted man and will be missed by so many.

Sheila Kerschner

April 28, 2020

Emily and Rusty and kids as well as Mary and all the family, my deepest sympathies to you all. What a great family you all are. A great testimony to Phil that he leaves that you can all be proud of. I will keep you inmy prayers during this most difficult time. Sheila HockenberryKerschner

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