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RUTAN, Rev. Robert M. (Col. USAF, Ret.). Age 93, of Dayton, passed away Friday, December 14, 2007, at Friendship Village where he had resided for the past several years. Bob was preceded in death by his first wife, Alice J. (nee, Jordan) Rutan in 2002. He is survived by his wife of the past two years, Marion (Muse) Rutan; one daughter, Dawn (& her husband, Patrick) Spangler; two grandchildren, Sean and Allison Spangler; one sister, Evelyn (& her husband, Fritz) Blume. Bob was a member of Grace United Methodist Church and very active in the Homebuilders Sunday School class. Other memberships and activities include: the Northern New Jersey Conference of the United Methodist Church, former member of the Fairborn Rotary Club; Retired Officers Association and the 7th Armored Division Association. He retired in 1969 from the United States Air Force as a Chaplain with the rank of Colonel after 21 years of service. His service in the Air Force included the periods of WW II, Korea and Vietnam. After retiring from the Air Force he worked as a Development Officer for Waynesburg College in Waynesville, PA. He then went on to serve in several United Methodist Churches in the Dayton area. Memorial services will be held in the Convocation Room of Friendship Village, 5790 Denlinger Road, Trotwood at 11:00 a.m., Thursday, with Pastors Marla Brown and David Snowdon officiating. In lieu of flowers, contributions should be made in memory of Bob to either the Friendship Village Memorial Fund or the Grace United Methodist Church Memorial Fund. Bob will be remembered by scores of people as one who generously gave of himself to other. To send a special message to the family, please visit www.NewcomerFamily.com

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Published by Dayton Daily News on Dec. 18, 2007.

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Orville Cruea

December 19, 2007

We have very fond memories of Bob from our days of serving Fairborn UMC. He was a dear friend and always had a warm smile. We shared many Sunday brunches with Bob and Alice.

Eva Walker

December 19, 2007

Bob has been a client and friend for the last 7 years, and reminded me very much of my dad. When I told him that, he was pleased, and served very much as my surrogate dad, easy to talk to and respect. I will miss him very much.

Sally Heys

December 18, 2007

Dear Marian and family,
Rev. Rutan was the pastor of Fairborn St. Luke United Methodist Church in 1979 when I joined. He had the kindest eyes I had ever seen and was always an encourager. I got involved with the church committees at his request. He helped me grow in my faith journey. Bob and I have many fond memories of his time with us in Fairborn. Thanks for sharing him with us. Deepest sympathy to you all.

Connie Henson

December 18, 2007

Bob Rutan served Rocky Point Chapel for many years as a loving and kind shepherd. I remember him fondly as a messenger of God, but also a very special friend. I are blessed to have known him. Prayers for comfort in your time of loss.

Joyce Duncan

December 18, 2007

Dear Marion and members of Bob's family. He will be missed as a wonderful and caring person. He spoke several times at our circle and was a respected and revered man.
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Bob and Joyce Wolfe

December 18, 2007

Our hearts are heavy at the loss of a very special pastor/friend. He was wonderful for our family and will be missed.

Karen Grube

December 18, 2007

Bob was such a special person. He was a wonderful pastor and meant so much to my family when he served at Rocky Point Chapel. My sympathy to you.

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