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C. Costango Obituary
AGE: 58 • Delaware City
C. Ivy Costango, age 58, of Delaware City, DE, passed away peacefully while surrounded by her family on Wednesday, June 10, 2015.
A lifelong Delawarean, Ivy was born in Wilmington on September 2, 1956, and was a daughter of Charles Neel and Alice Jane (Cornog) Neel. In addition to raising her family, she worked as a site manager for Canon Business Solutions in Wilmington.
Ivy was a lifetime member and past president of the Delaware City Volunteer Fire Company Ladies Auxiliary, where she served on numerous committees. She was an active member of Ebenezer United Methodist Church in Delaware City, where she gave of her time and talents by serving as treasurer. Above all else, Ivy was a devoted wife and mother who loved spending time with her family, especially her grandchildren, whom she adored. She will be greatly missed by all.
Ivy is survived by her husband of 39 years, Robert C. Costango, Sr.; parents, Charles and Jane Neel of Delaware City; sons, Robert Craig Costango, Jr. (Mishna) of Delaware City and Brandon Costango (Kirsten) of Middletown; siblings, Nancy Migliavacca (Ronald) of Delaware City, Charles I. Neel (Kitt) of Bear and Emily Garrett (Lou) of Bear; grandchildren, Gavin, Seth, Xavier, Joey, Tommy and Elizabeth "Sissy" Costango; and many extended family members.
A visitation for family and friends will be held from 6 pm until 8 pm on Tuesday evening, June 16, 2015 at the Delaware City Volunteer Fire Company, 815 5th Street, Delaware City. A memorial service will be held at 5:30 pm on Wednesday evening, June 17, 2015 at the fire company, with a reception to follow. Interment will be private.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions in Ivy's name may be made to the Ebenezer United Methodist Church, P.O. Box 4133, Delaware City, DE 19706 or to the Delaware City Volunteer Fire Company Ladies Auxiliary, P.O. Box 251 Delaware City, DE 19706.
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Bart Stevens
July 7, 2015
Bob,
I am so sorry to hear about your wife. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Jerry & Judi Morris
June 24, 2015
Our condolences go out to the Costango family. We worked with Ivy at Louviers for many years. Ivy was always very cheerful and it was a real pleasure to know her. Ivy's smiling face will be missed by all who knew her. Our prayers go out to her family.
Robin Roe
June 20, 2015
Ivy was truly a bright light to all of us who were privileged to know her. She loved her family and community deeply. She treated everyone with respect and kindness.
Praying the Lord uplifts her precious family with peace and comfort always.
Love,
Robin Roe
Fran Ruba
June 18, 2015
Ivy not a day went by without you saying hi to me or how are you doing. you always had a smile on you and I am sure that you are looking down at us and still have that smile on your face. You will be sadly missed
Gail (Atwell) Kracyla
June 18, 2015
To both the Neel and Costango families....My deepest sympathy and condolences to all of you with the passing of Ivy. I remember her from my younger years and hanging out in Delaware City. She and the whole family were always so kind to me. Ivy was always kind with her words and in her actions to everyone. May all your memories of her carry you through the days ahead.
Ann and Mark Mills
June 17, 2015
Where to begin.... I've known Ivy for many years at DuPont and always looked forward to hearing about her exciting trips, sharing pictures of family and also sharing a beverage or 2 at Crabby Dick's! Our thoughts and prayers go out to the entire Costango family. Ivy's spirit will forever live in our hearts.
Jeff & Mary Frances Eisenbrey
June 17, 2015
Our Deepest Sympathy to the family. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
June 16, 2015
My condolences to the Costango family, please know God is our refuge and strength. Psalms 46
Pete Wolf
June 16, 2015
Rob,I want to express my heartfelt sympathy to you and your family. I had worked with Ivy at DuPont for several years and I found her to be friendly, professional and an excellent coworker.
Praying God gives you and your family strength for each day.
