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1998
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Benjamin Tilley Obituary
AGE: 17 • Newark
Age 17, of Newark, DE, passed away tragically at his home on Thursday, February 25, 2016.
Born in Newark, DE, Ben was the son of Steven E. and Diane (Bartz) Tilley. He is also survived by his sister, Tori Tilley and his brother, Bryan Tilley; his grandparents, Nancy and Robert Bartz and Frances and Jack Kreuz; aunts and uncles, Suzanne and Michael Gallo, Dawn and Bill Bartz, Rick and Linda Bartz; and many loving cousins, family and friends. His grandfather, Bryan Tilley, predeceased him.
Ben was a loving soul that would do anything for anyone. He loved animals, loved playing his guitar and had a strong, vibrant personality that will be truly missed by all.
Friends and family are invited to visitation on Wednesday, March 2nd beginning at 4 PM at Mealey Funeral Home, 2509 Limestone Road, Wilmington where funeral services will begin at 7 PM. Burial will be private.
In lieu of flowers, the family suggests contributions to the ALS Association at alsa.org or https://www.als.net/donate/ at PO Box 6051, Albert Lea, MN 56007. MealeyFuneralHomes.com (302) 652-5913
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Memories and Condolences
for Benjamin Tilley
JOSEPH GRIECO
March 9, 2016
Steve and Diane,
In mine and Kim's thoughts and prayers.
Jamie Delaney
March 5, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. I am thinking of you and your family during this difficult time.
Fishing in the Keys
Val, George & Stephen
March 4, 2016
Steve and Diane:
Although I only had the pleasure of meeting Ben a few times, he was always a bright ray of sunshine. He reminded me so much of my son, Stephen, which made me feel like I knew him much longer than I actually did. He was just an all around likeable guy with a huge heart. I will always cherish fond memories of him on the fishing trip where the guys almost swamped the pontoon boat (and I didn't know that was possible until then). I still smile when I think of it. He will be dearly missed, until we all meet again one day. So very sorry for your loss.
Lisa Steinmetz
March 2, 2016
Dear Steven, I am so incredibly sorry about your loss. You and I were childhood friends and the many Christmas parties we spent together with your family and mine are a very special memory. Your mother is my mothers best friend and I just wanted you to know how deeply sad I am about what happened. Love Lisa Steinmetz
Jimmie Talmo
March 2, 2016
Dear Steve, Diane, Tori and Brian, Please accept our sincere sympathy . When we lived on Holly Lane , we were honored to have precious visits from Ben,ToriAnd Brian. Love, Jimmie and Lorraine Talmo, Cape May
Paul LaSorsa
March 2, 2016
Steve and Diane, I am so sorry for your loss. May he rest in peace.
March 2, 2016
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Ben's amazing 8th Grade Independent Art Project Mrs. Harrison-Dixon's Art Class This is a project that I've held very dear to me the past 5 yrs.
Randye Culley Talbert Harrison-Dixon
March 2, 2016
Ben's 7th Grade Independent Art Project 2011 Mrs. Harrison-Dixon's Class
Randye Culley Talbert Harrison-Dixon
March 2, 2016
Ben checking out Murphy's Independent Art Project Mrs. Harrison-Dixon's Art Class 2011
Randye Culley Talbert Harrison-Dixon
March 2, 2016
Ben's 7th Grade Independent Art Project 2011 Mrs. Harrison-Dixon's Art Class
Randye Culley Talbert Harrison-Dixon
March 2, 2016
Middle School Mrs. Harrison-Dixon's Art Class 2010-2011
Randye Culley Talbert Harrison-Dixon
March 2, 2016
Middle School Mrs. Harrison-Dixon's Art Class 2010-2011
Randye Culley Talbert Harrison-Dixon
March 2, 2016
Benjamin Tilley and Fransisco Calderon 8th grade 2012 Mrs. Harrison-Dixon's Art Class files
Randye Culley Talbert Harrison-Dixon
March 2, 2016
Jim and Angie Kreuz
March 1, 2016
Steve, Diane, Frances, Bryan, Tori:
It is difficult to find the words to express how sorry we are about your loss. Ben was an exceptional person. We are and will be thinking of Ben and the entire Tilley family. Our prayers are with you.
Randye Harrison-Dixon
February 29, 2016
Please accept my prayers and hope for your comfort and strength. Ben was an amazing young man. One whose art work I showed off every semester since he left middle school. He will be thought of often.
Ramdye Harrison-Dixon
February 29, 2016
Please accept my prayers and hope for your comfort. Ben was an amazing young man. One whose art work I showed off every semester since he left middle school. He will be thought of often.
