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Wilmington - Jerome "Jerry" Kent Grossman, age 66, of Wilmington, DE passed away July 3, 2019 after a brief, courageous battle with cancer. He was surrounded by his loving and supportive family and a large network of friends and colleagues.
Aptly born on "tax day," April 15, 1953, Jerry graduated from Horton Watkins (Ladue) High School in St. Louis, MO, and ventured east to attain both his BA (Cum Laude, Alpha Sigma Nu) and JD/LLM degrees from Georgetown University where he remained a loyal alumnus and fierce "Hoyas" basketball fan. Upon graduation, he returned to Missouri where he worked as a CPA for Arthur Anderson before beginning a long, successful legal career as an associate with the Wilmington law firm of Murdoch & Walsh, PA in 1977. Two years later Jerry rose to director of the firm under the tutelage of his beloved mentor, Converse "Connie" Murdoch, who was one of the first specialized tax practitioners in Delaware. In 1988, Jerry joined Young Conaway Stargatt & Taylor, LLP as a partner where he expanded the firm's tax practice to include advising and representing many closely-held family businesses.
Admitted to the Delaware and Missouri Bar Associations, Jerry practiced before the DC Court of Appeals and the Delaware US District Court. Widely recognized as a leader in his field, Jerry was a past President and Tax Committee Chair for the Delaware Society of CPA's. Acknowledged as a Delaware "Super Lawyer" based on peer ratings, Jerry was also named a Top 100 Attorney by "Worth" Magazine, which noted he "…represented the very finest the profession has to offer." He was also recognized by the Delaware Office of Child Advocacy for his long-time volunteer commitment to representing neglected and abused children.
Guiding Jerry throughout his life was his pledge to absolute integrity; to treating others with care and respect; and to service of God and community. Jerry was a man of deep religious conviction, and devoted immeasurable hours of public service and leadership to numerous organizations and foundations, among them: Congregation Beth Shalom, the Bernard and Ruth Siegel Jewish Community Center, the Jewish Federation of Delaware, Jewish National Fund, The Milton & Hattie Kutz Foundation, and the St. Thomas More Legal Society. He was a longtime member of Congregation Beth Shalom, while also attending Catholic services with his wife, Susan.
Preceded in death by his parents, Marvin Grossman and Myra Barnholtz Grossman; Jerry is survived by his devoted wife, Susan; sister, Elaine Melnick (Sandy); daughters, Hannah Singerman (Dan) and Marni Grossman; mother to his daughters, Debbie Grossman; grandchildren, Sivan and Rahm; step-son, Hunter Darrouzet (Lindsey); niece, Allie Kirchberg (Brady), nephew, David Melnick (Lindsay); and several aunts, uncles, and cousins.
A Memorial Service will be 1:00 pm, Sunday, July 7, 2019 at Congregation Beth Shalom, 1801 Baynard Boulevard, Wilmington, DE 19802. Shiva will be observed 7:00 pm, Sunday, July 7 and Monday, July 8 at the Grossman home. A Memorial Mass will be 7:00 pm, Tuesday, July 9, 2019 at St. Ann Catholic Church, 2013 Gilpin Avenue, Wilmington, DE 19806. Anyone wishing to honor Jerry's life may make a contribution to The Jewish National Fund, 78 Randall Avenue, Rockville Center, NY 11570 (www.jnf.org) - please reference Jerry K. Grossman or to the Jerry K. Grossman Social Justice Fund at Georgetown University Law Center, Attn: Priscilla Rawlins, 600 New Jersey Avenue, NW, Washington, DC 20001 (www.law.georgetown.edu/makeagift).
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Sally Magee
June 29, 2023
A fine man & gentleman I had the honor to meet with you, Susan, hear in Dallas. I´m still sad he had to leave this life so soon.
All my very best to you & your precious family & friends, Sally Magee
Caroline Beard
August 6, 2019
It is with great sadness that I have just learned of Jerry's passing. I consider it an honor to have known him. My deepest condolences to you Susan and to all your family.
July 25, 2019
Dear Susan and family - I just learned of Jerry's passing today upon my return to Delaware from Maine. I am so deeply sorry for your loss and send my warm love to you and all of your family. Jerry will be missed deeply by all who had the good fortune to benefit from his warm personality and expert care in all matters. I am ever so grateful for having known him. Best to you with thoughts and prayers, Joann and Bill Browning (retired Sr. Associate Dean for the Arts at UD).
July 23, 2019
Susan, I just found out today of Jerry's passing. It came as a shock because I saw him before I retired from YCST on June 28. He was such a gentleman and respectful person. He will surely be missed.