Charlie Hall
June 16, 2015
To the Costango and Neel families.....Ivy always brightened up a room with her smile. She made you laugh when you were down and out. I will always remember her for her kindness to others.
Dick Timmons
June 16, 2015
Charles and Jane, so sorry to hear of this, I can't imagine the sorrow you must be going through. May God bless you and your family during this trying time.
Dick Timmons
Patti Stewart
June 16, 2015
Costango and Neel Families, Please accept my deepest sympathies, my thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Ivy was such a wonderful person - a pleasure to know and a joy to work with. She was always so positive, with her quick smile and kind words. Ivy was truly one of a kind and her presence will be missed.
Vanessa Haman
June 16, 2015
My condolences to the Castango and Neel family. Ivy was a very nice person and will be truly missed. We not only grew up together, we kinda worked together and everytime she would see me she would call me by my childhood name 'Candi'; even though everyone else called me Vanessa. I will truly miss her bright and caring spirit. RIP Ivy!
Jack McCartan
June 16, 2015
I am deeply shocked and saddened to hear of Ivy's passing. I worked with Ivy for many years at DuPont and later, Pitney Bowes. Ivy was one of the most genuinely kind-hearted, decent person I have ever known. She will be sorely missed. I extend my deepest sympathies and condolences to Ivy's family and friends.
June 16, 2015
I first met Ivy back in the 80's working at Louviers. She had a bright personality that always glowed. My prayers go out to her family at this time of loss.
Barbara Marquess Newark DE
Debbie Watson
June 16, 2015
Ivy,
Your light will always shine on your family and friends. It was truly a privilege to know you and call you my frined. Hugs and much love,
Debbie
Debbie & Jim Watson
June 16, 2015
To the Costango and Neel families,
You are in our constant thoughts and prayers today and always. Ivy's spirit will live on in every kind word and deed that is ever shared. She will be missed by all who knew her. May our love surround you at this time and help you through this very difficult part of your life.
Love, Debbie, Jimmy, Tori, Donnie, Jamie and Chris
Lisa Eachus
June 16, 2015
Ivy was the most beautiful person, she will be greatly missed. My deepest condolances to all her family n friends.
Dave Humphrey
June 15, 2015
I worked with Ivy back in the early 80's at Dupont Louviers. She always seemed happy and positive and was great to work with. It was always a pleasure working with her. It seems to me things were better back then and people not only worked together but became friends and Ivy was a friend.
I was saddened to hear this news.She will be missed! Our Condolences to Her Family!
Trina Wallace
June 15, 2015
Costango family and friends, my deepest heartfelt condolences to all of you. I met Ivy in 1980 while working at Louviers Engg. Everyday she was a bright star, a ray of sunshine. I do not ever remember her having a bad day for she was always smiling and teaching. Her laughter and sense of humor was infectious. I will always have fond memories of our time together. A debt of gratitude I owe to her for if it were not the example of her professional work ethic and love for her family many of us who worked with her during that time would not have what we have today.
Terry Mills
June 15, 2015
Growing up in Delaware City, I think most of us connected in some ways. I remember Ivy, tagging along to our Girl Scout meetings, with her sister. Her mom was the Scout Leader. I know she will be missed by so many. The Lord is our shepherd...My prayer for her family and friends. Terry Hall Mills
Vic Buono
June 15, 2015
I was very saddened to hear about Ivy's passing. I had the privilege of working with her at DuPont and Pitney Bowes and she was an excellent Supervisor and employee. My thoughts and prayers to her family and many friends. Sincerely,
Deanna Niggebrugge
June 15, 2015
Ivy was a beautiful person inside and out. Thoughts and prayers for the Costango Family.
Linda Goff Ellis
June 15, 2015
My deepest condolences and heartfelt sympathy to the Costango and Neel family. Ivy and I were good friends in school and I have many fond memories of her.
Betsy Leo
June 15, 2015
I worked with Ivy at Louviers years ago and she was always very kind. So very sorry for your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with the family at this time.