Donna Schwarz
February 29, 2016
Steve and Diane, I am so sorry to hear about Ben. I only knew Ben for about 10-years but enjoyed his bright smile and great sense of humor. He would walk past Mike's house on his way home from school and take the time to sit on the slate wall and pet the 3 dogs. I believe Jackie was his favorite other than his own, Bailey. I would wave or step out of the office for a short conversation. Ben was always a happy and enthusiastic person to speak with. My thought and prayers are with you and your extended family and friends.
Paula Pratola
February 29, 2016
Diane and family. I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
February 29, 2016
Steve & Diane: I am so sorry to hear about Ben. He will be missed very much on the soccer fields at YMCA. He always had a smile & willing to help others. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the family.
Nancy Cusick
Lily
February 29, 2016
I lost my son at 17 and I can relate to your pain. I am so sorry for your loss. One thing that I wish I had done was to have saved something with his fingerprint on it. A fingerprint is unique to the person. My thoughts are with you.
February 29, 2016
Extremely saddened to hear of your unimaginable loss.
Gerry Hendrix & Family
Laura Malmstrom
February 29, 2016
Ben was an amazing young man and will be dearly missed here at Sarah Pyle. I know that Ben's light will continue to shine through the many people who his kind heart touched in his life, I for one, feel blessed to have known him. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Renee Rappaport-McCord
February 29, 2016
Diane and family - So sorry for your loss. Please take care of yourselves during this difficult time.
Gisel Barksdale
February 29, 2016
A once bright candle has gone out on this earth but it is shining bright in heaven with our Lord Jesus Christ. I am constantly praying for you Steve and your family. God will hold you up during these difficult days. Just trust Him.
Lynn Glachant
February 28, 2016
Dear Diane, Steve, Bryan and Tori
Words just cannot express how grieved we feel over the passing of Ben, such a loving and loved person. Our thoughts and prayers are with you despite the miles that separate us. May you find comfort among your family and friends. All our love Lynn, Bernard, Bryan, Richard & Katia, Natacha, David, Léonard and Théophile
Jane and Breen Rourke
February 28, 2016
We are deeply saddened by your loss. You are in our prayers and thoughts daily.
Jim and Mary Wagner
February 28, 2016
We are so sorry about Ben.
Our deepest condolences and heartfelt sympathy.
Christy Schulze
February 28, 2016
Diane and family, I am so truly sorry and my heart is heavy for your loss. I will keep you all in my prayers!
February 28, 2016
For the Tilley family,
I am so very sorry to hear of your loss of a bright, young Spirit. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
- Peter Kreuz
Rosemma Ward
February 28, 2016
Steve, I am so sorry to hear of your son's death. My heart hurts for you and your family. I have fond memories of you talking about your children as you supported our community thru tough times. May the grace you gave others be returned to you and your loved ones.
Janine Avella
February 28, 2016
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers! May you remember and hold near and dear to your heart, all of the great times you've shared with your son!
Cathy and Stan Sewall
February 28, 2016
We are very sorry to hear of your loss. You have our
deepest condolences and sympathy and you are in
our thoughts and prayers.
John,Robin Kreuz
February 28, 2016
Steve,Diane,Tori and Bryan,
Our thoughts are with the family during this time of terrible sorrow.
Eileen Starr
February 28, 2016
Dear Steve, Diane & family,
I wish I had magic words to say to make sense of this. Please know there are so many who love & support all of you near and far through this time and beyond. Big, giant hugs to you & yours, Eileen
Amy (Laupheimer) McCartan
February 28, 2016
Diane,
My heart is heavy for you and your family at the loss of your son.
Hoping memories of love and happiness bring peace to all of you.
Stefanie Santiago
February 28, 2016
Steve, I am so sorry for your loss. Hoping the memories and good times you had with him will bring a smile to your heart.
Jack & Jackie Roberts
February 28, 2016
Our hearts are broken for you and all of your family. Please know that all of you are in our thoughts and prayers.
February 27, 2016
We are deeply saddened by this tragic news and share our deepest sympathy at this time with all the family.Sincere thoughts , Bob and Penny
Danielle Mattox
February 27, 2016
Ben was a friend of mine when we were in middle school. He was very friendly and polite and I am so sorry to hear about his passing. He made me laugh and it was a pleasure being one of his classmates. My prayers and thoughts go out to his family and other friends. Rest in Peace Ben.
Robin Cebenka
February 27, 2016
Diane and family. My hear aches for each of you. I hope you find some peace in the love of your family, friends and all of the special memories you cherish of Ben.
Robin Cebenka
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