Marianne O'Donnell
July 21, 2019
We're so sad to hear of Jerry's passing. He was a such a fine and kind adviser to us throughout the years. Our deepest condolences to his family. Cheryl and Ralph Jacobs
Bobbie Tomases
July 10, 2019
Norman and Bobbie send our heartfelt sadness on the passing of Jerry, Friend,Advisor and truly and sweet
and beautiful man. We send our best wishes to the family who will be very much missed.
Fondly Norm and Bobbie Tomases
Jennifer Brown Mellinger
July 9, 2019
There are few one can say whose knowledge was matched by their kindness, humility and compassion. Jerry was certainly one of those few. It was an honor to have known him. May fond memories of happier times and the knowledge of so many lives touched by Jerry bring comfort to his family and dear friends. My deepest sympathies,
Robin Freschman
July 9, 2019
I am so sorry for your loss. Jerry was a sweet and caring man and a great attorney. My prayers and thoughts go out to all of your. My late husband was a friend of Jerry's too. May his memory be a blessing,
July 8, 2019
My condolences to the family on the loss of your loved one. May the God of all comfort be with you during your time of sorrow. (Psalm 145:19)
Margaret Daloia
July 8, 2019
I am deeply saddened to learn of Jerry's passing - such a loss to his family, friends and the community.
My thoughts and prayers are with his family.
Lori Fracek
July 8, 2019
Jerry, I knew you for such a short time but you had such a large impact on me. You always stopped by when I was working early or late to say hello. You took a small moment out of your day and brightened mine. Thank you.
July 8, 2019
Jerry will be truly missed not only as an attorney , but as a friend. A man such as he will never be forgotten.
Cheryl Snyder, Lewes, Delaware
Marie G. Marx
July 8, 2019
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Andy and Kim Sulliivan
July 7, 2019
Susan, Sharing in your sadness as you remember Jerry. Sending healing prayers and comforting hugs from Vero Beach, FL. May the love of family and friends comfort you during these difficult days. Much Love, Andy and Kim Sullivan
July 6, 2019
Jerry was a valued friend and colleague and a good man. I am honored to have known him. My condolences.
Chip McDaniel
July 6, 2019
Bill & I are sad to read about Jerry's death.
What great love he had for Susan, family, & friends.
Truly a loss to so many.
We hold all of you in our prayers & hearts,
Sally Magee
Sam Waltz
July 6, 2019
My wife Sandi and I send our "prayers for the Peace that Passeth Understanding" on the passing of Jerry Grossman.
Jerry, indeed, was a fine man, the finest, a mensch, a fellow MidWesterner, who earned this community's highest admiration.
We send our condolences to Jerry's family, colleagues and friends on his untimely passing.
July 6, 2019
So honored to know Jerry. He was a wonderful man and the consummate professional. He helped my father's clients and our family through important issues. So sad. Wishing his family and friends comfort and peace. His memory will be a blessing.
Marcy Lebovitz
Santa Monica, CA
July 5, 2019
Jerry came into our lives through his wife Susan. The very first time we met we knew we were encountering a lovely human being, a man of humility and compassion, of principles and integrity, of genuine respect for others, gifted with an extraordinary ability to make you feel at ease: a caring man. It was as if we had always known each other, and through our subsequent meetings we could only be grateful to be the recipient of his and Susan's affection. How sad his passing! He leaves a great void behind, and not just for us but for the countless other lives he touched, helped, and comforted. We join Susan and Jerry's family in this moment of great sadness, though our hearts know exactly where to find him: where the Righteous sit, in God's eternal presence.
Andres, Patricia, Santiago and Yun Katz
Lloyd Schmeusser
July 5, 2019
Not many people walk this earth and leave such a remarkable footprint as Jerry has left.
It was with a heavy heart that we learned of his untimely passing.
Jerry's kindness, even-tempered demeanor were only surpassed by his intelligence. We, as a family, were honored not only to have his insight in our business dealings, but also as a trusted family confidant.
Please accept our deepest sympathies on his passing. We hope that it will give you a sense of comfort knowing his legacy will live on for years to come.
The Schmeusser Family
Deborah Shiles
July 5, 2019
Jerry not only "represented the very finest the profession has to offer" but the finest that humanity has to offer. I've always said he was one of the very best people I knew. He taught me so much over the years, he truly led by example. To see happiness in another always delighted Jerry. My respect for him is immeasurable, my love for my dear dear friend immense. He was the best of the best. Godspeed PC, I shall keep an eye on C.
Richard and Marna Sherry
July 5, 2019
What a terrible loss! Marna and I were blessed to know Jerry for all his years in Wilmington. We saw him as a friend and trusted advisor and protector of our family! He was vibrant, energetic and tireless. We had many reassuring conversations at 7 AM, when he was always available at his desk to address our concerns. His loss will leave a gaping hole in our lives.
Susan, Debbie, Hanna and Marni, please accept our most sincere sympathy! We are, unfortunately, out of the country. Our thoughts are (and have been) with you!
Richard and Marna Sherry
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