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Vail Miller Obituary

Miller, Sr, Vail K

Vail K. Miller, age 77, passed away on Friday, January 19, 2024, in his favorite place, the Napa Valley, California, after a beautiful date with his favorite girl, Carol, his wife of 55 years. He relished his retirement, spending time between St Helena/Calistoga, California and Oregonia, Ohio with his family and among his many friends in and around the wine industry after his storied 55+ year career with Heidelberg Distributing Company, a wholesale beverage distributor serving Ohio and Kentucky.

Vail was born to Howard and Mary Miller in Dayton, Ohio on February 7, 1946. Vail and Carol (Vontz) started dating their sophomore year at Oakwood High School. Vail went on to earn a business degree from Hillsdale College in 1968. Vail and Carol married in May of 1969 and he took on a full-time position with Heidelberg. Vail also joined the U.S. Marines and served six years as a reservist. Vail's positions within Heidelberg varied but ultimately culminated in his prodigious tenure as Co-Chairman. Over his 55+ year career, Vail was largely recognized as instrumental to Heidelberg's incredible growth and best-in-class reputation among suppliers and customers in the beverage industry. In addition to being a remarkable and loving father to Vail Jr., Brooke, and Michael, who were afforded the amazing opportunity to work with and for him in various capacities throughout his career, he was also a beloved mentor who provided incredible opportunities for professional growth and development to so many men and women working in the beverage industry. He was the recipient of countless industry accolades and awards, and served on the boards of numerous industry and charitable organizations both locally and nationally.

Vail had a love for the game of golf where he honed his skill and nurtured many lifelong friendships at The Moraine Country Club in Dayton, Ohio (where he served on the Board of Governors for 9 years), Muirfield Village Golf Club in Columbus, Ohio, Mayacama Golf Club in Santa Rosa, California and Quail Ridge Golf Club in Boynton Beach, Florida.

Vail was predeceased by his father, Howard, his mother, Mary, and his sister, Pam (Kivlighan). Vail is survived by his wife, Carol, his sons, Vail (wife Leslie) and Michael (wife Marissa), and daughter, Brooke (husband Sean Hice); and his six grandchildren, Grayson, Annie, Rocco, Mason, Wyatt, and Austin. He also is survived by his brother-in-law Bill Kivlighan, and Bill's daughters, Katherine Kivlighan Taylor (husband John) and Virginia Kivlighan.

Vail will be greatly missed by his wife, his children, his grandchildren, and his many friends. His humor, his steadfast loyalty, and his stalwart spirit are simply irreplaceable. If he believed in you, he made you believe you could do anything. He was able to express pride and gratitude in a way that simply inspired others to always want to do more. He showered his love tirelessly and completely, including to all his former pet dogs, and his surviving cat, Meow, with the same unwavering devotion. Put simply, Vail has fostered a legacy of achievement, generosity, and love for all who knew him.

Private services will be held for the family, followed by a celebration of life memorial event for friends at a future date. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made to either of the following organizations that Vail felt strongly about supporting: The Humane Society of Greater Dayton, 1661 Nicholas Road, Dayton, OH 45417-6714 -or- Native American Veterans Assistance (NAVA), P.O. Box 3800, Rapid City, SD 57709-9824.

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Published by Dayton Daily News on Jan. 28, 2024.

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Mark Quigley

March 13, 2024

I enjoyed working with the team and family that Vail created at Heidelberg Distributing.
Condolences to Vail Jr., Michael, and Brooke.

Melissa Kroodsma

February 9, 2024

I want to send my sympathy and condolences to Carol and her family. It is a sad lost for all of us who knew the family and Vail. May your friends and family surround you with caring and love.

Sue Weaver Campbell

February 4, 2024

It has been years since I saw Carol or Vail, but I want to offer my sympathy for such a loss to Carol and their children. I am sure that words will not change the grief felt by his family, but the memories created over the years will certainly offer comfort in the days ahead.

John Matthews

February 4, 2024

Vail Miller Sr. was an outstanding gentleman, a great family man, an ICON in the wine and spirit world. He will surely be missed by his family and all of his friends in the business. My condolences go out to the family.

Cristine and Georg Salzner

February 1, 2024

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always. I pray for you and your family. You will always be in our hearts.

Diane Schaeffer Fisher

January 29, 2024

This is one of the most beautiful obituaries I have ever read. Vail will be missed by all who knew him, but most especially by his wonderful family and especially Carol. I am so sorry for your loss.

Chris (Jack) DeWolfe

January 29, 2024

My condolences to the Miller family on their loss . Vail was my roommate at Hillsdale in the DTD house. My memories are lasting of the good times we had.

david kennett

January 28, 2024

Susy and I send our deepest sympathies. Susy and Dave Kennett

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