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Shirley Kastens Obituary

Kastens (Neff), Shirley Louise

SHIRLEY (Neff) Kastens passed away on March 29th. She was a loving mother, grandmother, great grandmother, aunt and friend. She was born to Stella and Ralph Neff on November 3, 1924. She had one brother, Berlin Neff and one sister, Wilma Fryman. She was preceded in death by her husband, Klaud Kastens. They had two children Kipp and Klaudyne. She was well loved by her three grandchildren, Matthew, Elizabeth and Kristopher (My Phuong). Also her six grandchildren: Sullivan, Griffin, Leonard, Lillian, Isabelle and Penelope.

Shirley lived most of her life in Kettering but moved to Columbus about four years ago.

There will be a celebration of life on Sunday, April 6 th at 12:30 ay Prince of Peace, Church of the Brethren in Kettering.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Dayton Daily News on Apr. 1, 2025.

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Andrew Martin

April 1, 2025

Shirley was one of the sweetest people one could ever meet. She was always smiling and joyful! It was a true blessing knowing her. My sincere condolences to the family.

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