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Fred Ross Obituary
Frederick P. Ross, age 100, died peacefully at home on February 3, 2021.
He was born in Laurel, DE; the son of Anthony and Cristina Ross. Fred was a World War II veteran who served in the Air Force from 1942 to 1946. Decorations include the World War II Victory Medal and the Good Conduct Medal. Fred previously worked for DuPont, Shoprite and Pathmark. In addition, he had several self-employment ventures, owning Ross Brothers Market with his brother Frank, two coin laundries, a dry cleaner, and apartment rental units. Dad was truly a jack of all trades and he excelled at everything he undertook. He enjoyed making homemade wine and he passed this family tradition on to his children.
He is survived by his wife of 72 years, Lucy; his five children: Tina Derke, Tony (Debbie), Joe (Jeanette), Cammy Jamison (Bob), and Michele Dempsey; his many grandchildren: Nick Derke, Kala Jamison, Samantha Ross, Antoinette Ross, Cole Jamison, Nicole Dempsey, Chris Lex, Vinnie Lex, Nick Lex, and Angela Lex; and great-grandchild Skylar Lex. Fred was predeceased by his parents, Anthony and Cristina; his siblings: Lewis, Frank, Domenick, and Lydia; his son-in-law, Hanns Derke; and his mother-in-law, Carmella Bartone.
Dad's children saw him as a "superhero" who could do anything, fix anything, and was always there for all of us through the ups and downs. He will be greatly missed. In a recent interview with a young college student, this is what Dad said: "You get out of life what you put into it, even if you end up doing something completely different than you expected. You just have to do a good job, the best you can, and it will return good for you." Words to live by.
The family would like to thank Compassionate Care Hospice and the staff at The Lorelton for helping us through this difficult time. All funeral services and interment will be held privately. The family will hold a celebration of Fred's long and good life once covid restrictions are eased. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959. Messages of condolence may be sent to www.mccreryandharra.com
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for Fred Ross
Joe and Denise Monardo
February 7, 2021
To Lucy and Family, we are so sorry for Fred's passing . A true Gentleman and will sadly be missed. Fred and all of you will be in our Prayers
Sandy Petrucci
February 6, 2021
Cammy & Family
Condolences on the loss of your dad.. Thoughts & Prayers to you & your family during this difficult time..
❤
Sandy Petrucci
Rose Mercuri Pelaia
February 6, 2021
Remember the card games that he played with 3 other cousins at My Mom and Dad’s home in Newark. My Grandson Francis has a wood chair that your Dad made. He carved Francis on it and he signed it.
Francis still has it after 25 years old.
Cousin Rose Mercuri Pelaia (twin)
Mary Anne Marge
February 6, 2021
Tina, I never knew your dad but I heard a lot of wonderful stories about him and your mom.
You and your family are in my prayers
Mimi Kelleher Marge
Kathleen
February 6, 2021
My deepest condolences in the loss of your precious Dad, Cammy. Sadly, I know the void. You have my prayers.
Kim Hedinger
February 6, 2021
Praying for comfort in these hard times. Wish I could be present as Cammy has for so many of her friends❣
Tony Cappella
February 6, 2021
This was a life well lived. He was always good to my family and a loyal friend and family man. He was always willing to share some gardening tips with me and of course there was usually a shot poured for us to share during the discussion. The parties when we were kids and the countless hours spent in Sharpley will always be in my heart. Much love to uncle Fred and Aunt Lucy ❤❤
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