Bob and Helen Spinden
June 15, 2015
Love knows no boundaries. Ivy's spirit will always around you. Our deepest condolences
Ron Ashley
June 15, 2015
I was saddened to read about the passing of your wife. I am in the final stages of battling cancer myself and how horrible things must be for you. God is truly by your side for you and the family. Sincerely
Patricia Breitenbach
June 14, 2015
Emily, I am so sorry for your loss.
Love and prayers,
Patty B.
Steve Miller
June 14, 2015
Rob and family wishing you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your hearts. Steve Miller
June 14, 2015
Robbie and boys, Ivy was one of the nicest persons around. You have our prayers and thoughts. God must have needed another Angel for he called one home to his heavenly home.
Libby & Ed Bennett, St. Augustine, FL
William Derrickson
June 14, 2015
Condolences out to the family in the loss of C. Ivy Coastango. God bless your family during this difficult time.
Bob and Nancy McCrone
June 14, 2015
We will keep your family in our prayers. Ivy is in our hearts and thoughts.
Luke and Barb
June 14, 2015
Our deepest sympathy to the Costango and Neel families. There truly are no words....Ivy was one of a kind and will be deeply missed. You will be in our prayers.
marilyn lloyd
June 14, 2015
My deepest sympathies. We were childhood friends. I think of her often and our trips to peas patch.
Peggy Poppe
June 14, 2015
My prayers & sympathy are with all of you. Ivy will be greatly missed by all. She touched so many hearts. May she RIP
Perry, Nancy and girls DeLong
June 14, 2015
Our Deepest Sympathy to the family. We will keep you all in our thoughts and prayers.
June 14, 2015
Always such a nice person with a great smile. Our thoughts and prayers go out to her loving family!
George and Sue Ellen Dudlek
Charity and Tina Costango/Rizzuto
June 14, 2015
Rest peacefully you sweet angle!
Terry Wirt
June 14, 2015
Ivy and I worked together at the louviers site and I never met a more friendly,down to earth person. My prayers are with all of you
MaryLouise Deakyne
June 14, 2015
My thoughts and prayers are with the Neel and Costango family. I am so sorry.
Debbie Dean Reynolds
June 14, 2015
My thoughts and prayers for everyone's family. Ivy was my good friend in high school, a classmate and a fellow athlete. I am so sorry for your loss.
john atkinson
June 14, 2015
Very sad for the family and the community, Ivy was #1 in my book
Sue Duncan
June 14, 2015
I was saddened beyond words upon hearing of Ivy's sudden passing. I had just seen her at work, after months (years?)of being apart. I worked with Ivy at the very beginning of both our careers, and always enjoyed interactions with her - - a bright, hard-working woman, always smiling and ready to help, beautiful inside and out. "There are things we don't want to happen, but have to accept; things we don't want to know but have to learn; people we can't live without but have to let go." (author unknown). Ivy is indeed a woman I will miss, but have profound gratefulness to have known. She will be missed by many. My prayers to her family.
John and Dale
June 14, 2015
Our Prayers and sympathy are for your family. Ivy's smile and pleasant personality will be missed but will remain with us forever. GOD BLESS.
Stanley Green
June 14, 2015
Charles, Jane Neel & Family Members,
In behalf of the DE City, Mayor, Council & Staff our deepest regrets for the loss of your loved one and one of our most distinguished residents of DE City. Her love of family, commitment to her community and friendship to others will leave a void. Hopefully, people she touched will strive to achieve her warmth and love of life.
Mayor Stan Green, DE City, DE
Donald Biddle
June 14, 2015
Mr. Charles Neel and Family,
Mr. Neel I am so sorry to learn of your Daughter's passing. Please except my sincere condolences during this difficult time. I will have you and your Family in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless!
George & Beverly Curlett
June 14, 2015
Our deepest sympathy to you and your family at this painful time.
PATRICIA & HENRY dARWICKI
June 13, 2015
You are in our prayers and thoughts. So sorry for your loss. Henry & Pat Darwicki.
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